It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year

Tis the season to get busy – and I don’t only mean with all the shopping, but with all the great end-of-the-year parties that come in December. Some of the biggest and most popular monthly parties have already announced their holiday party dates for their last big (gang) bang of 2014. So start making your list and checking it twice, so you can head out to be naughty and nice.

Wednesday, December 3rd 

PRIVATE PARTY (Midtown West) Great social sex party with a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just standing around. Recommended.

THE HOST SAYS: “PRIVATE PARTY is an exclusive monthly, all-nude, safe-sex and social event for well-built, well-groomed, handsome, professional men and students 18- 45. PRIVATE PARTY events are safe, discreet, friendly, completely drug-free and open only to our members. In order to maintain our standards all potential members are screened by phone prior to a brief confirmatory in-person interview. Members of this large organized group are in fine physical and mental shape ,work-out/exercise on a regular basis in addition to being confident, interesting and accomplished. This is a highly screened group who practice safe-sex and enjoy mixing and meeting in a drug-free, friendly, all-nude, social and sexual environment."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS

DOOR POLICY: Very Selective

VIBE: Social and Friendly

SS/BB: A safe-sex party

DONATION: $25 and $1 clothes check

SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms and lube, towels and shower amenities

TIME: 8:00-11:30

FREQUENCY: Monthly, usually on a Wednesday 

CROWD: 80 to 100+ guys, mostly white collar professionals and students

AGE: 18-45 (no one over 45, average age is 25-35)

SPACE: Safe, clean private loft apartment

LIGHTING: Atmospheric lighting with full visibility while appropriate for the mood.

A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into well-build, well-groomed white-collar professionals and students, guys into safe-sex, guys into younger “twink” types, guys tired of the bar scene, first-timers.

NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into leather or other various fetishes. Guys into heavily-inked guys, guys into men with facial or body hair, guys into masculine beefy types. Guys who like to PnP.

GETTING IN: E-mail PRIVATE.PARTY@MSN.COM for complete info.

Friday, December 12th

THRUST HOLIDAY PARTY (Washington Heights) THRUST has really found it's groove lately and has become the wild party with the club vibe the hosts were aiming for. It's an apartment sex party that actually feels like a party with a high-energy atmosphere, sexually-charged social intermingling, dark-and-dirty house music, and a foggy backroom for hot and intimate encounters. Recently the hosts have made the party exclusively for members of their Men's Den safe-sex club, so you'll have to become a member of the Den in order to attend future THRUST parties. They've also made the club more selective, so you'll need to be physically fit in order to be considered. 

RATING: Selective

VIBE: Energetic, friendly and social with no attitude

TIME: 8pm to Midnight. Doors close at 11pm.

CROWD: Around 40 fit guys of different ethnicities with slim/average to muscular builds. 

AGES: 21 to 40s

DONATION: $10 before 9pm, $20 after

SS/BB: A Safe-sex only party

SPACE: Private Apartment

SUPPLIES: Condoms (including Magnums), lube, snacks, beverages

FREQUENCY: Once a month on a Friday

LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: You need to be a Men's Den member in order to attend. You can find out more and apply for the club at assactionnyc.com

Friday, December 19th

NYJP XXXMAS PARTY (Midtown) New York Jock Party is one of the largest parties in NYC and also widely considered one of the best for those looking for jocks with toned and muscled physiques. The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. It can also at times be filled with attitude, but that seems to come with the territory. This is not a party for the modest or shy as you are required to check everything including your underwear, and you will be given a small towel to cover up. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS

RATING: Very Selective

VIBE: Some attitude.

TIME: 10pm-5am

CROWD: 50-70 young, hot men

AGES: Mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s

DONATION: $20 under age 30, $28 age 30 and over

SS/BB: A safe sex party

SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower

SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube.

FREQUENCY:  2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes Thursdays

LIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot men

GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to thenyjp@gmail.com

Sunday, December 21st

GBU NAKED KEGGER X-MAS PARTY (Park Slope, Brooklyn) 
THE HOSTS SAY: "Join over 200 hot in shape younger guys at our huge Party  at the "GBU Frat House" in Brooklyn. There is a watersports element to this party but you don't have to be into watersports to have fun at this party. The watersports area is contained and can be easily avoided if it's not your thing. There's a DJ, an open bar, many rooms / slings and a maze that makes this location the ultimate play space. We strongly recommend condom use, especially in a environment where you don't know status of the guys you are having sex with. Having condomless sex is at your own risk. If you engage in condomless sex, it is assumed that you are either are on PrEP/ Truvada or undetectable. We urge everyone to wear condoms, and it is mandatory if your partner asks you to. Inshape guys 18-30ish only.   You do NOT need a six pack to get in ... but you can't be over-weight or above early 30's.   Skinny guys are always a plus. " 

VERIFIED SPECIFICS

DOOR POLICY: Selective

VIBE: Very chill 

TIME: 10pm-5am

CROWD: Over 200 guys - mixed races but predominantly white

AGES: 18-30ish years old. Average age is 23

DONATION: $20 before 11pm, $25 after 11pm. (Under 21 $10 all night with valid ID). Additional $3 for clothes check.

SS/BB: Mostly safe sex, some BB

SPACE: Huge underground basement space. (Have regular rooms and wet rooms).

SUPPLIES:  Condom/lube, open bar, gatorade, water, shower, towels, snacks.

FREQUENCY: Held every other month on the second Saturday

LIGHTING: Sexy mood lighting. Some rooms dimmer than others.

GETTING IN: Email ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Younger guys who want to party with guys of their own age. No attitude chill crowd. You can come explore and participate or just watch and meet or talk to people. Very social towards the front, very sexual in the rooms towards the back.  
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys looking for older daddy or bear types.

GETTING IN: Send your email with your age and clear face / body pics to ChrisHawke@gmail.com

See you there men!