GROUP M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, February 7 to Thursday, February 13

Sex Parties for the week of Friday, February 7 to Thursday, February 13…

Men: Below is the new list of all the parties that I know about this week. I only gave information based on my personal experience, or the information that the hosts provided. If I didn't know something I listed it as TK. (N/A means not applicable). Please, NEVER go to a party just based on my information. You should ALWAYS check with the hosts first to confirm that the parties are up and running and times and dates are correct. Another great resource you should check out is the "Party" section of Adam4Adam.com for parties that I do not list yet, for smaller parties, or parties below that may not respond quickly to emails. Also this is just the parties this week, if you want the whole list you can email me at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com. Have fun and be safe.

Friday…

20:20 PARTY (Brooklyn).   New party (all info from host): 20:20 is a selective, classy, sexy, drug-free monthly group party in Brooklyn. The event takes place in a large luxury condo with plenty of space. Participants are all in their 20's and in very good shape only (no exceptions). This is a free party, BYOB, condoms/lube provided.  
RATING: EXTREMELY SELECTIVE
VIBE: Young, fun and very social
TIME: 10pm-4am
CROWD: 20 to 30 hot guys
AGES: 30 and under only
DONATION: FREE but BYOB
SS/BB: A safe sex party only
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge private condo, two bathrooms, showers.
SUPPLIES: Soft drinks, gummy bears, candy. Condom/lube provided.
FREQUENCY:  Typically once a month, on a Friday or Saturday
LIGHTING: Good, dimmed lights all over the place
GETTING IN: Send stats and a body pic to: 2020partynyc@gmail.com . We will reply with more info.

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes.  It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian.

DRESS: ALL NUDE

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: laid back, no attitude

TIME:  8PM to 2AM

CROWD: 20-40  men

AGE: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)

DONATION: $10 before 9PM(exact change required)/$20 after 9PM

SS/BB:  Some safe sex, but mostly BB

SPACE: private apartment

SUPPLIES: condoms/lube

FREQUENCY:  Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: send pics & stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/ group/EdAndSteve

ND2 (Times Square). This party is for average African-American and Latino men ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action.

RATING: Somewhat selective

VIBE: social, no attitude

TIME:  11:30PM-6AM

CROWD: 50-70+ men

AGE: 18-50 YO

DONATION: $15 (first hour or first 25 dudes) | $20 afterwards

SS/BB:  Safe sex requested, some BB

SPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, porn

SUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, shower

FREQUENCY:  Weekly or bi-weekly; often Wednesday, Thursday or Friday nights

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. Good party for average guys.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: laid back

TIME: Friday (8pm-4am) 

DONATION: $17 all night

CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).

AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs

SS/BB: safe sex with some BB

SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft

SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube

FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday

LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark

GETTING IN: Send pics and stats (don't mention this site): rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com

NYC NAKED WRESTLERS (Midtown East).  From the host: NYC'S wrestling group where men go completely naked and give in to the ultimate sexual surrender at the end of each match while naked members get off with one another on the sidelines. Private Duplex Apt: 1rst floor mats/matches, 2nd floor darkened Lounge for combined group sex party with TESTOSTERONE. For in-shape guys who enjoy watching or participating in naked combat without restrictions. 

RATING: Somewhat selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME:  9pm-2am.

CROWD: 20-30 guys

AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend

SS/BB:  safe sex & BB

SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms

SUPPLIES: condom/lube

FREQUENCY:  weekly, Fridays

LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; 2nd floor dark

GETTING IN: Send stats and a recent shirtless pic from the waist up to Nick at: nycnakedwrestlers@gmail.comor check out www.gayguysglobal.net  

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is PEAK. The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, heigh/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand & pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn’t for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape. 

PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.

DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.

TIME: 8PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)

CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.

DONATION: $20

SS/BB:  BB

SPACE: Private Apartment, Sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  

SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, ENEMAS, clothes check. 

FREQUENCY:  weekly

LIGHTING: good

GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

TESTOSTERONE (Midtown East).  From the host: This is a no-attitude/no-standing around party, everyone able to hold their own in large active crowds, anyone looking for a "jock perfect only party" with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their "pee-pees" should not apply, this event is not for you.

RATING: Not selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME:  10pm-3am.

CROWD: 20-30 guys

AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend

SS/BB:  safe sex & BB

SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms

SUPPLIES: condom/lube

FREQUENCY:  weekly, Fridays

LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark

GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security.
RATING: Somewhat Selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: 11pm - 5am

CROWD: N/A

AGES: Mixed

DONATION: $15 (Fri & Sat); $10 (Wed)

SS/BB: A safe sex party.

SPACE: Private apt.

FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday

GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

E.BONE.NY (Brooklyn). An underwear party for black men and dark skin admirers. All races are welcome, but the focus is Black Men.

RATING: Selective

VIBE: laid back , no attitude

TIME: 10pm –2am    (doors close at 11:30pm)

DONATION: $25 Dollar Donation for BLACK  MEN and ADMIRERS; $40 Dollar Donation for MALE COUPLES; $1 Dollar for COAT/BEVERAGE CHECK

CROWD: AGE: 19-45

SS/BB: safe sex ONLY – no BB.

SPACE: private apartment

SUPPLIES: Condoms and lube, BYOB

FREQUENCY: Few Times a Month

GETTING IN: Email pic and stats to whosateboneytonight@gmail.com

BB PARTIES NYC (The Bronx).  An exclusive weekly party designed for people who enjoy anonymous sex and completly natural, this party is ONLY for  open-minded people. The party is BAREBACK, so NO condoms Allowed!  ALL NUDE: Clothes check because is a Strictic Requirement That You stay TOTALLY naked inside the party .

RATING: Selective

VIBE: No attitude

TIME: 7pm to 2:30am

CROWD: TK

AGES: 20s-40s

DONATION: $12 before 9pm; $15 afterwards

SS/BB: BB 

SPACE: Private Apartment

SUPPLIES: drink. Condom/lube. BYOB

FREQUENCY: Weekly

LIGHTING: GOOD

GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: info@bbpartiesnyc.com and check out http://bbpartiesnyc.weebly.com/

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.

RATING: Selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: Friday(12midnight-7am)

CROWD: Varies

AGE: 18-40

SS/BB: Safe sex only

SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.

SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube

FREQUENCY: held every Friday & Sat and Sunday

LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.

GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close)

CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).

AGE: no restriction

SS/BB: Safe sex and BB

SPACE: Paddles sex club

SUPPLIES: condom/lubes

FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Saturday…

CHUBS AND CHASERS (Midtown) NYC's largest party for large and extra large guys and their admirers.
RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3pm - 7pm
CROWD: tk
DONATION: $25
SS/BB: BB and SS
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge duplex space, two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: Snacks. Condom/lube.
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: bearpartynewyork@gmail.com

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea/Times Square) SATURDAY AFTERNOON SPECIAL. A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."  The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME:  doors 1:00 to 6:00, goes 'til 8 pm

CROWD: 70-120

AGE: 18-60s   

SS/BB:  some safe sex, but also BB

SPACE: Paddles

SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube

FREQUENCY:  Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.

RATING: Not Selective

TIME: Saturday (8pm-4am)

DONATION: $17 all night

VIBE: laid back

CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).

AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs

SS/BB: safe sex with some BB

SPACE: former warehouse loft space

SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube

FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday

LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark

GETTING IN: Send pics and stats (don't mention this site): rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com

RUSH PARTY (Times Square) GOLDEN BOYS USA runs this amazing, huge sex party filled with hot guys.

RATING: SUPER SELECTIVE

VIBE: hot, not much attitude

TIME: 10pm-5am

CROWD: 100 guys

DONATION: $20 before 11pm $25 after 11pm/$10 for guys under 21 with valid ID

AGES: Inshape guys 18-30yo ONLY -- average age is 23

SS/BB: A safe sex party. 

SPACE: Hot, clean, huge duplex space, two bathrooms

SUPPLIES: Snacks. Condom/lube.

LIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot men

GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

MASQUERADE ORGY (Los Angeles). Hot party (just started in January 2012). To get in you don't have to be a total jock but in decent to great shape.

RATING: Selective

VIBE: laid back , no attitude

TIME: 9pm –2am  

CROWD: AGE: 19-45 (most guys in their late 20s/early 30s).

SS/BB: safe sex

SPACE: private apartment (LA), a boutique hotel (SD).

SUPPLIES: Condoms and lube

FREQUENCY: Few Times a Month

GETTING IN: Email pic and stats to maskedmenla@gmail.com.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.

RATING: Selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: Saturday (12midnight-7am)

CROWD: Varies

AGE: 18-40

SS/BB: Safe sex only

SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.

SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube

FREQUENCY: held every Friday & Sat and Sunday

LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.

GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security.
RATING: Somewhat Selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: 11pm - 5am

CROWD: N/A

AGES: Mixed

DONATION: $15 (Fri & Sat); $10 (Wed)

SS/BB: A safe sex party.

SPACE: Private apt.

FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday

GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.

RATING: somewhat selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: 8pm-2am

CROWD: 40 person maximum party

AGE: 18-50

SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.

SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom

SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes

LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace

GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close)

CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).

AGE: no restriction

SS/BB: Safe sex and BB

SPACE: Paddles sex club

SUPPLIES: condom/lubes

FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment. 

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: No Attitude

TIME: 8-1am 

CROWD: TK

SS/BB: TK

SPACE: Private apartment

SUPPLIES: condom/lube

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com

LONG ISLAND BI-SEXUAL GROUP (Long Island).  LI-BI-do is a Bisexual social group that hold parties for Couples, women, trans, and men are all welcome.  You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly, or Bi-curious.

RATING: Not selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME:  8pm

DONATION: Couple and females FREE

SS/BB:  Safe sex

SPACE: hotel

SUPPLIES: condoms/lube, drinks

FREQUENCY:  Monthly, Saturday nights

LIGHTING: TK

GETTING IN: Go to Home Page http://groups.yahoo.com/ group/LI-BI-do, Send blank email to:   LI-BI-do-Subscribe@ yahoogroups.com or check out:http://www.li-bi-do.org.

Sunday…

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Chelsea). MANMEAT NAKED AFTERNOON. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out.

RATING: Not Selective

RELAXED DOOR:  Everyone welcome @ this event from in-shape guys to average joe types 

DRESS CODE:  ALL NUDE

VIBE: no attitude

TIME:  11:30am until 4pm

CROWD: varies depending on party

AGE: varies depending on the party

DONATION: $22

SS/BB:  safe sex and BB

SPACE: Paddles

SUPPLIES: condom/lube

FREQUENCY:  A few parties every week

LIGHTING: varies depending on the party

GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

ASS ACTION FUCK CLUB (Washington Heights) ) A members-only club that holds safe-sex parties in a comfortable intimate apartment setting. The membership list is made up of a racially-diverse mix of athletic guys. The parties are social and friendly and have an emphasis on “hot butt sex” where the hosts encourage everyone to “fuck each other's brains out.” The number of guests at each party is limited to keep the vibe intimate and to encourage group interaction. Every party has a theme and this Sunday is the Fuck Club Flashlight Party. Lights are out and everyone is given a flashlight to discover and explore each other. A shower and towels are provided.

RATING: Selective

VIBE: Friendly and social with no attitude

TIME: 5pm. Must arrive by 6pm

CROWD:  Limited to 20 guys, racially-mixed, above-average to very hot

AGES: 21 to 40s

DONATION: $20

SS/BB: A Safe-sex only party

SPACE: Private Apartment

SUPPLIES: Premium condoms and lube (ultra-sensitive and Magnums, silicone Gun Oil), complementary snacks and beverages

FREQUENCY: Once or twice a month on a Sunday

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: Due to limited space on the membership list, the hosts are currently only considering guys with above-average athletic or muscular bodies for membership. You can send stats and pics to heightshost@gmail.com and find more information atassactionnyc.com

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is FUSION. The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, heigh/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand & pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn’t for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape. 

PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.

DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.

TIME: 8PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)

CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.

DONATION: $20

SS/BB:  BB

SPACE: Private Apartment, Sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  

SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, ENEMAS, clothes check. 

FREQUENCY:  weekly

LIGHTING: good

GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: laid back

TIME: Sunday (7pm to 2am)

DONATION: $16 

CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).

AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs

SS/BB: safe sex with some BB

SPACE: former warehouse space

SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube

FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday

LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark

GETTING IN: Send pics and stats (don't mention this site): rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com

NOTE: Sunday Special... Only 10$ for super attractive athletic model type guys under 35 Sat or Sun.

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). THIS IS AN ALL NUDE PARTY NO EXCEPTION AND NO NEGOTIATION ABOUT IT AT ALL STRIP AT DOOR. FOR FIT MEN IN SHAPE ONLY, NO ONE WAIST OVER 36 WILL NOT GET IN.

RATING: SELECTIVE

VIBE: no attitude.

TIME: SUN. 11:30PM-4AM  

CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s

DONATION: $10 ALL NIGHT

SS/BB: A safe sex party.

SPACE: private apt

SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.

FREQUENCY:  Sun, Tues, Thurs

LIGHTING: GOOD,

GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

GOTHAM BEAR PARTY (Midtown East).  From the host: “This is an all inclusive party for all BIG men of different shapes and sizes and races and their admirers!”

RATING: Not selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME:  3pm - 6pm.

CROWD: 20-30 guys

DONATION: $20

AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend

SS/BB:  safe sex & BB

SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms

SUPPLIES: condom/lube

FREQUENCY:  weekly, Sundays

LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark

GETTING IN: GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.

RATING: Not selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM)

CROWD: varies

AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.

SS/BB: Safe sex

SPACE: Held in a straight BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.

SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube

FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night

LIGHTING: 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).

GETTING IN: Check out the site www.NYBondageClub.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: No attitude

TIME: Doors open 4:00PM to 6:30PM, jerking until 7:30PM

CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.

AGES: 18-60s

SS/BB: N/A

SPACE: studio space

SUPPLIES: N/A

FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Monday...

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY PARTY!";A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am

CROWD: 70-120

AGE: 18-60s

SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BB

SPACE: Paddles

SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube

FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s). This small sex party in a private apartment. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.

RATING: Selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: 9:30-11pm, occassionally lunch parties

CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average

AGES: 18-40 YOs

DONATION: FREE

SS/BB: Safe Sex

SPACE: small studio apartment

SUPPLIES: condom/lube

FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,

LIGHTING: Excellent

GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Tight Muscle Mondays. Not a sex party, but a massage and/or yoga party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage.

RATING: Selective

VIBE: no attitude, no reason

TIME: Arrive between 8 and 8:30pm and Start Trading. Demo at 8:45pm.

CROWD: 25 guys

AGES: No restrictions

DONATION: $25. Students and under 27 get in for $20.

SS/BB: not a sex party

SPACE: Great, clean space

LIGHTING: Excellent

GETTING IN: send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com.

Tuesday…

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is PEAK. The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, heigh/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand & pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn’t for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape. 

PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.

DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.

TIME: 8PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)

CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.

DONATION: $20

SS/BB:  BB

SPACE: Private Apartment, Sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  

SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, ENEMAS, clothes check. 

FREQUENCY:  weekly

LIGHTING: good

GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). THIS IS AN ALL NUDE PARTY NO EXCEPTION AND NO NEGOTIATION ABOUT IT AT ALL STRIP AT DOOR. FOR FIT MEN IN SHAPE ONLY, NO ONE WAIST OVER 36 WILL NOT GET IN.

RATING: SELECTIVE

VIBE: no attitude.

TIME: TUES. 11:30PM-5AM  

CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s

DONATION: $5 BEFORE 1AM $10 AFTER ALL NIGHT

SS/BB: A safe sex party.

SPACE: private apt

SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.

FREQUENCY:  Sun, Tues, Thurs

LIGHTING: GOOD,

GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.

RATING: somewhat selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: 8pm-2am

CROWD: 40 person maximum party

AGE: 18-50

SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.

SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom

SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes

LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace

GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: No attitude

TIME: Doors open 7:30PM to 9:00PM, jerking until 11:00PM

CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.

AGES: 18-60s

SS/BB: N/A

SPACE: Paddles

SUPPLIES: N/A

FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Wednesday…

NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square). The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. The hotter men tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be.

RATING: VERY SELECTIVE

VIBE: Since the party went ALL NUDE -- mostly no attitude.

TIME: 8pm-2am

CROWD: 50-70+ to 50 young, hot men

AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s

DONATION: $25.

SS/BB: A safe sex party. 

SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower

SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.

FREQUENCY:  2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes Thursdays

LIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot men

GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com

HARD DRIVE! (Chelsea). The host is very creative and always having guest appearance by porn stars, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: No attitude, extremely friendly

TIME: Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am.

CROWD: Get 60-70 guys height/weight proportionate (all body types)

AGES: 25 to 55YO

DONATION: $25 (all height/weight proportional dudes under 25 in for free with ID)

SS/BB: Safe Sex

SPACE: Paddles studio space

SUPPLIES: condom/lube

FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: send pics and stats to hunteur1@gmail.com or check out http://www.harddrivemen.com/.

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). MMX Humpdayzz. Not a sex party, but a massage party. Weekday Midday Event for the guys who work at night, freelancers, escaping work, and those 'between jobs'. Great way to take a break mid-week, relax, recharge, and de-stress. Note the small studio now has A/C!! Each week will feature a different theme and focus on a particular muscle group.

VIBE: no attitude, no reason

TIME: 2-4pm

CROWD: 25 guys

AGES: No restrictions

DONATION: $30

SS/BB: not a sex party

SPACE: Great, clean space

LIGHTING: Excellent

GETTING IN: send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com.

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security.
RATING: Somewhat Selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: 11pm - 5am

CROWD: N/A

AGES: Mixed

DONATION: $15 (Fri and Sat); $10 (Wed)

SS/BB: A safe sex party.

SPACE: Private apt.

FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday

GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

DAD/SON, UNCLE/NEPHEW PARTY (Midtown).  All info is from the host: “ManPlay Time - live out your fantasies with big dicked muscle daddies, college jocks and smooth twinks.”

RATING: Somewhat Selective

VIBE: Attitude and clothes check

TIME: 8pm-12am, doors close at 10pm

CROWD: 10 - 20 guys, equal mix of dads and sons

AGES: 18-50s

DONATION: $20

SS/BB: A safer sex party.

SPACE: Duplex apt

SUPPLIES: drinks. Condom/lube.

FREQUENCY: a weekly event

LIGHTING: dark enough

GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: sondad@ymail.com or check out http://dadsonparty.com.

Thursday…

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Midtown East). Lunch-time party for business men to hook up weekday afternoons.

RATING: Somewhat selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME: 12am-3pm.

CROWD: 20-30 guys

AGE: 18-60s

SS/BB: safe sex & BB

SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms

SUPPLIES: condom/lube

LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs

GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is FUSION. The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, heigh/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand & pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn’t for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape. 

PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.

RATING: Not Selective

VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.

DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.

TIME: 8PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)

CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.

DONATION: $20

SS/BB:  BB

SPACE: Private Apartment, Sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  

SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, ENEMAS, clothes check. 

FREQUENCY:  weekly

LIGHTING: good

GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

GOTHAM BEARS (Midtown East).  From the host: “This is an all inclusive party for all BIG men of different shapes and sizes and races and their admirers!”

RATING: Not selective

VIBE: no attitude

TIME:  8pm-11pm

CROWD: 20-30 guys

AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
DONATION: $20

SS/BB:  safe sex & BB

SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms

SUPPLIES: condom/lube

FREQUENCY:  weekly, Thursdays

LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark

GETTING IN: GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). THIS IS AN ALL NUDE PARTY NO EXCEPTION AND NO NEGOTIATION ABOUT IT AT ALL STRIP AT DOOR. FOR FIT MEN IN SHAPE ONLY, NO ONE WAIST OVER 36 WILL NOT GET IN.

RATING: SELECTIVE

VIBE: no attitude.

TIME:  THUR. 11:30PM-5AM  

CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s

DONATION: $5 BEFORE 1AM $10 AFTEER ALL NIGHT

SS/BB: A safe sex party.

SPACE: private apt

SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.

FREQUENCY:  Sun, Tues, Thurs

LIGHTING: GOOD,

GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  After work Thursdays: Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.

RATING: Not Selective

TIME: Thursday (5:30pm-3am)

DONAION: Only $13 

VIBE: laid back

CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).

AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs

SS/BB: safe sex with some BB

SPACE: Big Loft playground (6,000 sq ft) with different theme rooms , many private booths , darkroom , porn etc .

SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube

FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday

LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark

GETTING IN: Send pics and stats (don't mention this site): rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Chelsea). The host runs a number of different parties that vary from hot guys to average men, so be sure to check which party you want. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out.

RATING: Selective to somewhat selective, depending on the party

VIBE: no attitude

TIME:  9pm - 1am;

CROWD: varies depending on party

AGE: varies depending on the party

DONATION: $20, plus $1 minimum tip for clothes check helpers

SS/BB:  safe sex and BB

SPACE: Paddles

SUPPLIES: condom/lube

FREQUENCY:  A few parties every week

LIGHTING: varies depending on the party

GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

See you all there men.