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Thursday, May 1, 2014

Group M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, May 2nd to Thursday, May 8th


My dear fellow group-sex aficionados:


Well, that was a short-lived experiment! Those that visited the blog last night and earlier today/this evening may have seen an announcement from me about a change I was making to the blog. In an effort to make this blog a more reliable source of information I wrote this past Thursday night that "going forward I will only list parties whose hosts wish them to be listed and have verified their party details with me.” Well pretty much immediately after that the feedback started rolling in. A good point was made to me that readers rely on this blog to be a "one-stop-shop" for guys to be able to see all of the parties in one place. The point on a comprehensive list being more useful than a completely accurate list was well taken and so, as you can see below, I have gone back to listing all of the parties that I *believe* to be happening this week. I will make a note in each entry whether the info has been verified with the host or not. For those that I've listed that do not have verified information, I strongly suggest you contact the hosts to confirm that the party is still happening and the details before you attend.


A change you may notice with this week’s listings is that “RATING” has now become “DOOR POLICY.”  I was never fond of the term “Rating” because it suggested that it was indicating how “good” a party is, and therefore, could often be misleading. I have been to some Very Selective parties where I have been bored because there were mostly men standing around acting like they were all too good for each other, and I’ve also been to Open Door parties that have been full-out fuckfests filled with lots of hot group action. These categories are simply intended to be a guide as to whether the party is one you would physically fit in to and an indication as to what kinds of body types you will likely find there. 


Here are the DOOR POLICY Categories:

“Very Selective” – Only good-looking men in good physical shape with toned bodies and visible muscle mass are allowed in. These parties also usually have a limited age range.

“Selective” – Only men with above-average to average bodies are allowed.  “Average” refers to men who are height-weight-proportionate and do not have much visible muscle tone or muscle mass. But you will also usually find quite a few men in great shape at these parties as well.

“Somewhat Selective” – A wide range of body types. You may find some above-average athletic men and also some out-of-shape men with extra pounds on them, but not overly obese. Most guys at these parties tend to have average bodies.

“Not Selective” – All body types are allowed. You still need to be on an invite list in order to attend, and with some Not Selective parties you may need to meet some other entrance criteria such as age or race.

“Open Door” – General admission. Everyone is welcome and you don’t need to be on an invite list in order to attend. Just show up.


Here are the parties for Friday through Thursday that I have verified information for:



FRIDAY, MAY 2nd

METROPOLIS (Gramercy) A new Friday night party format at the Gramercy Duplex that combines five different parties (from five separate hosts) into one evening with each party having it's own dedicated entry time. Regardless of what party you arrive for and what time you enter, you are welcome to stay until the end of the evening at 3am.
THE HOSTS SAY: “Each Friday has a different line-up, offering something for everyone, especially for guys craving hot hardcore action. Two huge floors filled with hairy muscled jocks, smooth pumped-up studs, lean eager twinks, and rugged masculine men, all coming together naked and without attitude, confident with having a sac and able to hold their own in large active group scenes. All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend, but must be fit, in-shape, and not a light-weight. Anyone looking for a ‘jock-perfect-only frame of mind group’ with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their "pee-pees" should not apply, this event is not for you!"

VERIFIED SPECIFICS:
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: Both Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 8pm-3am
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 40-60 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; (for the wrestling matches) 2nd floor semi-dark (for the sex orgy)
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For Dads and Lads, 8pm-9pm, contact with stats/pics sondad@ymail.com.
For Testosterone, 9pm-10pm, contact with stats/pics testosteronenyc@gmail.com
For Nyc Naked Wrestlers, 10pm-11pm, contact with stats/pics nycnakedwrestlers@gmail.com
For Boyz-Town, 11pm-12am, contact with stats/pics boyz1town@gmail.com
For Midnight Owl 12am-3am, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
For more party info, please visit www.gayguysglobal.net


THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good-sized party for average guys.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS: 
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: 8pm-4am
DONATION: $17 all night
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com


PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station. 
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $10 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.



E.BONE.NY (Brooklyn). An underwear party for black men and dark skin admirers. All races are welcome, but the focus is Black Men. I'VE BEEN TOLD THIS PARTY MAY NO LONGER EXIST - IF YOU HAVE ATTENDED RECENTLY OR HAVE RECENTLY HEARD FROM THE HOST, PLEASE LET ME KNOW
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Selective
VIBE: laid back , no attitude
TIME: 10pm –2am (doors close at 11:30pm)
DONATION: $25 Donation for black men and admirers; $40 Donation for male couples; $1 for coat/beverage check
CROWD: AGE: 19-45
SS/BB: safe sex only – no BB permitted.
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms and lube, BYOB
FREQUENCY: Few times a Month
GETTING IN: Email pic and stats to whosateboneytonight@gmail.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 12midnight-7am
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. Not a mandatory clothes check party.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/


SATURDAY, MAY 3rd


CHUBS AND CHASERS / CHASERS CHOICE (Midtown) Two parties with two separate hosts combine into one. For large and extra large guys and their admirers.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 2pm - 7pm, doors close at 5:30pm
CROWD: tk
DONATION: $25
SS/BB: BB and safe-sex
SPACE: Hot, clean, duplex space, two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: Snacks, condom/lube.

GETTING IN: send stats and pics to bearpartynewyork@gmail.com or chaserschoicenyc@gmail.com


BRUINBUDDIES (Park Slope, Brooklyn) For Bears and their admirers. Tends to be older and big men. Meets monthly on Saturday afternoons (for four hours.) Held in a great space, and a great party if you’re into bears. 
THE HOSTS SAY: “Bears in NYC and visitors to our city. Get the Saturday night’s frustration of not getting laid out of the way and cum here before the night starts. Dress code: mandatory pants check at least to your underwear or your fetish. Cubs, Bears and Daddies. We got 30+ Bears, Daddies, Sons, Daddy-Bears, Cubs and admirers. Plus the curious married bear/cub. And we get together once every month on the first Saturday afternoon in "The Basement" to play. Close to subway station, Well-equipped Dungeon, glory-hole-maze/slings. BYOB, Shower. Rules: No barebacking! You got to get undressed and be over 18 years of age (born 1995 or before).” 
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective  
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: A Safe Sex party 
DONATION: $25 plus $1 for the coat check. Discount for cubs under 35.  
SUPPLIES:  Condoms, lube, shower 
TIME: 3pm to 7pm, door close 6pm 
FREQUENCY: Every first Saturday of each month 
CROWD: 30 + Bears, cubs and all the guys that like sex. Mixed crowd 
AGE: No limit, 18+ with photo ID. 
SPACE: Private space/basement 
LIGHTING: Very good, some small spaces little darker, you can always see who you playing with. 
A GOOD PARTY FOR:  bears, cubs, daddy bears, sons and any guy that likes us. Mostly age  30-60. 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, twinks, heavy S/M, watersports
GETTING IN: Got to be on our invite list. Email bruinbuddiesny@aol.com. Check out the website at bruinbuddies.com



FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
TIME: 8pm-4am
DONATION: $17 all night
VIBE: laid back
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse loft space
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com

LOAD (Park Slope, Brooklyn) "Underwear Party" sharing the same space this evening with the MEATPACKERS and PITSTOP parties (see descriptions below), so be aware there will be a fetish-oriented crowd there from the PITSTOP guest list. There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space. 
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Loaded with everything you need to get laid: men, porn, beds, slings, glory holes, orgy room private booths. Last party 130 hot fuckers came. Hot men, hot porn, free beverages, condoms, lube, very safe."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: No info given
DONATION: $20 + $1 for clothes check 

SS/BB: A Safe Sex party
SUPPLIES: free condoms, lube, soda, bottled water, snacks

TIME: Midnight to 5am, door closes 4:45am

FREQUENCY: Monthly on the the first Saturday night of every month.

CROWD:  Last time was 130 guys
AGE: No info given
SPACE: A 2000 sq. ft. basement "dungeon" in a private residence, with a maze, glory holes, a prison, 5 beds, 3 slings, 3 toilets, urinal, sinks, shower,  3 porn monitors, many semi-private areas to hide in and play.
LIGHTING: Mostly moderate red lighting. No areas completely dark.
A GOOD PARTY FOR:  Guys into safe sex.  Guys who are into a variety of different scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR:  Guys who want to bareback or "parTy."  Barebacking and drug taking are strictly not allowed.  Guys only looking for gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Call the hotline for the address and updated info: 212-726-0531. Get on the invite list by emailing loadnyc@aol.com


 


MEATPACKERS (Park Slope, Brooklyn) One of the oldest sex parties in Brooklyn, tonight the party is being held concurrently in the same space with the PITSTOP and LOAD parties, so be aware that there will a fetish-oriented crowd (from the PITSTOP list) sharing the space as well.

THE HOSTS SAY: "This is the original party in Park Slope since 1999.  It has evolved over the years with other groups using the space, but this is the original safe sex event.  Many have called it the best sex party space in NYC."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social, friendly and sexual
DONATION: $20 + $1 for clothes check 

SS/BB: A Safe Sex party
SUPPLIES: free condoms, lube, latex gloves, hand sanitizer, mouthwash, moist towelettes in bathrooms, canned soda, bottled water, filtered water fountain, sweet snacks, cotton bath towels for shower

TIME: Midnight to 5am, door closes 4:45am

FREQUENCY: Monthly on the the first Saturday night of every month.

CROWD:  About 80 people with a broad mix of ages, ethnicities and body types. Very racially diverse.
AGE: All ages are represented, average age is late 30's.
SPACE: A 2000 sq. ft. basement "dungeon" in a private residence, with a maze, glory holes, a prison, 5 beds, 3 slings, 3 toilets, urinal, sinks, shower,  3 porn monitors, many semi-private areas to hide in and play.
LIGHTING: Mostly moderate red lighting. No areas completely dark.
A GOOD PARTY FOR:  Guys into safe sex.  Friendly no attitude; all welcome.  Because we have such a diverse crowd, whatever your type is, you'll find at least one of them here!
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR:  Guys who want to bareback or "parTy."  Barebacking and drug taking are strictly NOT allowed.  If your attitude makes you feel uncomfortable around people you're not attracted to, this is also not a good party for you.
GETTING IN: Call the hotline for the address and updated info: 212-677-3599


PITSTOP (Park Slope, Brooklyn) A fetish sex party where "almost anything goes." at the same space in Brooklyn that GBU uses and sharing the space tonight with two other parties - MEATPACKERS and LOAD. Safe-sex dungeon kinkfest where anything goes except barebacking: be a voyeur or exhibitionist in scenes involving piss, role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, foot worship, spanking, humiliation, raunch and much more! Stripping to your underwear, jockstrap or fetish gear is required. Nudity is encouraged! There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space.
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
THE HOSTS SAY: This is a popular play space with an area set aside specifically for guys wanting to explore their kink.  There's a bathtub for water sports, but feel free to indulge kinks involving role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, piss, biting, foot worship, armpits, spanking and humiliation.
DOOR POLICY: Open Door  
VIBE: Social and friendly 
DONATION: $20 + $1 for clothes check 
SUPPLIES: free condoms, lube, latex gloves, hand sanitizer, mouthwash, moist towelettes in bathrooms, canned soda, bottled water, filtered water fountain, sweet snacks, cotton bath towels for shower

TIME: Midnight to 5am, door closes 4:45am
FREQUENCY: Monthly on the the first Saturday night of every month. 
CROWD:  About 80 people with a broad mix of ages, ethnicities and body types. Very racially diverse. 
AGE: All ages are represented, average age is late 30's.
SPACE: A 2000 sq. ft. basement "dungeon" in a private residence, with a maze, glory holes, a prison, 5 beds, 3 slings, 3 toilets, urinal, sinks, shower,  3 porn monitors, many semi-private areas to hide in and play.
LIGHTING:  mostly moderate red lighting. No areas completely dark. 
A GOOD PARTY FOR:  Guys into safe exploration of kink.  Friendly no attitude; all welcome.  Because we have such a diverse crowd, whatever your type is, you'll find at least one of them here! 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR:  Guys who want to bareback or "parTy."  Barebacking and drug  taking are strictly NOT allowed.  If your attitude makes you feel uncomfortable around people you're not attracted to, this is also not a good party for you.  
GETTING IN: email in advance for details: pitstop_nyc@yahoo.com


THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 12midnight-7am
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floors. It’s a safe and clean place. Lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Saturday and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net


ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. Not a mandatory clothes check party.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/


SUNDAY, MAY 4th

GOTHAM BEARS (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: “This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear Community together for hot steamy afternoon fun. A great way for anyone looking to get off before the weekend wraps up."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 before 3pm, $25 afterwards, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 40-50 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: gothambearsnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net


NEW YORK JACKS (Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: Doors open 4:00pm to 6:30pm, jerking until 7:30pm
CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: studio space
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/


MEN'S DEN (Washington Heights) Men’s Den is a “members-only” club that attracts a hot varied crowd of guys with different body types from athletic and muscular to average and sometimes a few stocky guys as well. One of the more popular of the “somewhat selective” parties in the city, it's got an intimate, relaxed, social vibe that seems to put everyone at ease and leads to a lot of hot sex.
THE HOSTS SAY: “A members-only club that hosts safe-sex parties for attractive men of all races ages 21 to 40s. The parties have a friendly, relaxed, social atmosphere in a private apartment. Two comfortable play spaces with porn, couches and a bed. A shower and towel are provided.”

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude, very friendly and social
SS/BB: A safe sex only party
DONATION: $10 before 6pm, $20 after
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, beverages
TIME: 5pm-9pm, door closes at 8pm.
FREQUENCY: Once a month on a Sunday
CROWD: Usually around 30 guys
AGE: 21 to 40s, most of the guys are usually in their 20s
SPACE: Private Apartment
LIGHTING: Good
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly, social guys, men who love to play safe, men who like to play with a diverse group of guys from many different ethnic backgrounds, first-timers.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, tourists/visitors, guys with racial hangups, guys with attitude, guys looking to PnP
GETTING IN: You need to be a Men’s Den Member in order to attend. There currently is about a two-week wait-list for a membership. To be considered, send stats and pics to mensdennyc@gmail.com



NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7pm-2am
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: At 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site at www.NYBondageClub.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: 7pm to 2am
DONATION: $16 
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse space
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com
NOTE: Sunday Special... Only 10$ for super attractive athletic model type guys under 35 Saturday or Sunday.

BROOKLYN FOOT FETISH PARTY (Prospect Heights, Brooklyn) A new Brooklyn party for the foot fetish crowd.
THE HOST SAYS: “Small but exclusive get together of foot lovers starting in Brooklyn. For lovers of feet, foot stink, socks, shoes and those that just like their feet serviced, licked and massaged. Friendly, sexy and cool guys. Message me for more details. Space limited and there is a screening process to get the right mix of guys."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: Social and friendly
DONATION: $10 before 9pm, $15 after
SUPPLIES: Snacks, beverages, BYOB
TIME: 7:30pm - 12:30am
FREQUENCY: Once a month on a Sunday
CROWD: 15-20 max (limited space)
AGE: Early 20's to late 40's (exception of in-shape/good-looking daddies in their 50's)
SPACE: Private Apartment
LIGHTING : Good, chill, relaxed
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys in their 20's, 30's and 40's who want to be in a cool and relaxed environment.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Those looking for sex only. The emphasis is on feet!
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to brooklynfeetny@gmail.com. Feel free to ask any questions.



FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station. 
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party) 
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men. 
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s. 
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude. 
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.



FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in." 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays. 
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com


MONDAY, MAY 5th


MATRIX MONDAY (Astoria, Queens) From the host: "New and upscale spa party for men only every Monday. 7000 sq feet beautiful spacious spa with Jacuzzi, steam rooms, Saunas, swimming pool, open showers, lockers, bar/lounge, VIP rooms and massage rooms. Clothing Optional."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Open Door (18+Party, 21+ drink) 
VIBE: No Attitude, Calm, Relaxed, Peaceful, with Friendly Staff
TIME: 4pm to 11pm
CROWD: 50-90 guys (Rush hour is at 6pm)
COST: $40 everything included. 
Jr Pass (18-26yrs old $30)
AGE: All ages 18-65 and races welcome to attend
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube, spa essentials, towels, robes, and lockers with locks, fruit and snacks 
FREQUENCY: Every Monday
LIGHTING: Dimmed low, relaxed atmosphere
GETTING IN: matrixmonday@yahoo.com or call (347) 705-4295 or check out our facebook page at Matrixe Monday

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY PARTY!" Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."  One of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.  
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s). This is a small sex party in a private apartment. This party can be hit and miss depending on how many and who show up, but when it's "hit" it can be a very hot party indeed. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies in the city. At most parties guys are having sex one-on-one or in threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occasionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: Free
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

TUESDAY, MAY 6th


NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: Doors open 7:30PM to 9:00PM, jerking until 11:00PM
CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/


FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.



FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: " This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in-shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in. " 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: TUES. 11:30pm-5am 
CROWD: AGES: mostly guys in their 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $5 before 1am, $10 after all night 
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks, snacks, condoms/lube. 
FREQUENCY:  Sundays, Tuesdays, Thursdays
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com


WEDNESDAY, MAY 7th


MMX EDGE DAYTIME (Chelsea) If you’ll pardon my French, this party sounds fucking hot! I’d probably go check it out myself if I didn't have to work. I hope some of you will give it a go and tell me all about it.
THE HOST SAYS: “A 90-minute JO party like no other. Guys form a circle and start off with some stress reducing shoulder and neck massage, slowly making their way down to a hard cock and undressing each other. Edging techniques are demonstrated to prolong release and use energy to attempt a full body orgasm. Small groups form and lots of hot cock stroking happens - when the group hits that wave, the two bukakke guys drop to their knees.....It’s Hot, Safe, and Addicting!"
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
DONATION: $15. Mention Adventures in Group Sex and Save $5 off your first event.
VIBE: No attitude, social and friendly, nice guys 
SS/BB: A Safe Sex party
SUPPLIES: Lube, Blindfolds, Snacks, Water
TIME: 12:30pm to 2pm (door closes at 12:40pm – no late-cummers) 
FREQUENCY: 2 times a month, days vary
CROWD: 10-25 guys, tight and in-shape friendly guys, all races.
AGES: 23 – 48
SPACE: A private professional large studio space near Union Square. 
LIGHTING: You can see everyone – Dimly Lit 
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly in-shape horn-dogs into sensual fun sexy safe play with other hot guys. Mainly a 30s mixed -ace crowd from tight guys to big muscle boys. 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys looking for an anon scene or shy and modest guys who want to watch or stay in the corner. Guys who have attitude. 
GETTING IN: Members and member guests. Send request with stats and photos to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com and join to get on our lists for Free. Mention Adventures and Save $5 off your first event.


REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) "Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com

HANDSOMENYC.COM (Chelsea) This party from host Hunteur replaces Hard Drive on Wednesdays. 
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community, we also offer totally free STD Testing and referral to free health care for life and also referral to Harm Reduction Services. We have a permanent medical office on location. You do not need to pay the entrance fee to access our services- you may get tested and leave. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 before 9pm, $27 after, or use your silver VIP card for $22 admission all night long.
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am. 
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys 
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: Paddles – a huge, clean, 5000 sq. feet of professional play space. A fully licensed Commercial Sex Venue licensed by the state and also licensed as a medical off-site testing facility.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).


THURSDAY, MAY 8th

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy) 
THE HOSTS SAY: “Lunch-time party for businessmen looking to hook up weekday afternoons, offering guys who generally can't play during the evening hours (because of wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, or partnered) a chance to bust a quick afternoon nut in a large group setting.” 
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube 
TIME: 12pm-3pm 
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 30-40 guys, all races welcome, a mixture of gay, bi, and straight-curious men looking to explore their sexuality in a safe environment. 
AGE: 21-55, most guys in their 30's and 40's 
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms 
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs 
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with the suit-and-tie crowd. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men in their 30s and 40s and Jocks who like older Daddy types. Guys who find wedding rings a turn-on. 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy. 
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and Stats to: executivelunchnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  After work ThursdaysLarge party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Not Selective
TIME: Thursday (5:30pm-3am)
DONATION: Only $13 
VIBE: laid back
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex and BB
SPACE: Big Loft playground (6,000 sq ft) with different theme rooms , many private booths , darkroom , porn etc .
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com


CUMUNION "ALL NUDE" PARTY (Chelsea) The New York City "Charter" if you will of an international sex party sponsored by barebackRT.com and CumHunt.com. The New York version is hosted by the host of the Milk Chocolate parties. From the CumUnion Website: "CumUnion is an environment where individuals can decide what sexual behaviors are acceptable to them, and can use their own judgment regarding the actions they take to protect themselves from HIV and other STDs... Here, HIV is not a dividing line. Here, all men can fuck equally!...We are pro-choice. Our members can decide for themselves whether to use condoms or not. So this party allows men to discuss with other men what is acceptable for themselves."
THE HOST SAYS: “Experience 5+ hours of hot, sweaty, non-stop action..."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Some safe sex, but mostly BB
DONATION: $25 ($22 b4 9pm w/Membership Card) 
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms available
TIME: 7:30pm to 1am
FREQUENCY: Bi-monthly
CROWD: 50 to 60 average joes of all races
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s. 
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club
LIGHTING: Good with some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Poz and Poz-friendly guys, guys who like to bareback, guys who enjoy interracial interaction, middle-age guys, average or out-of-shape guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys looking for safe-sex only, guys who have racial and age hang-ups. Guys only into gym bodies
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com. More info at www.cumunion.com

FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station. 
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party) 
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men. 
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s. 
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude. 
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.

GOTHAM BEARS (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear Community together for hot steamy mid-week fun. 
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube 
TIME: 8pm-11pm 
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 20-30 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action. 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy. 
GETTING IN: Request invite at: gothambearsnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net   


FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: " This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in-shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: THUR. 11:30pm-5am
CROWD: Ages: mostly 20s and 30s, a few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $5 before 1am, $10 after all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Sun, Tues, Thurs
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com



See you there men!






1 comment:

  1. Has anyone recently been to or heard from the E.Bone.NY party? Send me an email and let me know that it is still alive. adventuresgrsx@gmail.com

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