"I went to the Hot Jock Party this past Sunday. The ad said that it would be a completely naked (no underwear) party. I arrived early and they had already abandoned that idea. There were some guys hanging out, talking to Aaron (the host) near the clothes check. When I went inside to the play area(s), only the downstairs was open and available; that was a bummer. The downstairs is very small, and unfortunately too close and open to the check-in/clothes check. There were maybe 6 large ottomans against the walls, not nearly enough space for anything fun to happen. When I entered there were about 12 guys hanging out, while the host and a handful of guys chatted loudly in the other room. Nothing was happening in the play area. An hour went by and about 15 more guys entered, and still no action. It was like we were next to the kitchen at a frat party. The Greek guy (no pun intended) that leases the place was also there and chatting away. There was a very weird energy in the air. I would have to say that if they close the upstairs, they might want to think about canceling the party all together. The space is just too open and I think it makes people feel uncomfortable. I left very early and unsatisfied. That isn't normal for me for that party."
He later added: "I only lasted until 7:45. Not sure how it was afterwards, but I couldn't stand waiting to see... I've never left that early before. I'm sure it picked up as long as people stayed and more came. My point really was that it usually gets going much earlier at that particular party if the guys show up. The guys did showed up, 20+ people before 7:15 is a lot of guys. The problem is that they weren't doing anything, just standing around, talking. I really believe it was a mixture of the space and the loud talking that delayed the sexual energy. Also, two other guys left when I did at 7:45. I'm not saying that I won't go again, just that Arron needs to think about how the space and his behavior effects the energy of the partiers."
Disappointing because this is always one of the hot parties. I was gonna go on Sunday, but there were a bunch of other parties that night and I decided to hit the NYJOCK PARTY & GBU party instead -- which is may explain why no one was at the HOT JOCK. But, it could be that it's too early (starts at 6pm) or too short (ends at 10pm).
ALSO GOT A REBUTTAL from another reader: "It's odd because many of the things that the other reviewed disliked about Sunday Hot Jock Party were what I viewed as its strengths. First, let's clarify the points of agreement: The space, with the blocked of spiral staircase, was a bit weird. It was also too cold, and the way the furniture was laid out was passing comprehension. I also could have used a bit more light, since I could never really tell what anyone's face looked like, and call me old fashioned, but I like to see a face before I kiss it. But the thing that I actually really liked about this party was the kitchen area, where people were congregating and hanging out a bit. The host is sweet, flirtatious and goes out of his way to make people feel comfortable. The guests that I hung out with in the kitchen all seemed very bright and social, and I appreciated that we could all just sort of hang out and chat. I guess the point of the party is not socializing, but this is what really set this party apart. It wasn't like the NYJP where a bunch of bitchy prima donnas stand around not talking and not fooling around. It wasn't like so many other parties you can't move two feet without someone trying to shove their hand up your asshole. It was funny, friendly, and sexy, but you could actually talk to people. Imagine that. You'd spend a bit of time chatting with your fellows and then you'd head into the back and get your swerve on. I met a couple people there that I would actually talk to if I saw them in public, which is basically never the case with these things. And for the record, the boys at this party were par excellance. They were just as good as the bitches that populate NYJP. Also, for the record, the sex was super hot, and I got off a couple times with absolutely beautiful men."
I still feel that the real problem to me is the space. The 1st floor of the duplex is too weird a space and doesn't have enough furniture to fuck on or even sit down. It's better when the upstairs is used too. But all that said, the party was much better when it was held in the hotel suite. The space was more contained and guys were forced to be on top of one another. Also hotel sex is always hot. Anyway -- don't give up on THE HOT JOCK PARTY, but I wish the hosts would be more careful when they all decide to have their parties on the same night.
So how was the NYjock party?
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