PRIVATE PARTY , since 1996, is an exclusive monthly, ALL NUDE, SAFE-SEX and SOCIAL event for well-built, well-groomed, handsome, professional men and students 18- 45.

We are the last and ONLY large scale exclusively SAFE-SEX party in NYC.

PRIVATE PARTY events are safe, discreet, friendly, completely DRUG-FREE and open only to our members.

 

In order to maintain our standards all potential members are SCREENED BY PHONE at your convenience anytime before a party date (my best timing is above).....  And ,then  a brief confirmatory IN-PERSON INTERVIEW on the evening of your  first party.
Members of this large organized group are in fine physical and mental shape ---confident, interesting and accomplished or headed in that direction . This is a highly screened group who practice SAFE-SEX and enjoy mixing and meeting in a drug-free, friendly ,all-nude, social and sexual environment.

If you meet the above basic criteria and would like to hear all the details. Please contact me atPRIVATE.PARTY@MSN.COM--  

I look forward to speaking with you and welcoming you to a PRIVATE PARTY event in the near future...

 

Cheers! Richard

 

My dates going forward in 2019 are...

WEDNESDAY, JULY 24

WEDNESDAY, AUG. 21

WEDNESDAY, SEPT. 11

WEDNESDAY, OCT.2, 

WEDNESDAY, OCT.24,

WEDNESDAY, NOV.13, 

WEDNESDAY, DEC.4

...and 2020...

WEDNESDAY, JAN.8

WEDNESDAY, JAN.29

WEDNESDAY, MAR, 11

WEDNESDAY, APR.1

WEDNESDAY, APR.22

WEDNESDAY, 5/13

WEDNESDAY, 6/4 

WEDNESDAY, 6/25

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PRIVATE PARTY 2018 AND 2019 DATES are HERE!

PRIVATE PARTY 2018 AND 2019 DATES are HERE!

PRIVATE PARTY is the best huge party for a hot fuck from a muscle guy, jock or a twink – and my personal favorite group sex party.  The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Nothing crazy here, just hot guy on guy action w/no attitude.


HOT GUYS ONLY -- amazing mix of Hispanic, White, African-American and Asian guys, mostly 20-30YOs, and few v. hot 40YOs.


Let me set the scene: Hot Guys. Sucking. Fucking. And plenty of play. No Drugs. Safe Sex. The party begins at 8pm.  Everyone gets naked (no underwear: which really encourages play).  Guys grab a drink, and gets to know each other better.  This is a very social party. Most guys are very friendly, and pretty quickly one guy starts to suck another's dick, and like an avalanche the whole room explodes into a safe-sex orgy of sucking, kissing, and fucking.  And soon guy on guy on guy on guy action.  If you like muscle guys or twinks, rugged guys or beautiful boys, they are all here. Held in a beautiful private loft apt, the host provides condoms and lube; and shower/towels.


STRICT DOOR POLICY: Pre-interview by phone required to get in; no exceptions. Need to apply early; unlikely to get in if you contact the host late on the day of party. DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! It's easy: In order to maintain standards all potential members are screened BY PHONE prior to the party, and there is a 2-minute in-person interview @7:30 just before the party.  I know it sounds annoying, but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd.  There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.


See you soon.

The PRIVATE PARTY 2018/2019 Events Calendar:

 

2018

WEDNESDAY, July 18

WEDNESDAY, Aug. 15

WEDNESDAY, Sept. 12

WEDNESDAY, Oct. 3

WEDNESDAY, Oct.24

WEDNESDAY, Nov.14

WEDNESDAY, Dec.5

 

2019

WEDNESDAY, Jan. 9

WEDNESDAY, Feb.20, 

WEDNESDAY, Mar. 13

WEDNESDAY, Apr. 3

WEDNESDAY, Apr. 24

WEDNESDAY, May 15

WEDNESDAY, June 5

WEDNESDAY, June 26  ***Gay Pride 2019***

Please INTRODUCE YOUR FRIENDS to join you--helping to keep a new and interesting mix of hot guys.





For INFO on how to get in send an email to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

...and see the listing and all the other parties on WWW.GROUPSEXINTHECITY.COM

PRIVATE PARTY WiNTER/SPRING DATES are HERE!

PRIVATE PARTY is the best huge party for a hot fuck from a muscle guy, jock or a twink – and my personal favorite group sex party.  The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Nothing crazy here, just hot guy on guy action w/no attitude.

HOT GUYS ONLY -- amazing mix of Hispanic, White, African-American and Asian guys, mostly 20-30YOs, and few v. hot 40YOs.

Let me set the scene: Hot Guys. Sucking. Fucking. And plenty of play. No Drugs. Safe Sex. The party begins at 8pm.  Everyone gets naked (no underwear: which really encourages play).  Guys grab a drink, and gets to know each other better.  This is a very social party. Most guys are very friendly, and pretty quickly one guy starts to suck another's dick, and like an avalanche the whole room explodes into a safe-sex orgy of sucking, kissing, and fucking.  And soon guy on guy on guy on guy action.  If you like muscle guys or twinks, rugged guys or beautiful boys, they are all here. Held in a beautiful private loft apt, the host provides condoms and lube; and shower/towels.

STRICT DOOR POLICY: Pre-interview by phone required to get in; no exceptions. Need to apply early; unlikely to get in if you contact the host late on the day of party. DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! It's easy: In order to maintain standards all potential members are screened BY PHONE prior to the party, and there is a 2-minute in-person interview @7:30 just before the party.  I know it sounds annoying, but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd.  There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.

See you soon.

They will host be three huge WINTER and five huge SPRING 2018 PARTIES this year -- don't even miss one:

Winter Parties (8pm to 11pm)

SUNDAY,JAN.7
WEDNESDAY., FEB.14
WEDNESDAY. MARCH, 7

Spring Parties (8pm to 11pm)

WEDNESDAY. MARCH 28
WEDNESDAY. APRIL 18
WEDNESDAY. MAY 9
WEDNESDAY. JUNE 6
WEDNESDAY. JUNE 20...



Please INTRODUCE YOUR FRIENDS to join you--helping to keep a new and interesting mix of hot guys.


For INFO on how to get in send an email to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

...and see the listing and all the other parties on WWW.GROUPSEXINTHECITY.COM

PRIVATE PARTY SUMMER/FALL DATES are HERE!

PRIVATE PARTY is the best huge party for a hot fuck from a muscle guy, jock or a twink – and my personal favorite group sex party.  The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Nothing crazy here, just hot guy on guy action w/no attitude.

HOT GUYS ONLY -- amazing mix of Hispanic, White, African-American and Asian guys, mostly 20-30YOs, and few v. hot 40YOs.

Let me set the scene: Hot Guys. Sucking. Fucking. And plenty of play. No Drugs. Safe Sex. The party begins at 8pm.  Everyone gets naked (no underwear: which really encourages play).  Guys grab a drink, and gets to know each other better.  This is a very social party. Most guys are very friendly, and pretty quickly one guy starts to suck another's dick, and like an avalanche the whole room explodes into a safe-sex orgy of sucking, kissing, and fucking.  And soon guy on guy on guy on guy action.  If you like muscle guys or twinks, rugged guys or beautiful boys, they are all here. Held in a beautiful private loft apt, the host provides condoms and lube; and shower/towels.

STRICT DOOR POLICY: Pre-interview by phone required to get in; no exceptions. Need to apply early; unlikely to get in if you contact the host late on the day of party. DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! It's easy: In order to maintain standards all potential members are screened BY PHONE prior to the party, and there is a 2-minute in-person interview @7:30 just before the party.  I know it sounds annoying, but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd.  There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.

See you soon.

They will host be two huge SUMMER and five huge FALL 2017 PARTIES this year -- don't even miss one:

Summer Parties (8:30pm to 11pm)

*Wednesday, July 26
* Wednesday, August 16

Fall Parties (8pm to 11pm)

*Wednesday September 13
* Wednesday, October 4
* Wednesday, October 25
* Wednesday, November 15
* Wednesday, December 6



Please INTRODUCE YOUR FRIENDS to join you--helping to keep a new and interesting mix of hot guys.


For INFO on how to get in send an email to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

...and see the listing and all the other parties on WWW.GROUPSEXINTHECITY.COM

PRIVATE PARTY SPRING DATES are HERE!

PRIVATE PARTY is the best huge party for a hot fuck from a muscle guy, jock or a twink – and my personal favorite group sex party.  The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Nothing crazy here, just hot guy on guy action w/no attitude.

HOT GUYS ONLY -- amazing mix of Hispanic, White, African-American and Asian guys, mostly 20-30YOs, and few v. hot 40YOs. Usually 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+).

Let me set the scene: Hot Guys. Sucking. Fucking. And plenty of play. No Drugs. Safe Sex. The party begins at 8pm.  Everyone gets naked (no underwear: which really encourages play).  Guys grab a drink, and gets to know each other better.  This is a very social party, and for the first ten minutes you scope out the room and meet and talk to the guys you want to fuck. Most guys are very friendly, and pretty quickly one guy starts to suck another's dick, and like an avalanche the whole room explodes into a safe-sex orgy of sucking, kissing, and fucking.  And soon guy on guy on guy on guy action.  If you like muscle guys or twinks, rugged guys or beautiful boys, they are all here. Held in a beautiful private loft apt, the host provides condoms and lube; and shower/towels.

STRICT DOOR POLICY: Pre-interview by phone required to get in; no exceptions. Need to apply early; unlikely to get in if you contact the host late on the day of party. DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! It's easy: In order to maintain standards all potential members are screened BY PHONE prior to the party, and there is a 2-minute in-person interview @7:30 just before the party.  I know it sounds annoying, but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd.  There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.

See you soon.

They will host be six huge SPRING 2017 PARTIES this year -- don't even miss one:


* Wednesday, March 8 (100+ guys came!)

* Wednesday, March 29

* Sunday, April 19

* Wednesday, May 10

* Wednesday, May 24

* Wednesday, June 7

* Wednesday, June 21 (GAY PRIDE PARTY!)


***ALL: 8pm to 11pm





Please INTRODUCE YOUR FRIENDS to join you--helping to keep a new and interesting mix of hot guys.


For INFO on how to get in send an email to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

...and see the listing and all the other parties on WWW.GROUPSEXINTHECITY.COM

Private Party -- Winter 2017 party schedule!!!

PRIVATE PARTY is the best huge party for a hot fuck from a muscle guy, jock or a twink – and my personal favorite group sex party.  The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Nothing crazy here, just hot guy on guy action w/no attitude. 

HOT GUYS ONLY -- amazing mix of Hispanic, White, African-American and Asian guys, mostly 20-30YOs, and few v. hot 40YOs. Usually 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). 

Let me set the scene: Hot Guys. Sucking. Fucking. And plenty of play. No Drugs. Safe Sex. The party begins at 8pm.  Everyone gets naked (no underwear: which really encourages play).  Guys grab a drink, and gets to know each other better.  This is a very social party, and for the first ten minutes you scope out the room and meet and talk to the guys you want to fuck. Most guys are very friendly, and pretty quickly one guy starts to suck another's dick, and like an avalanche the whole room explodes into a safe-sex orgy of sucking, kissing, and fucking.  And soon guy on guy on guy on guy action.  If you like muscle guys or twinks, rugged guys or beautiful boys, they are all here. Held in a beautiful private loft apt, the host provides condoms and lube; and shower/towels. 

STRICT DOOR POLICY: Pre-interview by phone required to get in; no exceptions. Need to apply early; unlikely to get in if you contact the host late on the day of party. DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! It's easy: In order to maintain standards all potential members are screened BY PHONE prior to the party, and there is a 2-minute in-person interview @7:30 just before the party.  I know it sounds annoying, but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd.  There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex. 

See you soon. 

They will host be six huge WINTER 2017 PARTIES this year -- don't even miss one:

* Wednesday, December 7 (98 guys came!)

* Wednesday, January 11

* Sunday, January 29

* Wednesday, March 8

* Wednesday, March 29

* Wednesday, April 19


***ALL: 8pm to 11pm

Please INTRODUCE YOUR FRIENDS to join you--helping to keep a new and interesting mix of hot guys.


For INFO on how to get in send an email to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.













...and see the listing and all the other parties on WWW.GROUPSEXINTHECITY.COM

PRIVATE PARTY -- Not to Be Missed Fall parties

People always want to know where I go to get fucked.  The best party for a hot fuck from a muscle guy, jock or even a twink -- and my personal favorite group sex party -- PRIVATE PARTY.  Hot guys only -- great mix.  

They will host be five huge FALL PARTIES this year -- don't even miss one:

* Wednesday, September 14 

* Wednesday, October 5

* Wednesday, October 26

* Wednesday, November 16

* Wednesday, December 7

***ALL: 8pm to 11pm

Please INTRODUCE YOUR FRIENDS to join you--helping to keep a new and interesting mix of hot guys.

For INFO on how to get in send an email to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

...and see the listing and all the other parties on WWW.GROUPSEXINTHECITY.COM

PRIVATE PARTY'S three SUMMER PARTIES

My personal favorite group sex party -- PRIVATE PARTY will host be three more SUMMER PARTIES this year:

* WED.JUNE 22
* WED.JULY 27 
* TUESDAY AUG.16.

Please INTRODUCE YOUR FRIENDS to join you--helping to keep a new and interesting mix of hot guys.

For INFO on how to get in send an email to:PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.


...and see the listing and all the other parties on WWW.GROUPSEXINTHECITY.COM

Don't miss PRIVATE PARTY on Wednesday: March 2.

Hey guys -- I'm helping my friend get more hot guys for his monthly sex party (the next one is this WEDNESDAY, March 2, 8pm-11:30). For INFO on how to get in send an email ASAP to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) is a great social sex party in large private loft apt held once a month, 8:30pm-12am.. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45) -- 100+ guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels.

Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). I know it sounds annoying,but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.)

This is the longest-running party in the city, and bizarre enough gets better and better.  The guys get hotter with ever party. Don't miss it.  See you there!

--Evan

I'm Back! --Evan McCarthy

Hey guys,

I am the guy who started this blog back in 2009 to keep everyone informed of the good, the bad and the ugly sex parties in New York for gay men.  After a lot of craziness (and death threats), I needed a break, and a bunch of guys took over the site for me -- the last being Adrian.  I thank them all for keeping the page going -- especially Adrian.  Now, Adrian has his own blog (www.groupsexinthecity.com), so I am back to keep this alive. I hope you have enjoyed the page so far (more than 4 million pageviews can't be wrong), and hope you will continue to follow it.

But be assured that page will no longer be a weekly list of sex parties -- Adrian's Group Sex in the City handles that.  Also, I don't really go to sex parties like I used to. I am happy to post your reviews and emails, but except for Private Party, I have been AWOL from the sex party world.

What will page be?  No idea yet.  Well see. But definitely some good sex talk. I can be reached at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com.  Hit me up!

--Evan McCarthy

And the Award for Craziest Email of the Week Goes to...

As you all can imagine, I get a lot of email invitations in my inbox weekly from many different hosts and sources, so after a while, I find my eyes glossing over as I look through my inbox. But every once in a while something fresh and original comes along to awake me from by zombified stupor. Like the one I ran across today from the masters of sexually-charged massages and massage parties at MMX.

Here are some of the image highlights from the email...

You can find the full newsletter here:

Horror NightZZ Spa Grand Opening

Happy Halloween.

Return of The Club House Parties

"Aaaand We're Back"  So reads the title of the latest blog post by The Orgy Guy. As I mentioned a few weeks ago the host of the The Chelsea Club House Parties posted that he would no longer be hosting parties in that space. But luckly for fans of his PEAK and the ERUPTION BAREBACK parties, he found a new space in no time and the parties are back on starting this Sunday, September 13th. 

I'm assuming the host of the JACKS OF COLOR parties who also hosted parties in the Chelsea Club House will be announcing some additional future dates in the new space as well, so keep an eye out for that as well as all the other upcoming parties at groupsexinthecity.com

Cleanliness is Next to Godliness

 

I’ll keep this short, as I find it rather disheartening that these points even need to be mentioned at all. But unfortunately I am reminded often at parties that they do.  

To my fellow bottoms: 

If there is even the slightest chance that you may be bottoming at a party...

CLEAN YOURSELF OUT WELL BEFORE YOU ARRIVE! 

...unless you are going to a scat party.

To my fellow tops:

If you MUST fuck a gent bareback...

CLEAN OFF YOUR COCK WITH A GOOD AMOUNT OF SOAP AND WARM/HOT WATER BEFORE YOU LET ANYONE ELSE GO DOWN ON YOU! 

...unless you are at a scat party.

To everyone:

If you smell of day-old funk...

TAKE A DAMN SHOWER BEFORE YOU ARRIVE!  

...unless you are at a party for men who are into man-scents that resemble cheese left out in the sun. 

 And finally…

USE THE MOUTHWASH!

Most of the hosts provide mouthwash in the lavatories. Or if you have an aversion to mouthwash, breathmints can also work nicely. 

That is all.