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Wednesday, January 27, 2010
NYC Group Sex Parties the Week of 1/31 - 2/6
Best Party of the Week -- 2/3/10
Next Wednesday night is the monthly "New York by Night" party -- one of few parties in Manhattan that always pulls in HOT guys. It's one of the best. As I said, it's a monthly party -- so everyone is horned up. Check out this review in Next magazine....
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Next Magazine
The Life of the Party Photographer Joe Oppedisano takes fetish fashion below the bible's belt
Always wanted to try a sex party? From the kinky to the vanilla, find one that's right for you...
"New York By Night Where: Garment District
When: Once a month, usually the first Tuesday or Sunday of the month starting at 8:30pm Number of Guys: About 60 While the vetting process for an invitation: a telephone and pre-party, in-person interview with host Richard may seem like a bit much, it really helps add to the social and inclusive atmosphere of the party. Held in a large loft apartment and attended mostly by handsome men over thirty and a few hot young bucks, the party invokes a sense of camaraderie that is rare at these sorts of soires. People socialize before and after the action (and during) and the play tends to include a number of people rather than pairs heading off into their separate corners.
This makes New York By Night the closest thing there is to an actual orgy, but you wouldn’t think that giving the civilized vibe of the affair."
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*Send pics & Stats to: RBN33@MSN.com.
Monday, January 25, 2010
Group Sex Parties This Week (1-25 to 1/30)
Monday…
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. The party is back on: sometimes 3 nights next week. http://www.jacksofcolor.com/
MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from incredibly hot guys to very average dudes. The host is a big guy, can be too much for some. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20- mostly 30- some 40 YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Monday. Free. *Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com
Wednesday...
DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Financial District). Held in a clean studio apartment in a doorman building near Rector Subway stop). Motto: Sex Party for All Men - No Attitude, Friendly Environment; CLAIMS: Hot guys ages 20's - 40's+; Doors open 7:30pm - 10pm (open until midnight); $20 donations. The new revamped parties have been hot -- lots of muscular and lean guys, and some average guys. Mostly oral, some fucking. EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com *Next party is Wednesday, 1-27-10.
CUMMONKEY/GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Studio space, not apartment. Since this re-started is much better class of guys, much hotter mix. Usually 30-50 guys attend, from 20-30-40 YOs. Every Wednesday. $25 donation, plus $2 for clothes check. I’ve heard that the crowd lately have not been great. http://www.cummonkey.com/
Thursday...
THE BEAR HUNT ( West Harlem ). Run by the same people who run The Men'sParty. I've never been because I'm not a bear, and only into musclebears--which I hear this is not a place to meet them. $25 donation. http://www.bearhuntnyc.com/
Friday...
ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan-Washington Heights area)
Interracial gay group that meet twice a month.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. Filled with 99% old, out-of-shape, gross guys. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that. 9pm-3am.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com
Saturday...
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "FULL MOON SATURDAY PARTY"
A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. The party is back on: sometimes 3 nights next week. 8pm-4am
http://www.jacksofcolor.com/
ALL NUDE FREAK PARTY (Gramercy)
Party for men of all colors. Parties are advertised for fit/in-shape men of all colors age 21-45. Strict Door. Party @ plush 2-level loft space. Condoms/lube/sodas/bottled water/mouthwash - all provided. 10:30pm-4am/ $20. I hear that they have an open-door policy and most guys are not in great shape – and, unfortunately, that safe sex is not required.
Email stats and pics: milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com
**CANCELED -- RENOVATING SPACE.
THE HOT JOCK PARTY (review, 1-24-10)
About 50 guys showed up, and honestly, there was only ONE guy (how the hell did he get in!) who wasn't fuckable. My only complaints are that the host rents this big hotel suite and everyone is crowded into one tiny bedroom, also, guys should be more careful about safe sex at a group party. There are condoms everywhere -- use them!
Looking forward to the next party. This is still one of the best.
New York Jock Party (guest review)
"Hey Evan,
So I went to the NYJP last night. I have to tell you it was amazing. I can't thank you enough for the info. :-)
I was there from 11 pm to 3:30 am. When you last reviewed this party, I'm sure it was true that the guys stood around and had attitude. I'll confess I almost didn't go because I figured no one would want to play. However, that is certainly no longer the case. The guys at this party were extremely friendly and there was a lot of action.
Some of what you have in the review still applies. They did have me pull up my shirt on the way in. They actually had me show them my cock too, lol. I thought the guy was joking at first, but he was serious. The crowd was mostly (95%) young, in-shape guys ranging from fit to muscular.
I actually spoke to the host a little on my way out. He seems like a nice guy who was genuinely concerned about making sure everyone had a good time."
--Jock Muscle
Sunday, January 24, 2010
African-American ONLY Group Parties
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AFRICAN-AMERICAN/LATINO ONLY…
NUBIAN MIDTOWN BOXER PARTY! (Midtown). Nubian midtown is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes. Monthly -- Fridays, 12am-6am. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. $15 before 1:30am,$20 after. Space is same as NYJP: Two floors, dark down stairs and more light up. Hip hop music with a Dj when he went. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action--there were a few Caucasian dudes there.
Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com
MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (E. 20s)
Held in a Penthouse duplex in Gramercy, this party is a mixed race party that is predominately black and Latino. The door is no discriminatory in regards to age, shape or size therefore there is mix of people that may or may not be to my liking. Most of the crowd older and not in the best of shape. Additionally the party did not seem to promote safe sex. Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com/
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn )
I've never been, but am told it's for Black and Latino guys, and guys
who love big black cocks. Safe sex for in shape guys—huge space, held every
weekend. its a safe and clean place. lots of space: two floor. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
SKYBLU ( Harlem )
Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.
Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/
Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com
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AFRICAN-AMERICAN/LATINO – and THEIR ADMIRERS…
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea )
A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. The party is back on: sometimes 3 nights next week. Held at Paddles.
www.jacksofcolor.com
ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan-Washington Heights area)
Interracial gay group that meet twice a month.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
BMOCO ( Bronx )
"Big Men of Color". All types of black men and bears and admirers.
Someone wrote me..."Went there once, the neighborhood intimidated me but
made me hot even more. I was
very nervous when I went in but eventually I was invited into the dark room and was surprised how big men wanted me. I became a true slut."
EMAIL: bmocoparty@gmail.com
RED LIGHT ZONE PARTY ( Jersey City , NJ )
Party is close to Journal Square — a huge PATH hub in Jersey — and has a
very attractive host. The first time I went, I met a couple of hung daddies, but each subsequent time the crowd's been hung black guys. It's a good vibe, so if you're into Afr-AM guys, it's a good place to be. The place is clean and there's no attitude. Door open 11pm-3am, but you can stay to 5am. Snacks, drinks, beer, alcohol, condoms and lube all provided free all night! $20 donation at the door. Those who come Friday get half off on Saturday.
Email for invite: redlightzoneparty@yahoo.com
NOTE: NOT SURE THIS IS STILL HAPPENING.
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Group Parties for Older Guys
SKYBLU ( Harlem )
Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.
Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/
Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com
GALLERY OF MEN (Garment District) every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. Not sure how to get on the guest list anymore - must have your email on the list for admission. Filled with 99% old, out-of-shape, gross guys. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com
NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday afternoons & Tues nights; $25 donation.
http://www.nyjacks.com
BMOCO (Tribeca)
"Big Men of Color". Has held events at hotel downtown -- very dark, hard to see anyone-- not great crowd.
EMAIL: bmocoparty@gmail.com
THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT--see below). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending. YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. $25.
www.themensparty.com
BISHOP (Downtown)
Hotel room. I’ve never been to this party because they take anyone -- ANYONE. One guy reported the he likes it because it attracts a wide group of types, ages, ethnicgroups without discrimination. (It is the only sex group I know of that meets at lunchtime--which is perfect for married guys
or guys who works nights). Most guys who attend have reported that the party sucks, and is mostly old fat men, and most comment that the host is NOT cool. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20.
*Email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com, or check out WEBSITE: http://bishop.ning.com/?xgi=3nwSAru
SOS: SEX ON SUNDAYS (formerly NY BUTT LICKERS) (Grammercy)
Now held in the E20s -- in HUGE beautiful duplex apt (same space as Olympus). Orgy every Sunday. Unfortunately --the have an open door policy and let in ANYBODY -- so the place is FILLED with overweight and really old flabby guys. Possible the most disgusting party I've ever attended. If you are desperate for sex with anyone (or get off with gross old guys -- GO; if you have ANY self esteem, and have ever been to the gym (ever) then SKIP THIS ONE. I often get off on sex with old dudes, but these are NOT hot.
Email for invite: sexonsundaynyc@yahoo.com
HOTPARTIES 2006 (Chelsea). Party is held in a private apartment/loft, on Friday & Wednesday. $25 donation. (Sometimes has Saturday parties in Brooklyn ).
*Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com
ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan-Washington Heights area)
Interracial gay group that meet twice a month.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
Group Parties for Guys in the 20s.
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These three parties limit the people to guys in the 20s (and early 30s). If you're not in that age range, you will not get in....
1. THE NYJOCK PARTY/NYJP (Manhattan/Times Square)
In duplex apartment. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com
2. HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn/Park Slope)
18-35yo ONLY. Usually more than 60 cute boys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. ($20 Donation for New Members; $15 Donation for Members; College Boy Twinks 18-23yo Free 10pm-12am /$10 Donation after 12am). Unlimited Cosmos and Beer 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com
3. COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY/GOLDEN BOYS USA ( Brooklyn )
Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old, and get into (or tolerant of) guys pissing on other guys -- they NOW also have NON-WATER SPORT parties. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). (I've never been to this one. This was reported to me by the promoter. Email me for their website.) Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. Second Saturday of every other month. ALSO have general UNDERWEAR parties every so often.
www.GoldenBoysUSA.com
Olympus (rebuttle statement from the host)
ANYWAY, Olympus is still worth checking out -- it's an amazing scene, as long as you're careful and know what you're getting.
And, now, here's the host's statement on the feel he's trying to create with Olympus...
"Olympus is INTENTIONALLY not one of those "hot jock perfect only bodies parties" where everyone stands around and give one another attitude, competing amongst themselves…Olympus is intended to be a mix, where average guys can interact and have fun with the hot ones, a chance for everyone to enjoy the space and experience the night without judgment and attitude, making it unique and memorable......and they do enjoy it, very much, except for the occasional person who arrives expecting a "Colt" event."
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Olympus Party (1-22-10) Guest review
"I attended the Olympus party on Lex at 24th st last night Jan 22. I arrived around midnight. This was my first visit to this party and unfortunately I was quite disappointed. Once I paid my $20 and checked my clothes, I wondered around the main floor and saw about 25 guys of various ages standing around looking at some of the group action going on a big bed and along the brick walls too. Most guys were out of shape, some were downright disgusting, some very fat, hairy men in the crowd. I saw one or two guys with good bodies but that was it. I went upstairs to the 2nd floor and there are two rooms, unfortunately both were very dark. I could barely see anyone and this is where most of the men at this party were, upstairs wondering around the various groups between both dark rooms. I think they should turn up the lighting in this place, its just too dark. The 2nd floor bathroom had a long line, about 10 guys in line. it can be difficult to pee, with others just walking in and rinsing their mouths at the sink while i was trying unsuccessfully to pee. For the most part, this is not the party if you are looking for hot bods and/ or muscle( from my perspective at the time I was there). I am muscular good build and I was looking for other built guys or even in shape guys, but I was really dissapointed with this crowd of out of shape guys. There was lots of barebacking upstairs in those dark rooms, so be careful. Over all, I thought this was an awful party and several others I conversed with said the same thing.
--Muscyle Guy
NUBIAN MIDTOWN BOXER PARTY! (Midtown)
NUBIAN MIDTOWN BOXER PARTY! (Midtown).
Nubian midtown is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes. Monthly -- Fridays, 12am-6am. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. $15 before 1:30am,$20 after. Space is same as NYJP: Two floors, dark down stairs and more light up. Hip hop music with a Dj when he went. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and alot of action--there were a few Caucasian dudes there.
Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Hot Parties This Weekend -- 1-22/1-24.
Friday...
THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) If you like HUGE PARTIES – This is it. In new space: penthouse duplex complete with themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, everyone is naked (no underwear allowed). This is a HUGE, HUGE party--100-150 guys (can hold 200): mixed crowd--out-of-shape older guys, but many hot guys too, some BB (unfortunately safe sex is not required). No attitude. Host is very professional & hot. Fridays: 9pm-2am. $20 donation to get in. The guy who runs this also runs Testosterone, Raw Pork, and Metropolis.*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (Be SURE to him EVAN sent you).*Next party is Friday, 1-22-09.
Saturday...
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Midtown West)
In duplex apartment. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the pary now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation.
Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com
*Next party is Saturday, 1-23-09 (Winter White Underwear Party).
ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan-Washington Heights area)
Interracial gay group that meet twice a month. 7PM to 2AM. Had 60 guys last week!
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
*Next party is Satuday, 1-23-09.
Sunday...
THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East) This party -- usually at a hotel -- has guys in mostly 30s-40s (some 50s, and a few 20s). It's a mixed crowd, hot to average guys, but mixed. Sunday night crowds are better than weekdays. Not a lot of attitude (unless you count the host). Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month. $25 donation. *Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com
*Next party is Sunday, 1-24-09
See you there guys!
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Thursday, January 14, 2010
Guest posts??
Downtown Men's Party (Wednesday)
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This was my first time attending this party, so didn't know what to expect. When I arrived there were only about 5 guys there and from Evan's description, I'd expected more people. Still the guys there were very hot and already sucking dick, and in a big pile on the bed. Ultimately, the party filled up to about 15 guys -- not a huge crowd, but a good group of dudes who were totally into the group sex scene. Very open sexually, and open to sucking, getting sucked, and eventually fucking. The body types ranged from sexy lean to average, and a few hot muscle guys. Mostly guys in their mid 20 to mid 30s, and maybe one guy in his 40s, who arrived late. The party was mostly oral -- lots of sucking. This one dude was an AMAZING cocksuker and could deepthroat like you wouldn't believe. There was little attitude and the guys moved around from person to person having a good time. The hottest time was when these four hot guys were fucking on the bed. Had a fanastic time -- even with the small crowd, and will definitely go back again. The place is a good-sized studio apartment, and the host provides lube, condoms and poppers. Certainly worth the $20 donation.
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DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Financial District). Held in a clean studio apartment in a doorman building near Rector subway stop). Motto: Sex Party for All Men - No Attitude, Friendly Environment; CLAIMS: Hot guys ages 20's - 40's+; Doors open 7:30pm - 10pm (open until midnight). EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com
Two Hot Parties on Sunday --- HJP & NYBN
New York by Night is increasing taking over from the now defunct Stalone Party (which is hands down still the best, and much mourned), as the hottest party for HOT safe sex. New York Jock Party (NYJP) still is the standard for the hottest guys per capita, but the sex there is often less exciting than the guys starring at themselves in the mirror.
At New York By Night the scene is increasingly diverse -- there are always a bunch of hot regulars -- but every week the host pulls in a new crop of twinks and muscle guys. The medium age at this Sundays party dropped by 10 years. Because there were so many new guys, it was slow to start -- although some hot guys got started right away on the couches. But soon it went into full swing. The mosh pit in the main room was filled with dicks and asses flying and more sucking and fucking in 5 minutes than all night at NYJP. I'm hoping they can keep up this pace for the next party in February. I'm all lubed up and ready to go.
Thursday, January 7, 2010
DARRELL’S DUNGEON (Chelsea)
DARRELL’S DUNGEON (Chelsea). Leather, Military or Less. All Male, All Colors, Anything Goes…First Thursdays, starting January 7, 2010 (8PM-3AM). Held at PADDLES (w26). For more information, check out: http://www.darrellsdungeon.mobi/. For invitation, send stats and pics to darrell@darrellsdungeon.com
MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Gramercy)
MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY
Held in a Penthouse duplex in Gramercy, this party is a mixed race party that is predominately black and Latino. The door is no discriminatory in regards to age, shape or size therefore there is mix of people that may or may not be to my liking. While I did have fun playing with one guy, I did not find the crowd to be to my liking, most of the crowd older and not in the best of shape. Additionally the party did not seem to promote safe sex. Milk Chocolate can be contacted at milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com
MEATPACKERS
Held in a great space in Park Slope, this party is the first Saturday of the month. This party draws a mix of people with mix of ages and shapes. This party does have a nice mix of hot and fun guys who play safe and respect you and your limits. Aside from sex the party is quite social so it proves to be a fun place to meet people and have sex. It was in this environment that my Boyfriend and I had our first threesome and enjoyed ourselves so much that we didn’t leave until after 4am (we arrived at 12:30). Safe sex only allowed and a DJ plays the whole night!
To contact, Must call: 212-677-3599
I greatly enjoy sex parties and believe that you make the most of each one you attend. For me it is a good party if I find one person I enjoy and have some fun with. If I can have fun with more guys, even better. I believe we create our own fun and the best parties are those that promote safe sex, bring an attractive crowd and create a fun, welcoming, environment.
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If anyone else wants me to post their opinions on group sex parties, please send me your posts to evanmccarthy9999@yahoo.com. Thanks guys -- keep reading!