Cock-Tail Conversation: How PRIVATE PARTY came to be one of the best safe-sex parties in NYC

For this month's Cock-Tail Conversation I talk with host Richard about how PRIVATE PARTY, one of the longest running and most popular safe-sex parties in the city came to be. He had a lot to tell me so let's get right to it, shall we?

A: Hello Richard, thanks for agreeing to being the subject of the next Cock-Tail Conversation. To begin, I'd love to learn a little bit about the genesis of the party. Did you attend other parties before starting your own and, if so, what was your experiences with them?

R: I was married and 29 years old when I came out. All the pieces of the puzzle came together when I met Jeff--I divorced and he and I set up home and a life . That lasted nine months before his cough began and a few months later he had full-blown AIDS and died the next year. I threw myself into the early quests for experimental meds and protocols, so by the time so many of our friends were diagnosed, I had a general idea of what was plausible or possible. After 8 years of what seemed to be non-stop death watch, I found myself without close gay friends and tried to re-enter the gay social life. Bars were never the answer for me and so I explored the parties--each one was billed as safe, clean, friendly etc. and one after the next proved to be the opposite. One particular, Carter's had the foundation to be on point but it was poorly run. Much of what I saw there eventually helped form NYBN.

A: That being New York By Night, the predecessor to PRIVATE PARTY. When and how did that party come to be?

R: I think it started in 1994 or '95. After trying four or five other  parties that proved to be disappointing, in various ways, but consistently cavalier about safe sex, I was talked into trying to give my own with someone who had also been a care partner during the early days. We had three parties which in retrospect seemed fine until I found that he was selling assorted pills at my front door. I chased him out and said goodnight to all who were there and, closing the door I assumed that it was locked to the gay world going forward. Very happily, shortly thereafter, I started hearing from a number of the guys who had attended, asking me to try this again. After about twenty calls I started to realize that my very generalized concept had a future. I invited them to come discuss what would actually appeal to that mysterious gay world.

A: Was NYBN more or less the same party that you host now and, if not, what has changed (other than the name)?

R: Initially, it was a very trendy crowd --very young with appearance as the utmost qualification--great body and face-- the criteria. At that time, safe sex was making a comeback so that part was not an issue. The parties were dimly lit, BYOB , not particularly friendly and started very late in the evening. I knew it was safe but it just was not fun. My concept of the "gay world" was hardly a barrel of laughs so it took a long time for me to start inserting my thoughts as to what this could be. Initially, it was come get naked -if you looked good --come join the party. They were sporadic and when one was planned, I actually phoned everyone on my list. Until last year the parties were underwear or less --they are now nude. What has really changed is that guys can be themselves in a safe sex social environment--comfortable to chat, laugh, discuss the world and fuck without impunity. Years ago, guys barely acknowledged each other. Now, handshakes, hugs, introductions and getting to know each other is the norm with an unspoken discretion.

A: When and why did NYBN become Private Party?

R: As the party list grew over a decade and phone calls became e-mails, I found that I knew fewer and fewer of the guys attending. The young dudes of a decade earlier were now much more couch potatoes. People were bringing friends or randomly posting the address on line. Although there were few problems of any consequence, I thought I was losing control of the events and considered ending it. I had made many friends through the group and starting asking their opinions. After about a year of hearing ideas (almost all were consistent), it was time to re-evaluate and re-create. At this point the phone screening where I explain much of the info I am giving you now became an integral part of the screening. This allowed the guys to see that there was a history of rising from the ashes of the plague years to a very fun, safe, social event--not to mention, all the sex most men might want on any given night. I was quick to learn that the phone screening did require a back-up with an in-person interview to confirm that each guy fit the criteria. It was always important to communicate that this is a safe-sex/drug free party and that will always be the emphasis. I was also finding that a party that ended by midnight appealed to the young professional who had a very busy life and was happy to fit a few hours of a social/sexual gathering into a weeknight. Weekend parties were never a consideration since I was seeing that our members enjoyed a well-rounded life with this as an enhancement and not a complete lifestyle. NYBN became PRIVATE PARTY over a period of three months--first I edited anyone that I did not know off the lists, then sent a series of e-mails explaining the change and inviting guys to become part of the new group. After three months I took all the positive responses, began a new list and started again.

A: What motivates you to continue to host them?

R: Occasionally, I get frustrated and think of the grand finale but then the next month 100 great guys join us and have a wonderful time. I have made many friends who are an integral part of the party and I enjoy seeing regularly. Also, as I get older, it is rewarding for me to speak with and meet some of the truly outstanding and accomplished young guys who would not cross my path otherwise--and hopefully that works both ways. Additionally, I repeatedly hear that PRIVATE PARTY remains unique and viable and I am proud to continue the concept nearing two decades.

A: How did you come up with your screening process?

R: Pure evolution. It is easy to establish criteria, but harder to be sure that you can match and maintain that membership. When I was asked a question often, I then incorporated it into my intro. It was quickly apparent that speaking on the phone and confirming in person allowed a strong vetting process that was consistent. I try to make it fun and "painless" communicating what I take quite seriously but also emphasizing that this is a very social, friendly event.

A: Have you ever participate in your own parties? 

R: Rarely.

A: The reason being? 

R: The easiest answer is that I am busy. The more accurate answer might require an analysts couch. I enjoy greeting everyone at the door and also being there to say goodnight. I have great helpers but I do oversee to make sure supplies, refreshments and anything else that might be needed is available at all times.

A: What would you like the future of Private Party to be? 

R: I am happy and proud with the current state of PRIVATE PARTY. However, we are always developing, trying new ideas and open to everyone's suggestions BUT I will always maintain the same integrity. Just last June we became an all nude party....for years I was asked to do it but was skeptical. After two parties, it was clear from the members that this was the way to go and it is now permanent. Several other ideas are simmering but I have finally learned about not fixing things that are not broken. The five friends who help me make it all come together seamlessly each month are integral to the success.

A: Do you have any other future plans?

R: To keep the monthly event as exciting as it has been....adding new members monthly to continue the mix of well-built, well-groomed, handsome, professional guys who understand and practice safe sex in a drug free ,very social atmosphere. One friend is reaching out through Gridr and other social/cyber media to get the word out faster and more efficiently than my smoke signal like methods.

A: Richard, thank you so much for taking the time to give us a glimpse at how PRIVATE PARTY came to be and what keeps it successful. I appreciate you being so open and sharing so much with us. 

Richard's next PRIVATE PARTY is coming up this Wednesday, so if you aren't on his invite list yet and "fit the bill" so to speak, make sure you contact him immediately so he can set you up for your phone interview. Here are the details of this Wednesday's party:

Wednesday, June 4th

PRIVATE PARTY (Midtown West) Great social sex party with a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just standing around. Recommended.

THE HOST SAYS: “PRIVATE PARTY is an exclusive monthly, all-nude, safe-sex and social event for well-built, well-groomed, handsome, professional men and students 18- 45. PRIVATE PARTY events are safe, discreet, friendly, completely drug-free and open only to our members. In order to maintain our standards all potential members are screened by phone prior to a brief confirmatory in-person interview. Members of this large organized group are in fine physical and mental shape ,work-out/exercise on a regular basis in addition to being confident, interesting and accomplished. This is a highly screened group who practice safe-sex and enjoy mixing and meeting in a drug-free, friendly, all-nude, social and sexual environment."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS

DOOR POLICY: Very Selective

VIBE: Social and Friendly

SS/BB: A safe-sex party

DONATION: $25 and $1 clothes check

SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms and lube, towels and shower amenities

TIME: 8:30-11:30 (Apr.-July), 8:00-11:30 (Sept. -Mar.)

FREQUENCY: Monthly, usually on a Wednesday 

CROWD: 80 to 100+ guys, mostly white collar professionals and students

AGE: 18-45 (no one over 45, average age is 25-35)

SPACE: Safe, clean private loft apartment

LIGHTING: Atmospheric lighting with full visibility while appropriate for the mood.

A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into well-build, well-groomed white-collar professionals and students, guys into safe-sex, guys into younger “twink” types, guys tired of the bar scene, first-timers.

NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into leather or other various fetishes. Guys into heavily-inked guys, guys into men with facial or body hair, guys into masculine beefy types. Guys who like to PnP.

GETTING IN: E-mail PRIVATE.PARTY@MSN.COM for complete info.

See you there men!

Highlight of the week: Private Party on Wednesday

Hello my fellow group-sex aficionados. As long-time readers of the blog know, NYC offers many sex party options but there are a handful that are generally considered among the best the city has to offer and one of those is a monthly party that is happening this Wednesday, Private Party. What makes Private Party stand apart from many of the others? Let me count the ways...

1) Its one of the few safe-sex parties where guys really take the safe-sex part seriously. It is rare to see any bb-ing there and anyone who might be foolhardy enough to try it will likely not last the night. 

2) It's a big party of usually around 80  to 100 guys so there are always plenty of men to chose from and to play with. 

3) Its social with a friendly atmosphere, in fact it's so friendly that...

4) it's mostly a no-attitude-party. And that's somewhat surprising considering that... 

5) it's quite selective with an extensive application process (a phone interview followed by a in-person in-the-nude interview) so only attractive, in-shape men with friendly attitudes are allowed in. 

6)  The lighting is quite good so you can actually see all the hot guys you are fucking around with, and speaking of fucking around...

7) guys actually have sex at this party. Lots of it. It's not a stand-and-pose affair like some others, and you often will see groups of guys getting tangled up in the most interesting and exciting variety of positions. (Given that there are only couches, chairs and a table to play around on, some creativity can be helpful.)

8) You can take a shower! That's something I haven't found at many sex parties and since I consider hygiene a rather fundamentally important part of attending sex parties, I find it to be a big plus.

So are those enough reasons for you to attend? If not, you are just too hard to please...when you should just be hard. (Smiley winking face implied here). 

Please know that the crowd is mostly made up of twenty-something twinks and some muscle guys and the host is very much about attracting and maintaining a clean-cut, "professional" looking crowd so if you are into the rougher, scuffy-er uber-masculine types of guys, you won't find much of that here. But if you are into more of the All-American boy or fit business man look, this may well be your nirvana. 

Also be aware that the in -person interview that will be scheduled with you immediately preceding your first party is done with you completely in the nude (in front of, in my case anyway, a group of three nude interviewers) and the last few parties themselves have also had a completely nude theme, so this party is for guys who are already comfortable in their own skin and may not be for the more modest or shy among you. Then again, I'm not sure why anyone modest or shy would be diving into group-sex but consider yourself forewarned nonetheless. 

As for the more adventurous of you, send the host an email so you can get your interview in before the party. If you wait till the day of, you likely will not get in, so shoot him an email today and have fun!

Here's the information from our weekly listing:

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District, Manhattan) Great social sex party w/a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just standing around. This week is the "Naked Rite of Spring Pt. 1" party continuing the popular all-nude theme the party has had of late. Recommended.

RATING: Very Selective

VIBE: Very social, not much attitude

TIME: 8pm-11:30pm

CROWD: 80-100 guys

AGE: good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45).

DONATION: $25 + $1 clothes check

SPACE: large private loft apt

SS/BB: A safe sex only party. 

SUPPLIES:  Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube, shower, towels

FREQUENCY: Once a month, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, sometimes Sundays

LIGHTING: Excellent (light enough to see, not too much light for shy men)

GETTING IN: The host requires a short phone interview, and a quick in-person interview right before the party.  People write to ASG that this pisses them off. Seriously: It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party).  Don’t let this stop you; it’s how he maintains a hot, no attitude crowd.  Send request (no pics required) to PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

See you there men!

PRIVATE PARTY: Wednesday night -- don't miss it!!

The monthly twink-jock sex party PRIVATE PARTY is scheduled for Wednesday night at 8:30.  Here's a great review that I got for last's month's party...


"Just a quick note to say that I went to private party last night for the first time, and had a GREAT experience. The phone/in-person interview might turn people off initially, but the result is a very relaxed, but also very fun party full of down to earth guys who know how to enjoy sex. Highly recommend it to anyone interested in group sex or expanding their sexual horizons."

If you wanna go here's the info...

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party w/a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. 
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE (In-shape men).
VIBE: Very social, not much attitude
TIME: 8pm-12am
CROWD: 70-90+ guys
AGE: good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45).
DONATION: $25M, free clothes check.
SPACE: large private loft apt
SS/BB: A safe sex only party. 
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube, shower, towels
FREQUENCY: Once a month, Tues, Wed, Sometimes Sundays
LIGHTING: Excellent (light enoug to see, not too much light for shy men)

GETTING IN: The host requires a short phone interview, and a quick in-person interview right before the party.  People write to ASG that this pisses them off. Seriously: It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party).  Don’t let this stop you; it’s how he maintains a hot, no attitude crowd.  Everyone agrees afterwards that It was painless, and worth the hassle.  Send request (no pics required) to PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

Don't Miss PRIVATE PARTY, Wednesday night...

Wednesday night is the  hot monthly PRIVATE PARTY.  Here’s an email that someone sent after the November 28^th party:

“Went there last night. Had a fantastic time. Lots of hot guys, great space, casual easy-going atmosphere. The host is super-friendly and with zero attitude. Even the guys (and there were a lot - maybe 80!) were approachable and social. Interview process was painless. Plus he provides complimentary refreshments. I've been to parties all over  (London, Toronto, Chicago, Paris), this one ranks with the best of them. Thanks.”

To get in...

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party w/a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. 

RATING: VERY SELECTIVE (In-shape men).

VIBE: Very social, not much attitude

TIME: 8pm-12am

CROWD: 70-90+ guys

AGE: good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45).

DONATION: $25M, free clothes check.

SPACE: large private loft apt

SS/BB: A safe sex only party. 

SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube, shower, towels

FREQUENCY: Once a month, Tues, Wed, Sometimes Sundays

LIGHTING: Excellent (light enoug to see, not too much light for shy men)

GETTING IN: The host requires a short phone interview, and a quick in-person interview right before the party.  People write to ASG that this pisses them off. Seriously: It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party).  Don’t let this stop you; it’s how he maintains a hot, no attitude crowd.  Everyone agrees afterwards that It was painless, and worth the hassle.  Send request (no pics required) to PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

REVIEW: Private Party (and BOXERS AND BRIEFS reminder!)

Hey men -- A reader sent me a review for PRIVATE PARTY's last sex party (on June 6).  I've been holding the review to remind you guys of the next PRIVATE PARTY sex romp on June 27.  Always hot, always fun – don’t miss the party this Wednesday night.  So men, here's the review...

 “Hey, I wanted to send a review of the Private Party: I admit I was intrigued and a little intimidated by the idea of the Private Party. Sex parties in New York either have require you to look like an Amberzombie or are a cum as you are free for all. After my first visit, I have to say, the procedure is well worth it. The phone interview is short and to the point, and the in person interview is quite pleasant, and it ensures the guys who get in are fun, confident and easy on the eyes. The set up where you begin with socializing and then get into sex actually works. As a newbie, I was approached by three different groups who introduced themselves and brought me into the conversation. Conversation moves to flirting and flirting to rubbing and tugging pretty quickly. By the time you are on your knees, the chemistry between everyone is pretty sizzling.

The men are a great mix from mid 20s to the fifties. Everyone was well maintained, a good  sprinkling of scruff, muscle and big dicks. This was not a crowd of gym bunnies, but there was no one who looked bad naked :-). Mostly white guys, but there were Asians, Blacks, Latinos and Indians. Also, a surprising number of very hot European tourists. The party began with around 40-50 guys, and I think there were about 80 odd by the time the evening ended.

Also, the party does end by midnight, but this actually worked to an advantage, since everyone knew the party would wrap up in three hours, people get in on time and get down to business pretty quickly, instead of going through the whole looking bored and waiting for the perfect partner to arrive hours later. It's the only sex party, where I exchange numbers with several guys, making plans to meet up later. Beating grindr and almost every other sex party in New York. Would definitely recommend this."

If you’re still horned up (as I always am) for some more hot sex after Gay Pride Weekend, Send request for an invitation to PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

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And men, just a reminder about GOLDEN BOYS USA and NYJOCK's incredibly hot 3rd annual GAY PRIDE PARTY. These two hosts combine forces a few times a year to bringyou the BIGGEST and HOTTEST "UN-Underwear Party" in NYC with more than 300 young in-shape guys.  Don't miss the "Boxers and Briefs" party on Sunday night, June 24!  To get in send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com, ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com.

Review: last night's PRIVATE PARTY

Hey guys, there are still a few hot parties in the city. Here's some unsolicited praise for last night's PRIVATE PARTY. The next hot party is the always over-the-top hot NYJOCK and GBU's BOXER'S & BRIEFS PARTY on Sunday. Anyway, here's the report from Wednesday night...

"Evan! Thanks for your continued reviews of all of the parties throughout the city, but especially for inspiring me to check out Private Party. This party really is a phenomenon in the way that people socialize and sexualize. I used to be a regular (and cohost) at some of the other "hot" parties, but this host does a great job of vetting good looking guys who are friendly, social and horny.

It was my first time, so I had to come in earlier, show my full monty and any nerves that I had prior dissipated quickly. From there, I grab a drink and started mingling with some welcoming guys. Within minutes, I pounced on this beautiful, dark haired guy in white underwear with an enormous dick. Went over to a couch and the action began. Deep-throat a few cocks, got sandwiched between three, got fucked and fucked. Many guys, many cocks and many fucks later, time flew by. Not much attitude at all. Everyone's just sexing... a lot. I left very satisfied and wanted to echo your praise of this party.

Something fairly usual happened, too... I took home a handful of numbers to keep the sex going with some of these studs. Just another reason why this party is unique. I'm sold.

Thanks again for the recommendation. If there's any way I could help keep this group special, please let me know."

My kind of party! See you Sunday at BOXERS AND BRIEFS -- and at the next PRIVATE PARTY in November.

Next Week: PRIVATE PARTY (Tues, Sept 13). Don't miss It.

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Review: PRIVATE PARTY's Wed Night Orgy

Last week was crazy with sex parties (my dick is exhausted), and after the huge crowds at BOXERS & BRIEFS on Sun, and the hot scene at PRIVATE PARTY on Wed night, I was ready to pass out on a blanket at the shore, which is where I'll be all weekend. Since I already reviewed NYJOCK's B&Bs party, I'm happy to sit back (like a lazy top) while some dude does all the work. Here's the report...

"Hey Evan, I'm a faithful fan of your blog. It always has the best parties and great reviews. I wanted to submit a review of Wednesday night's Private Party so here it is...

I attended the Private Party just once about 3-4 years ago and I loved it, but never went back. Possibly because I had just begun going to sex parties and was still a bit scared of how social Richard's parties can be. Well, per Evan's advice, I signed back up with Richard for party entry and went through the whole interview process once again. The promoters are all a very friendly group and they want to foster a positive/non-creepy vibe for the parties. The interview was quick then the guys started to arrive. I scanned the place for my favorites. I counted about 7-8 guys I had to at least feel up lol. I'm picky, but not standoffish so I had fun with many other dudes too. The party took a while to get started since people were busy conversing and waiting for their alcohol buzz to kick in. Once that happened, it was great! I felt up, sucked or fondled all of the guys on my list except that Australian guy (I will get him next time!). The temp was high but not too sweaty. Alcohol flowed the whole time. Then I came on the back of this short slim sexy college kid. Thanks Richard for the great party! Looking forward to many more! :-)"

The party was very hot with non-stop fucking or sucking (at least for me). Interested in coming, well, you'll have to wait until August 3, for the next one. Apply now!!! Here's the info...


PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt. Good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21)--70-90+ guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before--very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Held once a month, 8pm-12am; $25 donation. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Safe sex only. *Send request to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

Happy Fuckng 4th -- hope you're at the shore too.

More PRIVATE PARTY reviews -- yes, it's that good!

Guys--I hadn't planned on reviewing this month's PRIVATE PARTY, as I'd just reviewed the last one. But fuck, my inbox was inundated with guys thanking me for blogging about the party. Heard last night's PRIVATE PARTY was filled with lots of hot sex, and even hotter guys -- or visa versa. There were about 85 guys last night and I hear that "the crowd skewed younger" than usual and seemed "particularly good looking," and it was a great launch to The Black Party week! Here are two of the reviews I got...

Review #1

"Evan McCarthy,
I read your blog for the spot on revues of the gay sex party scene.
Moved to New York a few years ago, I am 28 with barely enough time for work and gymnasium.
The NYC sex parties are a fast ,easy way to get off.
Do not like many and agree with you on most but have been happy with James'Jocks for awhile...Hot guys,in/out ,over done- and back to work.
Read about Private Party many times but no time or interest in this screening and interviewing crap....I was, like my picture,ok,good,I will come.
Horny yesterday and called the guy who runs it and ask about the party. I expect to hang up but instead he made very interesting hearing about this party and why he makes them for many years. This guy really care about who comes and wants ,as he says to me, professional,hot, friendly and smart with still safe-sex and no drugs. I think,yeah,good luck but he is right.
Still thinking walk out right away.I went to interview before party. I had a blast with these guys. They know what they want at party and make sure that is who come.
Accepted. Then could not believe this crowd. Not all in perfect shape but many are. They talk,laugh and meet each other and have lots and lots of sex.
I learned lesson. Sex at Sex parties is much hotter with a smile and laugh among new friends. I came twice and did not want to leave.Bottom and Top in 2 hours for me.
I will go back any time i can....You know any other like this?
Going to first Black Party on Sat. Thank you."

Review #2
"Evan, I’ve been to Private Party a number of times and I always have a great time, but whatever was in the air last night this month’s party was over the top hot. What makes this party so great is that the host is very selective and really controls who’s on the list. I’ve heard people complain that they have to be interviewed by phone, but the host knows what he’s looking for, and because of it, the party always has hot new guys. It’s very hot that the first 30 minutes are always very friendly and social with guys talking and meeting other guys before they get down to sex. Unlike the New York Jock Party, which guys just stand around ogling each other, guys at Private Party actually talk. It’s oddly very sexy. And then suddenly underwear starts to come off and it starts. Amazing. There are usually piles of guys fucking on the sofas, and rows of guys in the middle of the room on their knees sucking dick. I can’t tell you how many dicks I sucked last night, or how many guys fucked me (well, it was seven, but many multiple times). I got there early and when I finally came up for air, it was almost 11PM. And when you need a break, there’s always the kitchen to relax (unless guys start fucking in there, which they did last night). I also like that you can shower afterwards, and the host provides towels. I even fucked around in the shower on my way out. The guys are always very hot: there were a lot of muscle guys, jocks and twinks there last night, and plenty of tops. The host is a great guy and takes pains to make sure that every one has fun and that people practice safe sex. I’ve brought a number of friends now, who are now regulars."

The first review is so cute, I want to fuck him right now--English is clearly not his first language, but it's pretty obvious that he had a great time. The second review really spells it out -- hot guys/hot sex -- who can ask for anything more?

As both guys wrote: this is a highly screened group, but DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to be screened and interviewed. Dudes, it's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just minutes before the party begins). I know it sounds annoying--but don't let it bother you--it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex. The next PRIVATE PARTY is WED, APRIL 6. Apply now, because it takes a day or two to be screened, and the host has no time the day of the party. To get start the process send pics, stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

PRIVATE PARTY review

Hey guys -- so anyone who reads this blogs know that I am a huge fan of PRIVATE PARTY. To me it has the best mix of hot guy and hot sex. It's a fun (very social) sex party held once a month. Last month's party was no exception. Don't believe guys, here's a review a reader sent me today...

"Hit up this party last month, 75-80 guys from 20s to 40s. The action is terrific, and everyone mixes socially as well. That's what makes this party so comfortable and friendly. It's not a party to be late for and start time means something. Action cranks up within 30 minutes, but the door is open to members throughout the evening. (The host has been doing this for 14 years so has every right to be particular on several levels, great guys in great shape.) The process is easy and friendly. If you'll embrace the process, you will reap the reward of membership in this selective group. Already looking forward to next month."



If you're interested in checking it out, the next one is March 16. I say this every month, but just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.) Here are the details...

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) 8pm-12am. Held in large private loft apt. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21) -- 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels.
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

See you there in two weeks!

PRIVATE PARTY -- Next party set for WED, JAN 5

Hey guys – it’s that time of the month again for PRIVATE PARTY – a very selective – and always filled with hot guys and (more importantly) hot sex. Many of the parties with hot guys have little sex (most guys standing around with their dicks in their hands -- no fucking fun) – that’s what’s cool about PRIVATE PARTY – it’s heavily screened, so guys are hot and looking for action – and they get it.

Apply now, because it takes a day or two to be screened. It’s a great social sex party in large private loft apt in the Garment District held once a month, 8pm-12am. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20s-30s-40YOs (no one over 45 or under 21) -- 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. $25 donation.

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Just a warning that this is a highly screened group, but DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to be screened and interviewed. Dudes, it's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.)

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The PRIVATE PARTY is an exclusive, SAFE-SEX and SOCIAL event for hot guys. The parties are safe, discreet, friendly, and drug and attitude free. In order to maintain their standards all potential members are screened and interviewed.

TO GET IN: So, if you interested or want more information, email pics, stats, and a phone number with the best times to reach you to (PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com) The host will call with all details regarding the party, who attends, and the interview process — NO MORE than 10 minutes and he will NEVER call you again.



GUYS -- it's the best ALL AROUND party for a great mix of hot guys and amazing sex. Give it a shot. See you there! Have fun and play safe.

DON'T MISS IT!

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Review of Sunday's PRIVATE PARTY

Dudes, as my readers know, I'm always recommending PRIVATE PARTY, and this Sunday's party was great as usual. The next party is a few weeks away on Wednesday, December 1.

Here's a first-timers' rave about the party, and even the interview process. Check it out and see you on December 1. (And if you're not already on the list -- send the host an email now)...

"I was referred to your blogspot several months ago because I have always been curious about a gay group sex party. Although you had all the information that I needed I was very unsure about how to proceed. I am a handsome, worked-out,ivy-league educated attorney with no interest in rec drugs and only interested in safer sex.I was uncomfortable about sending pictures let alone an interview to join a group but I also thought that the "open" parties could not be what I would want. Last week I finally contacted the host of Private.Party,since you suggested this party is best for the uninitiated. I am not sure what I expected but I ended up with an amazing explanation of the gay-life history of this guy, which led to him creating these parties. After the why's, he explained the party and procedures in detail.We then talked a bit about me.I was happy that he repeatedly stressed safe-sex and drug free. He claimed that these parties were also very friendly and social with good looking career-oriented guys. He was open to all my questions which were ,I now admit, a bit snarky.That call was an interesting and pleasant experience. But I was still not sure that I was willing to "interview" and not convinced that this was exactly what he claimed it to be. But IT WAS! I went on Sunday night,admittedly with a chip on my shoulder about having to interview in person. I was greeted warmly at the door by the host and offered a drink and made to feel very comfortable before it was my turn. Moments later I am having a naked chat with 3 charming gentlemen ,who made me feel so at ease and sooo eager to be part of this group. The rest of the men interviewing seemed similar in age and stats to me but 2 were turned down for some reason. The venue is large but not huge, clean and nice and well-lit ,which was important to me.Refreshments were plentiful and all other needs in large supply.Members started to arrive at 8 and by 8:30 it seemed very active---I was a kid in a candy store . Everywhere around me were truly attractive guys talking , laughing, catching up and having more sex than I actually thought one could handle in a few hours. It was all so inclusive--I did not realize that you could have a large group of gay men in one room and not be overwhelmed with attitude and airs. The rest was a blur of more fun than I have had since college. I left with phone numbers, e mails and ,I think, a handful of new friends. I am sorry that there is a month gap between his events. So,chastised and educated ,I learned that if you submit to a screening and interview you will be part of a group that knows how to interact socially, sexually and safely. They did a great job. It seemed like everyone had all kinds of fun.
I noted the next few of these parties and will eagerly return on Dec. 1 .But now,Evan,am spoiled and all else will be downhill in the group sex circuit? I am going to try some others but I am not sure that I can handle more fun than I had last night. Thank you,Evan, for helping us all thru this daunting maze of groups and parties."





Anyway, guys are always asking me for other parties like this one -- there aren't any. PRIVATE PARTY is safe, clean, very social, and filled with HOT guys, who are into hot sex. Guys complain to me about the interview process, but without it the party would be like the others -- filled with the wrong guys. Here's the info on how to get into the next party on Wednesday, December 1...

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt held once a month, 8pm-12am.. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45) -- 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.)
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.
NEXT PARTY: WED.DEC.1