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Thursday, November 17, 2011

The List: Every M4M Sex Party in NYC (that I know about)

Men: Below is the new list of all the parties that I know about. I only gave information based on my personal experience, or the information that the hosts provided. If I didn't know something I listed it as TK. (N/A means not applicable).

The parties are listed by color, so there is no judgment. Also, don't be deceived to think that I am judging a party by saying that their admission policy is "Very Selective" or "Not Selective." That has no value on how much fun the party is, or how great the sex is -- some of the best parties for all-out sex are the "Not Selective" parties. (Some of the "Very Selective" parties are a lot of standing around). All the rating system says is who you'll likely find at each party. Also all the parties usually have some hot guys, just some host have a more open door policy.

I'm sure there are some mistakes below, as this is a new list, so please send me corrections and updates, and let me know what I missed, or miscatagorized. AND PLEASE, never go to a party just based on my information. You should always check with the hosts first to confirm that the parties are up and running. Hope this helps you men find what you're looking for. Thank you, again, for your help and support. Here we go...



RED PARTIES (Hot Men Only)

PUMPNYC (Times Square, Manhattan). A small, extremely selective party from the host of NYJOCK. “PUMPNYC is about quality not quantity.” Amazingly hot guys, beautiful (expensive) underwear.
RATING: SUPER SELECTIVE (VERY HOT MEN ONLY).
VIBE: Plenty of attitude
TIME: 9pm-2am
CROWD: Limited to 50 young, hot men
AGES: mostly 20s & early 30s
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY: Sporadic, Fri, Sat, Sundays
LIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot men!
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

GOLDEN BOYS USA (Park Slope, Brooklyn) “College Water Sports Kegger Party.” (Even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party).
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE
VIBE: hot, not much attitude
TIME: 10pm-4am
CROWD: 75-120 men
AGES: 18-30 years old
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Great basement space in a brownstone (Have regular rooms and wet rooms).
SUPPLIES: Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY: Held every other month
LIGHTING: GOOD
GETTING IN: Email here ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District, Manhattan) Great social sex party w/a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around.
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE (In-shape men).
VIBE: Very social, not much attitude
TIME: 8pm-12am
CROWD: 70-90+ guys
AGE: good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45).
SPACE: large private loft apt
SS/BB: A safe sex only party.
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube, shower, towels
FREQUENCY: Once a month, Tues, Wed, Sometimes Sundays
LIGHTING: Excellent (light enough to see, not too much light for shy men)
GETTING IN: The host requires a short phone interview. People write to ASG that this pisses them off. Seriously: It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party). Don’t let this stop you; it’s how he maintains a hot, no attitude crowd. Everyone agrees afterwards that It was painless, and worth the hassle. Send request (no pics required) to PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.
NEXT PARTY: NOV 30

NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square, Manhattan). The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the men you want the most, but the party is always very hot. The hotter men tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be .
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE
VIBE: Lots of attitude; some of the hot men are standoff-ish. Biggest complaint is that many men just standing around looking at each other.
TIME: 10pm-5am
CROWD: 50-70+ to 50 young, hot men
AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY: 2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes Thursdays
LIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot men
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

AM: After Hours Party (Times Square, Manhattan). AM is a selective late-night party that takes place after you've been everywhere else: often starts after midnight and goes until early Monday morning;
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE
VIBE: Lots of attitude; some of the hot men are standoff-ish. Biggest complaint is that many men just standing around looking at each other.
TIME: 12-7am (varies)
CROWD: 80 hot men
AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY: sporadi c
LIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot men
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to aminnyc1@yahoo.com

UPPER WEST SIDE UNDERWEAR PARTY (UWS, Manhattan). This is a private party with a great atmosphere to chill hang out and play with hot men. No obligation to participate if you don't want to.
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE ( young/hot crowd).
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 10:30 to 12:30am (The party goes until it’s dead)
CROWD: 20-30 men
AGES: 20s, early 30s
DONATION: FREE
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: private apartment in a doorman building
SUPPLIES: drinks, porn and lube/condoms.
FREQUENCY: very sporadi c – once or twice a year
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to underwearpartyuws@gmail.com

SWALLOW (Chelsea, Manhattan). Oral/JO/Bukkake Party. According to the host, it goes like this: "We strip down, jack and suck each other, and then the whole group gangs up to bust a nut, bukkake style, in one guy's mouth.”
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE
VIBE: social, fun with minimal attitude
TIME: 8-10pm.
CROWD: Usually get 40-50 guys, all races.
AGES: 20-early 40s
DONATION: FREE (no cover), just a tip for clothes check.
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Great, clean space at a private loft
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Usually meet about once every two or three months, Thursday or Sunday
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to: swallow_nyc at yahoo.com, or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/swallow_nyc.

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Not a sex party, but a massage and/or yoga party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude, no reason
TIME: varies, usually afterwork or lunchtime, also weekends.
CROWD: varies, usually limited to 20 men; require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.
AGES: No restrictions
DONATION: Pricing varies, but example.. $30; Students and Under 26 - $20.
SS/BB: not a sex party
SPACE: Great, clean space
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: A few times a month
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com.

BLUE PARTIES (Hot to Average Men)

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s). This small sex party in a private apartment. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occassionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: FREE
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

POLLO PARTY (Park Slope). Pollo is a party for hot and in-shape men with a Latin focus. You obviously don't have to be latin, but you should bring a fit body and some Latin passion to the party. Mandatory clothes check - no pressure to participate but you must strip down to your underwear, jock strap, or go naked.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: Some attitude
TIME: 7pm-midnight (DOORS CLOSE AT 10PM).
CROWD: 50-70 men
SS/BB: SAFE only - if caught barebacking, you will be asked to leave
SPACE: basement with beds, slings, gloryholes, a maze, a little dancefloor where you can socialize
SUPPLIES: snacks, condoms, lube
FREQUENCY: TK
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to polloparty@yahoo.com.

HARD DRIVE!/CUM MONKEY (Chelsea) Formerly Grab Ass. The host is very creative and always having guest appearance by porn stars, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: No attitude, extremely friendly
TIME: $25 donation, plus $2 for clothes check.
CROWD: Get 30-50 guys height/weight proportionate (all body types)
AGES: 25 to 55YO
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: Paddles studio space
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com

THE MEATPACKERS (Brooklyn/Park Slope) One of the oldest sex parties in Brooklyn, usually held with Pitstop.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: 6pm-11pm
CROWD: TK
AGE: 18-40s
SS/BB: Safe sex only (very strict)
SPACE: In cellar with cages and rooms.
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Held the 1st Saturday of each month
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Must call: 212-677-3599 (call the number for info--you'll get an answering machine)

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Midtown). The host runs a number of different parties that vary from hot guys to average men, so be sure to check which party you want. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out.
RATING: Selective to somewhat selective, depending on the party
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9pm - 1am;
CROWD: varies depending on party
AGE: varies depending on the party
SS/BB: safe sex and BB
SPACE: Uses all the major party venues and hotel suites
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: A few parties every week
LIGHTING: varies depending on the party
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

THE LOAD NYC PARTY (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: minimal attitude
TIME: 12am-7am
CROWD: 90 men
AGES: 18-45
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: 1,500 sq ft basement space, no bed or couches
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube, drinks, porn
FREQUENCY: Usually weekly, Saturday nights
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com

POOL BOY EVENTS NYC (Astoria, Queens) "BANYA MONDAY" Clothing Optional - Spa For Men. Not a sex party, but a hot pool party, and there’s always some vanilla sex around.
RATING: Average to hot
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11am-11pm
CROWD: Limited to 50 young, hot men, mostly 20s & ealry 30s
AGE: 18+
DONATION: $25M PLUS $2 clothes check.
SS/BB: vanilla sex party.
SPACE: The spa has a pool, jacuzzi, Russian steam rooms
SUPPLIES: Towels and spa essentials
FREQUENCY: Monday is gay men's day, and is clothing optional.
LIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot men!
GETTING IN: Check out this site http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/poolboy.shtml

BANA POOL PARTY (Keningston, Brooklyn) Not a sex party, but a hot pool party. Moved to Brooklyn, has bus service form Manhattan. Very cool party. Lots of fun.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11:59pm - 5AM
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18+
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: In a club. Hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam room, bars.
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Haven’t heard from them in a while.
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Check out their sites www.hotsteammachine.com and www.thebanapoolparty.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: Friday & Sat (12midnight-7am) and Sunday (9pm-3am $15
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday & Sat and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

YELLOW PARTIES (Average)

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). One of the best and most popular parties for average guys.
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: Friday (8:30pm-4am), Saturday (8:30pm-4am), Sunday (6pm to 2am)
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 20 to 60YO
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: Big Loft playground (6,000 sq ft) with different theme rooms , many private booths , darkroom , porn etc .
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: email stats and pics to roccosly@aol.com or check out www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). Has theme parties and has a few a week, such as ERUPTIÖN (primarily bb); PEÄK (Safe Sex Party); COCK4LUNCH (afternoon sex); FÜSION (Baseball-style wristbands to let guys know if you prefer SS or BB). The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” Great party for average men.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: 6pm-2am (Tuesday & Thursday), 12-4pm (Friday), 8pm-1am (Sun)
CROWD: A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: safe sex and BB
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday (and occasional Friday)
LIGHTING: Good, and has blackout parties after 11pm.
GETTING IN: Check out http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or email stats and pics to theclubhouseparties@gmail.com

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. They do allow you to wear clothes, so not everyone is naked.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Midtown East). Lunch-time party for business men to hook up weekday afternoons.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 12am-4pm.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: safe sex & BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly, Wed & Thursdays
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Midtown East). Started as foot fetish party at a bar, now a full-fledged sex party. Kitchen, ‘Footwear worship’ lounge and mingle space on the main floor, with room for massage and casual fun. "Bedroom" loft upstairs for more adult play and privacy.
RATING: somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 30-50 guys
AGE: 18-50
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesday
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
GETTING IN: Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn) 18-30yo ONLY. All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM
CROWD: Usually 40-50 hot guys
AGE: 18-30
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: clean space
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every few months
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Big on variety, so lots of different guys.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9pm-am (doors close at 10:30pm).
CROWD: 30 to 50 men
AGE: 18-45
SS/BB: safe sex
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: once a month fall, winter, spring
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com or check out their site: http://sexpartyqueens.com/

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 6PM-12PM (Thursday), or, 8PM-3AM (Friday)
CROWD: 20 guys
AGE: 18-45
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday and Friday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

PURPLE PARTIES (Average Men to General Admission)

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem). One of the oldest sex parties in NYC, was on the UWS, then Brooklyn, and for the last few years in West Harlem. The host runs several parties including BEAR HUNT and RAW RIDERS. Best parties are held in black out rooms with patrons wearing glowing wrist bands, with a different color for bottoms and tops and vers.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7pm-1am
CROWD: 20-40 men
AGE: 18-50s
SS/BB: Some safe sex, mostly BB
SPACE: big private apartment lliving room, and bedrooms
SUPPLIES: snacks, drinks, condoms/lube, pron
FREQUENCY: Usually once a week
LIGHTING: Has black out rooms, and reguarly lighted porn room and kicthen
GETTING IN: Send stats & pics to TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com


DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Most guys are naked, but not required.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back, no attitude
TIME: 8pm – 2am
CROWD: 20-40 men
AGE: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)
SS/BB: Some safe sex, but mostly BB
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics & stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: Doors open 4PM-6:30PM, until 7:30PM (Sunday); Doors 7:30PM-9PM, until 11PM (Tuesday)
CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles and studio space
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea/Times Square) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: varies, usually nights, but sometimes weekend afternoons
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BB
SPACE: Paddles, and huge studio space
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment.
RATING: Not Selectie
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com

INFERNO (Midtown East). New party, was formerly TESTOSTERONE, which was formerly THE OLYMPUS PARTY. Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties.
MUST RATING: TK
VIBE: TK
TIME: TK
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: duplex apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: Weekly, Fridays
LIGHTING: Good, plus darker rooms upstairs
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

HOT PARTIES 2006 (Chelsea). Party is held in “Chelsea Space.” Was a popular party, but haven’t heard from them in a while.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: TK
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: private apartment/loft
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: TK
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pic and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

The GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square). The crowd is mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Space has dark areas where you can go from mild to wild and everything in between.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8:00 pm -2:00 am
CROWD: 50+ men
SS/BB: some safe sex, a lot of BB
SPACE: Great studio space with four rooms, including two bagthrooms, shower, a porn room and a sling,
SUPPLIES: Condoms, water, Gatorade, lube, coat check
FREQUENCY: Every few weeks, usually on Sunday
LIGHTING: Good variety of lighting.
GETTING IN: Send pic and stats to thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

BISHOP (Downtown, Midtown, also Brooklyn and NJ). This party has been around forever. Popular with businessmen and married men.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: varies, lunchtime and after work
CROWD: limited to 20 guys
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Hotel room
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: varies, often weekly,
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com

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FETISH AND SPECIALTY PARTIES

PITSTOP (Park Slope, Brooklyn) A fetish sex party for In-Shape guys where "almost anything goes." at the same space in Brooklyn that GBU uses. Safe-sex dungeon kinkfest where anything goes EXCEPT barebacking: be a voyeur or exhibitionist in scenes involving PISS, role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, foot worship, spanking, humiliation, raunch and much more! Stripping to your underwear, jockstrap or fetish gear is required. Nudity is encouraged! There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: Not much attitude
TIME: 6pm-11pm
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: Safe sex is REQUIRED. Anyone caught fucking without condoms will be told to leave.
SPACE: Basement brownstone recently featured in Next photoshoot
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: 1st Saturday of every month
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email stats and pics to: pitstop_nyc@yahoo.com

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). Run by the same host who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Friendly, no attitude
TIME: 10pm-2am
CROWD: 20-40 men
SS/BB: Mostly BB, some Safe sex
SPACE: large private apartment
SUPPLIES: Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided
FREQUENCY: varies, often every Wednesday
LIGHTING: varies, had blackout rooms
GETTING IN: Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM)
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site www.NYBondageClub.com

FOREVER FISTING PARTY (Chelsea) For men into fisting and their admirers.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: TK
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Studio space
SUPPLIES: TK
FREQUENCY: Varies, every few months, often Sat & Sun in the same week
LIGHTING: TK
GETTING IN: Contact the host at MasterCainB@yahoo.com or check out www.ffslingers.com or http://mrcainb.wordpress.com

SWITCH PARTY (Chelsea). NYC's monthly genderqueer/women/trans bdsm party, in a room of their own, behind closed doors.
To get in:.
RATING: TK
VIBE: TK
TIME: 10pm-2:30am
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: TK
FREQUENCY: monthly
LIGHTING: TK
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to switchparty@riseup.net

S.O.S. MEN'S SPANKING PARTY (Chelsea). Held at Paddles. Newly formed group, which meets Thursday gets who are devoted to spanking and discipline. Check www.paddlesnyc.com for details about address, etc.
RATING: TK
VIBE: TK
TIME: 8pm to 1am
CROWD: 40-65 men
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: TK
FREQUENCY: EVERY 2nd and 4th Thursday of the month
LIGHTING: TK
GETTING IN: To subscribe to their yahoo group: paddles-nyc-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

SKIN TIGHT USA (West Village). Party held in a club/bar for men who love to wear tight clothing, and those who love to gaze at them. Since 2003, the party has catered to those who have a fetish for wearing tight athletic gear, lycra outfits, leather, PVC, luge, wrestling singlet’s, nylon, dance wear, Speedos, cycle gear, super hero costumes and anything tight (many people do not wear underwear beneath their outfits, so erections are visible but never revealed!). While NOT a sex party, there is kinky heavy petting and making out.
RATING: Open to the public
VIBE: Friendly and fun
TIME: 10pm
CROWD: has reach 100, about 50-60 men (20-30 in costume).
DONATION: $8 cover
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: bar
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: A bi-monthly to tri monthly
LIGHTING: bar lighting
GETTING IN: check out their site: http://www.skintightusa.com.

SPAM PARTY/SUBMIT PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party., Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm-4am
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: TK
SUPPLIES: TK
FREQUENCY: Varies, Once a month
LIGHTING: TK
GETTING IN: Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com

DADS'N'LADS (Park Slope, Brooklyn & Manhattan). A party for guys who are 18 years old on up. Pants check required for entry. Described by the host: "younger guys into older, and visa versa, or guys who are into the daddy/son fetish."
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Fun, no attitude
TIME: Doors open 10pm. The party ends at 4am.
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-60s+
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: Held at a popular sex party spaces in Brooklyn & Manhattan
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: once a month
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pice to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com


LONG ISLAND BI-SEXUAL GROUP (Long Island). LI-BI-do is a Bisexual social group that hold parties for Couples, women, trans, and men are all welcome. You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly, or Bi-curious.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: hotel
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube, drinks
FREQUENCY: Monthly, Saturday nights
LIGHTING: TK
GETTING IN: Go to Home Page http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LI-BI-do, Send blank email to: LI-BI-do-Subscribe@yahoogroups.com or check out: http://www.li-bi-do.org.

GOLDEN SHOWERS AMERICA (Park Slope, Brooklyn). There is a big element of piss at these parties, but considerably less so than in the past.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: TK
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: TK
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube, drinks
FREQUENCY: They hold events once a month, generally alternating between Friday nights and Sunday nites.
LIGHTING: TK
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to gsa-nyc@earthlink.net

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African-American, Latino and Asian-only parties…

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Times Square). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action.
RATING: Very selective
VIBE: social, not much attitude
TIME: 11:30PM-6AM
CROWD: 70-90+ men
AGE: 18-40 YO
SS/BB: Safe sex requested, some BB
SPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, porn
SUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, shower
FREQUENCY: Weekly or bi-weekly; usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

ND2 (Times Square). This party is for average African-American and Latino men ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: social, no attitude
TIME: 11:30PM-6AM
CROWD: 50-70+ men
AGE: 18-50 YO
SS/BB: Safe sex requested, some BB
SPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, porn
SUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, shower
FREQUENCY: Weekly or bi-weekly; often Wednesday, Thursday or Friday nights
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

PARTY IN HARLEM (Harlem). For African-American and Latino dudes only. For the more average dudes out there – not a party for bodybuilder, musclebear or gym rats; this is for stocky, husky, and thick black and latino guys, and their black and latino admirers.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm-5am
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: TK
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: TK
LIGHTING: TK
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to PartyinHarlem@yahoo.com

BROTHERLY FREAKS PARTY (Financial District). Held in a hotel suite in downtown Manhattan.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: TK
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: 2-room suite with a master king size bed and a living
room
SUPPLIES: condom/lube, drinks
FREQUENCY: varies
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Send Pics and Stats to: brotherlyfreaks@gmail.com

PAPI BROTHAS HOTEL SUITE PARTY (Midtown) A party for Black, Latin and Mixed guys ONLY.
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: TK
CROWD: TK
AGE: 20-40YO
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: hotel suite
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Varies
LIGHTING: Hotel lighting
GETTING IN: Email pics/stats to Latinman4sexymen@aol.com or check out http://papibrothasnyc.blogspot.com

Outside of New York City…

NEW JERSEY

INDULGE (Northern NJ). Northern NJ Group is private no attitude sex group for in-shape men. Guys are prescreened through an approval process and include all types and ages.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: lunchtime, after work, and evenings
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: lofts, hotel rooms, houses or other spaces
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly on weekends & weekdays
LIGHTING: varies
GETTING IN: To apply for membership, check out this website: http://www.indulgegroup4men.com

MONMOUTH COUNTY PARTY (Tinton Falls, NJ). Lunch-time sex party held in hotel suite with beds & showers and plenty of room to play. Get in a 4 hour time span. For an older/average crowd. For invite:
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 12pm-4pm
CROWD: 30 to 60 men
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: hotel suite
SUPPLIES: Condoms lube bottled water provided
FREQUENCY: varies
LIGHTING: hotel lighting
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to mfactor62@yahoo.com

PHIILADELPHIA …

NUBIAN MAN JUICE PARTIES (N. Philadelphia). Afr-Am guy party –. Very social, no-pressure environment. If you’re a newbie, they’ll even assign a guy to show you the ropes (not literally, unfortunately), and introduce you around. You must be clean and in good shape, lots of parking, and either nude or underwear only.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: very social
TIME: 12am-7am
CROWD: huge crowd
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: held in a private residence with lots of places to fuck around
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Saturday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to MEN@BLACKPASSPORT.COM or check out http://www.blackpassport.com/

NORTH PHILLY DL (Philadelphia). Private party for Afr-Am guys -- must be at least 21YO. Has been around for more than six year.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: very social
TIME: 2am-7am
CROWD: huge crowd
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: 3 floors in a private residence
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Saturday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to Nubianmanjuiceparty@blackpassport.com or check out http://www.northphillydl.com/

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WASHINGTON, DC

OPEN MINDED EVENTS (Washington, DC -- DuPont Circle). Parties are for guys in their men who identify as gay, bisexual, and bi-curious are all welcome. The parties involve kissing, fucking, sucking... good hot action between men. most parties are open ended, vanilla-type play, although occasionally a party will have a kink or fetish theme (like underwear, bondage, or watersports). The events are held in a in the Dupont Circle neighborhood, located in NW Wash, DC.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: weekday lunch, some after a work day, and some at night
CROWD: varies
AGE: 20’s, 30’s, and 40’s.
SS/BB: safe sex only
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms, lube, bottled water
FREQUENCY: varies, but often
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out the website for more info...http://openmindedevents.blogspot.com

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