My dear fellow group-sex aficionados:
Here
is a listing of all the parties I *believe* to be happening this week.
If the host/s has confirmed the details of the party directly with me
then I list the details as "VERIFIED." If the hosts have not confirmed
the party details with me, I list the details as "UNVERIFIED."
I
highly recommend that you do not attend a party going solely off of the
information here without contacting the hosts first, especially if the
information here is UNVERIFIED. Most parties do require that you submit
pics and stats and that you are added to an invite list before you can
attend, and there is always the chance of last minute changes
or cancellations.
Another great source for finding parties is the "Parties and Events" section of adam4adam.com, so I recommend that you check that site for parties as well, especially if you are looking for parties outside of the NYC area.
Another great source for finding parties is the "Parties and Events" section of adam4adam.com, so I recommend that you check that site for parties as well, especially if you are looking for parties outside of the NYC area.
A GUIDE TO DOOR POLICIES
Here
is a listing of what the different “DOOR POLICY” terms mean. These
should not be taken as an indication of how “good” a party is. I have
been to some Very Selective parties where I have been bored because
there were mostly men standing around acting like they were all too good
for each other, and I’ve also been to Open Door parties that have been
full-out fuckfests filled with lots of hot group action. These
categories are simply intended to be a guide as to whether the party is
one you would physically fit in to and an indication as to what kinds of
body types you will likely find there.
Here are the Door Policy Categories:
Selective –
Only men with above-average to average bodies are allowed. “Average”
refers to men who are height-weight-proportionate and do not have much
visible muscle tone or muscle mass. But you will also usually find quite
a few men in great shape at these parties as well.
Somewhat Selective –
A wide range of body types. You may find some above-average athletic
men and also some out-of-shape men with extra pounds on them, but not
overly obese. Most guys at these parties tend to have average bodies.
Not Selective –
All body types are allowed. You still need to be on an invite list in
order to attend, and with some Not Selective parties you may need to
meet some other entrance criteria such as age or race.
Open Door – General admission. Everyone is welcome and you don’t need to be on an invite list in order to attend. Just show up.
Here are the parties for this Friday through Thursday:
Friday, January 9th
METROPOLIS (Gramercy) The Friday
night party format at the Gramercy Duplex combines five different
parties (from five separate hosts) into one evening with each party
having it's own dedicated entry time. Regardless of what party you
arrive for and what time you enter, you are welcome to stay until the
end of the evening at 3am.
THE HOSTS SAY: “Each Friday has a different line-up, offering something for everyone, especially for guys craving hot hardcore action. Two huge floors filled with hairy muscled jocks, smooth pumped-up studs, lean eager twinks, and rugged masculine men, all coming together naked and without attitude, confident with having a sac and able to hold their own in large active group scenes. All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend, but must be fit, in-shape, and not a light-weight. Anyone looking for a ‘jock-perfect-only frame of mind group’ with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their "pee-pees" should not apply, this event is not for you!"
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
THE HOSTS SAY: “Each Friday has a different line-up, offering something for everyone, especially for guys craving hot hardcore action. Two huge floors filled with hairy muscled jocks, smooth pumped-up studs, lean eager twinks, and rugged masculine men, all coming together naked and without attitude, confident with having a sac and able to hold their own in large active group scenes. All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend, but must be fit, in-shape, and not a light-weight. Anyone looking for a ‘jock-perfect-only frame of mind group’ with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their "pee-pees" should not apply, this event is not for you!"
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Both Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 8pm-3am
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 40-60 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; (for the wrestling matches) 2nd floor semi-dark (for the sex orgy)
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more party info, please visit www.gayguysglobal.net
For DADS & LADS, 8pm-9pm, contact with stats/pics lads4dads@gmail.com
For TESTOSTERONE, 9pm-10pm, contact with stats/pics testosteronenyc@gmail.com
For RED DRAGON, 10pm-11pm, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
For INK, 11pm-12am, contact with stats/pics inksexparty@gmail.com
For BACKROOM, 12am-3am, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
DONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 8pm-3am
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 40-60 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; (for the wrestling matches) 2nd floor semi-dark (for the sex orgy)
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more party info, please visit www.gayguysglobal.net
For DADS & LADS, 8pm-9pm, contact with stats/pics lads4dads@gmail.com
For TESTOSTERONE, 9pm-10pm, contact with stats/pics testosteronenyc@gmail.com
For RED DRAGON, 10pm-11pm, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
For INK, 11pm-12am, contact with stats/pics inksexparty@gmail.com
For BACKROOM, 12am-3am, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large
party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a
"cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10
minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-4am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com
MYKONOS SEX PARTY (JACKSON HEIGHTS)
FROM THE HOSTS: "Come join us for a Hot Underwear or all nude sex party in
Jackson Heights Queens. Play with guys from all races into insatiable sex with decent to in shape hard and pumped up masculine men. Held in a large pre-war apt. Two large rooms from semi light to dark for an all interracial friendly group orgy night of hardcore man sex! Relaxed sexually charged environment and gay forward neighborhood. Address is 35-06 73 street Apt 4F. Ring bell to be buzzed in. All details are here on the ad so come just join in Friday's and Sunday evening. Guys don't waste time with endless conversation and questions when they arrive but quickly start playing."
Jackson Heights Queens. Play with guys from all races into insatiable sex with decent to in shape hard and pumped up masculine men. Held in a large pre-war apt. Two large rooms from semi light to dark for an all interracial friendly group orgy night of hardcore man sex! Relaxed sexually charged environment and gay forward neighborhood. Address is 35-06 73 street Apt 4F. Ring bell to be buzzed in. All details are here on the ad so come just join in Friday's and Sunday evening. Guys don't waste time with endless conversation and questions when they arrive but quickly start playing."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open door
VIBE: Social with a friendly host
SS / BB: A Safe Sex party
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Beer, Condoms, lube, Clothes Check provided.
TIME: 10pm to 5am
FREQUENCY: Weekly Fridays and Sundays
CROWD: 20-50 guys
AGES: 20's to 50's
SPACE: Loft
LIGHTING: Semi dark with a dark room
GETTING IN: Email frape1984@yahoo.com
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE
HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of
color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get
approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to
grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well
organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too
big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed.
I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats
ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours
party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those
places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list
or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss.
This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended
that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out
pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of
aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to
attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or
take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this
knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early
morning times to be had here.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
Saturday, January 10th
THE
HOSTS SAY: "Announcing the grand reopening at new Bronx
location.Mandatory Total Nudity (no undergarments, jock straps, flip
flops, socks, headgear, jewelry) We provide refreshments and snacks,
condoms and lube. Bring your own booze. No glass bottles.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICSRATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Laid back, no attitude
TIME: 6pm to 12am
CROWD: 20-40 men
AGES: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)
DONATION: $10 before 7pm $20 after
SS/BB: Some safe sex, but mostly BB
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve
LONG ISLAND BI-SEXUAL GROUP (Long Island) LI-BI-do is a Bisexual social group that hold parties for Couples, women, trans, and men. All are welcome. You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly, or Bi-curious.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: No attitude and friendly
TIME: 7pm until the last person finishes after Midnight
CROWD: 25 to 35 people ages 18 to 81 of all backgrounds. Most males are 30 to 50
DONATION: There is a fee for males. Contact the host for more info.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Hotel suite
SUPPLIES: sandwiches, condoms/lube, BYO light beverages
FREQUENCY: Second and fifth Saturdays of each month
LIGHTING: Soft lighting
GETTING IN: Go to the Home Page at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LI-BI-do, or send a blank email to LI-BI-do-Subscribe@yahoogroups.com or check out http://www.li-bi-do.org.
THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-5:30am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com
GOLDEN BOYS USA COLLEGE KEGGER PARTY (Park Slope, Brooklyn)
THE HOSTS SAY: "The biggest and best naked or underwear party of them all ... this infamous party now gets over 200 hot inshape pre-approved younger guys at the "GBU Frat House" in Brooklyn. There is a watersports element to this party but you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party. The watersports area is contained and can be easily avoided if it's not your thing. There's a DJ, an open beer bar, many rooms, slings and a maze that makes this location the ultimate play space. In shape guys 18-30ish only. You do not need a six pack to get in, but you can't be overweight or above early 30's. All proportional types welcome. Skinny guys are always a plus.We strongly recommend condom use, especially in a environment where you don't know status of the guys you are having sex with. Having condom less sex is at your own risk. If you engage in condom less sex, it is assumed that you are either are on PrEP, Truvada, or undetectable. We urge everyone to wear condoms, and it is mandatory if your partner asks you to. "
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Younger guys who want to party with guys of their own age. No attitude chill crowd. You can come explore and participate or just watch and meet or talk to people. Very social towards the front, very sexual in the rooms towards the back.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys looking for older daddy or bear types.
GETTING IN: Send your email with your age and clear face / body pics to ChrisHawke@gmail.com
MYKONOS SEX PARTY (JACKSON HEIGHTS)
GOLDEN BOYS USA COLLEGE KEGGER PARTY (Park Slope, Brooklyn) THE HOSTS SAY: "The biggest and best naked or underwear party of them all ... this infamous party now gets over 200 hot inshape pre-approved younger guys at the "GBU Frat House" in Brooklyn. There is a watersports element to this party but you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party. The watersports area is contained and can be easily avoided if it's not your thing. There's a DJ, an open beer bar, many rooms, slings and a maze that makes this location the ultimate play space. In shape guys 18-30ish only. You do not need a six pack to get in, but you can't be overweight or above early 30's. All proportional types welcome. Skinny guys are always a plus.We strongly recommend condom use, especially in a environment where you don't know status of the guys you are having sex with. Having condom less sex is at your own risk. If you engage in condom less sex, it is assumed that you are either are on PrEP, Truvada, or undetectable. We urge everyone to wear condoms, and it is mandatory if your partner asks you to. "
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: Very chill
TIME: 10pm-5am
CROWD: Over 200 guys - mixed races but predominantly white
AGES: 18-30ish years old. Average age is 23
DONATION: $20 before 11pm, $25 after 11pm. (Under 21 $10 all night with valid ID). Additional $3 for clothes check.
SS/BB: Mostly safe sex, some BB
SPACE: Huge underground basement space. (Have regular rooms and wet rooms).
SUPPLIES: We include everything from the open bar all night to snacks... condoms and lube and towels and a shower.
FREQUENCY: Held every other month on the second Saturday
LIGHTING: Sexy mood lighting. Some rooms dimmer than others.
GETTING IN: Email ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.comA GOOD PARTY FOR: Younger guys who want to party with guys of their own age. No attitude chill crowd. You can come explore and participate or just watch and meet or talk to people. Very social towards the front, very sexual in the rooms towards the back.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys looking for older daddy or bear types.
MYKONOS SEX PARTY (JACKSON HEIGHTS)
FROM THE HOSTS: "Come join us for a Hot Underwear or all nude sex party in
Jackson Heights Queens. Play with guys from all races into insatiable sex with decent to in shape hard and pumped up masculine men. Held in a large pre-war apt. Two large rooms from semi light to dark for an all interracial friendly group orgy night of hardcore man sex! Relaxed sexually charged environment and gay forward neighborhood. Address is 35-06 73 street Apt 4F. Ring bell to be buzzed in. All details are here on the ad so come just join in Friday's and Sunday evening. Guys don't waste time with endless conversation and questions when they arrive but quickly start playing."
Jackson Heights Queens. Play with guys from all races into insatiable sex with decent to in shape hard and pumped up masculine men. Held in a large pre-war apt. Two large rooms from semi light to dark for an all interracial friendly group orgy night of hardcore man sex! Relaxed sexually charged environment and gay forward neighborhood. Address is 35-06 73 street Apt 4F. Ring bell to be buzzed in. All details are here on the ad so come just join in Friday's and Sunday evening. Guys don't waste time with endless conversation and questions when they arrive but quickly start playing."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open door
VIBE: Social with a friendly host
SS / BB: A Safe Sex party
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Beer, Condoms, lube, Clothes Check provided.
TIME: 10pm to 5am
FREQUENCY: Weekly Fridays and Sundays
CROWD: 20-50 guys
AGES: 20's to 50's
SPACE: Loft
LIGHTING: Semi dark with a dark room
GETTING IN: Email frape1984@yahoo.com
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats
ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours
party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those
places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list
or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss.
This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended
that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out
pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of
aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to
attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or
take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this
knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early
morning times to be had here.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/
Sunday, January 11th
BEARCAVE (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: “This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear Community together for hot steamy afternoon fun. A great way for anyone looking to get off before the weekend wraps up."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and FriendlySS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 40-50 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: bearcavenyc@verizon.net. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net
THE BEAR PARTY (Chelsea)
THE HOST SAYS: "NYC's premier sex party for bears, cubs, chubs and chasers."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: S/S and BB. "We encourage safe sex and provide condoms and lube but don't police it. "
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube
TIME: 1:30 to 5:30pm
FREQUENCY: Weekly on Sundays
CROWD: 30-50 guys of all ages
LOCATION:Paddles club, basement level
LIGHTING: Good, dark in some rooms
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races, average and out-of-shape guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more info you may contact info@bearpartynyc.com or go to bearpartynyc.com to join
NEW YORK JACKS (Midtown) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 4pm to 6pm, jerking until 7pm.
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Tuesday)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: A loft-type space
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Follow them on Twitter twitter.com/nyjacks and on Tumblr at nyjacks.tumblr.com
ASS ACTION
(Washington Heights) A
safe-sex party with the emphasis on “hot butt sex.” The hosts have a group of
select guys that make up a diverse mix of race and types come over to their
apartment to "fuck each others' brains out." The party is known for having an intimate,
relaxed, social vibe that seems to put everyone at ease and leads to a lot of
hot sex.
THE HOSTS SAY: “The original Sunday Ass Action parties are back and now are exclusively for our Men’s Den members. Men’s Den is a club for attractive fit men ages 18 to 40s who are into playing safe. Members have access to three different types of parties that we host for them as well as to our own private social network exclusively for our members to interact with each other.
THE HOST SAYS: "NYC's premier sex party for bears, cubs, chubs and chasers."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: S/S and BB. "We encourage safe sex and provide condoms and lube but don't police it. "
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube
TIME: 1:30 to 5:30pm
FREQUENCY: Weekly on Sundays
CROWD: 30-50 guys of all ages
LOCATION:Paddles club, basement level
LIGHTING: Good, dark in some rooms
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races, average and out-of-shape guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more info you may contact info@bearpartynyc.com or go to bearpartynyc.com to join
NEW YORK JACKS (Midtown) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 4pm to 6pm, jerking until 7pm.
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Tuesday)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: A loft-type space
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Follow them on Twitter twitter.com/nyjacks and on Tumblr at nyjacks.tumblr.com
ASS ACTION
(Washington Heights) A
safe-sex party with the emphasis on “hot butt sex.” The hosts have a group of
select guys that make up a diverse mix of race and types come over to their
apartment to "fuck each others' brains out." The party is known for having an intimate,
relaxed, social vibe that seems to put everyone at ease and leads to a lot of
hot sex.THE HOSTS SAY: “The original Sunday Ass Action parties are back and now are exclusively for our Men’s Den members. Men’s Den is a club for attractive fit men ages 18 to 40s who are into playing safe. Members have access to three different types of parties that we host for them as well as to our own private social network exclusively for our members to interact with each other.
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude, very friendly and social
SS/BB: A safe sex only party
DONATION: $10 before 6pm, $20 after
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, beverages
TIME: 5pm-9pm, door closes at 8pm.
FREQUENCY: Once a month
CROWD: 20-25 guys
AGE: 21 to 40s, most of the guys are usually in their 20's
SPACE: Private Apartment
LIGHTING: Good
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly, social guys, men who love to play safe, men who like to play with a diverse group of guys from many different ethnic backgrounds, first-timers.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, guys with racial hangups, guys with attitude, guys looking to PnP
GETTING IN: You need to be a Men’s Den Member in order to attend. (Membership is free.) You can find out more about the club at mensdenmen.com/pages/info and you can apply for a membership at mensdenmen.com/signup.
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude, very friendly and social
SS/BB: A safe sex only party
DONATION: $10 before 6pm, $20 after
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, beverages
TIME: 5pm-9pm, door closes at 8pm.
FREQUENCY: Once a month
CROWD: 20-25 guys
AGE: 21 to 40s, most of the guys are usually in their 20's
SPACE: Private Apartment
LIGHTING: Good
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly, social guys, men who love to play safe, men who like to play with a diverse group of guys from many different ethnic backgrounds, first-timers.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, guys with racial hangups, guys with attitude, guys looking to PnP
GETTING IN: You need to be a Men’s Den Member in order to attend. (Membership is free.) You can find out more about the club at mensdenmen.com/pages/info and you can apply for a membership at mensdenmen.com/signup.
THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large
party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a
"cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10
minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $17
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 6pm-2am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: For more party info contact the hosts at playgroundqueens@aol.com
NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For
anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope,
spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex
is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at
all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom
directing sex between two roped subs.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7pm-2am
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE:
Held in a BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints,
bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people
up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING:
At 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the
front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street
clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish
wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site at www.NYBondageClub.com
FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
PRIVATE PARTY (Midtown West) Great social sex party with a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just standing around. Recommended.
THE HOST SAYS: “PRIVATE PARTY is an exclusive monthly, all-nude, safe-sex and social event for well-built, well-groomed, handsome, professional men and students 18- 45. PRIVATE PARTY events are safe, discreet, friendly, completely drug-free and open only to our members. In order to maintain our standards all potential members are screened by phone prior to a brief confirmatory in-person interview. Members of this large organized group are in fine physical and mental shape ,work-out/exercise on a regular basis in addition to being confident, interesting and accomplished. This is a highly screened group who practice safe-sex and enjoy mixing and meeting in a drug-free, friendly, all-nude, social and sexual environment."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: A safe-sex party
DONATION: $25 and $1 clothes check
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms and lube, towels and shower amenities
TIME: 8:30pm-11:30pm (Apr.-July), 8:00pm-11:30pm (Sept. -Mar.)
FREQUENCY: Monthly, usually on a Wednesday
CROWD: 80 to 100+ guys, mostly white collar professionals and students
AGE: 18-45 (no one over 45, average age is 25-35)
SPACE: Safe, clean private loft apartment
LIGHTING: Atmospheric lighting with full visibility while appropriate for the mood.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into well-build, well-groomed white-collar professionals and students, guys into safe-sex, guys into younger “twink” types, guys tired of the bar scene, first-timers.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into leather or other various fetishes. Guys into heavily-inked guys, guys into men with facial or body hair, guys into masculine beefy types. Guys who like to PnP.
GETTING IN: E-mail PRIVATE.PARTY@MSN.COM for complete info.
MYKONOS SEX PARTY (JACKSON HEIGHTS)
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
PRIVATE PARTY (Midtown West) Great social sex party with a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just standing around. Recommended. THE HOST SAYS: “PRIVATE PARTY is an exclusive monthly, all-nude, safe-sex and social event for well-built, well-groomed, handsome, professional men and students 18- 45. PRIVATE PARTY events are safe, discreet, friendly, completely drug-free and open only to our members. In order to maintain our standards all potential members are screened by phone prior to a brief confirmatory in-person interview. Members of this large organized group are in fine physical and mental shape ,work-out/exercise on a regular basis in addition to being confident, interesting and accomplished. This is a highly screened group who practice safe-sex and enjoy mixing and meeting in a drug-free, friendly, all-nude, social and sexual environment."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: A safe-sex party
DONATION: $25 and $1 clothes check
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms and lube, towels and shower amenities
TIME: 8:30pm-11:30pm (Apr.-July), 8:00pm-11:30pm (Sept. -Mar.)
FREQUENCY: Monthly, usually on a Wednesday
CROWD: 80 to 100+ guys, mostly white collar professionals and students
AGE: 18-45 (no one over 45, average age is 25-35)
SPACE: Safe, clean private loft apartment
LIGHTING: Atmospheric lighting with full visibility while appropriate for the mood.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into well-build, well-groomed white-collar professionals and students, guys into safe-sex, guys into younger “twink” types, guys tired of the bar scene, first-timers.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into leather or other various fetishes. Guys into heavily-inked guys, guys into men with facial or body hair, guys into masculine beefy types. Guys who like to PnP.
GETTING IN: E-mail PRIVATE.PARTY@MSN.COM for complete info.
MYKONOS SEX PARTY (JACKSON HEIGHTS)
FROM THE HOSTS: "Come join us for a Hot Underwear or all nude sex party in
Jackson Heights Queens. Play with guys from all races into insatiable sex with decent to in shape hard and pumped up masculine men. Held in a large pre-war apt. Two large rooms from semi light to dark for an all interracial friendly group orgy night of hardcore man sex! Relaxed sexually charged environment and gay forward neighborhood. Address is 35-06 73 street Apt 4F. Ring bell to be buzzed in. All details are here on the ad so come just join in Friday's and Sunday evening. Guys don't waste time with endless conversation and questions when they arrive but quickly start playing."
Jackson Heights Queens. Play with guys from all races into insatiable sex with decent to in shape hard and pumped up masculine men. Held in a large pre-war apt. Two large rooms from semi light to dark for an all interracial friendly group orgy night of hardcore man sex! Relaxed sexually charged environment and gay forward neighborhood. Address is 35-06 73 street Apt 4F. Ring bell to be buzzed in. All details are here on the ad so come just join in Friday's and Sunday evening. Guys don't waste time with endless conversation and questions when they arrive but quickly start playing."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open door
VIBE: Social with a friendly host
SS / BB: A Safe Sex party
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Beer, Condoms, lube, Clothes Check provided.
TIME: 10pm to 5am
FREQUENCY: Weekly Fridays and Sundays
CROWD: 20-50 guys
AGES: 20's to 50's
SPACE: Loft
LIGHTING: Semi dark with a dark room
GETTING IN: Email frape1984@yahoo.com
THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 9pm-3am
TIME: 9pm-3am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats
FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn).
From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no
negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only,
no one waist over 36 will not get in."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com
Monday, January 12th
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door (18+Party, 21+ drink)
VIBE: No Attitude, calm, relaxed, peaceful, with friendly English-speaking staff
TIME: 5pm to 11pm
TIME: 5pm to 11pm
CROWD: 70-90 guys (it's really quiet 2pm-5pm; after 6pm its the busiest)
COST: $40 everything included. Jr Pass (18-26yrs old) $30
AGE: All ages 18-65 and races welcome to attend
SUPPLIES: "We provide everything. Spa essentials, towels, lockers with locks, fruit and snacks."
FREQUENCY: Every Monday
LIGHTING: Dimmed low, relaxed atmosphere
GETTING IN: matrixmonday@yahoo.com
PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 5pm to 11pm (doors close at 10pm)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
JACKS OF COLOR "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY" (Chelsea) Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." One
of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge
and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on
weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the
pleasure of meeting.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 50-70
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com
THE
HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’
What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent
men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place
to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys
with sense of community. We are supportive of the artistic community
with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy
dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great
promotions to pull in hotter guys."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
HANDSOMENYC.COM (Astoria, Queens) Host Hunteur brings his party to Astoria on Monday nights to the Rainbow Playground, home of the Omega parties.
THE
HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’
What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent
men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place
to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys
with sense of community. We are supportive of the artistic community
with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy
dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great
promotions to pull in hotter guys."UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am.
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: A large industrial loft-type space with many private cabins and rooms and a cinema lounge.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT
A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The
host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good
energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).
MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s). This
is a small sex party in a private apartment. This party can be hit and
miss depending on how many and who show up, but when it's "hit" it can
be a very hot party indeed. The best thing about this party is that it's
one of the true orgies in the city. At most parties guys are having sex
one-on-one or in threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a
pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occasionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: Free
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
Tuesday, January 13th
NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 7pm to 9pm, jerking until 10pm
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Sunday.)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Follow them on Twitter twitter.com/nyjacks and on Tumblr at nyjacks.tumblr.com
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 7pm to 9pm, jerking until 10pm
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Sunday.)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/
Follow them on Twitter twitter.com/nyjacks and on Tumblr at nyjacks.tumblr.com
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
Wednesday, January 14th
REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) "Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com
THE BEAR PARTY (Times Square)
THE HOST SAYS: "NYC's premier sex party for bears, cubs, chubs and chasers."
Clothes check policy at the Time Square location. It's completely nude so no underwear is allowed; however, if you're shy they have small towels you can hold over yourself.
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: S/S and BB. "We encourage safe sex and provide condoms and lube but don't police it. "
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube
TIME: 1:30 to 5:30pm doors closet at 10
FREQUENCY: Weekly on Sundays
CROWD: 30-50 guys of all ages
LOCATION: Times Square Loft
LIGHTING: Good, dark in some rooms
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races, average and out-of-shape guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: For more info you may contact info@bearpartynyc.com or go to bearpartynyc.com to join
HANDSOMENYC.COM (Chelsea) This party from host Hunteur replaces Hard Drive on Wednesdays.
THE
HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’
What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent
men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place
to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys
with sense of community, we also offer totally free STD Testing and
referral to free health care for life and also referral to Harm
Reduction Services. We have a permanent medical office on location. You
do not need to pay the entrance fee to access our services- you may get
tested and leave. We are supportive of the artistic community with
nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy
dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great
promotions to pull in hotter guys."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 before 9pm, $27 after, or use your silver VIP card for $22 admission all night long.
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am.
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE:
Paddles – a huge, clean, 5000 sq. feet of professional play space. A
fully licensed Commercial Sex Venue licensed by the state and also
licensed as a medical off-site testing facility with a secure guarded area to keep your belongings locked up and safe.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT
A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The
host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good
energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).
Thursday, January 15th
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy)
THE
HOSTS SAY: “Lunch-time party for businessmen looking to hook up weekday
afternoons, offering guys who generally can't play during the evening
hours (because of wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, or partnered) a chance
to bust a quick afternoon nut in a large group setting.”
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 12pm-3pm
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD:
30-40 guys, all races welcome, a mixture of gay, bi, and
straight-curious men looking to explore their sexuality in a safe
environment.
AGE: 21-55, most guys in their 30's and 40's
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A
GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with the suit-and-tie crowd.
Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men in
their 30s and 40s and Jocks who like older Daddy types. Guys who find
wedding rings a turn-on.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and Stats to: executivelunchnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net
THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 5:30pm-3am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 5pm to 10pm (doors close at 9pm)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 5pm to 10pm (doors close at 9pm)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.
FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn).
From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no
negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only,
no one waist over 36 will not get in."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com
See you there men!
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