In Praise of Older Men Fucking.

Hey guys, got this cool email from a reader of the blog, and though you might enjoy it.

"I recently turned 40, but am still in great shape, and sexually active.  Although I’m vers – and love to fuck a hot ass – I prefer to get fucked by a hot dick. My problem is that I like getting fucked by guys my own age (mostly guys between 35-55) with hot bodies.  It is fucking hard to find a guy my age ago who wants to fuck me.  Tops my age only want to fuck 20 year old twinks.  Oddly, I can always find a 20 year old willing to top me.  In fact, I am mostly hit on by 20 year old guys. They are cute, and all, but man, most of them are horrible fucks.

 Last week I was cruising adam4adam, this hot top about 43 is chatting me up, and keeps says he wants to fuck my ass. We flirt for a while, and then at 11pm, without warning, he’s says he has to work tomorrow and logs off.  Fuck, this happens too often. I am about to log off and this 23 year old kid pings me.  He’s a cute fuck: blond, swimmer’s bod, nice cock.  His profile says TOP, and he tells me he’s a great fuck.  He comes over (they all have to travel), and we go at it right away.  He drops his shorts (no underwear) and reveals a huge dick. We roll around for a while, and I take his huge cock in my mouth and get him hard, and he tells me to get on all fours. First he wants to fuck raw (they all do). I get out a condom, and then Bang!  He in.  (Too fast bud), and then like a jackhammer, bang, bang, bang, bang.   Damn boy, slow down, way down.  He takes the advice for a few minutes and then bang, bang, bang again.  I don’t even think he’s really enjoying the feeling of his cock penetrating my ass.  (He does seems to enjoy my squirming.) I flip over and he starts again.  I grab his thighs and slow him down, trying to show him to be a little sensual.  He got better, but I don’t think he really got it.  I just kept focusing on his smooth little body and taking it all in.  The night was hot, because he was so cute, but not the sex.  This, to me with twinks, is pretty common.  They think a fuck lot of slam and bang.

Then yesterday, I hit up this 45-year-old muscle jock.  He’s hot, great body, and a nice dick.  Fuck, his profile says bttm, and although I’d prefer to bttm myself, he has a hot bubble ass, and I’m willing to take it.  He walks in and we really click.  We make out on my couch, and slowly remove all our shorts and t-shirts. Once we’re both naked I suggest the bed.  I lead him to the bedroom and he grabs my ass, and says that he’s gotta fuck it.  Hey, great!  I spend a lot of time at the gym working on my ass, and it’s great to be appreciated.  I climb on the bed with my ass in the air, and he fingers my ass, and plays with my hole with his dick. It so sensual the feeling of skin on skin and his head goes up against my hole.  He slides on a condom, and then adjusts my ass and slides it.  The feeling of his huge cock entering my ass is almost too much.  I can feel every inch of his shaft sliding in my ass.  “You all the way in,” I say.  “Nope, not yet.”  (Fuck, amazing, I think).  “Go for it,” I say, and he reaches for my shoulders and pulls himself in and over me.  He fucked me, he went faster and faster until he was pounding my ass good. Was amazing.  He turned me every which way and fucked me each time the same way.  I suggested we flip fuck (love to fuck and flip).  He smiles and says sure, man.   One of the great reasons to find a bttm who fucks.  I take him ass and we flip and fuck for an hour until I cum all over my stomach with his dick in my ass.  That’s fucking.

Okay – two stupid examples, but in my experience, typical.  So many younger guys just see fucking a sticking a dick in an ass.  Older dudes, more often (not always) see it as an exchange of pleasure.  It just as important that we both enjoy each other, as is that he has a good time.  My friends think I’m an ass to complain about 20 year old dudes being bad fucks, but I’d prefer a good fuck to a hot twink."