It begins...the first list.

Below is a growing list of all the parties in New York--here's just a list of where, when, and how. I'll get into details and opinons in later blogposts.

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Manhattan

Cum Monkey/Grab Ass Party (Chelsea) Studio space, not apartment. Usually 30-50 guys attend, from 20-30-40 YOs. Every Wednesday. $25, plus $2 for clothes check.

The Hot Jock Party (Moves, usually Midtown West) This party -- usually in hotels or studio spaces -- mostly guys in 20s-early 30s. Usually 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25

New York By Night (Midtown West) In large loft with sofas. 30-50 guys attend, once a month. $25.

The NYJockparty (Midtown West) In apartment. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month. $25.

Muscle Group (West Harlem) In small studio apartment. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20YOs mostly 30YOs- some 40YOs. Have parties at random. Free.

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) In new space: penthouse duplex complete with various-themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, space holds over 200 guys, attendance ranges over 100 naked men, and maxing out at 200 guys, every Friday. $20 donation to get in.

The Men's Party (West Harlem) In big apartment in Harlem. Usually has about 30-50 guys attendings from 30-40 YOs. NOT a safe sex party. Have parties once a week. $25.

BISHOP (Downtown) Hotel room. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20.

ALL MALE PARTY (Midtown West). In apartment. 25-50 guys, weird fee structure, check out their website.

BANA POOL PARTY (Manhattan) In a club. A huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dancefloor, bars.$40-50 general admission, $60-80 gets you a locker+, and $100 VIP pass.

JACKS OF COLOR (Manhattan)A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." On hiatus, but looking for a new spot. Had HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages.

ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan) Interracial gay group that meet twice a month.

A-Plus Muscle (Downtown) Hot Muscle Studs only.

BROOKLYN…

Hot Brooklyn Party (Brooklyn) 30-60 guys attend in their 20-40s. $25 for new guys, $15 for members, $10 for hot students.

The Meatpackers (Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. 1st & 2nd Sat of each month.

Thugs 4 Thugs Sex Party (Brooklyn) For guys who love big black cocks.

College Water Sports Kegger Parties/Golden Boys USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old, and get into (or tolerant of) guys pissing on other guys. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. Second Saturday of every other month.

BK Freaky Brothers (Brooklyn)Safe sex for inshape thugs—huge space, held every weekend.

Touch in Brooklyn (Brooklyn)

Butt Lickers (Chelsea) Rimming parties once a month.

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Gone but not forgotten…

Stalone Party (Midtown West) Unfortunately no longer exists, but had the best vibe of any group party in New York. Totally hot mix of guys, little attitude. 50-70 guys, every 2 weeks. Best party ever! $25

Chelsea Studio/GCN is gone after having jumped around a few times.