Thursday, July 24, 2014

Group M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, July 25th to Thursday, July 31st



My dear fellow group-sex aficionados:

Here is a listing of all the parties I *believe* to be happening this week. If the host/s has confirmed the details of the party directly with me then I list the details as "VERIFIED." If the hosts have not confirmed the party details with me, I list the details as "UNVERIFIED." 
I highly recommend that you do not attend a party going solely off of the information here without contacting the hosts first, especially if the information here is UNVERIFIED. Most parties do require that you submit pics and stats and that you are added to an invite list before you can attend, and there is always the chance of last minute changes or cancellations. 

Another great source for finding parties is the "Parties and Events" section of adam4adam.com, so I recommend that you check that site for parties as well, especially if you are looking for parties outside of the NYC area.


A GUIDE TO DOOR POLICIES

Here is a listing of what the different “DOOR POLICY” terms mean. These should not be taken as an indication of how “good” a party is. I have been to some Very Selective parties where I have been bored because there were mostly men standing around acting like they were all too good for each other, and I’ve also been to Open Door parties that have been full-out fuckfests filled with lots of hot group action. These categories are simply intended to be a guide as to whether the party is one you would physically fit in to and an indication as to what kinds of body types you will likely find there.  

Here are the Door Policy Categories:

Very Selective – Only good-looking men in great physical shape with toned bodies and visible muscle mass are allowed in. These parties also usually have a limited age range.

Selective – Only men with above-average to average bodies are allowed.  “Average” refers to men who are height-weight-proportionate and do not have much visible muscle tone or muscle mass. But you will also usually find quite a few men in great shape at these parties as well.

Somewhat Selective – A wide range of body types. You may find some above-average athletic men and also some out-of-shape men with extra pounds on them, but not overly obese. Most guys at these parties tend to have average bodies.

Not Selective – All body types are allowed. You still need to be on an invite list in order to attend, and with some Not Selective parties you may need to meet some other entrance criteria such as age or race.

Open Door – General admission. Everyone is welcome and you don’t need to be on an invite list in order to attend. Just show up.


Here are the parties for this Friday through Thursday:

Friday, July 25th


CMBUDDIESNYC (Upper West Side) 
THE HOSTS SAY: "Porn star play for guys with regular lives! Easy breezy and sleazy fun!" 
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: Very friendly, no attitude
TIME: 8pm-1am (door closes at midnight )
CROWD: 35-45 good mix of sexy guys
AGES: Predominantly 30's-50's; some younger guys
DONATION: $22
SS/BB: Safe Sex and Bareback
SPACE: Private apartment with three play rooms, sling, massage table, porn, two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: beverages, lube, wipes, clean-out kits
FREQUENCY: twice a month; Fridays, sometimes Wednesdays
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats, and a face and a body pic to cmbuddiesnyc@hotmail.com

METROPOLIS (Gramercy) A new Friday night party format at the Gramercy Duplex that combines five different parties (from five separate hosts) into one evening with each party having it's own dedicated entry time. Regardless of what party you arrive for and what time you enter, you are welcome to stay until the end of the evening at 3am.
THE HOSTS SAY: “Each Friday has a different line-up, offering something for everyone, especially for guys craving hot hardcore action. Two huge floors filled with hairy muscled jocks, smooth pumped-up studs, lean eager twinks, and rugged masculine men, all coming together naked and without attitude, confident with having a sac and able to hold their own in large active group scenes. All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend, but must be fit, in-shape, and not a light-weight. Anyone looking for a ‘jock-perfect-only frame of mind group’ with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their "pee-pees" should not apply, this event is not for you! 

"VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: Both Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 8pm-3am
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 40-60 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; (for the wrestling matches) 2nd floor semi-dark (for the sex orgy)
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with masculine men for hot, hardcore, no-attitude fun. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: 
For Dads and Sons, 8pm-9pm, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com 
For Testosterone, 9pm-10pm, contact with stats/pics testosteronenyc@gmail.com 
For Ink, 10pm-11pm, contact with stats/pics inksexparty@gmail.com
For Le Mystique, 11pm-12am, contact with stats/pics lemystiquexxx@gmail.com
For Midnight Owl 12am-3am, contact with stats/pics bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
For more party info, please visit www.gayguysglobal.net

MILK CHOCOLATE BLACKOUT PARTY (Midtown) The host runs a number of different parties that vary from hot guys to average men, so be sure to check which party you want. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. They have a number of theme parties from Latino, to Hung Men, to Black Out.
This week also features the "BEER BLAST" As promised I am going to test drive having a Beer Blast Pre-Party for 40 mature men age 21+ on the 2nd level from 8pm until 10pm. 
 If everything goes well I'll make this a regular event. Need volunteer monitors. Men 21 and over with ID can bring 2 canned beers to the party.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: 8pm - 2am;
CROWD: Varies depending on party
AGE: Varies depending on the party
DONATION: $25, $20 before 10pm for men in back underwear or naked
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club
SUPPLIES: Condom/lube
FREQUENCY: A few parties every week
LIGHTING: Varies depending on the party
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

VISCERA (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $10 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-4am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com

LE MYSTIQUEXXX  (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: An evening of mystery, exploration and fun in a safe non-pressuring environment. Our events are nude with a theme. We encourage voyeurism. Sexy underwear is ok. This week is the "Menage a Trois" party.
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Combination of both safe sex and BB
DONATION: $25 including coat check
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, lite snacks and alcoholic beverages included
TIME: 11pm-2am, doors close at midnight
FREQUENCY: Bi weekly on Saturdays
CROWD: 50-70 ethnically diverse in shape masculine men
AGE: Age limit is 50, most attendees are 26-35
SPACE: Space changes to keep the party interesting. This week's locale is in Gramercy. The venue is a duplex apartment with two bathrooms, and plenty of room for exploration
LIGHTING: Dim/good
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Friendly sexy guys who are looking for an event with a twist.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Those who like to parTy 
GETTING IN: Check out our website: www.Lemystiquexxx.com and send pictures to LeMystiquexxx@gmail.com


20:20 (Prospect Heights, Brooklyn)
THE HOSTS SAY: 20:20 is a selective, classy, sexy, safe, drug-free group party in Brooklyn. The event takes place every month in a large luxury condo with plenty of space. Guests are all 30 years old and under, and in very good shape only (no exceptions). This is a free party, BYOB, condoms/lube provided. This month's theme is *WINE + SEX PARTY*.
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Social and friendly
DONATION: Completely free but BYOB. Snacks provided to complement the wine!
SUPPLIES: NYC condoms and lube
TIME: 10:30pm, door closes at 11:30pm. Party ends around 4.
FREQUENCY: Roughly once a month
CROWD: Around 35 guys in their 20's, mostly white guys with some Asians, Latinos and Blacks. We don't discriminate as long as you're hot. Body types go from thin to muscular, no overweight or less-than-desirable body types. Couples are welcome.
AGE: 18 to 30, all ages fairly equally represented
SPACE: Large private and modern condo unit with showers
LIGHTING: Dark to good, depending on where you play
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who wants to meet and socialize before playing with others. This is not a fuck-and-go party, you will not find it easy to play here unless you're willing to talk a little and make friends. Expect similar minded sociable guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who want to have sex right away, creeps who can't or don't want to socialize, people who need to get high or drunk, guys who have unsafe sex.
GETTING IN: More info at 2020party.tumblr.com. Make sure you register for the email list in order to get the invite (RSVP needed as we limit the audience to 35 participants only).


THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door 
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Saturday, July 26th


CHASER'S CHOICE (Gramercy) A party for chubs and the guys who love them. 
THE HOSTS SAY: "Chaser's Choice is a sexually-charged party for men of all ages (18 and over) who have large bellies, big tits, great chub cocks, and the horny chasers who love playing with them. All types of guys are accepted at this party: cute chubs in their 20s and 30s, daddy chubs, voluptuous extra large chubs, mature beefy bears, skinny and hot muscle admirers, all coming together for afternoon fun in a spacious penthouse duplex apartment. Our guestlist includes guys from all over the world. We extend a special invitation to men with small penises and their admirers! Everyone is welcome!
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm (Doors close at 5pm)
FREQUENCY: Weekly Saturdays
CROWD: 30-40 guys
AGE: All ages (over 18)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Anyone who enjoys playing with large masculine men.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Judgmental guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: chaserschoicenyc@gmail.com.  You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net


FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen) Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
THE HOST SAYS: "These are the ideal social parties for Men into Mens’ Feet, Footwear, and Tickling ready for action! In an intimate private space. In order to attend, you must make a reservation, and make a commitment to be there. Our party regulars are friendly, and expert at making first-timers want to come again and again.Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $10 before 9pm or after Midnight, $20 9pm-Midnight ($10 ages 18-25 with a valid ID)
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, juice, water, soda. (You can BYOB)
TIME: 8pm-3am (must arrive by 1am)
FREQUENCY: Every Saturday and Tuesday night.
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into feet and footware, guys who like to give and/or get foot massages, guys who like to tickle or get tickled, first-timers, guys who like to play safe.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are just looking for sex, barebackers, guys who aren't 
into feet.
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 8pm-5:30am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 12midnight-7am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. This is not a mandatory clothes check party but it is highly recommended that you check your valuables. Pickpockets have been known to clean out pockets while pants are around ankles. I also find the level of aggression to be higher at this party than most and that it seems to attract a handful of men that do not know how to respect boundaries or take "no" for an answer. But as long as you go in armed with this knowledge and react accordingly, there are usually some hot early morning times to be had here. 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door 
VIBE: no attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
DONATION: $20
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
CROWD: Gets around 70 people on Fridays and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SPACE: Paddles sex club
LIGHTING: Good, some dark areas
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who like a diverse crowd, voyours, average and out-of-shape guys, tourists/visitors, guys who want to get off after the bars before they head home.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys only into gym bodies, guys with attitude.
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles' website for location and directions: http://paddlesnyc.com/


Sunday, July 27th


GOTHAM BEARS (Gramercy)
THE HOSTS SAY: “This is an all-inclusive party for all big men of different shapes, sizes, races, and their admirers. Bringing the Bear Community together for hot steamy afternoon fun. A great way for anyone looking to get off before the weekend wraps up."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $25, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube
TIME: 2pm-6pm (doors close at 5pm)
FREQUENCY: Weekly
CROWD: 40-50 guys, all welcome: bears, cubs, chubs, otters, wolves, and bulls
AGE: All ages (over 21)
SPACE: Private duplex apartment with two bathrooms
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with hairy masculine men. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men into facial hair, tattoos, and fur-covered action.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy.
GETTING IN: Request invite at: gothambearsnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net



NEW YORK JACKS (Midtown) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A 
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 4pm to 6pm, jerking until 7pm. 
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Tuesday)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: A loft-type space
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $17
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 6pm-2am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com


NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7pm-2am
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: At 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site at www.NYBondageClub.com

FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station. 
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party) 
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men. 
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s. 
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude. 
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.



THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
THE HOSTS SAYS: "Weekly sex parties in Brooklyn NY for in-shape men of color and a very very select few whites who send pics and get approved....I have the biggest and best Safe Sex party that continues to grow and become more popular. My parties are discrete and well organized. No shirts or under shirts are allowed. If your stomach is too big, you will not get in. No weed smoking or illegal drugs are allowed. I provide a safe, comfortable, spacious environment for men of color."

UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS / BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, refreshments, fresh clean towels
TIME: 9pm-3am
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SPACE: Huge space, two floors.
LIGHTING: A bit dark but eyes get used to it.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Men of color, men into men of color, men who like to play safe
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Barebackers, out of shape guys.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@alisthomeinspection.com with your pics and stats


FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in." 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays. 
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

Monday, July 28th

MATRIX MONDAY (Astoria, Queens) From the host: "New and upscale spa party for men only every Monday. 7000 sq feet beautiful spacious spa with Jacuzzi, steam rooms, Saunas, swimming pool, open showers, lockers, bar/lounge, VIP rooms and massage rooms. Clothing Optional."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door (18+Party, 21+ drink) 
VIBE: No Attitude, Calm, Relaxed, Peaceful, with Friendly Staff
TIME: 4pm to 11pm
CROWD: 50-90 guys (Rush hour is at 6pm)
COST: $40 everything included. 
Jr Pass (18-26yrs old $30)
AGE: All ages 18-65 and races welcome to attend
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube, spa essentials, towels, robes, and lockers with locks, fruit and snacks 
FREQUENCY: Every Monday
LIGHTING: Dimmed low, relaxed atmosphere
GETTING IN: matrixmonday@yahoo.com or call (347) 705-4295 or check out our facebook page at Matrixe Monday


JACKS OF COLOR "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY" (Chelsea)  Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."  One of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.  
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 50-70
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

HANDSOMENYC.COM (Astoria, Queens) Host Hunteur brings his party to Astoria on Monday nights to the Rainbow Playground, home of the Omega parties. 
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 3am, doors close at 1am. 
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys 
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: A large industrial loft-type space with many private cabins and rooms and a cinema lounge.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s). This is a small sex party in a private apartment. This party can be hit and miss depending on how many and who show up, but when it's "hit" it can be a very hot party indeed. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies in the city. At most parties guys are having sex one-on-one or in threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occasionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: Free
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

Tuesday, July 29th

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
THE HOSTS SAY: "Get naked with us and enjoy man to man cock play....Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal and safe. Probably the safest activity you can do except for solo J/O. We are a friendly group of guys and we are all there for the same reason and to have fun. You'll see guys there of all ages, body types, sizes, etc. There will be tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. We don't discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: N/A 
DONATION: $25 ($20 with membership card)
SUPPLIES: N/A
TIME: Doors open 7pm to 9pm, jerking until 10pm
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Tuesday. (Check for different hours on Sunday.)
CROWD: Varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. (Usual attendance numbers have not been given.)
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles Sex Club 
SUPPLIES: N/A
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Request location and directions at their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen) Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
THE HOST SAYS: "These are the ideal social parties for Men into Mens’ Feet, Footwear, and Tickling ready for action! In an intimate private space. In order to attend, you must make a reservation, and make a commitment to be there. Our party regulars are friendly, and expert at making first-timers want to come again and again.Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe sex only
DONATION: $20 ($10 ages 18-25 with a valid ID)
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, juice, water, soda. (You can BYOB)
TIME: 8pm-2am (must arrive by Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Saturday and Tuesday night.
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into feet and footware, guys who like to give and/or get foot massages, guys who like to tickle or get tickled, first-timers, guys who like to play safe.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are just looking for sex, barebackers, guys who aren't 
into feet.
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

PEAK (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station.
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party)
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Friday and Tuesday (Mixed Safe Sex and BB parties every Sunday and Thursday.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men.
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s.
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude.
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.


Wednesday, July 30th

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) "Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com

HANDSOMENYC.COM (Chelsea) This party from host Hunteur replaces Hard Drive on Wednesdays. 
THE HOST SAYS: “So many parties out there are all about the ‘sleaze.’ What’s wrong with bonding with a great group of exceptional, intelligent men- the sexy 'guy next door' type? All races welcome. This is a place to enjoy the company of handsome and good-hearted great quality guys with sense of community, we also offer totally free STD Testing and referral to free health care for life and also referral to Harm Reduction Services. We have a permanent medical office on location. You do not need to pay the entrance fee to access our services- you may get tested and leave. We are supportive of the artistic community with nights devoted to the arts. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys. This week is the Modus Vivendi party. Come join us for a night of red hot fashion- Greek style. Come and get a good look at our bevy of hot dudes in sexy swim wear and jocks designed by Christos Bibitsos for Modus Vivendi. A lucky few will go home with some Modus Vivendi designs. Want to be a model? Get in touch with Hunteur1@gmail.com for details".
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: No attitude
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $22 before 9pm, $27 after, or use your silver VIP card for $22 admission all night long.
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, cookies/cake, refreshments
TIME: 8pm to 1am, doors close at 1am. 
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday night
CROWD: Average attendance is 30 to 60 great quality guys 
AGE: 23 to 55-ish
SPACE: Paddles – a huge, clean, 5000 sq. feet of professional play space. A fully licensed Commercial Sex Venue licensed by the state and also licensed as a medical off-site testing facility.
LIGHTING: big space, 5000 sq. feet with several different lighting levels
A GOOD PARTY FOR: those who want an erotic connection with upscale sexy guys.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: guys with attitude or 'high-maintenance" types. The host is “looking for happy and upbeat dudes that want to add their good energy to the night.”
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to Oliver at (hunteur1@gmail.com). You can find more info at (http://www.HandsomeNYC.com).


PRIVATE PARTY (Midtown West) Great social sex party with a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just standing around. Recommended.
THE HOST SAYS: “PRIVATE PARTY is an exclusive monthly, all-nude, safe-sex and social event for well-built, well-groomed, handsome, professional men and students 18- 45. PRIVATE PARTY events are safe, discreet, friendly, completely drug-free and open only to our members. In order to maintain our standards all potential members are screened by phone prior to a brief confirmatory in-person interview. Members of this large organized group are in fine physical and mental shape ,work-out/exercise on a regular basis in addition to being confident, interesting and accomplished. This is a highly screened group who practice safe-sex and enjoy mixing and meeting in a drug-free, friendly, all-nude, social and sexual environment."
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Very Selective
VIBE: Social and Friendly
SS/BB: A safe-sex party
DONATION: $25 and $1 clothes check
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms and lube, towels and shower amenities
TIME: 8:30-11:30 (Apr.-July), 8:00-11:30 (Sept. -Mar.)
FREQUENCY: Monthly, usually on a Wednesday 
CROWD: 80 to 100+ guys, mostly white collar professionals and students
AGE: 18-45 (no one over 45, average age is 25-35)
SPACE: Safe, clean private loft apartment
LIGHTING: Atmospheric lighting with full visibility while appropriate for the mood.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into well-build, well-groomed white-collar professionals and students, guys into safe-sex, guys into younger “twink” types, guys tired of the bar scene, first-timers.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into leather or other various fetishes. Guys into heavily-inked guys, guys into men with facial or body hair, guys into masculine beefy types. Guys who like to PnP.
GETTING IN: E-mail PRIVATE.PARTY@MSN.COM for complete info.


Thursday, July 31st

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy) 
THE HOSTS SAY: “Lunch-time party for businessmen looking to hook up weekday afternoons, offering guys who generally can't play during the evening hours (because of wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, or partnered) a chance to bust a quick afternoon nut in a large group setting.” 
VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Social and Friendly 
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 entry, and clothes-check gratuities are appreciated
SUPPLIES: Condoms and Lube 
TIME: 12pm-3pm 
FREQUENCY: weekly
CROWD: 30-40 guys, all races welcome, a mixture of gay, bi, and straight-curious men looking to explore their sexuality in a safe environment. 
AGE: 21-55, most guys in their 30's and 40's 
SPACE: private duplex apartment with two bathrooms 
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs 
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who enjoy hooking up with the suit-and-tie crowd. Friendly, outgoing individuals who enjoy interracial interaction. Men in their 30s and 40s and Jocks who like older Daddy types. Guys who find wedding rings a turn-on. 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Shy and modest guys. Men with racial hang-ups. Guys who like to parTy. 
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and Stats to: executivelunchnyc@gmail.com. You can find more info at: www.gayguysglobal.net

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens) Large party in a huge industrial loft-type space with private rooms, booths, a "cinema lounge" and one particularly dubious pitch-black area. Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good party for average guys.
THE HOST SAYS: "Hot playground with mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears."
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Open Door
VIBE: Laid back
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $15
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
TIME: 5:30pm-3am
FREQUENCY: Every Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys into all different races especially Latinos, average and out-of-shape guys, guys into anon scenes.
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys with racial or age hang-ups, guys only into gym bodies.
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to playgroundqueens@aol.com

FUSION (Chelsea) One of the “Chelsea Duplex Parties” held in a space close to Penn Station. 
THE HOST SAYS: “This is a spacious duplex apartment party for height/weight proportional (so please be) men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating vibe. This is an alternative to the “stand-and-pose” parties. Lube and condoms always available. Two levels, three playrooms, leather sling, loft bed, glory holes. Diverse music. No one would be “required” to participate, so taking things slow or whatever, is up to you. Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions are probably not right for the vibe of this party. You can bring a friend if he fits these criteria. Thank you."

VERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Somewhat Selective 
VIBE: Relaxed, friendly, non-intimidating
SS/BB: Safe Sex and BB
DONATION: $20 (occasional comps for regulars or for a slow party) 
SUPPLIES: Lube and condoms always available
TIME: 8pm to 1am (doors close at Midnight)
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday and Thursday (Safe-Sex-only parties are Fridays and Tuesdays.)
CROWD: Height/weight proportional men of all ages and races. Most are over age 30, all are over 18. 15-30 men. 
AGE: Most are over age 30, all are over 18. Average age is early 40s. 
SPACE: Duplex: 1st floor and basement levels
LIGHTING: Not brightly lit, but enough light for the voyeurs. Candles, strip lighting, lasers, lava lamp, TV.
A GOOD PARTY FOR: Middle aged men, 30-somethings, young guys who go for older, all races but two-thirds white, low maintenance 
NOT A GOOD PARTY FOR: Guys who are exceptionally nervous or have lots of questions. Also not for high-maintenance types, those who place great emphasis on the gym, or have an attitude. 
GETTING IN: Send age and pic to Scott at theorgyguy@gmail.com. Courtesy is always appreciated.


FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in." 
UNVERIFIED SPECIFICS
DOOR POLICY: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays. 
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com


See you there men!