Tuesday, April 22, 2014

SAFE SEX IN THE CITY: A whole week of great Safe Sex Parties





As I was looking over the next week of parties I noticed that four of my favorite ones are all coming up in the next seven days. This is somewhat unusual considering that three of them only occur monthly, but what struck me even more is that, as I was going over my descriptions and own personal thoughts on each of them, I noticed there were two common themes in what I was writing about all four of them. Something that they have in common (which certainly is one of the reasons they are among my favorites) is that there is never a shortage of hot sex going on at these parties. While many other parties have a lot of men either standing around sizing each other up or paring up and heading off in the corner, these parties always seem to have groups of guys fucking around (and I do truly mean FUCKING around, not just jacking or sucking). The other thing they have in common is that they are four of the few safe sex parties in the city that truly take the safe sex part seriously and have no-tolerance policies toward barebacking. Could there be a connection between these two common denominators? There is a comfort level at these parties that you just don’t find at others. I believe that once everyone feels  confident that no one is going to try to slip their unwrapped sausage into anyone else’s ass, it seems to put everyone at ease and allow guys to let go of their inhibitions and really go at it. And that, I think, is the main ingredient to what makes these parties full of hot sex.

The importance of safe sex at parties is not something I hear discussed much, which is unfortunate because I believe it is one of the most important factors in whether you have a hot sexy time that you are glowing about for days after, or you end up walking out with that “ick” feeling suspecting you perhaps lost a little too much of your senses and ended up doing something you may regret later.  

So I believe it is to everyone’s benefit that we are frequently reminded that, as soon as we move from Level 1: one-on-one interaction, to Level 10: playing with large groups of guys, the fun and excitement of the experiences can be greatly multiplied (God knows there is NOTHING like being sucked, fucked, kissed and fondled all at once in a group of hot men), but keep in mind that so is the risk involved, and the larger the group, the more men you fool around with, and the more men they have all fooled around with all within the past hour, the more the risks increase.  So it only makes sense that if you were going to fool around with a group, that you would want to be extra careful about protecting yourself. I know it seems like common sense, but it never ceases to amaze me the amount of unprotected sex that I see going on at some of the sex parties in this city.

One of the things you can do about minimizing risk is to stick with safe-sex parties. It’s not that you are completely risk-free at these parties – as long as you are a sexually active adult there will always be some level or risk involved - but the number of chances for exposure are naturally going to be much lower when everyone is required to wear condoms for fucking. (Remember, even if you may not be barebacking at a non-safe party, you can never be sure where that dick you’re about to put in your mouth has been.)  But condom use aside, there are other ways that I believe you lower your risk by attending safe vs. non-safe parties.  
The following is just a theory of mine, I don’t pretend to have figures to back it up, but I don’t think the following assumptions are too far-fetched: In my experience, I have come to believe that those who attend safe sex parties tend to be guys who are interested in safe sex – not a huge leap of faith, right? - and therefore, are more likely to be interested in their own sexual health. They are more likely to get tested regularly and less likely to be having unprotected sex outside of the parties. Therefore, at least theoretically, they are less likely to be “bringing anything” into the party with them.

Another reason I believe safe sex parties lower your risk is that they are in a somewhat public environment in that you are not alone, and therefore, not as likely to become a “victim” either of someone’s pressure or manipulation, or of your own moments of weakness.  Ever been in this situation? Your chatting with a guy on Adam who swears he’s only into safe sex, you get together with him at his or your place and at the height of passion he tells you how he just got tested, how he is clean and wants to slip in it “just a little” and before you know it you guys are fucking like bunnies bareback. And then after, you realize your lapse of judgment and are running to your doctor begging for PEP. Being in a group of people at a safe sex party where there are eyes everywhere including those of the host makes that scenario much less likely.  

So those are some of the reasons why I’m a big fan of safe sex parties. But unfortunately not all safe sex parties are equal when it comes to safety. There are the REALLY safe sex parties…parties that are safe in the truest sense of the word in that they don’t allow any anal OR oral sex such as NEW YORK JACKS, the MMX Massage parties, and, until recently, the FOOTMENNYC parties (they now allow for “safe” oral and anal play in a separate room). On the other end of the spectrum, there are safe sex parties that are basically “safe” in name only. They claim to be safe sex parties but the rules are not enforced and there is, in fact, plenty of barebacking going on. So how do you know which ones of these parties are what I would call “reliably safe?” Well I believe it all starts with the hosts and here are the ones that I find take the “safe sex” part of their safe sex parties seriously…

The host of PRIVATE PARTY has been running the biggest of the “reliably safe” sex parties for about 18 years now, so whether or not he technically is the forefather of NYC safe sex parties, he truly deserves to be considered one since he has been successful in keeping his party safe all this time. What is particularly impressive about this party is the size of it. The more people one has at a party obviously the harder it is to enforce rules, but the host has been able to keep his party of 70 to 100 or more men bareback-free for all these years. One of the reasons might be the lighting which is generally brighter than most parties (but not so bright as to ruin the mood). It’s just enough to see clearly what is going on and insure that everyone is playing safe.  Another reason may be the screening process which involves first a telephone and then an in-person (in the nude) interview. By the time one has made it through this process, there should be no question in their mind what kind of party this is and what the rules are. And once you have made it through and have been selected, there is a sense that you have become a part of a special exclusive group of like-minded individuals, and you wouldn’t want to go jeopardize that by breaking the biggest rule of the party now would you?

Another host who deserves a big nod is the one who runs a safe sex party at Paddles every Wednesday night. His previous party HARDDRIVE has given way to HANDSOMENYC.COM, but no matter what the party name, he has always had an element of public health awareness tied in with his parties and usually has someone on hand to do free rapid testing right then and there. So you can go in, get tested, grab some condoms and have some fun with some hot guys while you are at it. Of if you just want to go in to get tested, you don't even have to pay to get in and do so. 

Possibly the hosts with the most aggressive stance on keeping their parties safe is the couple who currently run four monthly safe sex parties which include ASS ACTION FUCK CLUB, BEEF, MEN’S DEN and THRUST.  Despite their strict safe sex policies, their parties are known for being social, playful, and full of lots of hot sex. In addition to requiring condoms when fucking, one of the things that sets their parties apart from others is the way in which they run them as members-only “clubs” where one of the conditions of being a member is that you agree to get screened every three months for STDs. They also have a partnership with APICHA Community Health Center which provides free testing to their members.  It’s an unconventional approach and some may argue an unenforceable one as well since testing is usually anonymous. I’ve also heard some guys at other parties say that they feel like it’s a bit much for them to be asking for their members to be tested that regularly. The way I see it is, if you are attending sex parties and having sex with dozens of men at a time on a regular basis, you should be getting tested every three months anyway. Having an easy, free way to do that (and a reminder and further motivation to do it) is something I consider helpful, not a hindrance.  And being in a party filled with men who have willingly joined a group with these guidelines make me feel more relaxed and confident about fucking around with them. Which leads to a lot more sex.  And even though there’s always the possibility some members may not be honest about getting tested every three months, I feel that even if only half of them do, it is still lowering everyone’s risk of exposure.  Whether everyone at the party is indeed getting tested or not, there is, like Private Party, a sense of belonging to an exclusive group of guys who are interested in safety, staying healthy, and who actually respect the rules and play safe, And I believe that is a big reason why the guys at these parties (myself included) feel so at ease and so free to fuck with abandon.

I support everyone’s right to make the choices they are comfortable with and for that reason I will continue to list all parties whose hosts wish for them to be listed whether they are safe or not. I would like this blog to be a place where all guys interested in man-on-man group sex can come to find the party that is right for them, including those who prefer to bareback. But I would like to encourage everyone, especially those who are new to the scene, to check out the safe sex parties and see how much hotter these parties can be (and how much more sex there is). Perhaps it is just my own personal bias, but when there are now multiple struggling non-safe parties merging together into one party just to try to get a full room of guys, while at the same time safe sex parties continue to bring in a hundred plus guys (Private Party) or have weeks-long waiting lists to get in (Ass Action, BEEF, Men’s Den), it seems I must not be the only one who thinks that these safe-sex parties are a helluva lot of fun.

Here are the parties happening over the next seven days that I know of where you can have a “reliably safe” and very hot time at…

THIS WEDNESDAY, APRIL 4/23

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District, Manhattan) The biggest and (as far as I know) longest running safe sex party is still one of the best. Lots of sex, lots of hot friendly guys. What’s not to love?  A great social sex party with a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is also a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. This week is the "Naked Rite of Spring Pt. 2" party continuing the popular all-nude theme the party has had of late.
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Very social, not much attitude
TIME: 8:30pm-11:30pm
CROWD: 80-100 guys
AGE: good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45).
DONATION: $25 + $1 clothes check
SPACE: large private loft apt
SS/BB: A safe sex only party. 
SUPPLIES:  Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube, shower, towels
FREQUENCY: Once a month, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, sometimes Sundays
LIGHTING: Excellent (light enough to see, not too much light for shy men)
GETTING IN: The host requires a short phone interview, and a quick in-person interview right before the party.  People write to ASG that this pisses them off. Seriously: It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party).  Don’t let this stop you; it’s how he maintains a hot, no attitude crowd.  Send request (no pics required) to PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.


ALSO ON WEDNESDAY, APRIL 23rd

HANDSOMENYC.com (Chelsea) This party replaces Hard Drive on Wednesdays. From the host: "This party caters to an upscale clientele, creative types and professional men with a sense of humor.  This is the party for the sexy "guy next door" with a dirty mind. If you feel you don't fit into absolute sleaze and have tried the events where you run home to take a "silkwood" shower, this is the party for you.  Handsome good guys and a sense of  community as well as our FREE STD testing and FREE health services available to all regardless if you pay to get in or not. Guest appearances by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude, extremely friendly a must
TIME:  Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am.
CROWD: Get 30-60 guys height/weight proportionate (all body types)
AGES: 25 to 55YO
DONATION: 8pm-22 bucks. After 9pm-27 bucks- Special VIP card for cheap entry 
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles Play Space
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  Every Wednesday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to hunteur1@gmail.com or check out http://www.HandsomeNYC.com


ON FRIDAY, APRIL 25th

BEEF (Washington Heights) It love playing with the big bearish men so when the Ass Action and Men's Den hosts started a safe sex bear party, I just had to be there. After a somewhat rough start and the addition of red lighting, sexy music and a foggy atmosphere to bring those shyer bears and cubs out of hibernation, the party is now a full on safe sex fuckfest for bears, cubs, chubs, otters, and the guys who love to fuck around with them. If you like bears and you like safe-sex, this is the party for you.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-Midnight. Door closes at 11pm.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: 21 to 50s
DONATION: $10 before 9pm, $20 after
SS/BB: A safe-sex party
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, beverages, towel
FREQUENCY: Once a month on a Friday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: You need to be a member of BEEF in order to attend. There currently is about a three week wait-list for a membership. To be considered, send stats and a face pic to beefpartynyc@gmail.com




ON SUNDAY, APRIL 27th

ASS ACTION FUCK CLUB (Washington Heights) A fraternity-styled club exclusively for guys with athletic bodies and friendly personalities. The hosts have recently taken the party back to its roots as a more intimate gathering (its usually around 15 guys and never more than 20) to encourage more group interaction and to make the party more selective. The result? Well let’s just say the party really lives up to it’s name. Hot athletic guys + friendly no-attitude vibe + bowls of condoms everywhere (including Magnums for the big boys) + bottles of Gun Oil lube …you do the math.
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Friendly and social with no attitude
TIME: 5pm to 9pm, must arrive by 6pm
CROWD: Guest list is limited to 20. Racially mixed, above average to very hot
AGES: 21 to 40s
DONATION: $20
SS/BB: A safe-sex only party
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, sodas, shower and towel
FREQUENCY: Once a month on a Sunday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Due to limited space on the membership list, the hosts are currently only considering guys with above-average athletic or muscular bodies for membership. You can send stats and pics to heightshost@gmail.com and find more information at assactionnyc.com


And Beyond this week, here are a few other hot and safe parties to check out...


ON SATURDAY, MAY 3rd

THE MEATPACKERS (Brooklyn/Park Slope) I've never actually attended this party but I've heard nothing but good things about it so it’s definitely on my bucket list. I also actually know a couple of guys who were banned from the party because they tried to bareback so I know these guys are kick-ass when it comes to enforcing their safe sex rules. 
RATING: Open Door
VIBE: No attitude
TIME:  12am-5am
CROWD: 100 men
AGE: 18-40s
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  Safe sex only (very strict)
SPACE: In cellar with cages and rooms.
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Held the 1st Saturday of each month
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Must call: 212-677-3599 (call the number for info--you'll get an answering machine)  


ON SUNDAY, MAY 4th

MEN'S DEN (Washington Heights) Men’s Den is a “members-only” club that hosts safe-sex parties for attractive men of all races ages 21 to 40s. It is held in a private apartment with comfortable couches and a bed to play on and attracts a hot varied crowd of guys with different body types from athletic and muscular to average and sometimes a few stocky guys as well. The party is relatively new (it’s only about four months old) and it has already grown to be one of the more popular of the “somewhat selective” parties in the city.  It's got an intimate, relaxed, social vibe that seems to put everyone at ease and leads to a lot of hot sex.
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 5pm-9pm, door closes at 8pm. 
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: 21 to 40s
DONATION: $10 before 6pm, $20 after
SS/BB: A safe sex only party
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, beverages
FREQUENCY: Once a month on a Sunday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: You need to be a Men’s Den Member in order to attend. There currently is about a two-week wait-list for a membership. To be considered, send stats and pics to mensdennyc@gmail.com




Know of any other safe sex party that truly lives up to that title?  Tell me all about it at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com


Have a safe and sex-filled week.

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Group M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, April 18th to Thursday, April 24th



Information below is based on the personal experience of myself and other AGS bloggers, or the information that the hosts provided. If I didn't know something I listed it as TK. (N/A means not applicable). Please, NEVER go to a party just based on my information. You should ALWAYS check with the hosts first to confirm that the parties are up and running and times and dates are correct. Another great resource you should check out is the "Parties and Events" section of Adam4Adam.com for parties that I do not list yet, for smaller parties, or parties below that may not respond quickly to emails. Also this is just for this weekend. If you want the whole list you can email me at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com. Have fun and be safe.

Friday, April 18th


MILK CHOCOLATE ORAL FETISH HOTEL PARTY (Chelsea) From the host: “NYC's hot inter-racial m4m party serving dark chocolate, delicious caramel and creamy white hot milk to friendly men of all races on their private party list." This Friday is the Oral Hotel Fetish Party: “Hosting a hot/ safe play party for fit/ in-shape men into kicking back for hot oral and dudes into giving good head.  To avoid no-shows everyone interested in this party must drop by one of my Paddles events to pre-pay for this event.  Men that came to the last hotel party are already on the list.  Good hygiene and good attitude a must!"
RATING: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME:  4pm to 8pm;
CROWD: TK
AGE: 21 to 40s
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  safe sex 
SPACE: Hotel room
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  A few parties every week
LIGHTING: varies depending on the party
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes.  It's a mix of guys, White, Black, Latin, occasionally Asian. Most guys are naked, but not required. 
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back, no attitude
TIME:  8pm to 2am
CROWD: 20-40  men
AGE: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)
DONATION: $10 before 9pm (exact change required)/$20 after 9pm
SS/BB:  Some safe sex, but mostly BB
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics & stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is PEAK. From the host: "The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, height/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand-and-pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn't for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape."
PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.
DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.
TIME: 8pm-2am (doors open until 1am)
CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  PEAK is a safe-sex party
SPACE: Private apartment, sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, enemas, clothes check. 
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.


THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. A good-sized party for average guys.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: 8pm-4am
DONATION: $17 all night
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com


METROPOLIS (Gramercy)  A new Friday night party format at the Gramercy Duplex that combines different parties with separate hosts into one evening with each party having it's own dedicated entry time. Regardless of what party you arrive for and what time you enter, you are welcome to stay until the end of the evening at 3pm. Each Friday has a different line-up and this Friday's is as follows: DADS AND SONS: Entry from 8pm to 9pm; TESTOSTERONE: Entry from 9pm to 10pm; PAPI: Entry from 10pm to 11pm; BOYZ-TOWN: Entry from 11pm to Midnight; MIDNIGHT OWL: Entry from Midnight to 3am. 
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  8pm-3am.
CROWD: TK
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
SS/BB:  safe sex and BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Fridays
LIGHTING: 1st floor dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: Contact the hosts of the individual parties for invites and more info.
For Dads and Lads, contact  sondad@ymail.com.
For Testosterone, contact apollothegreek@earthlink.net.
For Papi, contact www.papipartynyc.com
For Boyz-Town, contact boyz1town@gmail.com.
For Midnight Owl contact bobbyboyblue7@gmail.com
For more party info, please visit www.gayguysglobal.net

E.BONE.NY (Brooklyn). An underwear party for black men and dark skin admirers. All races are welcome, but the focus is Black Men.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: laid back , no attitude
TIME: 10pm –2am    (doors close at 11:30pm)
DONATION: $25 Donation for black men and admirers; $40 Donation for male couples; $1 for coat/beverage check
CROWD: AGE: 19-45
SS/BB: safe sex only – no BB permitted.
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms and lube, BYOB
FREQUENCY: Few times a Month
GETTING IN: Email pic and stats to whosateboneytonight@gmail.com

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  From the host: "Exclusive discrete interracial nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security."
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Friday and Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.


THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 12midnight-7am
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Sat and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. Not a mandatory clothes check party.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/


Saturday, April 19th


CHUBS AND CHASERS (Midtown) From the host: "NYC's largest party for large and extra large guys and their admirers."
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3pm - 7pm, doors close at 5:30pm
CROWD: tk
DONATION: $25
SS/BB: BB and safe-sex
SPACE: Hot, clean, duplex space, two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: Snacks, condom/lube.
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to bearpartynewyork@gmail.com




MMX EDGE (Chelsea) From the host: "A 90 minute afternoon JO party like no other.  Guys form a circle and start off with some great shoulder and neck massage, slowly making their way down to a hard cock and undressing each other.  Edging techniques are demonstrated to prolong release and use energy to attempt a full body orgasm.  When the group is ready,  the two bukakke guys drop to their knees....."
RATING: Selective
VIBE: No attitude, no reason
TIME: 3pm-4:30pm
CROWD: 20-40 guys
AGES: 23 - 48
DONATION: $15. Mention Adventures in Group Sex and save $5 off your first event.
SS/BB: Safe / JO Only
SPACE: Private massage studio on 14th and 6th Ave.
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Members and member guests.  Send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com and join for free.  



FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
RATING: somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com


THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
TIME: 8pm-4am
DONATION: $17 all night
VIBE: laid back
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse loft space
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com


MASQUERADE ORGY (Los Angeles) Hot party for those on the West Coast. To get in you don't have to be a total jock but in decent to great shape.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: Laid back , no attitude
TIME: 9pm–3am  (doors close at 1am)
DONATION: $20
CROWD: AGE: 19-45 (most guys in their late 20s/early 30s).
SS/BB: safe sex
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Few times a month
GETTING IN: Email pic and stats to maskedmenla@gmail.com

NYJP (Midtown) New York Jock Party is one of the largest parties in NYC and also widely considered one of the best for those looking for jocks with toned and muscled physiques. The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. It can also at times be filled with attitude, but that seems to come with the territory. This is not a party for the modest or shy as you are required to check everything including your underwear, and you will be given a small towel to cover up. 
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Some attitude.
TIME: 10pm-5am
CROWD: 50-70 young, hot men
AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $23 before 11pm, $28 after
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: drinks, snacks, condoms/lube.
FREQUENCY:  2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes Thursdays
LIGHTING: Good, sometimes too dark for such hot men
GETTING IN: send stats and pics tothenyjp@gmail.com

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  From the host: "Exclusive discrete interracial nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security."
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Friday and Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 12midnight-7am
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floors. It’s a safe and clean place. Lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday, Saturday and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. Not a mandatory clothes check party.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3am-7am, (The party really takes off around 4am when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
FREQUENCY: every Friday and Saturday night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/


Sunday, April 20th

GOTHAM BEAR PARTY (Midtown East).  From the host: “This is an all inclusive party for all BIG men of different shapes and sizes and races and their admirers!”
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  3pm - 6pm.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
DONATION: $20
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
SS/BB:  safe sex and BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly on Sundays
LIGHTING: 1st floor dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and stats to apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net


NEW YORK JACKS (Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: Doors open 4:00pm to 6:30pm, jerking until 7:30pm
CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: studio space
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 7pm-2am
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: At 11pm they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site at www.NYBondageClub.com


THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: 7pm to 2am
DONATION: $16 
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse space
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces pitch black
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com
NOTE: Sunday Special... Only 10$ for super attractive athletic model type guys under 35 Saturday or Sunday.

 THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is FUSION. From the host: "The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, height/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand-and-pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn't for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape. 
PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.
DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.
TIME: 8pm-2am (doors open until 1am)
CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  FUSION is safe-sex and BB
SPACE: Private apartment, sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, enemas, clothes check. 
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: "This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in." 
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30pm-4am  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $10 all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays. 
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com


Monday, April 21st


MATRIX MONDAY (Astoria, Queens) From the host: "New and upscale spa party for men only every Monday. 7000 sq feet beautiful spacious spa with Jacuzzi, steam rooms, Saunas, swimming pool, open showers, lockers, bar/lounge, VIP rooms and massage rooms. Clothing Optional."
RATING: Open Door (18+Party, 21+ drink) 
VIBE: No Attitude, Calm, Relaxed, Peaceful, with Friendly Staff
TIME: 2pm to 11pm
CROWD: 50-90 guys (Rush hour is at 6pm)
COST: $40 everything included. 
Jr Pass (18-26yrs old $30)
AGE: All ages 18-65 and races welcome to attend
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube, spa essentials, towels, robes, and lockers with locks, fruit and snacks 
FREQUENCY: Every Monday
LIGHTING: Dimmed low, relaxed atmosphere
GETTING IN: matrixmonday@yahoo.com or call (347) 705-4295 or check out our facebook page at Matrixe Monday

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY PARTY!" Jacks of Color (often referred to simply as J.O.C.) is a New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."  One of my favorite of the "open door" general admission parties. It’s huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends. And the host is one of the sweetest guys I've ever had the pleasure of meeting.  
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2am
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also quite a bit of BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MMX TIGHT MUSCLE MONDAYS (Chelsea) From the hosts:  "Connect through massage each week with a different theme. Not a full on sex party but a lot of hot in shape naked men (selective crowd) stroking each other in a good way in a professional massage studio with tables.  There is no oral or anal here, but lots of hard-ons and happy endings are in plenty. Hosts are Massage Therapists. And this party is to explore and turn on your whole body, and relax in a group setting.
Themes Vary: 4/21 - Intro to Tantric Touch; 4/28 - Under 35 Night"
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude, no reason
TIME: Arrive between 8 and 8:30pm.
CROWD: 15-25 guys
AGES: 23 - 48
DONATION: $25. Students and under 27 get in for $20. Mention Adventures in Group Sex and Save $10 off your first event.
SS/BB: not a sex party
SPACE: Great location on 14th/6th Ave, Clean Space, Private 
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Members and Member guests.  Send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com and Join for Free.  

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s). This is a small sex party in a private apartment. This party can be hit and miss depending on how many and who show up, but when it's "hit" it can be a very hot party indeed. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies in the city. At most parties guys are having sex one-on-one or in threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occasionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: Free
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com


Tuesday, April 22nd

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: Doors open 7:30PM to 9:00PM, jerking until 11:00PM
CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is PEAK. From the host: "The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, height/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand-and-pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn't for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape." 
PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.
DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.
TIME: 8pm–2am (doors until 1am)
CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  PEAK is a safe-sex party
SPACE: Private apartment, sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, enimas, clothes check. 
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.


FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
RATING: somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: " This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in-shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in. " 
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: TUES. 11:30pm-5am 
CROWD: AGES: mostly guys in their 20s and 30s, few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $5 before 1am, $10 after all night 
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks, snacks, condoms/lube. 
FREQUENCY:  Sundays, Tuesdays, Thursdays
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com





Wednesday, April 23rd


OPEN MINDED EVENTS (Washington, DC -- DuPont Circle)  THE ALL MALE AFTER WORK PARTY. Parties are for guys in their men who identify as gay, bisexual, and bi-curious are all welcome. The parties involve kissing, fucking, sucking... good hot action between men. most parties are open ended, vanilla-type play, although occasionally a party will have a kink or fetish theme (like underwear, bondage, or watersports). The events are held in a in the Dupont Circle neighborhood, located in NW Wash, DC.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  5:30
CROWD: varies
AGE: 20’s, 30’s, and 40’s.
DONATION: $20 - $40
SS/BB:  safe sex only
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms, lube, bottled water
FREQUENCY:  varies, but often
LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: Check out the website for more info...http:// openmindedevents.blogspot.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) "Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment."
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com

HandsomeNYC.com (Chelsea) This party from host Hunteur replaces Hard Drive on Wednesdays. From the host: "This party caters to an upscale clientele, creative types and professional men with a sense of humor.  This is the party for the sexy "guy next door" with a dirty mind. If you feel you don't fit into absolute sleaze and have tried the events where you run home to take a "silkwood" shower, this is the party for you.  Handsome good guys and a sense of  community as well as our FREE STD testing and FREE health services available to all regardless if you pay to get in or not. Guest appearance by porn stars, fantasy dress up, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys."

RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: No attitude, extremely friendly a must
TIME:  Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am.
CROWD: Get 30-60 guys height/weight proportionate (all body types)
AGES: 25 to 55YO
DONATION: 8pm-22 bucks. After 9pm-27 bucks- Special VIP card for cheap entry 
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles Play Space
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  Every Wednesday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to hunteur1@gmail.com or check out http://www.HandsomeNYC.com


PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District, Manhattan) Great social sex party with a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is plenty of hot sex at this party – not just standing around. This week is the "Naked Rite of Spring Pt. 2" party continuing the popular all-nude theme the party has had of late. Recommended.
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Very social, not much attitude
TIME: 8:30pm-11:30pm
CROWD: 80-100 guys
AGE: good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45).
DONATION: $25 + $1 clothes check
SPACE: large private loft apt
SS/BB: A safe sex only party. 
SUPPLIES:  Drinks, snacks, condoms/lube, shower, towels
FREQUENCY: Once a month, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, sometimes Sundays
LIGHTING: Excellent (light enough to see, not too much light for shy men)
GETTING IN: The host requires a short phone interview, and a quick in-person interview right before the party.  People write to ASG that this pisses them off. Seriously: It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party).  Don’t let this stop you; it’s how he maintains a hot, no attitude crowd.  Send request (no pics required) to PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  From the Host: "Exclusive discreet interracial nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security."
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Fri and Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.


Thursday, April 24th

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Midtown East). Lunch-time party for business men to hook up weekday afternoons.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 12pm-3pm.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: safe sex and BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  After work ThursdaysLarge party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
TIME: Thursday (5:30pm-3am)
DONATION: Only $13 
VIBE: laid back
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex and BB
SPACE: Big Loft playground (6,000 sq ft) with different theme rooms , many private booths , darkroom , porn etc .
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is FUSION. From the host: "The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, height/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand-and-pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn't for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape. 
PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.
DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.
TIME: 8pm–2am (doors until 1am)
CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  FUSION is safe sex and BB
SPACE: Private apartment, sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, enimas, clothes check. 
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

GOTHAM BEARS (Midtown East).  From the host: "This is an all inclusive party for all BIG men of different shapes and sizes and races and their admirers”
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  8pm-11pm
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  safe sex and BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Thursdays
LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) and stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). From the host: " This is an all nude party. No exception and no negotiation about it at all. Strip at door. For fit men in-shape only, no one waist over 36 will not get in. "
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: THUR. 11:30pm-5am
CROWD: Ages: mostly 20s and 30s, a few in-shape men in their 40s
DONATION: $5 before 1am, $10 after all night
SS/BB: A safe sex party
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks, snacks, condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Sun, Tues, Thurs
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

See you there men!