African-American guys are also asking if there are any parties specifically for them. Below is a list of African-American ONLY parties and a few parties that also allow their admirers attend. I'm Irish/Italian, so I have never attended the ONLY parties, so here are some reviews people have sent me...
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AFRICAN-AMERICAN/LATINO ONLY…
NUBIAN MIDTOWN BOXER PARTY! (Midtown). Nubian midtown is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes. Monthly -- Fridays, 12am-6am. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. $15 before 1:30am,$20 after. Space is same as NYJP: Two floors, dark down stairs and more light up. Hip hop music with a Dj when he went. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action--there were a few Caucasian dudes there.
Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com
MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (E. 20s)
Held in a Penthouse duplex in Gramercy, this party is a mixed race party that is predominately black and Latino. The door is no discriminatory in regards to age, shape or size therefore there is mix of people that may or may not be to my liking. Most of the crowd older and not in the best of shape. Additionally the party did not seem to promote safe sex. Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@yahoo.com/
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn )
I've never been, but am told it's for Black and Latino guys, and guys
who love big black cocks. Safe sex for in shape guys—huge space, held every
weekend. its a safe and clean place. lots of space: two floor. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. $15
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net
SKYBLU ( Harlem )
Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.
Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/
Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com
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AFRICAN-AMERICAN/LATINO – and THEIR ADMIRERS…
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea )
A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. The party is back on: sometimes 3 nights next week. Held at Paddles.
www.jacksofcolor.com
ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan-Washington Heights area)
Interracial gay group that meet twice a month.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
BMOCO ( Bronx )
"Big Men of Color". All types of black men and bears and admirers.
Someone wrote me..."Went there once, the neighborhood intimidated me but
made me hot even more. I was
very nervous when I went in but eventually I was invited into the dark room and was surprised how big men wanted me. I became a true slut."
EMAIL: bmocoparty@gmail.com
RED LIGHT ZONE PARTY ( Jersey City , NJ )
Party is close to Journal Square — a huge PATH hub in Jersey — and has a
very attractive host. The first time I went, I met a couple of hung daddies, but each subsequent time the crowd's been hung black guys. It's a good vibe, so if you're into Afr-AM guys, it's a good place to be. The place is clean and there's no attitude. Door open 11pm-3am, but you can stay to 5am. Snacks, drinks, beer, alcohol, condoms and lube all provided free all night! $20 donation at the door. Those who come Friday get half off on Saturday.
Email for invite: redlightzoneparty@yahoo.com
NOTE: NOT SURE THIS IS STILL HAPPENING.
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The Weekly listings can now be found on the homepage at groupsexinthecity.com
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Group Parties for Older Guys
I get many requests for parties from guys who are 45-60, and not in great shape. They always ask if there are any parties for them. Below are the parties that do not discriminate by age, and many have an open admission policy. So, for the older, out-of-shape guys, here are a few places to try....
SKYBLU ( Harlem )
Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.
Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/
Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com
GALLERY OF MEN (Garment District) every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. Not sure how to get on the guest list anymore - must have your email on the list for admission. Filled with 99% old, out-of-shape, gross guys. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com
NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday afternoons & Tues nights; $25 donation.
http://www.nyjacks.com
BMOCO (Tribeca)
"Big Men of Color". Has held events at hotel downtown -- very dark, hard to see anyone-- not great crowd.
EMAIL: bmocoparty@gmail.com
THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT--see below). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending. YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. $25.
www.themensparty.com
BISHOP (Downtown)
Hotel room. I’ve never been to this party because they take anyone -- ANYONE. One guy reported the he likes it because it attracts a wide group of types, ages, ethnicgroups without discrimination. (It is the only sex group I know of that meets at lunchtime--which is perfect for married guys
or guys who works nights). Most guys who attend have reported that the party sucks, and is mostly old fat men, and most comment that the host is NOT cool. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20.
*Email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com, or check out WEBSITE: http://bishop.ning.com/?xgi=3nwSAru
SOS: SEX ON SUNDAYS (formerly NY BUTT LICKERS) (Grammercy)
Now held in the E20s -- in HUGE beautiful duplex apt (same space as Olympus). Orgy every Sunday. Unfortunately --the have an open door policy and let in ANYBODY -- so the place is FILLED with overweight and really old flabby guys. Possible the most disgusting party I've ever attended. If you are desperate for sex with anyone (or get off with gross old guys -- GO; if you have ANY self esteem, and have ever been to the gym (ever) then SKIP THIS ONE. I often get off on sex with old dudes, but these are NOT hot.
Email for invite: sexonsundaynyc@yahoo.com
HOTPARTIES 2006 (Chelsea). Party is held in a private apartment/loft, on Friday & Wednesday. $25 donation. (Sometimes has Saturday parties in Brooklyn ).
*Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com
ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan-Washington Heights area)
Interracial gay group that meet twice a month.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
SKYBLU ( Harlem )
Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.
Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/
Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com
GALLERY OF MEN (Garment District) every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. Not sure how to get on the guest list anymore - must have your email on the list for admission. Filled with 99% old, out-of-shape, gross guys. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com
NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday afternoons & Tues nights; $25 donation.
http://www.nyjacks.com
BMOCO (Tribeca)
"Big Men of Color". Has held events at hotel downtown -- very dark, hard to see anyone-- not great crowd.
EMAIL: bmocoparty@gmail.com
THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT--see below). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending. YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. $25.
www.themensparty.com
BISHOP (Downtown)
Hotel room. I’ve never been to this party because they take anyone -- ANYONE. One guy reported the he likes it because it attracts a wide group of types, ages, ethnicgroups without discrimination. (It is the only sex group I know of that meets at lunchtime--which is perfect for married guys
or guys who works nights). Most guys who attend have reported that the party sucks, and is mostly old fat men, and most comment that the host is NOT cool. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20.
*Email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com, or check out WEBSITE: http://bishop.ning.com/?xgi=3nwSAru
SOS: SEX ON SUNDAYS (formerly NY BUTT LICKERS) (Grammercy)
Now held in the E20s -- in HUGE beautiful duplex apt (same space as Olympus). Orgy every Sunday. Unfortunately --the have an open door policy and let in ANYBODY -- so the place is FILLED with overweight and really old flabby guys. Possible the most disgusting party I've ever attended. If you are desperate for sex with anyone (or get off with gross old guys -- GO; if you have ANY self esteem, and have ever been to the gym (ever) then SKIP THIS ONE. I often get off on sex with old dudes, but these are NOT hot.
Email for invite: sexonsundaynyc@yahoo.com
HOTPARTIES 2006 (Chelsea). Party is held in a private apartment/loft, on Friday & Wednesday. $25 donation. (Sometimes has Saturday parties in Brooklyn ).
*Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com
ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan-Washington Heights area)
Interracial gay group that meet twice a month.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
Group Parties for Guys in the 20s.
The two questions I get the most, are what parties are for young guys only and what parties are for older guys. The next posts, will list the few parties that are age specific...
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These three parties limit the people to guys in the 20s (and early 30s). If you're not in that age range, you will not get in....
1. THE NYJOCK PARTY/NYJP (Manhattan/Times Square)
In duplex apartment. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com
2. HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn/Park Slope)
18-35yo ONLY. Usually more than 60 cute boys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. ($20 Donation for New Members; $15 Donation for Members; College Boy Twinks 18-23yo Free 10pm-12am /$10 Donation after 12am). Unlimited Cosmos and Beer 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com
3. COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY/GOLDEN BOYS USA ( Brooklyn )
Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old, and get into (or tolerant of) guys pissing on other guys -- they NOW also have NON-WATER SPORT parties. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). (I've never been to this one. This was reported to me by the promoter. Email me for their website.) Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. Second Saturday of every other month. ALSO have general UNDERWEAR parties every so often.
www.GoldenBoysUSA.com
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These three parties limit the people to guys in the 20s (and early 30s). If you're not in that age range, you will not get in....
1. THE NYJOCK PARTY/NYJP (Manhattan/Times Square)
In duplex apartment. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com
2. HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn/Park Slope)
18-35yo ONLY. Usually more than 60 cute boys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. ($20 Donation for New Members; $15 Donation for Members; College Boy Twinks 18-23yo Free 10pm-12am /$10 Donation after 12am). Unlimited Cosmos and Beer 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com
3. COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY/GOLDEN BOYS USA ( Brooklyn )
Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old, and get into (or tolerant of) guys pissing on other guys -- they NOW also have NON-WATER SPORT parties. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). (I've never been to this one. This was reported to me by the promoter. Email me for their website.) Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. Second Saturday of every other month. ALSO have general UNDERWEAR parties every so often.
www.GoldenBoysUSA.com
Olympus (rebuttle statement from the host)
The host of the Olympus party wrote me today to complain that I posted a negative guest review. I posted the review because a few guys had written me complaining that my previous reviews of Olympus were too positive. To be fair, one friend wrote me he thought last Friday's party was "very hot" (he is a guy in his early 50s [in good shape]. The guys who complained were all in their 20s). I still think the party is cool -- mostly because it's so HUGE: this week's party brought about 150 dudes--and you usually can find what you want there. My complaints about Olympus stand (and were varified by some friends who attended): too much unsafe sex (not cool); too dark (I like to see what I'm fucking); and too many old, out-of-shape guys (I'm not an age snob--I'm 27, and have a hot fuckbuddy in his 50s), but too many of the guys are not "average" --- they are out of shape-- to me that's not average.
ANYWAY, Olympus is still worth checking out -- it's an amazing scene, as long as you're careful and know what you're getting.
And, now, here's the host's statement on the feel he's trying to create with Olympus...
"Olympus is INTENTIONALLY not one of those "hot jock perfect only bodies parties" where everyone stands around and give one another attitude, competing amongst themselves…Olympus is intended to be a mix, where average guys can interact and have fun with the hot ones, a chance for everyone to enjoy the space and experience the night without judgment and attitude, making it unique and memorable......and they do enjoy it, very much, except for the occasional person who arrives expecting a "Colt" event."
ANYWAY, Olympus is still worth checking out -- it's an amazing scene, as long as you're careful and know what you're getting.
And, now, here's the host's statement on the feel he's trying to create with Olympus...
"Olympus is INTENTIONALLY not one of those "hot jock perfect only bodies parties" where everyone stands around and give one another attitude, competing amongst themselves…Olympus is intended to be a mix, where average guys can interact and have fun with the hot ones, a chance for everyone to enjoy the space and experience the night without judgment and attitude, making it unique and memorable......and they do enjoy it, very much, except for the occasional person who arrives expecting a "Colt" event."
Saturday, January 23, 2010
Olympus Party (1-22-10) Guest review
This is not my post, I wasn't able to go last night after all, so I'm sorry to any guys who went and didn't have a good time. Will reevaluate the party, and adjust. It was once a hot party...
"I attended the Olympus party on Lex at 24th st last night Jan 22. I arrived around midnight. This was my first visit to this party and unfortunately I was quite disappointed. Once I paid my $20 and checked my clothes, I wondered around the main floor and saw about 25 guys of various ages standing around looking at some of the group action going on a big bed and along the brick walls too. Most guys were out of shape, some were downright disgusting, some very fat, hairy men in the crowd. I saw one or two guys with good bodies but that was it. I went upstairs to the 2nd floor and there are two rooms, unfortunately both were very dark. I could barely see anyone and this is where most of the men at this party were, upstairs wondering around the various groups between both dark rooms. I think they should turn up the lighting in this place, its just too dark. The 2nd floor bathroom had a long line, about 10 guys in line. it can be difficult to pee, with others just walking in and rinsing their mouths at the sink while i was trying unsuccessfully to pee. For the most part, this is not the party if you are looking for hot bods and/ or muscle( from my perspective at the time I was there). I am muscular good build and I was looking for other built guys or even in shape guys, but I was really dissapointed with this crowd of out of shape guys. There was lots of barebacking upstairs in those dark rooms, so be careful. Over all, I thought this was an awful party and several others I conversed with said the same thing.
--Muscyle Guy
"I attended the Olympus party on Lex at 24th st last night Jan 22. I arrived around midnight. This was my first visit to this party and unfortunately I was quite disappointed. Once I paid my $20 and checked my clothes, I wondered around the main floor and saw about 25 guys of various ages standing around looking at some of the group action going on a big bed and along the brick walls too. Most guys were out of shape, some were downright disgusting, some very fat, hairy men in the crowd. I saw one or two guys with good bodies but that was it. I went upstairs to the 2nd floor and there are two rooms, unfortunately both were very dark. I could barely see anyone and this is where most of the men at this party were, upstairs wondering around the various groups between both dark rooms. I think they should turn up the lighting in this place, its just too dark. The 2nd floor bathroom had a long line, about 10 guys in line. it can be difficult to pee, with others just walking in and rinsing their mouths at the sink while i was trying unsuccessfully to pee. For the most part, this is not the party if you are looking for hot bods and/ or muscle( from my perspective at the time I was there). I am muscular good build and I was looking for other built guys or even in shape guys, but I was really dissapointed with this crowd of out of shape guys. There was lots of barebacking upstairs in those dark rooms, so be careful. Over all, I thought this was an awful party and several others I conversed with said the same thing.
--Muscyle Guy
NUBIAN MIDTOWN BOXER PARTY! (Midtown)
A friend just told me about this monthly party. This is his report...
NUBIAN MIDTOWN BOXER PARTY! (Midtown).
Nubian midtown is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes. Monthly -- Fridays, 12am-6am. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. $15 before 1:30am,$20 after. Space is same as NYJP: Two floors, dark down stairs and more light up. Hip hop music with a Dj when he went. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and alot of action--there were a few Caucasian dudes there.
Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com
NUBIAN MIDTOWN BOXER PARTY! (Midtown).
Nubian midtown is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes. Monthly -- Fridays, 12am-6am. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. $15 before 1:30am,$20 after. Space is same as NYJP: Two floors, dark down stairs and more light up. Hip hop music with a Dj when he went. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and alot of action--there were a few Caucasian dudes there.
Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Hot Parties This Weekend -- 1-22/1-24.
Some Hot parties this weekend…
Friday...
THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) If you like HUGE PARTIES – This is it. In new space: penthouse duplex complete with themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, everyone is naked (no underwear allowed). This is a HUGE, HUGE party--100-150 guys (can hold 200): mixed crowd--out-of-shape older guys, but many hot guys too, some BB (unfortunately safe sex is not required). No attitude. Host is very professional & hot. Fridays: 9pm-2am. $20 donation to get in. The guy who runs this also runs Testosterone, Raw Pork, and Metropolis.*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (Be SURE to him EVAN sent you).*Next party is Friday, 1-22-09.
Saturday...
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Midtown West)
In duplex apartment. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the pary now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation.
Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com
*Next party is Saturday, 1-23-09 (Winter White Underwear Party).
ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan-Washington Heights area)
Interracial gay group that meet twice a month. 7PM to 2AM. Had 60 guys last week!
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
*Next party is Satuday, 1-23-09.
Sunday...
THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East) This party -- usually at a hotel -- has guys in mostly 30s-40s (some 50s, and a few 20s). It's a mixed crowd, hot to average guys, but mixed. Sunday night crowds are better than weekdays. Not a lot of attitude (unless you count the host). Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month. $25 donation. *Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com
*Next party is Sunday, 1-24-09
See you there guys!
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Friday...
THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) If you like HUGE PARTIES – This is it. In new space: penthouse duplex complete with themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, everyone is naked (no underwear allowed). This is a HUGE, HUGE party--100-150 guys (can hold 200): mixed crowd--out-of-shape older guys, but many hot guys too, some BB (unfortunately safe sex is not required). No attitude. Host is very professional & hot. Fridays: 9pm-2am. $20 donation to get in. The guy who runs this also runs Testosterone, Raw Pork, and Metropolis.*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (Be SURE to him EVAN sent you).*Next party is Friday, 1-22-09.
Saturday...
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Midtown West)
In duplex apartment. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the pary now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation.
Send pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com
*Next party is Saturday, 1-23-09 (Winter White Underwear Party).
ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan-Washington Heights area)
Interracial gay group that meet twice a month. 7PM to 2AM. Had 60 guys last week!
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
*Next party is Satuday, 1-23-09.
Sunday...
THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East) This party -- usually at a hotel -- has guys in mostly 30s-40s (some 50s, and a few 20s). It's a mixed crowd, hot to average guys, but mixed. Sunday night crowds are better than weekdays. Not a lot of attitude (unless you count the host). Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month. $25 donation. *Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com
*Next party is Sunday, 1-24-09
See you there guys!
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