My dear fellow group-sex aficionados:
I highly recommend that you do not attend a party going solely off of the information here without contacting the hosts first, especially if the information here is UNVERIFIED. Most parties do require that you submit pics and stats and that you are added to an invite list before you can attend, and there is always the chance of last minute changes or cancellations.
Another great source for finding parties is the "Parties and Events" section of adam4adam.com, so I recommend that you check that site for parties as well, especially if you are looking for parties outside of the NYC area.
A GUIDE TO DOOR POLICIES
Here is a listing of what the different “DOOR POLICY” terms mean. These should not be taken as an indication of how “good” a party is. I have been to some Very Selective parties where I have been bored because there were mostly men standing around acting like they were all too good for each other, and I’ve also been to Open Door parties that have been full-out fuckfests filled with lots of hot group action. These categories are simply intended to be a guide as to whether the party is one you would physically fit in to and an indication as to what kinds of body types you will likely find there.
Here are the Door Policy Categories:
Very Selective – Only good-looking men in good physical shape with toned bodies and visible muscle mass are allowed in. These parties also usually have a limited age range.
Selective – Only men with above-average to average bodies are allowed. “Average” refers to men who are height-weight-proportionate and do not have much visible muscle tone or muscle mass. But you will also usually find quite a few men in great shape at these parties as well.
Somewhat Selective – A wide range of body types. You may find some above-average athletic men and also some out-of-shape men with extra pounds on them, but not overly obese. Most guys at these parties tend to have average bodies.
Not Selective – All body types are allowed. You still need to be on an invite list in order to attend, and with some Not Selective parties you may need to meet some other entrance criteria such as age or race.
Open Door – General admission. Everyone is welcome and you don’t need to be on an invite list in order to attend. Just show up.
Here are the parties for this Friday through Thursday:
Friday, May 23rd
DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, White, Black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Tonight's party is mandatory total nudity.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back, no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 20-40 men
AGE: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)
DONATION: $10 before 9pm (exact change required)/$20 after 9pm
SS/BB: Some safe sex, but mostly BB
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
THE HOSTS SAY: “Each Friday has a different line-up, offering something for everyone, especially for guys craving hot hardcore action. Two huge floors filled with hairy muscled jocks, smooth pumped-up studs, lean eager twinks, and rugged masculine men, all coming together naked and without attitude, confident with having a sac and able to hold their own in large active group scenes. All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend, but must be fit, in-shape, and not a light-weight. Anyone looking for a ‘jock-perfect-only frame of mind group’ with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their "pee-pees" should not apply, this event is not for you!"
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Both Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 8pm-5am
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 40-60 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; (for the wrestling matches) 2nd floor semi-dark (for the sex orgy)
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For Dads and Lads, 8pm-9pm, contact with stats/pics sondad@ymail.com.
THE OMEGA PARTY / JACKS OF COLOR (Long Island City, Queens) The Omega Party and Jacks of Color (J.O.C.) are co-hosting a party together twice this weekend, once on Friday night and again on Sunday night at the Rainbow Playground in Queens. These are large open-door parties in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. Both parties are good for average guys with the JACKS OF COLOR Party being for men of color "and their friends."
DONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 8pm-5am
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 40-60 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; (for the wrestling matches) 2nd floor semi-dark (for the sex orgy)
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For Dads and Lads, 8pm-9pm, contact with stats/pics sondad@ymail.com.
For Testosterone, 9pm-10pm,
contact with stats/pics testosteronenyc@gmail.com
For Pork, 10pm-11pm, contact
with stats/pics porkpty@gmail.com
For Boyz-Town, 11pm-12am,
contact with stats/pics boyz1town@gmail.com
For Midnight Owl 12am-3am,
contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
For more party info, please visit www.gayguysglobal.net
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $17 before 9pm, $22 after
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $17 before 9pm, $22 after
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-4am (J.O.C. starts at 11pm)
FREQUENCY: No info given
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (the J.O.C. parties are mostly black guys).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Blacks and Latinos and guys into Black and Latino men, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Blacks and Latinos and guys into Black and Latino men, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For Omega Party, send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com. For J.O.C. send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com
PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $10 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $10 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats
ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
Saturday, May 24th
THE HOSTS SAY: "Chaser's Choice is a sexually-charged party for men of all ages (18 and over) who have large bellies, big tits, great chub cocks, and the horny chasers who love playing with them. All types of guys are accepted at this party: cute chubs in their 20s and 30s, daddy chubs, voluptuous extra large chubs, mature beefy bears, skinny and hot muscle admirers, all coming together for afternoon fun in a spacious penthouse duplex apartment. Our guestlist includes guys from all over the world. We extend a special invitation to men with small penises and their admirers! Everyone is welcome!
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BBDOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
DONATION: $20 before 3pm, $25 after
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm (Doors close at 5pm)
FREQUENCY: Weekly Saturdays
CROWD: 30-40 guys
AGE: All ages (over 18)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who enjoys playing with large masculine men.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Judgmental guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: chaserschoicenyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net
FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen) Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
THE HOST SAYS: "These are the ideal social parties for Men into Mens’ Feet, Footwear, and Tickling ready for action! In an intimate private space. In order to attend, you must make a reservation, and make a commitment to be there. Our party regulars are friendly, and expert at making first-timers want to come again and again.Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $10 before 9pm or after Midnight, $20 9pm-Midnight ($10 ages 18-25 with a valid ID)
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, juice, water, soda. (You can BYOB)
TIME: 8pm-3am (must arrive by 1am)
FREQUENCY: Every Saturday and Tuesday night.
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into feet and footware, guys who like to give and/or get foot massages, guys who like to tickle or get tickled, first-timers, guys who like to play safe.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are just looking for sex, barebackers, guys who aren't into feet.
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.comTHE HOST SAYS: "These are the ideal social parties for Men into Mens’ Feet, Footwear, and Tickling ready for action! In an intimate private space. In order to attend, you must make a reservation, and make a commitment to be there. Our party regulars are friendly, and expert at making first-timers want to come again and again.Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $10 before 9pm or after Midnight, $20 9pm-Midnight ($10 ages 18-25 with a valid ID)
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, juice, water, soda. (You can BYOB)
TIME: 8pm-3am (must arrive by 1am)
FREQUENCY: Every Saturday and Tuesday night.
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into feet and footware, guys who like to give and/or get foot massages, guys who like to tickle or get tickled, first-timers, guys who like to play safe.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are just looking for sex, barebackers, guys who aren't into feet.
THE HOST SAYS: "XXXperience 5+ hours of hot, sweaty, all nude, man2man action when we hosts a red-hot Memorial Weekend edition New York CumUnion (NYCU). 89 f*ckers @ the May 8th event. Are you cumming? Tops needed @ the Live Gang Bang Scene. All nude dress code @ this hot bi-monthly event. No exceptions!! New guys must be able to play well with men on the list. AHF Brooklyn will have have a mobile testing van parked outside until 12mid for anyone interested in FREE Rapid HIV Testing. Everyone encouraged to take advantage of this free service. Play hard and smart! Tons of free condoms provided @ every event but we do not play Condom Police for mature men!"
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social atmosphere with a mix of friendly regulars at each party.
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms provided. (Venue sells bottled water/ sodas.)
VIBE: Social atmosphere with a mix of friendly regulars at each party.
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 b4 9pm; $25 after (includes clothes-check; tips are appreciated)SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms provided. (Venue sells bottled water/ sodas.)
TIME: 8pm until 3am
AGE: Men age 18 to in-shape 50's welcome
SPACE: Paddles Fetish Club
LIGHTING: Lighted 2nd level/ Oral Fetish level and dimly lit backroom.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly, drug-free men of all races, guys into inter-racial interaction, exhibitionists, guys who like slings.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men with racial hang ups; Men that like to stand around and watch, like to ParTy or are not comfortable being nude. No toys, bondage, scat, pain, fisting, watersports or other extreme sports.
GETTING IN: Put "Hot Milk" in subject line and send pics/ stats to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com to join the private party list. Check out the blog for more details at nym4msexparty.blogspot.com
FREQUENCY: Every 1st, 2nd and 3rd Thursday and 4th Saturday of the month.
CROWD: Usually
100+ men of all races. In-shape/fit studs to average
build/height/weight appropriate men. 50% White, 30% Black, 20% Latin/
Mixed inter-racial mix.AGE: Men age 18 to in-shape 50's welcome
SPACE: Paddles Fetish Club
LIGHTING: Lighted 2nd level/ Oral Fetish level and dimly lit backroom.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly, drug-free men of all races, guys into inter-racial interaction, exhibitionists, guys who like slings.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men with racial hang ups; Men that like to stand around and watch, like to ParTy or are not comfortable being nude. No toys, bondage, scat, pain, fisting, watersports or other extreme sports.
THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-5:30am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats
ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
Sunday, May 25th
GOTHAM BEARS (Gramercy)
DONATION: $25, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm (doors close at 5pm)
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 40-50 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: gothambearsnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net
THE HOSTS SAY: “This is an all-inclusive party for all big men
of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing
the Bear Community together for hot steamy afternoon fun. A
great way for anyone looking to get off before the weekend wraps
up."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB:
Safe Sex and BBVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
DONATION: $25, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm (doors close at 5pm)
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 40-50 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: gothambearsnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 4pm to 6pm, jerking until 7pm.
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Tuesday)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: A loft-type space
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 6pm-2am
FREQUENCY: No info given
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (the J.O.C. parties are mostly black guys).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Blacks and Latinos and guys into Black and Latino men, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Blacks and Latinos and guys into Black and Latino men, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For Omega Party, send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com. For J.O.C. send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7pm-2am
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: At 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site at www.NYBondageClub.com
BROOKLYN FOOT FETISH PARTY (Prospect Heights, Brooklyn) A new Brooklyn party for the foot fetish crowd.
THE HOST SAYS: “Small but exclusive get together of foot lovers starting in Brooklyn. For lovers of feet, foot stink, socks, shoes and those that just like their feet serviced, licked and massaged. Friendly, sexy and cool guys. Message me for more details. Space limited and there is a screening process to get the right mix of guys."
THE HOST SAYS: “Small but exclusive get together of foot lovers starting in Brooklyn. For lovers of feet, foot stink, socks, shoes and those that just like their feet serviced, licked and massaged. Friendly, sexy and cool guys. Message me for more details. Space limited and there is a screening process to get the right mix of guys."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: Social and friendly
DONATION: $10 before 9pm, $15 after
SUPPLIES: Snacks, beverages, BYOB
TIME: 7:30pm - 12:30am
FREQUENCY: Once a month on a Sunday
CROWD: 15-20 max (limited space)
AGE: Early 20's to late 40's (exception of in-shape/good-looking daddies in their 50's)
SPACE: Private Apartment
LIGHTING : Good, chill, relaxed
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys in their 20's, 30's and 40's who want to be in a cool and relaxed environment.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Those looking for sex only. The emphasis is on feet!
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to brooklynfeetny@gmail.com. Feel free to ask any questions
DONATION: $10 before 9pm, $15 after
SUPPLIES: Snacks, beverages, BYOB
TIME: 7:30pm - 12:30am
FREQUENCY: Once a month on a Sunday
CROWD: 15-20 max (limited space)
AGE: Early 20's to late 40's (exception of in-shape/good-looking daddies in their 50's)
SPACE: Private Apartment
LIGHTING : Good, chill, relaxed
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys in their 20's, 30's and 40's who want to be in a cool and relaxed environment.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Those looking for sex only. The emphasis is on feet!
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to brooklynfeetny@gmail.com. Feel free to ask any questions
FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
BOXERS AND BRIEFS (Midtown) About once a month the hot jocks of NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP
meet the college dudes of GOLDEN BOYS USA in this huge sex party. This is one of the best parties for young in-shape guys. Despite the title, you are required to be completely nude when the party is held in the Midtown space, but if you are in good shape and not shy or modest, then this party is not to be missed.
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Some attitude
SS / BB: A Safe Sex party
DONATION: $33
SUPPLIES: Snacks. Condom/lube.
TIME: 9pm-5am
FREQUENCY: About once a month
CROWD: Around 200 guys
AGES: Mostly 20s &
30s, few in-shape men in 40s
SPACE: Hot, clean,
huge duplex space, two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good,
sometimes too dark for such hot men
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Jocks, in-shape twinks.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy or modest guys, guys over 40 (unless you are in great shape), guys with average or below average bodies.
GETTING IN: Send stats
and pics to: thenyjp@gmail.com or ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 9pm-3am
TIME: 9pm-3am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats
FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com
Monday, May 26th
MATRIX MONDAY (Astoria, Queens) From the host: "New and upscale spa party for men only every Monday. 7000 sq feet beautiful spacious spa with Jacuzzi, steam rooms, Saunas, swimming pool, open showers, lockers, bar/lounge, VIP rooms and massage rooms. Clothing Optional."UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door (18+Party, 21+ drink)
VIBE: No Attitude, Calm, Relaxed, Peaceful, with Friendly Staff
TIME: 4pm to 11pm
TIME: 4pm to 11pm
CROWD: 50-90 guys (Rush hour is at 6pm)
COST: $40 everything included.
Jr Pass (18-26yrs old $30)
AGE: All ages 18-65 and races welcome to attend
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube, spa essentials, towels, robes, and lockers with locks, fruit and snacks
FREQUENCY: Every Monday
LIGHTING: Dimmed low, relaxed atmosphere
GETTING IN: matrixmonday@yahoo.com or call (347) 705-4295 or check out our facebook page at Matrixe Monday
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com
HANDSOMENYC.COM (Astoria, Queens) Host Hunteur brings his party to Astoria on Monday nights to the Rainbow Playground, home of the Omega parties.
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am.
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: A large industrial loft-type space with many private cabins and rooms and a cinema lounge.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occasionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: Free
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com
Tuesday, May 27th
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 7pm to 9pm, jerking until 10pm
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Sunday.)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen) Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
THE HOST SAYS: "These are the ideal social parties for Men into Mens’ Feet, Footwear, and Tickling ready for action! In an intimate private space. In order to attend, you must make a reservation, and make a commitment to be there. Our party regulars are friendly, and expert at making first-timers want to come again and again.Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $20 ($10 ages 18-25 with a valid ID)
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, juice, water, soda. (You can BYOB)
TIME: 8pm-2am (must arrive by Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Saturday and Tuesday night.
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into feet and footware, guys who like to give and/or get foot massages, guys who like to tickle or get tickled, first-timers, guys who like to play safe.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are just looking for sex, barebackers, guys who aren't into feet.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
Wednesday, May 28th
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.comREAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) "Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community, we also offer totally free STD Testing and referral to free health care for life and also referral to Harm Reduction Services. We have a permanent medical office on location. You do not need to pay the entrance fee to access our services- you may get tested and leave. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 before 9pm, $27 after, or use your silver VIP card for $22 admission all night long.
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am.
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: Paddles – a huge, clean, 5000 sq. feet of professional play space. A fully licensed Commercial Sex Venue licensed by the state and also licensed as a medical off-site testing facility.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com)
OPEN MINDED EVENTS
(Washington, DC -- DuPont Circle) This month is an Underwear Party
THE HOST SAYS: Parties are for men who
identify as gay, bisexual, and bi-curious. The parties involve
kissing, fucking, sucking... good hot action between men. most parties are open
ended, vanilla-type play, although occasionally a party will have a kink or
fetish theme (like underwear, bondage, or watersports). The events are held in
a in the Dupont Circle neighborhood, located in NW Wash, DC.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
SS / BB: Safe Sex only
DONATION: $20 - $40
SUPPLIES: condoms, lube, bottled water
TIME: weekday
lunch, some after a work day, and some at night
FREQUENCY: varies, but often
CROWD: varies
AGE: 20’s, 30’s, and
40’s.
SPACE: private
apartment
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out
the website for more info: openmindedevents.blogspot.com
Thursday, May 29th
THE HOSTS SAY: “Lunch-time party for businessmen looking to hook up weekday afternoons, offering guys who generally can't play during the evening hours (because of wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, or partnered) a chance to bust a quick afternoon nut in a large group setting.”
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 12pm-3pm
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 30-40 guys, all races welcome, a mixture of gay, bi, and straight-curious men looking to explore their sexuality in a safe environment.
AGE: 21-55, most guys in their 30's and 40's
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with the suit-and-tie crowd. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men in their 30s and 40s and Jocks who like older Daddy types. Guys who find wedding rings a turn-on.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and Stats to: executivelunchnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net
THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 5:30pm-3am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com
See you there men!
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