Hello my fellow group-sex aficionados. As long-time readers of the blog know, NYC offers many sex party options but there are a handful that are generally considered among the best the city has to offer and one of those is a monthly party that is happening this Wednesday, Private Party. What makes Private Party stand apart from many of the others? Let me count the ways...1) Its one of the few safe-sex parties where guys really take the safe-sex part seriously. It is rare to see any bb-ing there and anyone who might be foolhardy enough to try it will likely not last the night.
2) It's a big party of usually around 80 to 100 guys so there are always plenty of men to chose from and to play with.
3) Its social with a friendly atmosphere, in fact it's so friendly that...
4) it's mostly a no-attitude-party. And that's somewhat surprising considering that...
5) it's quite selective with an extensive application process (a phone interview followed by a in-person in-the-nude interview) so only attractive, in-shape men with friendly attitudes are allowed in.
6) The lighting is quite good so you can actually see all the hot guys you are fucking around with, and speaking of fucking around...
7) guys actually have sex at this party. Lots of it. It's not a stand-and-pose affair like some others, and you often will see groups of guys getting tangled up in the most interesting and exciting variety of positions. (Given that there are only couches, chairs and a table to play around on, some creativity can be helpful.)
8) You can take a shower! That's something I haven't found at many sex parties and since I consider hygiene a rather fundamentally important part of attending sex parties, I find it to be a big plus.
So are those enough reasons for you to attend? If not, you are just too hard to please...when you should just be hard. (Smiley winking face implied here).
Please know that the crowd is mostly made up of twenty-something twinks and some muscle guys and the host is very much about attracting and maintaining a clean-cut, "professional" looking crowd so if you are into the rougher, scuffy-er uber-masculine types of guys, you won't find much of that here. But if you are into more of the All-American boy or fit business man look, this may well be your nirvana.
Also be aware that the in -person interview that will be scheduled with you immediately preceding your first party is done with you completely in the nude (in front of, in my case anyway, a group of three nude interviewers) and the last few parties themselves have also had a completely nude theme, so this party is for guys who are already comfortable in their own skin and may not be for the more modest or shy among you. Then again, I'm not sure why anyone modest or shy would be diving into group-sex but consider yourself forewarned nonetheless.
As for the more adventurous of you, send the host an email so you can get your interview in before the party. If you wait till the day of, you likely will not get in, so shoot him an email today and have fun!
Here's the information from our weekly listing:
PRIVATE PARTY (Garment
District, Manhattan) Great social sex party w/a good mix of twinks
to muscle
dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've
never been
to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude.
The best
part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just
standing
around. This week is the "Naked Rite of Spring Pt. 1" party continuing
the popular all-nude theme the party has had of late. Recommended.
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Very social, not
much attitude
TIME: 8pm-11:30pm
CROWD: 80-100 guys
AGE: good mix of
20-30-40YOs (no one over 45).
DONATION: $25 + $1 clothes check
SPACE: large private
loft apt
SS/BB: A safe sex only
party.
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube, shower, towels
FREQUENCY: Once a
month, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, sometimes Sundays
LIGHTING: Excellent
(light enough to see, not too much light for shy men)
See you there men!
