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Thursday, March 20, 2014

Black Party Weekend! - Group M4M Sex Parties for Friday, March 21st to Sunday, March 23rd


I’m not sure if it is pure serendipity or if the sex-party Gods are testing me, but as fate would have it, my first week on the blog just happens to be the biggest sex party weekend of the year. There is so much to cover for this weekend that I am breaking from usual form and will be posting the parties for the week in two separate entries. Today's entry covers Friday through Sunday, and then on Sunday night I will post the parties for Monday through Thursday.  

For the uninitiated, Black Party Weekend is when thousands of hot horny men from all over the planet descend on New York City for one of the most decadent fuck-filled parties on the circuit. And since all those hot men are in town, party hosts put on a variety of pre and post parties to ensure that every adventurous gay tourist (and local for that matter) doesn't make it to Monday without being completely drained. (Take that as you will.)



Here are some of the highlights of this weekend:

Friday, March 21st, 2014

NYJP BP Party (Midtown)  For those of you that are new to “the scene,” this party is certainly “the scene.” New York Jock Party is one of the largest parties in NYC and, for those looking for hot jocks with toned and muscled physiques, also is widely considered one of the best. The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with athletic muscular men. It can also at times be filled with attitude, but perhaps that comes with the territory. This is not a party for the modest or shy as you are required to check everything including your underwear, and you are given a small towel to cover up. The parties usually have around 50 to 70 guys but you can bet your eager ass that there will be a lot more this weekend, so this could be a hot way to warm up for Saturday's big event. 
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Some attitude.
TIME: 10pm-5am
CROWD: 50-70 young, hot men (and this weekend there will likely be considerably more)
AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, a few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $28 (College Students with current college photo ID get in for $10)
SS/BB: A safe sex party. 
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: Drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes Thursdays
LIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot men
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

Saturday, March 22nd


RITES XXXV: THE BLACK PARTY (Times Square Area)
This is it! The Father of all Sex Parties! Alright so technically it’s not a sex party – it’s a dance/art/kink party – okay, whatever. But make no mistake there is a HUGE orgy going on upstairs at the Roseland Ballroom. Altogether we’re talking about over 5000 guys in that place, half of them dancing on a massive dance floor with a stage that features some…shall we say “interesting" live performances throughout the evening with all sorts of kink and fetish acts (and some of them are not for the faint of heart). The other half of the guys are up in the balcony and packed into the maze of hallways and dark rooms on the second floor. And that is where the real insanity goes on.

The price for partying is ridiculously high at $160 for tickets bought in advance at outlets throughout the city and $180 at the door, but considering that it really is THE party of the year, could you afford to miss it? Especially considering that the Roseland Ballroom where the party has gone on for over 20 years is closing its doors this year so who knows where and when the Black Party will show up again? 

The party starts at 10pm and I recommend you get there by Midnight to avoid the long lines that develop later. By the time 1:00am roles around, you are going to want to be in the middle of the party, not stuck outside in the cold waiting a half hour or more to get in. 

Some things to be aware of:

Don’t bring your cell phone. They aren't allowed in the party.

Last time I attended they stopped serving alcohol at 4pm and didn't serve it again until Noon on Sunday, so plan accordingly. 

For those of you who care about health and safety please be forewarned that there is a lot, and I do mean a LOT of unsafe sex at the party. Remember that, as with any party, the more guys you get fucking around together in one place, the more "things" are being passed around, so the bigger the crowd, the higher the risk. And this crowd is about as big as they come. It can get really crazy in there and it’s easy to lose you head along with your judgment in that sea of sweaty cocks, muscles and ass, so get fucked, but don’t get fucked up. Go in ahead of time knowing your rules and limits and be committed to sticking to them no matter how fucking hung and hot the Greek God rubbing up against you is.  And if you bottom, ALWAYS check and double check that the cock that is about to go into you is wrapped, the condom is intact, and didn't just come out some other guy’s ass. Unfortunately there are some fucks out there who will purposely break the condom or slip it off before they slip it in – trust me, I’m not being an alarmist, I've just heard too many Black Party horror stories, so just always check and double-check that the condom is there and intact.

All that said, have a fucking great time. It is definitely something to experience at least once in your life.

RATING: Not selective
VIBE: crazy party fun
TIME: 10pm Saturday night to who-knows-when Sunday Afternoon
CROWD: more than 5000 men of all ages, races, shapes and sizes. Anyone can get in, but it does attract a lot of hot men from all over the world
AGES: all ages
TICKETS: $160 if bought at outlets in advance, $180 at the door
SS/BB: Safe-sex and BB
SPACE: Huge ballroom with two levels. 1st Level is pretty much a huge open space with a side room, 2nd level is a balcony and a series of dark hallways and rooms
SUPPLIES: I don't remember there being a lot around so bring plenty of your own lube and condoms to be on the "safe" side.
FREQUENCY:  Once a year in March 
LIGHTING: Good of the 1st Floor, dark on the second floor
GETTING IN: Buy a ticket. Check out www.blackpartyexpo.com for more info.

And if you possibly have an ounce of energy left after the Black Party, the weekend doesn't stop there...




Sunday, March 23rd

Need to recharge before your Final Act? Check out a breakfast sex party hosted by Hunteur, the imaginative guy behind the Hard Drive parties. On Sunday morning he brings you…

A SOFT PLACE TO LAND (Chelsea) – an “after Black Party sexy breakfast event at Paddles.”  Featuring : "comfortable couches, coffee and bagels and sex served for 22 bucks all day long.” Because you just can’t fuck for 24 hours without SOME nourishment along the way. There isn't an invite list per se for this party – you just show up. 
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: casual/relaxing
TIME: 9am to 3pm
CROWD: TK
AGES: all ages
DONATION: $22
SS/BB: Safe-sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles - a play space in the basement of a building in Chelsea that is usually used for BDSM parties so it has a dungeon look to it
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube. The venue sells bottled water and sodas
LIGHTING: Overall Good with some dark rooms and corners
GETTING IN: Email Hunteur for more information at hunteur1@gmail.com

And once you've gotten some caffeine and carbs into your system and shot another load or two, then it’s time to head over to… 


BOXERS AND BRIEFS PARTY (Midtown) Don’t let the title fool you because you won’t be wearing your boxers OR your briefs at this “un-underwear” party. Like NYJP, clothes check, including underwear, is required. In fact this party is actually a joint party that bring together the hot jocks of NYJP and and the hot college boys of GBU (Golden Boys University) in a huge monthly party. Alright, it might not be the 5000+ guys at the Black Party, but this party is a highly selective one, so the couple of hundred guys you have there are all in great shape. This month the hosts have changed up the time so that you can go straight from The Black Party to the Boxers and Brief party if you have the stamina. And God bless you if you do.
RATING: Very Selective 
VIBE: Hot, not much attitude
TIME: 2pm-10pm
CROWD: 200 guys
AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, a few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $33 ($25 for guys under 23)
SS/BB: A safe sex party. 
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: Snacks. Condom/lube.
LIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot men
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com or ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

Not a jock party type of guy? No worries, there's plenty of other hot parties to chose from this weekend including two of my own personal favorites Men's Den and Jacks of Color. So check through the list below - there's sure to be a party that's just right for you. 



THE FULL LIST

GROUP M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, March 21 to Sunday, March 23...

Information below is based on the personal experience of myself and other AGS bloggers, or the information that the hosts provided. If I didn't know something I listed it as TK. (N/A means not applicable). Please, NEVER go to a party just based on my information. You should ALWAYS check with the hosts first to confirm that the parties are up and running and times and dates are correct. Another great resource you should check out is the "Parties and Events" section of Adam4Adam.com for parties that I do not list yet, for smaller parties, or parties below that may not respond quickly to emails. Also this is just for this weekend. If you want the whole list you can email me at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com. Have fun and be safe.

Friday


THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is PEAK. From the host: "The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, height/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand-and-pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not 'required' to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn't for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape." The two main parties are...
PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.
DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.
TIME: 8pm – 2am (doors Until 1am)
CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  PEAK is a safe-sex party
SPACE: Private Apartment, sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, enimas, clothes check. 
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.


MilkChocolateNYC Men's Party (Chelsea).  All info is from the host: "NYC's hot inter-racial m4m party serving dark chocolate, delicious caramel and creamy white HOT MILK to friendly MEN of all races on their private party list.  ...A wide variety of theme events so make sure to check the door policy/ mandatory dress code for each event before heading to the venue to make sure it's a good fit for you." This Friday is the NYCU "ALL NUDE" PARTY at Paddles. Mandatory Dress: All Nude
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE:  Friendly, attitude-free men
TIME:   8pm - 3am
CROWD:   90+ men 
AGE:   18+ and over
DONATION:  $25  ($22 before 9pm w/ Membership Card)
SS/BB:  SS and BB
SPACE:  Paddles Fetish Club  
SUPPLIES: condom/lube (venue sells sodas/water)
FREQUENCY:  Every 1st, 2nd, 3rd Thursday; some Fridays; Saturdays 
LIGHTING:  Dimly lit backroom; lighted level 
GETTING IN: Check out http://NYm4mSexParty.blogspot.com or send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com


THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. Good-sized party for average guys.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: Friday (8pm-4am) 
DONATION: $17 all night
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com


BB PARTIES NYC (The Bronx).  From the hosts: "An exclusive weekly party designed for people who enjoy anonymous sex and completely natural, this party is ONLY for  open-minded people. The party is BAREBACK, so NO condoms Allowed!  ALL NUDE: Clothes check because is a Strict Requirement That You stay TOTALLY naked inside the party."
RATING: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: 7pm to 2:30am
CROWD: TK
AGES: 20s-40s
DONATION: $12 before 9pm; $15 afterwards
SS/BB: BB only
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: drinks, lube. BYOB
FREQUENCY: Weekly
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: info@bbpartiesnyc.com and check out http://bbpartiesnyc.weebly.com/


NYC NAKED WRESTLERS (Midtown East).  From the host: "NYC'S wrestling group where men go completely naked and give in to the ultimate sexual surrender at the end of each match while naked members get off with one another on the sidelines. Private Duplex Apt: 1st floor mats/matches, 2nd floor darkened Lounge for combined group sex party with TESTOSTERONE. For in-shape guys who enjoy watching or participating in naked combat without restrictions."
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  9pm-2am.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
SS/BB:  safe sex and BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Fridays
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: Send stats and a recent shirtless pic from the waist up to Nick at: nycnakedwrestlers@gmail.com or check out www.gayguysglobal.net  


TESTOSTERONE (Midtown East).  From the host: "This is a no-attitude/no-standing around party, everyone able to hold their own in large active crowds, anyone looking for a 'jock perfect only party' with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their 'pee-pees' should not apply, this event is not for you."
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  10pm-3am.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
SS/BB:  safe sex and BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Fridays
LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net


NYJP BP Party (Midtown) New York Jock Party is one of the largest parties in NYC and also widely considered one of the best for those looking for hot jocks with toned and muscled physiques. The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. It can also at times be filled with attitude, but that seems to come with the territory. This is not a party for the modest or shy as you are required to check everything including your underwear, and you will be given a small towel to cover up. 
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Some attitude.
TIME: 10pm-5am
CROWD: 50-70 young, hot men (and this weekend probably considerably more)
AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $28 (College Students with current college photo ID get in for $10
SS/BB: A safe sex party. 
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: drinks, snacks, condoms/lube.
FREQUENCY:  2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes Thursdays
LIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot men
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com


E.BONE.NY (Brooklyn). An underwear party for black men and dark skin admirers. All races are welcome, but the focus is Black Men.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: laid back , no attitude
TIME: 10pm –2am    (doors close at 11:30pm)
DONATION: $25 Dollar Donation for BLACK  MEN and ADMIRERS; $40 Dollar Donation for MALE COUPLES; $1 Dollar for COAT/BEVERAGE CHECK
CROWD: AGE: 19-45
SS/BB: safe sex ONLY – no BB.
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms and lube, BYOB
FREQUENCY: Few Times a Month
GETTING IN: Email pic and stats to whosateboneytonight@gmail.com

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  From the host: "Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security."
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Fri and Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.


THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: Friday(12midnight-7am)
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE GALLERY OF MEN (Midtown).  The crowd is mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days.  Space has dark areas where you can go from mild to wild and everything in between.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  12am -3:00 am
CROWD: 30-40 guys
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  some safe sex, a lot of BB
SPACE: Great studio space with four rooms, including two bathrooms, shower, a porn room and a sling,
SUPPLIES: Condoms, water, Gatorade, lube, coat check
FREQUENCY:  Every few weeks, usually on Sunday
LIGHTING: Good variety of lighting.

GETTING IN: Send pic and stats to thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Saturday


MilkChocolateNYC Men's Party (Chelsea) All info is from the host: "NYC's hot inter-racial m4m party serving dark chocolate, delicious caramel and creamy white HOT MILK to friendly MEN of all races on their private party List.  ...A wide variety of theme events so make sure to check the door policy/ mandatory dress code for each event before heading to the venue to make sure it's a good fit for you." This Saturday is the LATIN LECHE NAKED GANG BANG. Dress code: All Nude
RATING: Selective 
VIBE:  Friendly, attitude-free men
TIME:   12noon until 5pm
CROWD:   50 - 60 fit men
AGE:   18+ to fit 40's 
DONATION:  $22  (College Jocks age 18-25 free before 1pm. Fit and/or 8+ hung Latin Tops free.)
SS/BB:  Safe-sex only
SPACE:  Varies
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  Every 4th Saturday afternoon of the month
LIGHTING:  Dimly lit backroom; lighted 2nd level 
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com


CHUBS AND CHASERS (Midtown) NYC's largest party for large and extra large guys and their admirers.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3pm - 7pm
CROWD: tk
DONATION: $25
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge duplex space, two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: Snacks, condoms/lube
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: bearpartynewyork@gmail.com



FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
RATING: somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com


THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
TIME: Saturday (8pm-5:30am)
DONATION: $17 all night
VIBE: laid back
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse loft space
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com




RITES XXXV: THE BLACK PARTY (Times Square Area)
This is it! The Father of all Sex Parties! Alright so technically it’s not a sex party – it’s a dance/art/kink party – okay, whatever. But make no mistake there is a HUGE orgy going on upstairs at the Roseland Ballroom. We’re talking about over 5000 guys in that place, half of them dancing on a massive dance floor with a stage that features some…shall we say “interesting" live performances throughout the evening with all sorts of kink and fetish acts (and some of them are not for the faint of heart). The other half of the guys are up in the balcony and packed into the maze of dark hallways and rooms on the second floor. And that is where the real insanity goes on. This party is NOT TO BE MISSED! See more details at the beginning of this post. 
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: crazy party fun
TIME: 10pm Saturday night to who-knows-when Sunday Afternoon
CROWD: more than 5000 men of all ages, races, shapes and sizes. Anyone can get in, but it does attract a lot of hot men from all over the world
AGES: all ages
TICKETS: $160 if bought at outlets in advance, $180 at the door
SS/BB: Safe-sex and BB. 
SPACE: Huge ballroom with two levels. 1st Level is pretty much open space with a side room, 2nd level is a balcony and a series of dark hallways and rooms
SUPPLIES: I don't remember there being a lot around so bring plenty of your own lube and condoms to be on the "safe" side.
FREQUENCY:  Once a year in March 
LIGHTING: Good of the 1st Floor, dark on the second floor
GETTING IN: Buy a ticket. Check out www.blackpartyexpo.com for more info.

20:20 PARTY (Brooklyn) All info is from the host: "20:20 is a selective, classy, sexy, drug-free monthly group party in Brooklyn. The event takes place in a large luxury condo with plenty of space. Participants are all 30yo and under, and in very good shape only (no exceptions). This is a free party, BYOB, condoms/lube provided.  This month's theme is *SWIMWEAR*."

RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Young, fun and very social
TIME: 10:30pm-4am
CROWD: 20 to 30 hot guys
AGES: 30 and under only
DONATION: Free but BYOB
SS/BB: A safe sex party only
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge private condo, two bathrooms, showers.
SUPPLIES: Soft drinks, gummy bears, candy. Condom/lube provided.
FREQUENCY:  Typically once a month, on a Friday or Saturday
LIGHTING: Good, dimmed lights all over the place
GETTING IN: Visit 2020party.tumblr.com for details and to get on the invite list. Email 2020partynyc@gmail.com for questions.

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  From the host: "Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security."
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Fri and Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: Saturday (12midnight-7am)
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday and Sat and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Sunday

A SOFT PLACE TO LAND (Chelsea) – An “after Black Party sexy breakfast event at Paddles.”  Featuring : "comfortable couches, coffee and bagels and sex served for 22 bucks all day long.” There isn’t an invite list per se for this party – you just show up. 
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: casual/relaxing
TIME: 9am to 3pm
CROWD: TK
AGES: all ages
DONATION: $22
SS/BB: Safe-sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles - a play space in the basement of a building in Chelsea that is usually used for BDSM parties so it has a dungeon look to it
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube. The venue sells bottled water and sodas
LIGHTING: Overall Good with some dark rooms an corners
GETTING IN: Email Hunteur for more information at hunteur1@gmail.com



BOXERS AND BRIEFS PARTY (Midtown East) Don’t let the title fool you because you won’t be wearing your boxers OR your briefs at this “un-underwear” party. Like NYJP, clothes check, including underwear is required. In fact this party is actually a joint party that bring together the hot jocks of NYJP and and the hot college boys of GBU in a huge monthly party. 
RATING: Very Selective 
VIBE: hot, not much attitude
TIME: 2pm-10pm
CROWD: 200 guys
AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $33 ($25 for guys under 23)
SS/BB: A safe sex party. 
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: Snacks. Condom/lube.
LIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot men
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com or ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

GOTHAM BEAR PARTY (Midtown East).  From the host: “This is an all inclusive party for all BIG men of different shapes and sizes and races and their admirers!”
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  3pm - 6pm.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
DONATION: $20
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
SS/BB:  safe sex and BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Sundays
LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

MilkChocolateNYC Men's Party (Chelsea) All info is from the host: "NYC's hot inter-racial m4m party serving dark chocolate, delicious caramel and creamy white HOT MILK to friendly MEN of all races on their private party List.  ...A wide variety of theme events so make sure to check the door policy/ mandatory dress code for each event before heading to the venue to make sure it's a good fit for you." This Saturday is the ORAL FETISH/ SAFE PLAY HOTEL PARTY. Dress code: Underwear or all nude.
RATING:  Selective
VIBE:  Friendly, attitude-free men
TIME:   3:30pm until 8pm
CROWD:   Limited to 30 fit men
AGE:   22 to fit 40's 
DONATION:  $25
SS/BB:   Oral Safe-sex only
SPACE:   hotel suite
SUPPLIES:  sodas/bottled water/condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  monthly party
LIGHTING:   lighted for hot visuals
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: Doors open 4:00pm to 6:30pm, jerking until 7:30pm
CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: studio space
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/



MEN'S DEN (Washington Heights) Men’s Den is a “members-only” club that hosts safe-sex parties for attractive men of all races ages 21 to 40s. It is held in a private apartment with comfortable couches and a bed to play on and attracts a hot varied crowd of guys with different body types from athletic and muscular to average to even a few stocky guys. The party is relatively new (it’s only about four months old) and it has already grown to be one of the more popular of the “somewhat selective” parties in the city.  It's got a intimate, relaxed, social vibe that seems to put everyone at ease and leads to a lot of hot sex. Recommended. 
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 5pm-9pm, door closes at 8pm. 
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: 21 to 40s
DONATION: $10 before 6pm, $20 after
SS/BB: A Safe-sex only party
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, beverages
FREQUENCY: Once or twice a month on a Sunday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: You need to be a Men’s Den Member in order to attend. There currently is about a two-week wait-list for a membership. To be considered, send stats and pics to mensdennyc@gmail.com

JACKS OF COLOR (Long Island City, Queens) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."  One of my favorite general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. This Sunday he has a special Sunday party for Black Party Weekend which is being co-hosted with Rainbow House Playgrounds (where the Omega Party is held) in Long Island City, Queens so this Sunday the party will be in a different location than usual. Contact the host for details.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  6pm to 2am, doors close at Midnight
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s   
SS/BB:  some safe sex, but also BB
SPACE: Various
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com


NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7PM-2AM
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a straight BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site www.NYBondageClub.com

 THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: Sunday (6pm to 2am)
DONATION: $17
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse space
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com
NOTE: Sunday Special... Only 10$ for super attractive athletic model type guys under 35 Sat or Sun.

 THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is FUSION. from the host: "The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, height/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand & pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn’t for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape."
PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.
DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.
TIME: 8pm – 2am (doors Until 1am)
CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  FUSION is Safe-sex and BB
SPACE: Private Apartment, sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, enemas, clothes check. 
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "THIS IS AN ALL NUDE PARTY NO EXCEPTION AND NO NEGOTIATION ABOUT IT AT ALL STRIP AT DOOR. FOR FIT MEN IN SHAPE ONLY, NO ONE WAIST OVER 36 WILL NOT GET IN."
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, a few in-shape men in 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks, snacks, condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  Sun, Tues, Thurs
LIGHTING: Good


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