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Saturday, April 30, 2011
Monday, April 25, 2011
Review: JACKS OF COLOR (Lots of Opinions!)
Guys, There are a lot of parties I've never checked out because they didn't seem like my scene, and JACK OF COLOR is one of them. Nothing wrong with it--just not for me. The one thing that many people has told me about this party is that the host is a great guy. His weekly email are very friendly, and he clearly really enjoys hosting sex parties. Even other hosts like Scott have said that they were inspired (my word not his) by the JACKS OF COLOR host in creating his own parties (JACKS OF COLOR is known to be very welcoming, have NO attitude, and lots of sex). Oddly, I've never had a review to post of this party until tonight. One of regular reviewers sent this in today. He reports...
"Dear Evan, I've had some negative experiences at Ed and Steve's party and at Omega recently, but I want you to know what I would consider to be a model of a well run party: Lidell's various parties held at Paddles under various names and themes. I think what distinguishes Lidell's parties is that he maintains a standard at the door (some heavy guys, but well within the realm of "beefy," and carrying it well; and definitely no unbathed octogenarians!). In addition, Lidell gets around the party and actually plays. I think this gives him a clear idea of who is and who is not playing well in the sandbox and lets everyone know that they have to be respectful of one another. Although people are eager to have sex at Lidell's parties, I've never experienced repeated, unwanted advances there. At other parties, the hosts are mainly occupied taking money and handing out garbage bags (another plus of Lidell's parties: he lets you treat your clothes like clothes, i.e., on a hanger and not as trash to be thrown around). Lidell is truly a host, chatting, flirting, keeping the vibe sexy (without the "we're in this mainly to make a buck" vibe), and adding personally to the sexual energy by playing. In addition, the staff he hires are first rate, and keep up the flirty, sexy vibe that Lidell brings. That's refreshing and hot. Perhaps Lidell has spoiled me for other parties. I admit that the standard he sets is very high. Thanks for giving us all a forum in which to distinguish the good from the bad from the mediocre."
Sounds like a cool host and one who knows how to keep a party in control. (Although personally I prefer the garbage bags to the hangers). Well, dudes, if you're game, check out the party here...
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com
Well, it seems gay men can agree on nothing. Here's a rebuttal to the review above from a regular contributor...
"Never liked JACKS OF COLOR party at all. The worst - is a certain type, mostly a "very much older leather fetish" crowd and a lot of the guests seem like they are on drugs and have unsafe sex. I also dont like using hangers, I prefer bags, which are used at most parties."
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OKAY, FUCK guys, I often don't know what I'm talking about -- so I appreciate so many readers keeping me in line. Well, dude, another reader, and regular review says that the go-go positive JACKS OF COLOR review that started this whole post is not accurate. So, guys, here's another point of view with rebuttal 2...
"Opinion - Rebutal JACKS OF COLOR party. I think you got it all wrong with JACKS OF COLOR party. Here's me and my partner's opinion... I hosted my own parties back in the day and use to go to many of the curent JACKS OF COLOR host's other parties. Everybody which use to go to his parties a few years back - know of how crazy and wild his parties were. I had my own negative experience at his party at the 9ave location like 3 years ago. Someone had a "very bad trip at his party" and as a result the place had problems. Never been back since !
The way Paddle is run has nothing to do with JACKS OF COLOR. Hangers and everything at Paddles were there before JACKS OF COLOR's host even started hosting parties at that Location. Paddle's Owners have many rules and run the place very tight (no smoking, drugs etc) so most of Lidel's crazy regulars have started going to other places. The place is big which minimizes groping which happens in many small places with large groups .
Don't confuse socializing or personality in the front with "money and dedication." The prize should go to the club owners that spend 18 hours per day at the clubs and 7 days per week making sure everything is running right. Not just going there to host a party , socializing for 5 hours , getting laid + paid and going home. I Know many of these Hardworking owners and they do alot of work , without making any money. The problem is they keep it too themselves and not run and talk about everything they do.
Believe me I use to host parties before - 4 years ago and at the end of the day "money is what makes the world go round". That staff which is very flirtatious and works - not just Lidel's parties " their working for a good tip", Honey". At the end of the night , conedison has to get paid, rent has to get paid , staff has to get paid , owners have to get paid , so don't confuse a nice personality (which is genetic) with what really goes on behind the scenes. Go host a party at gramery or Paddles or 38 st , The first thing out of the owner's mouth is " how many people, do you get ?
A quick buck, ? That's an unfair opinion of the many other hosts. A quick buck would be - doing one party at a hotel and going home and disappearing. All these other host might not be prince charming and are charging money .But they have been doing parties for years - have a following of people and do regular parties per month.That's not a quick buck, that's dedication!"
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DUDES--I'VE SADLY GOTTEN myself into the middle of a fight and I don't even have a dog in the race: I've never been to JACKS OF COLOR, and doubt I ever would. But guys, the original reviewer has more to add, so here we go...
"Dear Evan, Well, who is a reader to believe: a customer reporting a customer's perspective to other customers, or a party host who obviously has an axe to grind against a host he clearly doesn't like, or perhaps even a host who has been pressed into action by one of his other host pals who is a competitor to Jacks of Color? Seems an easy choice to me. Been going to parties for years and can smell the commercialism of some a mile away (a sullen host who wouldn't touch anybody at the party with a ten foot pole, a lax door policy that allows the host to collect as much money as possible even if it means that many of his guests are grossed out, etc.). That's not dedication, that's exploitation. On the other hand are parties that are obviously a labor of love for the host: the newsletters are friendly and informative, the host is a proud and out gay man and is not standoffish, the guests know better than to behave inappropriately towards one another because the host gives a fuck and circulates). Instead of contributing the biases of his party host pals, why doesn't your reader just let the party goers think for themselves?
And can we please discuss the parties as they exist now, instead of bringing in ancient history? How is the history of a party from a decade ago relevant to their status today? Who cares? I want to know what to expect this weekend, not last year."
Guys -- maybe you should check it out for yourselves. Hopefully that's the last word!
"Dear Evan, I've had some negative experiences at Ed and Steve's party and at Omega recently, but I want you to know what I would consider to be a model of a well run party: Lidell's various parties held at Paddles under various names and themes. I think what distinguishes Lidell's parties is that he maintains a standard at the door (some heavy guys, but well within the realm of "beefy," and carrying it well; and definitely no unbathed octogenarians!). In addition, Lidell gets around the party and actually plays. I think this gives him a clear idea of who is and who is not playing well in the sandbox and lets everyone know that they have to be respectful of one another. Although people are eager to have sex at Lidell's parties, I've never experienced repeated, unwanted advances there. At other parties, the hosts are mainly occupied taking money and handing out garbage bags (another plus of Lidell's parties: he lets you treat your clothes like clothes, i.e., on a hanger and not as trash to be thrown around). Lidell is truly a host, chatting, flirting, keeping the vibe sexy (without the "we're in this mainly to make a buck" vibe), and adding personally to the sexual energy by playing. In addition, the staff he hires are first rate, and keep up the flirty, sexy vibe that Lidell brings. That's refreshing and hot. Perhaps Lidell has spoiled me for other parties. I admit that the standard he sets is very high. Thanks for giving us all a forum in which to distinguish the good from the bad from the mediocre."
Sounds like a cool host and one who knows how to keep a party in control. (Although personally I prefer the garbage bags to the hangers). Well, dudes, if you're game, check out the party here...
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com
Well, it seems gay men can agree on nothing. Here's a rebuttal to the review above from a regular contributor...
"Never liked JACKS OF COLOR party at all. The worst - is a certain type, mostly a "very much older leather fetish" crowd and a lot of the guests seem like they are on drugs and have unsafe sex. I also dont like using hangers, I prefer bags, which are used at most parties."
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OKAY, FUCK guys, I often don't know what I'm talking about -- so I appreciate so many readers keeping me in line. Well, dude, another reader, and regular review says that the go-go positive JACKS OF COLOR review that started this whole post is not accurate. So, guys, here's another point of view with rebuttal 2...
"Opinion - Rebutal JACKS OF COLOR party. I think you got it all wrong with JACKS OF COLOR party. Here's me and my partner's opinion... I hosted my own parties back in the day and use to go to many of the curent JACKS OF COLOR host's other parties. Everybody which use to go to his parties a few years back - know of how crazy and wild his parties were. I had my own negative experience at his party at the 9ave location like 3 years ago. Someone had a "very bad trip at his party" and as a result the place had problems. Never been back since !
The way Paddle is run has nothing to do with JACKS OF COLOR. Hangers and everything at Paddles were there before JACKS OF COLOR's host even started hosting parties at that Location. Paddle's Owners have many rules and run the place very tight (no smoking, drugs etc) so most of Lidel's crazy regulars have started going to other places. The place is big which minimizes groping which happens in many small places with large groups .
Don't confuse socializing or personality in the front with "money and dedication." The prize should go to the club owners that spend 18 hours per day at the clubs and 7 days per week making sure everything is running right. Not just going there to host a party , socializing for 5 hours , getting laid + paid and going home. I Know many of these Hardworking owners and they do alot of work , without making any money. The problem is they keep it too themselves and not run and talk about everything they do.
Believe me I use to host parties before - 4 years ago and at the end of the day "money is what makes the world go round". That staff which is very flirtatious and works - not just Lidel's parties " their working for a good tip", Honey". At the end of the night , conedison has to get paid, rent has to get paid , staff has to get paid , owners have to get paid , so don't confuse a nice personality (which is genetic) with what really goes on behind the scenes. Go host a party at gramery or Paddles or 38 st , The first thing out of the owner's mouth is " how many people, do you get ?
A quick buck, ? That's an unfair opinion of the many other hosts. A quick buck would be - doing one party at a hotel and going home and disappearing. All these other host might not be prince charming and are charging money .But they have been doing parties for years - have a following of people and do regular parties per month.That's not a quick buck, that's dedication!"
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DUDES--I'VE SADLY GOTTEN myself into the middle of a fight and I don't even have a dog in the race: I've never been to JACKS OF COLOR, and doubt I ever would. But guys, the original reviewer has more to add, so here we go...
"Dear Evan, Well, who is a reader to believe: a customer reporting a customer's perspective to other customers, or a party host who obviously has an axe to grind against a host he clearly doesn't like, or perhaps even a host who has been pressed into action by one of his other host pals who is a competitor to Jacks of Color? Seems an easy choice to me. Been going to parties for years and can smell the commercialism of some a mile away (a sullen host who wouldn't touch anybody at the party with a ten foot pole, a lax door policy that allows the host to collect as much money as possible even if it means that many of his guests are grossed out, etc.). That's not dedication, that's exploitation. On the other hand are parties that are obviously a labor of love for the host: the newsletters are friendly and informative, the host is a proud and out gay man and is not standoffish, the guests know better than to behave inappropriately towards one another because the host gives a fuck and circulates). Instead of contributing the biases of his party host pals, why doesn't your reader just let the party goers think for themselves?
And can we please discuss the parties as they exist now, instead of bringing in ancient history? How is the history of a party from a decade ago relevant to their status today? Who cares? I want to know what to expect this weekend, not last year."
Guys -- maybe you should check it out for yourselves. Hopefully that's the last word!
Sunday, April 24, 2011
GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, April 25 to Sunday, May 1
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Saturday, April 23, 2011
TONIGHT: NYJock Party (and coming soon the next hot PRIVATE PARTY)
Hey guys -- looking for a hot party TONIGHT -- then one of the best parties in New York is near Times Square. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys. If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the guys you want the most. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s, and the party is usually very hot. Guys tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be... So, if you're a hot guy looking for hot sex with other hot guys dont miss the NYJOCK PARTY.
Here's info...THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd. To get in sex pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com
Also, coming in two weeks, the next PRIVATE PARTY is May 4 -- It takes a day to do the phone interview, so send the host your info ASAP. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying--but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.
Here's the info...PRIVATE PARTY(Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt. Good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21)-- 70-90+ guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before--very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Held once a month, 8:30pm-12am. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Safe sex only.
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.
Here's info...THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd. To get in sex pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com
Also, coming in two weeks, the next PRIVATE PARTY is May 4 -- It takes a day to do the phone interview, so send the host your info ASAP. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying--but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.
Here's the info...PRIVATE PARTY(Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt. Good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21)-- 70-90+ guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before--very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Held once a month, 8:30pm-12am. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Safe sex only.
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.
Review: OMEGA PARTY (There's a Reason the Rooms are so Dark)
Well, guys on this dreary cold, rainy day in New York, I have to post one of the most negative reviews, I have yet posted. I HATE to trash parties!!!! A reader and I were emailing last week about the INFINITY review. We kept saying that the party could be very HOT, which I why I didn't want to trash it, but it needs work. I hope guys keep trying INFINITY --I plan on checking it out. It has possibilities! The host does need to keep charge, otherwise it could devolve into the nightmare that is almost every party at that pit known as the Gramercy Duplex.
So on to this review. I gotta say, that I was not at this party, but I have been to THE OMEGA PARYTY before, and could see how it might head into this direction. Two thing I can't stand at parties -- unwanted gropers and the smell of shit. Seriously! Either makes me lose a hard on in about a second. Both are gross, and both unnecessary. Dudes--if you're gonna bttm, ple3ase clean out! It's easy and takes 5 minutes. And this happens with hot guys as well. I was fucking this hot dude at NYJOCK party and suddenly I should smell shit. Bastard! Ran to the bathroom and scrubbed myself. So unnecessary. And as to unwanted gropers--well, I've said more than enough about that. Guys, if someone is having sex and you're not wanted -- MOVE ON. Well, if you want to read a review that trashes a party, read on...
"Dear Evan, Went to the Omega party last night, where I had gone four times before and had a reasonably good time. Since I have totally given up on the Ed and Steve party due to their no-standards, open-door policy, I was really hoping Omega would hold itself to a higher standard. Alas, it seems that the tribe that has totally ruined the Ed and Steve party is determined to wreck Omega, as well. You know the type: over 70 years of age, morbidly obese, with bad liver spots everywhere, a slack jaw in which a little spittle has gathered in the corners, wearing old, yellowed Fruit of the Looms whose elastic bands gave up the ghost years ago lending them a diaper-like appearance, their shuffling gait clad with the additional accessory of shower shoes that look like they were last worn by an inmate from Bellevue. Invariably, these types are always the ones who can’t take No for an answer, and who repeatedly horn in on any hot action they see, deflating erections far and wide.
Another problem that the back rooms of Ed and Steve’s party and the Omega party share is “The Do-Do Problem.” You know: guys who are so inconsiderate that they won’t even douche before the party, yet insist on getting fucked until they clear the room with blasts of fecal odor. Last night at the Omega party, I had to leave the back room twice because of The Do-Do Problem. Strangely, the odor only managed to scare away about half of the backroom occupants. Is scat the new black (or brown?) in the gay community and I simply missed the memo?
So I would pose this question to my community: given that there are plenty of highly-exclusive parties for younger gay men, why is it that we can’t seem to have a party for 40-somethings and 50-somethings in good shape, who bathe and douche and have good sexual etiquette? It seems that there are just two kinds of parties: those for gym rats under 30, and no-standards, open-door parties for everyone else. Party hosts: listen up! A lot of us are simply staying home because you don’t offer us what we are looking for. Can somebody start up a party that caters to us? Please?Pretty please?"
I do think the review is wrong that there aren't parties for guys 40-50 with decent dudes. Parties such as HARD DRIVE and THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES are two example of parties that do not have age cuts off, as long as the guys are in good shape. The reason that these two parties are NOT nightmares like some of the others is that the hosts keep the parties under control. They make sure that guys are taking NO for an answer and keep an eye on what's going on. Also both these hosts created these parties because they enjoy the scene and that are NOT there just to make a fast buck. I am sorry to post this review for OMEGA. The hosts have always been helpful and friendly to me, but they really need to take control back so that their parties can be fun again, and not about groping obese guys, and selfish unclean dudes, who don't care about creating a good time for everyone. If you disagree with this review and think OMEGA is just amazing--please comment below or email me opposing views, and I will be happy to post.
Anyway, if you like obese groping old men, or the smell of shit, and want to check out the OMEGA for yourself, the next party is Sunday night. Here's the info...
THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.
I knew this wasn't the last we'd hear on this. As soon as I posted this I got two rebuttals and a response from the host. So here we go guys...
REBUTTAL: "THE omega party , I think is one of the most successful and best run parties .Ive been going to the Omega and to all the other ones for like 10 years. Most of these parties have darkrooms . I was at the Omega party last night , the place was packed , I didnt smell any shit and had a very good time .There were a few older guys but also guys in their 30"s and 40"s."
REBUTTAL 2: "This is my first time writing to you.I go to the Omega party all the time .I always have a great time and the space is great. Im 40 years old and in great shape .Recently theirs been a flickiring light int the back room and I asked one of the workers and he said its a refresher with senses that goes off anytime anybody walks by.So I think that guy who complained must have been confused with the smell .I was their last night I didnt smell any shit. The place was full of people and I got fucked 3 times. If your a stuck up person looking for studs only , this place not for you.But if your looking for a laidback nice space with a mix crowd ....The backroom does get packed but theirs plenty of area in the front to do one on ones and theirs a private room aswell. I did see a big guy there, very rare I ve seen such a big guy at the Omega party, but He was hanging with a regular that comes all the time. I think the reason the host let him in is becuase the regular brought him as a guest and the host didnt want to be rude.But personlly I enjoyed myself and it was a pretty good crowd overall."
FROM THE HOST: "Want to mention , that only two persons complained all night , One about "shit in the back room" , someone that hardly ever comes to the party (only like one time per year) and another about that it was a little warm which we then turned up the airconditioner.
Yet we checked the backroom and didnt smell anything and the back room was full of people. After the party we checked the backroom , their wasnt shit anywhere not even in the used condoms. We have an air freshener connected to the wall outlet it the backroom during the party so maybe he thought it was shit but it wasnt."
I wasn't there, so I can only report what come in. If you want to add your thoughts, send me an email. The "shit" problem is a problem everywhere, and not only at OMEGA -- and I have no doubt that if you complain the hosts will look into it. The old groper problem is only at parties where the hosts don't take charge because they don't want to lose a paying customer. What some parties -- like most at the Gramercy Duplex -- don't understand is that to keep the old gropers, they've lost everyone else. Hope you'll give OMEGA another chance. The host is very cool and trying to keep the party on mark -- which isn't as easy as it looks -- or I'd host too. Try OMEGA tonight, and report back!
OKAY. I WAS WRONG, THIS POST IS GOING TO CONTINUE. THE ORIGINAL REVIEWER, WANTED TO ADD THIS STATEMENT...
"Hi Evan,Just to clarify, I'm not holding Omega responsible for the intermittent smell of shit in their backroom. They did investigate, and because the smell had cleared by the time they got back there, they didn't detect anything. But I am holding the guys with dirty, undouched asses completely responsible. You guys should be more considerate.
What I do take Omega to task for is their relaxed door policy, which seems to get more relaxed every time I go (which has been four times in the past six months, and not once a year as the host said). This crowd seems to be turning in the wrong direction because the hosts let in anybody and everybody (and I say "anybody and everybody" because I cannot possibly imagine grosser guys than the morbidly obese, 70-somethings than I saw shuffling around that night).
I have a pretty average body, and I don't expect everyone to be a Greek statue. But what conclusion would you draw about a party if you saw guys there who were well over 300 lbs, and not carrying it well at all, certainly not a nice chunky bear type, but just a disgusting, saggy, hugely fat old (70-plus) retiree? I DO hold Omega completely responsible for their lack of judgment on that count.
If nobody but me objects to those guys at Omega, then God bless them, and they can enjoy the party without worrying that I will be around to complain. But I think that, unless the host gets his act together and has the balls to say No to a $22 entry fee from a few of these gross types so that the party will continue to have a good vibe, then this one will eventually go the way of Ed and Steve.
The space is great, and the staff are very kind (possibly the nicest I've seen with the exception of Lidell, who's a hard act to follow). But their door policy has made me unwilling to come back."
So on to this review. I gotta say, that I was not at this party, but I have been to THE OMEGA PARYTY before, and could see how it might head into this direction. Two thing I can't stand at parties -- unwanted gropers and the smell of shit. Seriously! Either makes me lose a hard on in about a second. Both are gross, and both unnecessary. Dudes--if you're gonna bttm, ple3ase clean out! It's easy and takes 5 minutes. And this happens with hot guys as well. I was fucking this hot dude at NYJOCK party and suddenly I should smell shit. Bastard! Ran to the bathroom and scrubbed myself. So unnecessary. And as to unwanted gropers--well, I've said more than enough about that. Guys, if someone is having sex and you're not wanted -- MOVE ON. Well, if you want to read a review that trashes a party, read on...
"Dear Evan, Went to the Omega party last night, where I had gone four times before and had a reasonably good time. Since I have totally given up on the Ed and Steve party due to their no-standards, open-door policy, I was really hoping Omega would hold itself to a higher standard. Alas, it seems that the tribe that has totally ruined the Ed and Steve party is determined to wreck Omega, as well. You know the type: over 70 years of age, morbidly obese, with bad liver spots everywhere, a slack jaw in which a little spittle has gathered in the corners, wearing old, yellowed Fruit of the Looms whose elastic bands gave up the ghost years ago lending them a diaper-like appearance, their shuffling gait clad with the additional accessory of shower shoes that look like they were last worn by an inmate from Bellevue. Invariably, these types are always the ones who can’t take No for an answer, and who repeatedly horn in on any hot action they see, deflating erections far and wide.
Another problem that the back rooms of Ed and Steve’s party and the Omega party share is “The Do-Do Problem.” You know: guys who are so inconsiderate that they won’t even douche before the party, yet insist on getting fucked until they clear the room with blasts of fecal odor. Last night at the Omega party, I had to leave the back room twice because of The Do-Do Problem. Strangely, the odor only managed to scare away about half of the backroom occupants. Is scat the new black (or brown?) in the gay community and I simply missed the memo?
So I would pose this question to my community: given that there are plenty of highly-exclusive parties for younger gay men, why is it that we can’t seem to have a party for 40-somethings and 50-somethings in good shape, who bathe and douche and have good sexual etiquette? It seems that there are just two kinds of parties: those for gym rats under 30, and no-standards, open-door parties for everyone else. Party hosts: listen up! A lot of us are simply staying home because you don’t offer us what we are looking for. Can somebody start up a party that caters to us? Please?Pretty please?"
I do think the review is wrong that there aren't parties for guys 40-50 with decent dudes. Parties such as HARD DRIVE and THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES are two example of parties that do not have age cuts off, as long as the guys are in good shape. The reason that these two parties are NOT nightmares like some of the others is that the hosts keep the parties under control. They make sure that guys are taking NO for an answer and keep an eye on what's going on. Also both these hosts created these parties because they enjoy the scene and that are NOT there just to make a fast buck. I am sorry to post this review for OMEGA. The hosts have always been helpful and friendly to me, but they really need to take control back so that their parties can be fun again, and not about groping obese guys, and selfish unclean dudes, who don't care about creating a good time for everyone. If you disagree with this review and think OMEGA is just amazing--please comment below or email me opposing views, and I will be happy to post.
Anyway, if you like obese groping old men, or the smell of shit, and want to check out the OMEGA for yourself, the next party is Sunday night. Here's the info...
THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.
I knew this wasn't the last we'd hear on this. As soon as I posted this I got two rebuttals and a response from the host. So here we go guys...
REBUTTAL: "THE omega party , I think is one of the most successful and best run parties .Ive been going to the Omega and to all the other ones for like 10 years. Most of these parties have darkrooms . I was at the Omega party last night , the place was packed , I didnt smell any shit and had a very good time .There were a few older guys but also guys in their 30"s and 40"s."
REBUTTAL 2: "This is my first time writing to you.I go to the Omega party all the time .I always have a great time and the space is great. Im 40 years old and in great shape .Recently theirs been a flickiring light int the back room and I asked one of the workers and he said its a refresher with senses that goes off anytime anybody walks by.So I think that guy who complained must have been confused with the smell .I was their last night I didnt smell any shit. The place was full of people and I got fucked 3 times. If your a stuck up person looking for studs only , this place not for you.But if your looking for a laidback nice space with a mix crowd ....The backroom does get packed but theirs plenty of area in the front to do one on ones and theirs a private room aswell. I did see a big guy there, very rare I ve seen such a big guy at the Omega party, but He was hanging with a regular that comes all the time. I think the reason the host let him in is becuase the regular brought him as a guest and the host didnt want to be rude.But personlly I enjoyed myself and it was a pretty good crowd overall."
FROM THE HOST: "Want to mention , that only two persons complained all night , One about "shit in the back room" , someone that hardly ever comes to the party (only like one time per year) and another about that it was a little warm which we then turned up the airconditioner.
Yet we checked the backroom and didnt smell anything and the back room was full of people. After the party we checked the backroom , their wasnt shit anywhere not even in the used condoms. We have an air freshener connected to the wall outlet it the backroom during the party so maybe he thought it was shit but it wasnt."
I wasn't there, so I can only report what come in. If you want to add your thoughts, send me an email. The "shit" problem is a problem everywhere, and not only at OMEGA -- and I have no doubt that if you complain the hosts will look into it. The old groper problem is only at parties where the hosts don't take charge because they don't want to lose a paying customer. What some parties -- like most at the Gramercy Duplex -- don't understand is that to keep the old gropers, they've lost everyone else. Hope you'll give OMEGA another chance. The host is very cool and trying to keep the party on mark -- which isn't as easy as it looks -- or I'd host too. Try OMEGA tonight, and report back!
OKAY. I WAS WRONG, THIS POST IS GOING TO CONTINUE. THE ORIGINAL REVIEWER, WANTED TO ADD THIS STATEMENT...
"Hi Evan,Just to clarify, I'm not holding Omega responsible for the intermittent smell of shit in their backroom. They did investigate, and because the smell had cleared by the time they got back there, they didn't detect anything. But I am holding the guys with dirty, undouched asses completely responsible. You guys should be more considerate.
What I do take Omega to task for is their relaxed door policy, which seems to get more relaxed every time I go (which has been four times in the past six months, and not once a year as the host said). This crowd seems to be turning in the wrong direction because the hosts let in anybody and everybody (and I say "anybody and everybody" because I cannot possibly imagine grosser guys than the morbidly obese, 70-somethings than I saw shuffling around that night).
I have a pretty average body, and I don't expect everyone to be a Greek statue. But what conclusion would you draw about a party if you saw guys there who were well over 300 lbs, and not carrying it well at all, certainly not a nice chunky bear type, but just a disgusting, saggy, hugely fat old (70-plus) retiree? I DO hold Omega completely responsible for their lack of judgment on that count.
If nobody but me objects to those guys at Omega, then God bless them, and they can enjoy the party without worrying that I will be around to complain. But I think that, unless the host gets his act together and has the balls to say No to a $22 entry fee from a few of these gross types so that the party will continue to have a good vibe, then this one will eventually go the way of Ed and Steve.
The space is great, and the staff are very kind (possibly the nicest I've seen with the exception of Lidell, who's a hard act to follow). But their door policy has made me unwilling to come back."
Friday, April 22, 2011
Brooklyn's the Place Tonight: Two New Sex Parties!
If you're in Brooklyn tonight, readers tipped me off to two sex parties tonight -- Friday, April 22 -- in Brooklyn: Prospect Heights and Clinton Hill. I don't have contact info, but you can check them out via Craiglist. Here are the ads...
"Brooklyns Finest Sex Party this Friday - 32 (Prospect Heights)
Hey, Calling all of the hot guys in Brooklyn!!!
We are hosting a new hot sex party in Brooklyn hosted by" Brooklyns Finest"
We have been throwing these parties for 6 years and now we are bringing them to Brooklyn.
These parties cater to the hot and sexy
18-40 twink, muscle, leather, alternative, punk, white, black or Latin.
The first one is taking place this Friday the 22nd and If you'd like to be on the guest list and receive your incite, here's what you do;
Send us your photo, stats and contact info and we will send you the invite
We are expecting anywhere from 30-50 guys so email us soon!!
It's gonna be explosive and all of the details will be included in the invite!
Look forward to hearing from you
The best sex party is now in Brooklyn!!!!!"
Link: http://newyork.craigslist.org/brk/m4m/2335796780.html
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"Clinton Hill Joe sex party April 22, 11pm - 40 (Clinton Hill)
Hey Guys,Its time for another Joe Party, April twenty second at 11pm. This Friday will be really good. We like all kinds of hot guys. What we dont like is snark and attitude. No voyeurs all attendees must participate. We already have an established group and are looking for 2 or 3 more horny dudes to round it out. Please apply with pic of cock and face. Pics will be kept confidential. Also send stats, incuding age, race, and disease status. Incomplete applications will be deletedCondoms and lube provided. Please be showered and clean, rimmers will be in the house. As I said, we only have room for 2 to 3 more guys, so get your applications in now.These are the only pics, please don't ask for more. As with you, I will not send pics of my guys. Pics are from past parties."
http://newyork.craigslist.org/brk/m4m/2326798263.html
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Thanks to the readers who sent me the info. If you check them out, report back! Have fun and play safe.
"Brooklyns Finest Sex Party this Friday - 32 (Prospect Heights)
Hey, Calling all of the hot guys in Brooklyn!!!
We are hosting a new hot sex party in Brooklyn hosted by" Brooklyns Finest"
We have been throwing these parties for 6 years and now we are bringing them to Brooklyn.
These parties cater to the hot and sexy
18-40 twink, muscle, leather, alternative, punk, white, black or Latin.
The first one is taking place this Friday the 22nd and If you'd like to be on the guest list and receive your incite, here's what you do;
Send us your photo, stats and contact info and we will send you the invite
We are expecting anywhere from 30-50 guys so email us soon!!
It's gonna be explosive and all of the details will be included in the invite!
Look forward to hearing from you
The best sex party is now in Brooklyn!!!!!"
Link: http://newyork.craigslist.org/brk/m4m/2335796780.html
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"Clinton Hill Joe sex party April 22, 11pm - 40 (Clinton Hill)
Hey Guys,Its time for another Joe Party, April twenty second at 11pm. This Friday will be really good. We like all kinds of hot guys. What we dont like is snark and attitude. No voyeurs all attendees must participate. We already have an established group and are looking for 2 or 3 more horny dudes to round it out. Please apply with pic of cock and face. Pics will be kept confidential. Also send stats, incuding age, race, and disease status. Incomplete applications will be deletedCondoms and lube provided. Please be showered and clean, rimmers will be in the house. As I said, we only have room for 2 to 3 more guys, so get your applications in now.These are the only pics, please don't ask for more. As with you, I will not send pics of my guys. Pics are from past parties."
http://newyork.craigslist.org/brk/m4m/2326798263.html
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Thanks to the readers who sent me the info. If you check them out, report back! Have fun and play safe.
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Review: PITSTOP PARTY (Have you been bad?)
Hey guys, never been to the PITSTOP PARTY in Park Slope, but increasingly fascinated by leather, so been meaning to check it out. Two guys offered reviews of Sunday night’s party. Here’s what they reported back…
Review 1: “Pitstop in Brooklyn is held a few times a month in the same space as GBU. Right in the heart of Park Slope, it’s super convenient to get to from Manhattan after a quick transfer to the R train via Atlantic Ave.
The party organizers include JXXX and BXXX. JXXX is cordial and greets you at the door, asking if you have been there before. If the answer is NO, he makes sure you understand the rules: SAFE SEX ONLY. If you BB, then you’re asked to leave. This was a definite plus for me since I prefer safe sex parties only. Some of the guests I spoke to said they had been turned away at the door before, but not tonight (I thought that was interesting).
After paying the cover charge you walk down to the stairs to what can only be described as one of the best sex party spaces I have been to in New York. This evening I was greeted by BXXX, a super hot young man of Africa descent. Great body, nice and well, very flirtatious. I had no complaints. He shows you to the changing area which is set up nicely. After disrobing to your party attire, you’re off to the races. At first glance the space is large, nicely lit and clean. There’s a mix of glory holes, slings, couches, with condoms and lube strategically placed. It’s a definitely playroom for those who like a fetish (S&M, WS, etc) (another plus for this party). There’s complimentary water, soda and beer. Another nice touch.
The crowd is a good one. Ages included 20s, 30s and 40s. Everyone is fit, handsome, hung. And friendly. There’s little attitude. But attendance was a bit light, because of the Spring Break holiday? Sunday? I’m not sure. This party has real potential, a hidden secret. Just add more dudes and it’s a winner."
Review 2: “Hey, I went to the Pitstop party on sunday night and it was a bore. I went once a few months ago and had a much better time, so I was expecting more. I'm only bitter because I paid $20 to watch about 20-25 guys walk around awkwardly (in that nice, big space), and then leave by midnight. There was some hot action going on but those were the guys who finished and left early. Even though the party was meant to be for in-shape guys, the host was letting in a couple out of shape ones to fill up the space a bit. I waited around to see if it would get better but eventually gave up and left. I don't know if it's the fact that it's a Sunday night or the party time, which in my opinion is way too early for a sex party (8pm-1am). I like the idea of a fetish party in that space, the word just needs to get out more.”
It’s always amazing to me how individual reviews of the same party from two different dudes can be almost opposite – and also what’s the same. But, guys that’s what sex is like -- sometime even two just two dudes one can have a great time, and I can be bored. Anyway, the one thing they both agree is that the party needs more guys: so guys, get out there an GO! This party is relatively new and is still building its list. I’ve always love this space, the hosts are very cool, and the party sounds like it can be very hot – so fucking, check it out. If you want to go to the next party, here’s the info…
PITSTOP (Park Slope, Brooklyn) A fetish sex party for In-Shape guys where "almost anything goes." 6pm-11pm at the same space in Brooklyn that GBU uses. Safe-sex dungeon kinkfest where anything goes EXCEPT barebacking: be a voyeur or exhibitionist in scenes involving PISS, role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, foot worship, spanking, humiliation, raunch and much more! Stripping to your underwear, jockstrap or fetish gear is required. Nudity is encouraged! Safe sex is REQUIRED. Anyone caught fucking without condoms will be told to leave. There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space.
To get in, email stats and pics to: pitstop_nyc@yahoo.com
Review 1: “Pitstop in Brooklyn is held a few times a month in the same space as GBU. Right in the heart of Park Slope, it’s super convenient to get to from Manhattan after a quick transfer to the R train via Atlantic Ave.
The party organizers include JXXX and BXXX. JXXX is cordial and greets you at the door, asking if you have been there before. If the answer is NO, he makes sure you understand the rules: SAFE SEX ONLY. If you BB, then you’re asked to leave. This was a definite plus for me since I prefer safe sex parties only. Some of the guests I spoke to said they had been turned away at the door before, but not tonight (I thought that was interesting).
After paying the cover charge you walk down to the stairs to what can only be described as one of the best sex party spaces I have been to in New York. This evening I was greeted by BXXX, a super hot young man of Africa descent. Great body, nice and well, very flirtatious. I had no complaints. He shows you to the changing area which is set up nicely. After disrobing to your party attire, you’re off to the races. At first glance the space is large, nicely lit and clean. There’s a mix of glory holes, slings, couches, with condoms and lube strategically placed. It’s a definitely playroom for those who like a fetish (S&M, WS, etc) (another plus for this party). There’s complimentary water, soda and beer. Another nice touch.
The crowd is a good one. Ages included 20s, 30s and 40s. Everyone is fit, handsome, hung. And friendly. There’s little attitude. But attendance was a bit light, because of the Spring Break holiday? Sunday? I’m not sure. This party has real potential, a hidden secret. Just add more dudes and it’s a winner."
Review 2: “Hey, I went to the Pitstop party on sunday night and it was a bore. I went once a few months ago and had a much better time, so I was expecting more. I'm only bitter because I paid $20 to watch about 20-25 guys walk around awkwardly (in that nice, big space), and then leave by midnight. There was some hot action going on but those were the guys who finished and left early. Even though the party was meant to be for in-shape guys, the host was letting in a couple out of shape ones to fill up the space a bit. I waited around to see if it would get better but eventually gave up and left. I don't know if it's the fact that it's a Sunday night or the party time, which in my opinion is way too early for a sex party (8pm-1am). I like the idea of a fetish party in that space, the word just needs to get out more.”
It’s always amazing to me how individual reviews of the same party from two different dudes can be almost opposite – and also what’s the same. But, guys that’s what sex is like -- sometime even two just two dudes one can have a great time, and I can be bored. Anyway, the one thing they both agree is that the party needs more guys: so guys, get out there an GO! This party is relatively new and is still building its list. I’ve always love this space, the hosts are very cool, and the party sounds like it can be very hot – so fucking, check it out. If you want to go to the next party, here’s the info…
PITSTOP (Park Slope, Brooklyn) A fetish sex party for In-Shape guys where "almost anything goes." 6pm-11pm at the same space in Brooklyn that GBU uses. Safe-sex dungeon kinkfest where anything goes EXCEPT barebacking: be a voyeur or exhibitionist in scenes involving PISS, role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, foot worship, spanking, humiliation, raunch and much more! Stripping to your underwear, jockstrap or fetish gear is required. Nudity is encouraged! Safe sex is REQUIRED. Anyone caught fucking without condoms will be told to leave. There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space.
To get in, email stats and pics to: pitstop_nyc@yahoo.com
Sunday, April 17, 2011
GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, April 18 to Sunday, April 24
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Friday, April 15, 2011
Review: INFINITY has limited appeal
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Thursday, April 14, 2011
Review: HARD DRIVE (where guys play hard)
Things often work in twos or more for me: guys, cocks, and it seems reviews. Two guys wrote to me today about the HARD DRIVE PARTY, which was last night at Paddles. Hunteur is one of my favorite of the hosts -- each party to him is a cool new event and he tries to make each party a different adventure. The first review was really just a note from a friend to say hey. Basically he said that he went to HARD DRIVE last night (which he does often). He said he usually has a great time, and last night's party was good, but not a huge crowd: "I had a good time, but have had better." Okay good review, but not great. Now the same party, different dude--and this guy sent a rave. Here it is...
"Hey Evan, First, thanks for your informative blog. Not an easy thing to keep up with every week, so I just wanted to acknowledge that.
Been reading the blog now for about a month. I'm usually a bath house type of guy. Haven't done the group or open sex party for a couple years now. I have great memories of the sex club El Mirage. Had some amazing hot times there. Yeah it's important to have hot guys come to your party, but it's about all 5 senses being stimulated. To hear guys moaning, to see guys fucking, sucking or just standing around jerking, to taste another guy, to feel hot bodies all around you, and to smell hot humid sex, all makes a good stimulating experience.
Last night I looked at your blog and saw the listing for Hard Drive. The host is extremely friendly as well as the staff is too. Yeah the crowd is important, but do I really need to play with everyone in the crowd----NO. As long as there is at least a handful I'm happy. There were a variety of ages, and mostly a good looking crowd. And the crowd was there to play, not pose, but play. I've been to the space before and am not a big fan of the layout. I like a more compact area and not so spread out. But I will return, knowing that Hard Drive is a party to play, and the crowd did play- hard. Thanks Again."
Funny that two different guys at the same party--one okay review; one great review. Sounds like it was a hot time. I've gotta post a review of the INFINITY PARTY, which another dude just sent me. That party was also last night, and I hear was "sparsely attend." I guess everyone was at HARD DRIVE. So, if you want to go, it's every Wednesday night at Paddles. Here's the information...
HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com
And dude, that was nice tip to the sex club El Mirage. Very much missed! Also it was the closing of El Mirage, which convinced the host of STALONE NYC to end that great party. STALONE, if you never had the opportunity to go, was the best party I've ever gone to. Amazing guys, amazing sex, and the hottest host around -- a huge muscle bear. When the party started to wind down, he would jump and start fucking guys. So hot. I'm getting hard just thinking of it. Okay, I need a drink. Have fun guys, and play safe.
"Hey Evan, First, thanks for your informative blog. Not an easy thing to keep up with every week, so I just wanted to acknowledge that.
Been reading the blog now for about a month. I'm usually a bath house type of guy. Haven't done the group or open sex party for a couple years now. I have great memories of the sex club El Mirage. Had some amazing hot times there. Yeah it's important to have hot guys come to your party, but it's about all 5 senses being stimulated. To hear guys moaning, to see guys fucking, sucking or just standing around jerking, to taste another guy, to feel hot bodies all around you, and to smell hot humid sex, all makes a good stimulating experience.
Last night I looked at your blog and saw the listing for Hard Drive. The host is extremely friendly as well as the staff is too. Yeah the crowd is important, but do I really need to play with everyone in the crowd----NO. As long as there is at least a handful I'm happy. There were a variety of ages, and mostly a good looking crowd. And the crowd was there to play, not pose, but play. I've been to the space before and am not a big fan of the layout. I like a more compact area and not so spread out. But I will return, knowing that Hard Drive is a party to play, and the crowd did play- hard. Thanks Again."
Funny that two different guys at the same party--one okay review; one great review. Sounds like it was a hot time. I've gotta post a review of the INFINITY PARTY, which another dude just sent me. That party was also last night, and I hear was "sparsely attend." I guess everyone was at HARD DRIVE. So, if you want to go, it's every Wednesday night at Paddles. Here's the information...
HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com
And dude, that was nice tip to the sex club El Mirage. Very much missed! Also it was the closing of El Mirage, which convinced the host of STALONE NYC to end that great party. STALONE, if you never had the opportunity to go, was the best party I've ever gone to. Amazing guys, amazing sex, and the hottest host around -- a huge muscle bear. When the party started to wind down, he would jump and start fucking guys. So hot. I'm getting hard just thinking of it. Okay, I need a drink. Have fun guys, and play safe.
Monday, April 11, 2011
Two reader reviews: Ozone Park & The Club House Orgy
Hey, guys, I love hearing from you -- especially reviews. Even a whore like me can't find the time to hit up all the parties. Here are two reviews from a reader. It's cool too because he's not another 20YO slut, but an older dude in great shape. So here's the deal, he reviews two different parties: THE OZONE PARK PARTY in Queens and THE CLUB HOUSE ORGY in Manhattan -- one good and one bad, and having only been to the later party, it seems pretty accurate (except that I find the host's tweets very funny: http://twitter.com/TheOrgyGuy. This review is sure to piss off the host of THE CLUB HOUSE (sorry, man). He already is pissed at (check out his blog: http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com, where he trashed me). The one thing that I will say for him is that he is very honest. When you sign up he writes an email & describes his party: “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” His party may not be for me, but he is VERY clear who will be there. Anyway, here we go...
"hey, evan! you are my go-to-guy not only for your listings of what's going on and where, but also for the reviews you post and your wonderful comments... please keep it up and never ever stop, ok? promise? i especially enjoyed your posting about getting to the gym... i am definitely more of a mature guy here.... but i also work out, eat well and take good care of my health and appearance. (i am also a big dicked top, which does not hurt!) i oppose exclusionary door policies in most cases based solely on age, but support them based on attitude and appearance. there are lots of younger guys into older guys and that should be supported. and guys who take care of their bodies should be encouraged to do so at any age. what IS insupportable, however, are gross guys OF ANY AGE who do not respect others' boundaries AND do not take NO for an answer. and the next time some nasty old guy pushes me out of the way so he can get closer to some action, I may lose my normal good manners. well, enough of that!
OZONE PARK - went there for the first time this past saturday. the two guys who host are the greatest, nicest and most efficient I have encountered in a long time. they made the "application" process easy, gave clear directions and ground rules and just made the whole experience great. it was definitely a non-Manhattan crowd, and that was cool. quite mixed in terms of age and ethnicity, and that is a real plus. some super hot types, some less so, but it is all good. also one of the few parties where safe sex is actually enforced both by the hosts and the attendees. (not sure what I think about that myself, but just want to get the information ut there.) the location is a bit of a long subway ride from my part of town (Upper West Side), but having said that I will definitely make the haul out there for the next party!
CLUB HOUSE ORGY - not sure what to make of this one. usually a combination of a few hot guys surrounded by obnoxious and way pushy out of shape scary guys. and the host live blogs from the parties and can get kinda snarky. i would not hurry back to this one.
ok, so, again: keep up of the good work!"
So, guys if you want to check these out...
OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, Donation $24 person/$40 Couple, 9pm-am (doors close at 10:30pm). Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. or a mixed age/average to hot crowd.
Email pics + stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com or check out their site: http://sexpartyqueens.com/ .
and
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Village). 8am-1pm: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. April is his last month in the West Village -- so go now!
To get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
"hey, evan! you are my go-to-guy not only for your listings of what's going on and where, but also for the reviews you post and your wonderful comments... please keep it up and never ever stop, ok? promise? i especially enjoyed your posting about getting to the gym... i am definitely more of a mature guy here.... but i also work out, eat well and take good care of my health and appearance. (i am also a big dicked top, which does not hurt!) i oppose exclusionary door policies in most cases based solely on age, but support them based on attitude and appearance. there are lots of younger guys into older guys and that should be supported. and guys who take care of their bodies should be encouraged to do so at any age. what IS insupportable, however, are gross guys OF ANY AGE who do not respect others' boundaries AND do not take NO for an answer. and the next time some nasty old guy pushes me out of the way so he can get closer to some action, I may lose my normal good manners. well, enough of that!
OZONE PARK - went there for the first time this past saturday. the two guys who host are the greatest, nicest and most efficient I have encountered in a long time. they made the "application" process easy, gave clear directions and ground rules and just made the whole experience great. it was definitely a non-Manhattan crowd, and that was cool. quite mixed in terms of age and ethnicity, and that is a real plus. some super hot types, some less so, but it is all good. also one of the few parties where safe sex is actually enforced both by the hosts and the attendees. (not sure what I think about that myself, but just want to get the information ut there.) the location is a bit of a long subway ride from my part of town (Upper West Side), but having said that I will definitely make the haul out there for the next party!
CLUB HOUSE ORGY - not sure what to make of this one. usually a combination of a few hot guys surrounded by obnoxious and way pushy out of shape scary guys. and the host live blogs from the parties and can get kinda snarky. i would not hurry back to this one.
ok, so, again: keep up of the good work!"
So, guys if you want to check these out...
OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, Donation $24 person/$40 Couple, 9pm-am (doors close at 10:30pm). Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. or a mixed age/average to hot crowd.
Email pics + stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com or check out their site: http://sexpartyqueens.com/ .
and
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Village). 8am-1pm: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. April is his last month in the West Village -- so go now!
To get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.
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