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Friday, May 16, 2014

Group M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, May 16th to Thursday, May 22nd



My dear fellow group-sex aficionados:

We have some interesting things going on this week in Sex-Party Wonderland. Saturday is looking to have a particularly interesting menu. Besides the usual suspects we have 20:20 coming out of a brief hibernation to give the fit 20-something crowd something to flock to, JACKS OF COLOR is hosting a Saturday party in a the more intimate Chelsea Club House, and it's that time of the month for SPAM, the party for queers, bi-men and women (!) along with the transgendered among you. Sounds like the kind of party that used to make the East Village the East Village back when the East Village was...well...the East Village instead of North SoHo. Apparently Park Slope is the new East Village and this gathering could make for quite the interesting night. Add to that a bear/chub party, a foot fetishist party, and a few open door parties and you have a Saturday with something for everyone. And the rest of the week is looking equally eclectic so take a look over the list and I'm sure you will find a party or two that's right for you. 

Something else of note this week is that host Hunteur is taking his HandsomeNYC.com party to Astoria on Monday nights to the Rainbow Playground. That would be the place that hosts the Omega parties a few times each week. This is in addition to the parties he will continue to host Wednesdays at Paddles.

So yes, there is a lot to consider this week, so let's get going, shall we?

Here is a listing of all the parties I *believe* to be happening this week. If the host/s has confirmed the details of the party directly with me then I list the details as "VERIFIED." If the hosts have not confirmed the party details with me, I list the details as "UNVERIFIED." 
I highly recommend that you do not attend a party going solely off of the information here without contacting the hosts first, especially if the information here is UNVERIFIED. Most parties do require that you submit pics and stats and that you are added to an invite list before you can attend, and there is always the chance of last minute changes or cancellations. 

Another great source for finding parties is the "Parties and Events" section of adam4adam.com, so I recommend that you check that site for parties as well, especially if you are looking for parties outside of the NYC area.


A GUIDE TO DOOR POLICIES

Here is a listing of what the different “DOOR POLICY” terms mean. These should not be taken as an indication of how “good” a party is. I have been to some Very Selective parties where I have been bored because there were mostly men standing around acting like they were all too good for each other, and I’ve also been to Open Door parties that have been full-out fuckfests filled with lots of hot group action. These categories are simply intended to be a guide as to whether the party is one you would physically fit in to and an indication as to what kinds of body types you will likely find there.  

Here are the Door Policy Categories:

Very Selective – Only good-looking men in good physical shape with toned bodies and visible muscle mass are allowed in. These parties also usually have a limited age range.

Selective – Only men with above-average to average bodies are allowed.  “Average” refers to men who are height-weight-proportionate and do not have much visible muscle tone or muscle mass. But you will also usually find quite a few men in great shape at these parties as well.

Somewhat Selective – A wide range of body types. You may find some above-average athletic men and also some out-of-shape men with extra pounds on them, but not overly obese. Most guys at these parties tend to have average bodies.

Not Selective – All body types are allowed. You still need to be on an invite list in order to attend, and with some Not Selective parties you may need to meet some other entrance criteria such as age or race.

Open Door – General admission. Everyone is welcome and you don’t need to be on an invite list in order to attend. Just show up.



Here are the parties for this Friday through Thursday:


Friday, May 16th

CMBUDDIESNYC (Upper West Side) From the hosts: "Porn star play for guys with regular lives! Easy breezy and sleazy fun!" 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: Very friendly, no attitude
TIME: 8pm-1am (door closes at midnight )
CROWD: 35-45 good mix of sexy guys
AGES: predominantly 30's-50's; some younger guys
DONATION: $22
SS/BB: Some Safe Sex, mostly BB
SPACE: Private apartment with three play rooms, sling, massage table, porn, two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: beverages, lube, wipes, clean-out kits
FREQUENCY: twice a month; Fridays, sometimes Wednesdays
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats, and a face and a body pic to cmbuddiesnyc@hotmail.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-4am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com

PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $10 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.


NYC NAKED WRESTLERS ( Gramercy) This week Friday night NYC Naked Wrestlers is taking over the whole evening over at the Gramercy Duplex. METROPOLIS is scheduled to return next week.
THE HOSTS SAY: "New York's only wrestling group where men go completely naked and give in to the ultimate sexual surrender at the end of each match while surrounded by naked members getting off with one another on the sidelines. Two floors: first one offering wrestling/sex matches, second one combined group sex party with the select men of TESTOSTERONE. Open to all fit in-shape guys who enjoy watching or participating in naked combat without restrictions or limitations, exhibitionists and voyeurs welcome to attend, and there is no pressure to participate in the matches unless interested in doing so." 
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: Both Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 9pm-3am, doors close at 11pm
FREQUENCY: several times a month, usually every other Friday
CROWD: 40-60 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private Penthouse Duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit for wrestling matches on the mats, 2nd floor Viewing Gallery and darkened Lounge for the group sex orgy
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who enjoys watching naked guys wrestle and have sex on the mats. Guys interested in exloring their desire to participate in these kind of matches. Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who parTy. High-maintance types with an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send stats and a recent shirtless pic from the waist up to Nick at nycnakedwrestlers@gmail.com or check out www.gayguysglobal.net



NYJP (Midtown) New York Jock Party is one of the largest parties in NYC and also widely considered one of the best for those looking for jocks with toned and muscled physiques. The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. It can also at times be filled with attitude, but that seems to come with the territory. This is not a party for the modest or shy as you are required to check everything including your underwear, and you will be given a small towel to cover up. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Attitude
TIME: 10pm to 5am
CROWD: 50-70 men
AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $28
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: drinks, snacks, condoms/lube.
FREQUENCY: about two times a month
LIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot men

GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: thenyjp@gmail.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door 
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/



Saturday, May 17th



MILK CHOCOLATE "HUNG MANMEAT" PARTY (Chelsea)
THE HOST SAYS: "Get some dark chocolate, hot caramel and creamy white flavored hot milk @ NYC's hot inter-racial sex party for friendly men of all flavas. All nude dress code for this event! (Fit/ 8+ hung Tops, age 18 to fit 40, that show 8+ inches of meat to our fluffers get $15 admission b4 1pm. Fluffers needed.) 
Everyone encouraged to play hard and smart! Tons of free condoms provided but we do not play Condom Police for mature men!"
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social atmosphere with a mix of friendly regulars at each party. New guys must be able to play well with men on the list
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 ($15 for jocks age 18-25 w/ ID) (clothes check included; tips are appreciated)
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms provided. (Venue sells bottled water/ sodas so put a few bucks in your socks before checking your items at clothes check.)
TIME: 12noon until 4pm
FREQUENCY: Every 1st, 2nd and 3rd Thursday and 4th Saturday of the month. (Check for Dress Code and Door Policy of varying weekly theme events).
CROWD: Usually 60-80 men show up at the afternoon events. In-shape to average build/height/weight appropriate men welcome. 30% Black, 20% Latin Mixed, and 50% White inter-racial mix.
AGE: Men age 18 to in-shape 50's welcome
SPACE: Paddles Fetish Club
LIGHTING: Lighted 2nd level/ Oral Fetish level and dimly lit backroom.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly, drug-free men of all races looking to get off in an all nude, hardcore, sexy-social, inter-racial party. Men into being true exhibitionists in the sling, backroom or in the oral area are the best fit.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men with racial hang ups; guys that like to ParTy; guys not comfortable with being nude; guys looking for a sex party where toys, bondage, scat, pain, fisting, watersports or other extreme sports are allowed, men that like to stand around and watch.
GETTING IN: Put "HOT MILK" in subject line and send pics/ stats to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com to join the private party list. (Fit/ 8+ hung Tops can apply to get on the "Hung List") Check out the blog for more details at nym4msexparty.blogspot.com

CHASER'S CHOICE (Gramercy) A party for chubs and the guys who love them. 
THE HOSTS SAY: "Chaser's Choice is a sexually-charged party for men of all ages (18 and over) who have large bellies, big tits, great chub cocks, and the horny chasers who love playing with them. All types of guys are accepted at this party: cute chubs in their 20s and 30s, daddy chubs, voluptuous extra large chubs, mature beefy bears, skinny and hot muscle admirers, all coming together for afternoon fun in a spacious penthouse duplex apartment. Our guestlist includes guys from all over the world. We extend a special invitation to men with small penises and their admirers! Everyone is welcome!
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm (Doors close at 5pm)
FREQUENCY: Weekly Saturdays
CROWD: 30-40 guys
AGE: All ages (over 18)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who enjoys playing with large masculine men.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Judgmental guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: chaserschoicenyc@gmail.com.  You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net


DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes.  It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Tonight's party is mandatory total nudity.  
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back, no attitude
TIME:  7pm-1am
CROWD: 20-40  men
AGE: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)
DONATION: $10 before 8pm (exact change required)/$20 after 8pm
SS/BB:  Some safe sex, but mostly BB
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen) Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
THE HOST SAYS: "These are the ideal social parties for Men into Mens’ Feet, Footwear, and Tickling ready for action! In an intimate private space. In order to attend, you must make a reservation, and make a commitment to be there. Our party regulars are friendly, and expert at making first-timers want to come again and again.Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $10 before 9pm or after Midnight, $20 9pm-Midnight ($10 ages 18-25 with a valid ID)
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, juice, water, soda. (You can BYOB)
TIME: 8pm-3am (must arrive by 1am)
FREQUENCY: Every Saturday and Tuesday night.
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into feet and footware, guys who like to give and/or get foot massages, guys who like to tickle or get tickled, first-timers, guys who like to play safe.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are just looking for sex, barebackers, guys who aren't 
into feet.
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

JACKS OF COLOR "CHELSEA SUPRISE" PARTY (Chelsea) Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."  One of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.  This Saturday's party is being hosted at the Chelsea Duplex where the "Peak" and "Fusion" parties are held, so expect the atmosphere to be more intimate at this one than at the Paddles parties. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 8:00 to 3am, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-5:30am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com



20:20 (Prospect Heights, Brooklyn) I mentioned this party in my last blog wondering why I hadn't hear from the host since March and low-and-behold he wrote me just a few days later announcing his party this weekend. So if you are a fit 20-something, check it out and let us know how it goes!
THE HOSTS SAY: 20:20 is a selective, classy, sexy, drug-free monthly group party in Brooklyn. The event takes place in a large luxury condo with plenty of space. Participants are all 30 years old and under, and in very good shape only (no exceptions). This is a free party, BYOB, condoms/lube provided. This month's theme is *White Underwear*.
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Social and friendly
DONATION: Completely free but BYOB
SUPPLIES: NYC condoms and lube
TIME: 10:30pm, door closes at 11:30pm
FREQUENCY: Roughly once a month
CROWD: Around 35 guys in their 20's, mostly white guys with some Asians, Latinos and Blacks. We don't discriminate as long as you're hot. Body types go from thin to muscular, no overweight or less-than-desirable body types. We typically get a few couples too.
AGE: 18 to 30, all ages fairly equally represented
SPACE: Large private and modern condo unit
LIGHTING: Dark to good, depending on where you play
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who wants to meet and socialize before playing with others. This is not a fuck-and-go party, you will not find it easy to play here unless you're willing to talk a little and make friends. We're very good at filtering creeps out, so expect similar minded sociable guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who want to have sex right away, creeps who can't or don't want to socialize, people who need to get high or drunk, guys who have unsafe sex.
GETTING IN: You can find more info at 2020party.tumblr.com. Make sure you register for the email list in order to get the invite (RSVP needed as we limit the audience to 30 participants only).


SPAM PARTY (Park Slope, Brooklyn) Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you. A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and transgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. Mandatory pants-check down to your underwear.
THE HOSTS SAY: "This is NYC's only sex party for the entire LGBT community! It is sociologically the most interesting scene you'll ever experience. You might not get off sexually (although gay and bisexual men are the majority), but you will see things you've never seen before! Straight men are not allowed. (They're too aggressive with women!)"
DOOR POLICY: Open Door, except no straight men
VIBE: Very social and friendly
DONATION: $20 for men, $10 for women and trans (+ $1 for clothes check)
SS/BB: Strictly safe safe only. Anyone caught barebacking will be asked to leave.
SUPPLIES: free condoms, lube, latex gloves, hand sanitizer, mouthwash, moist towelettes in bathrooms, canned soda, bottled water, filtered water fountain, sweet snacks, cotton bath towels for shower

TIME: 11pm to 4am, door closes 3:45am

FREQUENCY: monthly on the the third Saturday night of every month. 

CROWD: About 60 people with a broad mix of gender expressions, ages, ethnicities and varieties of sexual expression and fetish wear.
AGE: All ages are represented, average age is late 30's.
SPACE: A 2000 sq. ft. basement "dungeon" in a private residence, with a maze, glory holes, a prison, 5 beds, 3 slings, 3 toilets, urinal, sinks, shower, 3 porn monitors, many semi-private areas to hide in and play.
LIGHTING: mostly moderate red lighting. No areas completely dark.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Those curious about being in a sexual environment with other genders (men, women, trans) and see what happens. Also anyone who wants to dress differently: bearded men in panties, bras or heels. Drag queens. Transsexuals, Women with strap ons. Voyeurs welcome. There's a live DJ so those wanting a gay pride type celebration with lots of variety and no attitude are most encouraged to come.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys intending to have sex with women or would touch someone without asking permission first. Boundaries must be respected in this mixed environment. This is strictly a "queer" party. No barebacking or drugs. Attitude-free.
GETTING IN: Call the hotline: 718-789-4053. Or visit the website: www.submitparty.com/Spam_Party.html


THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door 
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/


Sunday, May 18th


GOTHAM BEARS (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: “This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear Community together for hot steamy afternoon fun. A great way for anyone looking to get off before the weekend wraps up."

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 before 3pm, $25 afterwards, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 40-50 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: gothambearsnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net


NEW YORK JACKS (Midtown) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A 
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 4pm to 6pm, jerking until 7pm. 
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Tuesday)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: A loft-type space
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $17
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 6pm-2am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com



NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7pm-2am
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: At 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site at www.NYBondageClub.com

FUSION (Chelsea) PLEASE NOTE TONIGHT'S FUSION PARTY HAS BEEN CANCELED. FUSION WILL RETURN THIS THURSDAY AND NEXT SUNDAY.



THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 9pm-3am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in." 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays. 
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com


Monday, May 19th



MATRIX MONDAY (Astoria, Queens) From the host: "New and upscale spa party for men only every Monday. 7000 sq feet beautiful spacious spa with Jacuzzi, steam rooms, Saunas, swimming pool, open showers, lockers, bar/lounge, VIP rooms and massage rooms. Clothing Optional."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door (18+Party, 21+ drink) 
VIBE: No Attitude, Calm, Relaxed, Peaceful, with Friendly Staff
TIME: 4pm to 11pm
CROWD: 50-90 guys (Rush hour is at 6pm)
COST: $40 everything included. 
Jr Pass (18-26yrs old $30)
AGE: All ages 18-65 and races welcome to attend
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube, spa essentials, towels, robes, and lockers with locks, fruit and snacks 
FREQUENCY: Every Monday
LIGHTING: Dimmed low, relaxed atmosphere
GETTING IN: matrixmonday@yahoo.com or call (347) 705-4295 or check out our facebook page at Matrixe Monday

JACKS OF COLOR  "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY" PARTY (Chelsea) Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."  One of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.  
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

HANDSOMENYC.COM (Astoria, Queens) Host Hunteur brings his party to Astoria on Monday nights to the Rainbow Playground, home of the Omega parties. 
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am. 
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys 
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: A large industrial loft-type space with many private cabins and rooms and a cinema lounge.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s). This is a small sex party in a private apartment. This party can be hit and miss depending on how many and who show up, but when it's "hit" it can be a very hot party indeed. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies in the city. At most parties guys are having sex one-on-one or in threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occasionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: Free
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com


Tuesday, May 20th

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A 
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 7pm to 9pm, jerking until 10pm
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Sunday.)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club 
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen) Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
THE HOST SAYS: "These are the ideal social parties for Men into Mens’ Feet, Footwear, and Tickling ready for action! In an intimate private space. In order to attend, you must make a reservation, and make a commitment to be there. Our party regulars are friendly, and expert at making first-timers want to come again and again. Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $20 ($10 ages 18-25 with a valid ID)
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, juice, water, soda. (You can BYOB)
TIME: 8pm-2am (must arrive by Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Saturday and Tuesday night.
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into feet and footware, guys who like to give and/or get foot massages, guys who like to tickle or get tickled, first-timers, guys who like to play safe.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are just looking for sex, barebackers, guys who aren't 
into feet.
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.

Wednesday, May 21st

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) "Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occasionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com


HANDSOMENYC.COM (Chelsea) This party from host Hunteur replaces Hard Drive on Wednesdays. His parties often have a theme and this week is SexInSuits Night. 
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community, we also offer totally free STD Testing and referral to free health care for life and also referral to Harm Reduction Services. We have a permanent medical office on location. You do not need to pay the entrance fee to access our services- you may get tested and leave. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 before 9pm, $27 after, or use your silver VIP card for $22 admission all night long.
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am. 
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys 
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: Paddles – a huge, clean, 5000 sq. feet of professional play space. A fully licensed Commercial Sex Venue licensed by the state and also licensed as a medical off-site testing facility.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).


MMX EDGE EVENING (Chelsea) It’s like a cross between a massage party and a bukakke party. Sounds like a hot time. 
THE HOST SAYS: “A 90-minute JO party like no other. Guys form a circle and start off with some stress reducing shoulder and neck massage, slowly making their way down to a hard cock and undressing each other. Edging techniques are demonstrated to prolong release and use energy to attempt a full body orgasm. Small groups form and lots of hot cock stroking happens - when the group hits that wave, the two bukakke guys drop to their knees.....It’s Hot, Safe, and Addicting!" 
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
DONATION: $15. Mention Adventures in Group Sex and Save $5 off your first event.
VIBE: No attitude, social and friendly, nice guys 
SS/BB: A Safe Sex party
SUPPLIES: Lube, Blindfolds, Snacks, Water
TIME: 9pm to 10:30pm (door closes at 9:10pm – no late-cummers) 
FREQUENCY: 2 times a month, days vary
CROWD: 10-25 guys, tight and in-shape friendly guys, all races.
AGES: 23 – 48
SPACE: A private professional large studio space near Union Square. 
LIGHTING: You can see everyone – Dimly Lit 
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly in-shape horn-dogs into sensual fun sexy safe play with other hot guys. Mainly a 30s mixed -ace crowd from tight guys to big muscle boys. 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys looking for an anon scene or shy and modest guys who want to watch or stay in the corner. Guys who have attitude. 
GETTING IN: Members and member guests. Send request with stats and photos to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com and join to get on our lists for Free. Mention Adventures and Save $5 off your first event. 

NYJP (Midtown) New York Jock Party is one of the largest parties in NYC and also widely considered one of the best for those looking for jocks with toned and muscled physiques. The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. It can also at times be filled with attitude, but that seems to come with the territory. This is not a party for the modest or shy as you are required to check everything including your underwear, and you will be given a small towel to cover up. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Attitude
TIME: 8pm to 1am
CROWD: no info provided
AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $20 before 9pm, $25 after.
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: drinks, snacks, condoms/lube.
FREQUENCY: about two times a month
LIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot men

GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: thenyjp@gmail.com


Thursday, May 2nd

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy) 
THE HOSTS SAY: “Lunch-time party for businessmen looking to hook up weekday afternoons, offering guys who generally can't play during the evening hours (because of wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, or partnered) a chance to bust a quick afternoon nut in a large group setting.” 
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube 
TIME: 12pm-3pm 
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 30-40 guys, all races welcome, a mixture of gay, bi, and straight-curious men looking to explore their sexuality in a safe environment. 
AGE: 21-55, most guys in their 30's and 40's 
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms 
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs 
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with the suit-and-tie crowd. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men in their 30s and 40s and Jocks who like older Daddy types. Guys who find wedding rings a turn-on. 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy. 
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and Stats to: executivelunchnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 5:30pm-3am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com

FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station. 
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party) 
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men. 
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s. 
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude. 
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.

GOTHAM BEARS (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear Community together for hot steamy mid-week fun. 
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube 
TIME: 8pm-11pm 
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 20-30 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action. 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy. 
GETTING IN: Request invite at: gothambearsnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in." 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays. 
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com



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