There are many parties in the city that I avoid, or have never tried for one reason or another, so I rely on friends to test them out. One of my blog readers decided to give ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY a shot last week. I've never tried this out, even though it's close to my apartment because the host (who seems like really nice dudes) don't seem very discriminating. Also, I'm slightly obsessed with SAFE SEX parties -- and theirs didn't seem like one that had SAFE SEX as a priority. Well, guys, here's my friend's review...
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***ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan)REVIEW***
Hi - have read your blog - just thought i'd pass along that I attended the Ed and Steve interracial group this past Saturday and it was DISTURBING and DISGUSTING.
First of all, it's pretty smoke filled as they allow smoking; secondly, they advertise the age range of 35-45 - but saw only about 3 of us who fit into that age range - most were AT LEAST 10 years older; MOST disturbing - it just felt dirty and very seedy and there were NUMEROUS people who were visibly unhealthy and, although condoms and lube were provided, most were practicing unsafe sex and by their physical look, made that a practice.
Needless to say - I did nothing and left - and was not given my money back. Just thought you'd want to know to NOT encourage this party. Read of your distaste for the Harlem party - think this one was probably far worse! --Dan
BOTTOM LINE: It was not AT ALL what I was expecting - and was very jarring and disturbing.
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So guys -- WOW -- well, I'm glad I've never been to this one -- I would have left too. As regular readers of this blog know I'm only interested in promoting SAFE-SEX parties, and I try to warn guys which parties are NOT safe. If guys want to go to parties that are exclusively BB -- that's their business (and there are plenty of BB parties), but it drives me crazy to see BB at general parties. Have fun guys, BUT PLAY SAFE!
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So if all this sounds hot to you, here's the info (but you won't see me there)...
ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. 8pm to 2am.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.
This party needs to die. There is absolutely no hot vibe here at all. If you are fortunate enough to find somebody who sucks your dick well (or does anything else well), you can be sure that somebody over 80 will intervene and spoil the fun. I don't particularly mind the over-80 crowd; by why do they have to be so fucking rude, rutting into a hot scene like a pig in a patch of truffles? There is also a large quotienT of hard-Tweaking Tina-freaks: how can I spell sexually selfish and boring with a T; noT exacTly easy, buT I will Try.
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