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Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Out-of-Tower's "group" Group Sex Party Review

Hey guys -- I haven't been personally reviewing much lately as my reviews wouldn’t have varied much: the last Private Party was hot as always (don't miss the party next week!); the last few The Hot Jock Party parties were great as always (don't miss the one this Thursday) -- including their new space in the East Village (very hot crowd); and I'm looking forward to the "new" Olympus party (if he ever gets to me for my "interview"). BUT I always appreciate guest reviews from blog readers, especially multiple reviews like the one below from an out-of-tower. He covers a lot of ground here, guys, so hold on and pay attention. I don't think I disagree with anything he says...

"Thanks for running the blog, and don't worry about the negative comments some guys give you. I am a 30 year old, athletic (4x week with trainer) tall bubble butt guy who was in NYC around Labor Day. I read your blog and visited as many parties as possible, and I thought your descriptions were pretty much dead-on accurate.

The HotJock party was the most fun. It had friendly and cute doormen/bartenders. There was one porn actor (who just stood around) and another hot guy who I was pretty sure was a former porn actor there. Some guys got into the fucking, while others just stood around looking for the next best thing. Good party.

MilkChocolate party during the week was pretty good, for a weeknight. There were about 20 guys, including the friendly and good looking staff. The only problem - not much fucking.

I tried going to the HotDiesel party but that was cancelled.

JackofColors was sad. I found the one good looking guy and tried to get some action in a corner, but some nasty old guy was watching - leading the hot guy to lose his hardon. I told the old guy to go away but he refused.

Thug4thugs in Brooklyn was okay, but I learned when I got there at 1am that I was much too early. There were about 6 black guys, most with decent bodies, but no action. The host said it was too early.

WestSideClub was only good during a weekday when tourist were there. Otherwise, it was pretty sad.

Keep up the good work."

Hope this was helpful. If you have anything to add, let me know. Have fun guys and play safe!

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Group Sex Parties -- September 27 to October 4...

Sex Parties -- Monday, September 27 to Sunday, October 4...

***PICKS OF THE WEEK: Thurs: THE HOT JOCK PARTY; Frid: NYJOCK; Sat: THE MEATPACKERS

Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) Doors, 7:00 - Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9:3opm. In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for
hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

Tuesday…
MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). 6:30pm - 11:30pm. "After Work Party". According to the host, they screen to invite hot, athletic/fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/
NOTE: THIS IS THE LAST PARTY in the GRAMERCY DUPLEX -- next week's party will be at a hotel.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is PEAK party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Paddles."
http://www.nyjacks.com

Wednesday…
GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Held at Paddles. Every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). The host had made a huge effort to get hotter guys, and I hear that the crowd is much better than earlier this year -- much hotter guys -- check it out. For a mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com

HARLEM FREAK PARTY (Harlem) Weekly Wednesday Night Harlem Discreet Freak Party. Its gets better every week..with hotter guys!! Drinks/Condom/Lube provided. 2 rooms available for all nite fucking!! 12am-6am. email/text for more info!! iamthestylist@sprint.blackberry.net

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

Thursday…
THE HOT JOCK PARTY (East Village) 7-11pm. Held in a studio space or hotel suite -- has guys in mostly 20s -30s-hot 40YOs. It's above average to hot muscle guys, and twinks. Not a lot of attitude. Usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month, 7pm-11. For a racially mixed younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 6PM-MIDNIGHT. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Midtown). Gramercy Duplex is no more -- this one is at a hotel. 6:30pm - 11:30pm. "After Work Party". According to the host, they screen to invite hot, athletic/fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

Friday…
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) "Go Naked Party" 9pm-3am. Door closes at 3. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. 11pm-5am. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (UES). New space on the UES -- no info on the new party, which the hosts claims will be very selective, and that a personal interview is now required. Every Friday: 9pm-4am. Also, the host tells me that the waiting lists is backed up to November, so no matter how hot you are DON'T EXPECT TO GET IN THIS FIRDAY: you'll have to wait!
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). This party is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna (OFTEN not working) and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. $25. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) 8pm-2am. Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

Saturday…
THE MEATPACKERS/PITSSTOP PARTY(Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. I haven’t been to this is years, but was hot and a little scary, which made it hotter. Held the 1st Saturday of each month (call the number for info--you'll get an answering machine). For a mixed age crowd/average to hot guys
Must call: 212-677-3599

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). UNCUT / MAGNUM PARTY. 11pm - 4am. According to the host, they screen to invite hot, athletic/fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party. 9pm - 1am.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, 9pm-am (doors close at 10:30pm). Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. Now only accepting new guys who are under 35 years of age (exceptions made). For a mixed age/average to hot crowd.
Email pics + stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com.

UPTOWN’S FINEST UNDERWEAR PARTY (Harlem). Held in an apartment – in total darkness this week – plus a garden to fuck outside. FOR Invite EMAIL: KAIZEN729@GMAIL.COM

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ASSTORIA BY NIGHT GANG FUCK PARTY (Astoria, Queens). Description by host: party filled with hot naked bi, gay, straight, married voyeurs and exhibitionists. The last party had muscled hairy greek & turks jocks, DL black boys, smooth pumped-up Brazilians, Latino studs, Italian dudes, Asian twinks, and rugged masculine middle eastern arabs eager to relieve their stress in a Dim orgy setting private luxury apt. Age 21 – 45 ONLY slim, athletic, muscle (All races welcomed). 11pm – 3am, STRICT door policy will be enforced, everyone WILL be screened with no exceptions. Must strip down naked at door. Alcohol & Soda refreshments provided. This is drug free & SAFE sex party Condoms & Lube provided.
TO GET IN SEND PICS AND STATS TO: asstorianparty@gmail.com

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

Sunday…
HOT PARTIES 2006 (Midtown West). Party is held in a private apartment. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Door Time: 7PM to 12AM; The party will continue up until 2AM or 3AM
*Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am; The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is SIR party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Chelsea Space."
http://www.nyjacks.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

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HERE ALL THE PARTIES – LISTED BY CATEGORY/BURROUGH – INCLUDING PARTIES TO CHECK OUT THAT ARE NOT HAPPENING THIS WEEK…


Manhattan

THE BEST (The Top Parties -- for Hot Guys)

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt held once a month, 8pm-12am.. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45) -- 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason
this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.) $25 donation.
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.
NEXT PARTY IS OCTOBER 6 at 8pm.

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-4am. Door closes at 3. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. 11pm-5am. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East) 7-11pm. Held in a studio space or hotel suite -- has guys in mostly 20s -30s-hot 40YOs. It's above average to hot muscle guys, and twinks. Not a lot of attitude. Usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month, 7pm-11. For a racially mixed younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

AM: An All New After Hours Party (Midtown). AM is a private, selective, and hot party only for good looking in shape guys. Get about 80 guys. This is a SAFE & DRUG FREE PARTY. Party takes place after you've been everywhere else on Sunday night: Starts after midnight and goes until early Monday morning, Condoms, lube, water, Gatorade and more is provided. Same dude runs this who runs NYJP (and has a similar crowd to NYJP--when it was in Manhattan).
For invite, email James: aminnyc1@yahoo.com

UPPER WEST SIDE UNDERWEAR PARTY (UWS) Haven't been yet, but sounds very hot. Doors open 10:30 to 12:30am (The party goes untill its dead). There is no cover. Free liquor provided. This is a private apartment in a doorman building so discretion is a must. This is a private party so only the people who have been approved are invited. This is a fun atmosphere to chill hang out and play with hot guys. No obligation to participate if you don't want to. Will have porn and lube and condoms as well. For a young/hot crowd. To get in send pics and stats to underwearpartyuws@gmail.com.

PUMPNYC (Midtown). New party from the guy who brought you NYJOCK PARTY. Very select: There will be no more than 50 guys allowed into the party and you will only have three hours to enter. PUMPNYC is about quality not quantity. 9pm-2am; Door will close at midnight (You not be allowed in after so get there by then); Includes: Bar. Snacks. Supplies.
VERY HOT GUYS ONLY send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com.

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AVERAGE GUYS (Mixed and spotty crowd -– Sometimes Very Hot, Sometimes NOT)....

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn room, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (UES). New space on the UES -- no info on the new party, which the hosts claims will be very selective, and that a personal interview is now required. Every Friday: 9pm-4am. Also, the host tells me that the waiting lists is backed up to November, so no matter how hot you are, you'll have to wait!
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy & Park Slope). The Manhattan party is held at the Gramercy Duplex, Brooklyn party held in Park Slope. According to the host, they screen to invite hot, athletic/fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party. 9pm - 1am.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (UES). Lunch-time party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men to hook up weekday afternoons, 11am-4pm.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

CUMMONKEY/GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Held at Paddles. Every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). For a mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s)
In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from
hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

ANOTHER SEX PARTY 70s PORN (West Harlem). I've not been to this one, but was told it's "the hottest I have ever attended." Seems to be held once or twice a year -- never get advance warning. It's odd because it is a mix of straight men who like the porn and don't even look at the other guys much and gay men who do nothing but look at the other guys, and only glance at the porn. About 12 men each party. Preference is given to hairy men; from really handsome to normal but no fat or very old men. Social yes, wine is served as is lube.
FOR INVITE: Send a face and full description to playevents@gmail.com

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

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OPEN DOOR POLICY (NOT SELECTIVE: let anybody in, some hot guys and then anybody else who wants to go)...

THE PLAYGROUND (Garment District). Private M4M sex party, 11:30pm-4:30am. "Featuring 4 freak areas & heavy action!!" An older crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Supplies, liquids & clothescheck provided. Never been to this one.
Send pics + stats to playgroundnyc@yahoo.com.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

HOT PARTIES 2006 (Chelsea). Party is held in “Chelsea Space” a private apartment/loft. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday and Tuesday Parties at "Chelsea Space" and "Paddles," respectively; 25 donation.
http://www.nyjacks.com

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Specialty Parties Specifically for Interracial, African-American, Latino or Asian guys…

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) 8pm-2am. Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). This party is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com

PAPI BROTHAS HOTEL SUITE PARTY (Midtown) A party for 20-40YO Black, Latin and Mixed guys ONLY held a hot hotel suite with open Bar, exotic dancers, sodas, wine, bottled water. Email pics/stats to Latinman4sexymen@aol.com or check out http://papibrothasnyc.blogspot.com/?zx=46415ca9e7e3bd93.

STICKY RICE PARTY (Gramercy) An exclusive Asian sex party in NYC for "young, hot, lean, in shape Asian guys" between 18 - 35. Everyone pitches in for cost of hotel, and brings their own condoms. Needles to say, I've never been. Saturdays.
Email for invite: sticky-rice-party-nyc@googlegroups.com

HARLEM FREAK PARTY (Harlem) Weekly Wednesday Night Harlem Discreet Freak Party. Its gets better every week..with hotter guys!! Drinks/Condom/Lube provided. 2 rooms available for all nite fucking!! 12am-6am. email/text for more info!! iamthestylist@sprint.blackberry.net

SKYBLU (Harlem ) Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.
Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/
Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com

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Specialty Parties…

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Not a sex party, but a massage party…its about touch. The hosts says. "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 14 guys, 8:15pm to 10:45pm (door closes at 8:35 pm). Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries. They've been running these for two months now.
To Get in email the host: massagecoachnyc@gmail.com
NEXT PARTY IS SEPT 27.

SPAM PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. 11pm-4am. Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. They also run the SUBMIT PARTY. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

THE BEAR HUNT ( West Harlem ). Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.
www.bearhuntnyc.com

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) Sex is no longer banned (for about 6 months now). Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger
guys in. It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night.
www.NYBondageClub.com

DARRELL’S DUNGEON (Chelsea). Leather, Military or Less. All Male, All Colors, Anything Goes…Thursdays (8PM-3AM). Held at PADDLES (w26). For more information, check out: www.darrellsdungeon.mobi. For invitation, send stats and pics to darrell@darrellsdungeon.com
*ON HIATUS

FOREVER FISTING PARTY: Open door policy, every 2nd Wednesday at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com

BANA POOL PARTY ( Manhattan ) In a club. A huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dance floor, bars. Very cool party. Lots of fun. February 12th at 11:59pm - 5AM
www.hotsteammachine.com
www.thebanapoolparty.com

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PARTIES FOR OLDER and/or OUT OF SHAPE GUYS....

GYMJOX BOXER PARTY (Times Square). Haven't been yet, but hosts insists it's strictly for lean/fit guys under 40YO. 11:30pm-4:30am; Condoms, lube & liquids provided; Mandatory secure clothes check. No shirts or tees allowed. Haven't been yet, but many many guys have told me it's for an older, out of shape crowd. To get in email stats and pics to gymjoxnyc@yahoo.com.

GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. A party for older out of shape guys.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

BISHOP (Downtown) Hotel room. I’ve never been to this party because they take anyone -- ANYONE. One guy reported the he likes it because it attracts a wide group of types, ages, ethnic groups without discrimination. A party for older out of shape guys. I hear the host is NOT cool. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs.
*Email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

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ALL MALE PARTY (Midtown West).
In apartment. I haven't been to this one in years because its way too expensive, AND IT SUCKS -- the one time I went the FAT guys were only outnumbered by the UGLY guys. 25-50 guys, weird fee structure, check out their website. TOTAL waste of your time and money. PASS ON THIS ONE. AVOID!!!
www.AllMaleParty.com or email AllMaleParty@gmail.com

RIPPED (Chelsea) I think this is a FAKE PARTY. Claims it's Held in a huge loft, book solid months in advance (already booked up until Labor Day). Hot underwear sex party for hunks and rugged masculine bodybuilder dudes, 100+ guys in great shape, all ages and races welcome, 9PM-4PM, (ALSO NEED PUMPED JOCKS AND MUSCLED STUDS TO HELP OUT-FREE ENTRY AND GET TO PLAY DURING THE NIGHT). For a young/hot crowd. You have to hit up "RippedSteel" on Adam4Adam with pics and email to get in

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Brooklyn…

COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who
are in-shape, 18-30 years old. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs. For a younger/hot crowd.
Email here ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn)
18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. Unlimited Cosmos and Beer 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

THE MEATPACKERS/PITSSTOP PARTY(Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. I haven’t been to this is years, but was hot and a little scary, which made it hotter. Held the 1st Saturday of each month (call the number for info--you'll get an answering machine). For a mixed age crowd/average to hot guys
Must call: 212-677-3599

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, held every Friday & Sat (12midnight-7am) and Sunday (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy & Park Slope). The Manhattan party is held at the Gramercy Duplex, Brooklyn party held in Park Slope. According to the host, they screen to invite hot, athletic/fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party. 9pm - 1am.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Park Slope) Sometimes has a joint party Brooklyn. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. 10pm-5am. The Manhattan party is better. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

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Queens ...

ASSTORIA BY NIGHT (Astoria, Queens). 3rd ASSTORIA BY Night Fuck party filled with hot naked bi, gay, straight, married voyeurs and exhibitionists. Our last party had Muscled hairy greek & turks jocks, DL black boys, smooth pumped-up Brazilians, Latino studs, Asian twinks, and rugged masculine middle eastern arabs eager to relieve their stress in a Dim orgy setting private luxury apt. Age 20-45 ONLY slim, athletic, muscle (All races). 10pm-4am, STRICT door policy will be enforced, everyone WILL be screened with no exceptions. Unlock pics/send email for party info. Must strip down naked at door; Alcohol & Soda refreshments provided; This is drug free & SAFE sex party Condoms & Lube provided; Last time 80 guys came thru so come early cos once space fills up doors will be closed.
TO GET IN SEND PICS AND STATS TO: asstorianparty@gmail.com

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, 9pm-am (doors close at 10:30pm). Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. Now only accepting new guys who are under 35 years of age (exceptions made). For a mixed age/average to hot crowd.
Email pics + stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; Thursday, 6PM-MIDNIGHT, or Fridays, 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

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New Jersey …

MONMOUTH COUNTY PARTY (Tinton Falls). Lunch-time sex party held at hotel; Condoms lube bottled water provided; held in Penthouse Suite with beds & showers and plenty of room to play. Get 30 to 60 guys in a 4 hour time span. For an older/average crowd. For invite: mfactor62@yahoo.com


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Thursday, September 23, 2010

Review of the "new" GRAB ASS/CUM MONKEY Party

Guys -- As you may have noticed Hunteur, the host of the GRAB ASS/CUM MONKEY PARTY (which is every Wed night at Paddles), has been more selective lately, and trying to maintain a hotter group of guys. Well, GOOD NEWS: his promotion in August to pull in hot guys seems to have worked. I haven't been to the party in a while (because, well honestly, the guys were getting less hot each time), but below is a review from one of my friends who says the party has returned to it's former hotness. So, give it a shot guys. Here's the review...


"Good news about wednesday night Grab Ass party. Either people have been complaining or the guy who runs it is tired of looking at sagging asses but it seems he is changinng the door policy. He's keeping to a ht/wt proportion and age policy and I actually saw him turn a few guys away. A few did slip by but overall the crowd was much better. It's not the exclusive crowd the hot jock party gets but overall the guys were worth getting on my knees for. You should let people know, maybe the party has a chance of becoming something. It's such a great space."

Good news all the way around! If you check it out, let me know. Here's how to find them...GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Held at Paddles. Every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Special Offer from THE OMEGA PARTY

Guys, the host of The Omega Party reached out to me today about a special offer he wanted me to make to readers of Adventures in Group Sex. Well, here you go...

"The Omega room is giving a special half price admission (Only $12, clothescheck included) to Hot guys age 21 to 35 for the month of September & October. Just come to the party (No RSVP needed) or email us at roccosly@aol.com with pics or stats. Must be hot and under 35 to get the special."

You can visit their calender website at www.TheOmegaRoom.com

Let me know if you check it out. Have fun and play safe.

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Gay (Orgy) Haiku

One of the blog readers sent me these poems from the book "Gay Haiku" by Joel Derfner. LMAO reading them. Here are a few...

Break from the orgy:
Stand nude in the kitchen and
Discuss Top Model.

Group sex would be great
If it weren't for this sad truth:
People have elbows.

"I have a boyfriend."
We've been talking three hours.
You are a bastard.

The salmon's divine,
But I'm afraid we can't stay—
I fucked our waiter.

Lots more funny ones, so check out "Gay Haiku" by Joel Derfner