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Tuesday, October 6, 2009

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB -- Updated Info

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea)
UPDATE: Sex is no longer banned (for about 6 months now). Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. Last weekend it was $5 if under 25 and $10 if under 30. It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night.

www.NYBondageClub.com

Monday, October 5, 2009

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy)--Update

Update for the THE OLYMPUS PARTY -- has great HUGE new space. I haven't been yet, but the host claims they are now the Largest group sex party in New York...

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) In new space: penthouse duplex complete with various-themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, space holds over 200 guys, attendance ranges over 100 naked men, and maxing out at 200 guys, every Friday. $20 donation to get in.
*Send pics & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (tell him Evan sentyou).

Friday, October 2, 2009

HOT party on Wednesday Night

If your a newbie, or even been to many parties -- like me -- NEW YORK BY NIGHT is one of the best parties in NYC. It's held once a month and the next party is next week (October 7). The August party was HOT -- no AC -- VERY sweaty, but great. The September party was HUGE: many new guys, lots of twinks and muscule guys. Fucked and got fucked over and over.

Some nut has been posting about NEW YORK BY NIGHT on CL. Ignore him. He's clearly been rejected during the interview process (which is why the party is so HOT). If you don't beleive me, check out this feature on them in Next magazine... http://www.nextmagazine.com/features/1637_1.php

C ya on Wed!

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NEW YORK BY NIGHT (Midtown West) Great party in large loft with sofas. Generally good mix of guys from hot to average 20-40 YOs. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very safe a clean atmosphere, no attitude. 30-50 guys attend, once a month. $25 donation. Chec
*Send pics & Stats to: RBN33@MSN.com. Tell him you saw his email in Next Magazine!

Manhattan Sex Parties...

Manhattan...

Manhattan ... THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Moves, now Gramercy) This party -- usually in hotels or studio spaces -- has guys in the some20s-mostly30s-40s. It used be a VERY hot party, but the last few times I'vegone the crowd was good, but mixed, and not as hot as before. Sunday nightcrowds are better than Thursday. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice amonth. $25 donation. *Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

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NEW YORK BY NIGHT (Midtown West) Great party in large loft with sofas. Generally good mix of guys from hot to average 20-40 YOs. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very safe a clean atmosphere, no attitude. 30-50 guys attend, once a month. $25 donation. Check out this feature on them in Next magazine... http://www.nextmagazine.com/features/1637_1.php*Send pics & Stats to: RBN33@MSN.com. You should tell him you saw his email in Next Magazine.

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CUMMONKEY/GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Studio space, not apartment. Since this re-started last month is much better class of guys, much hotter mix, some attitude. Usually 30-50 guys attend, from 20-30-40 YOs. Every Wednesday. $25 donation, plus $2 for clothes check. www.CumMonkey.com

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THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Now in Gramercy) This party -- was at a hotel, now in Apt in E20s -- has guys in the some20s-mostly30s-40s. It used be a VERY hot party, but the last few times I'vegone the crowd was good, but mixed, and not as hot as before. Sunday nightcrowds are better than Thursday. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice amonth. $25 donation. *Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

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THE NYJOCK PARTY (Midtown West) In 2 floor apartment. The host is very discriminating (and kinda an asshole) -- but the pary now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes. If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation. nyjockparty@yahoo.com

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AM: An All New After Hours Party (Times Square). AM is a private, selective, and exclusive party only for good looking in shape guys. This is a SAFE & DRUG FREE PARTY. Party takes place after you've been everywhere else on Sunday night: Monday mornings from 3am - 10am.For invite, email James: aminnyc1@yahoo.com

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THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) In new space: penthouse duplex complete with various-themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, space holds over 200 guys, attendance ranges over 100 naked men, and maxing out at 200 guys, every Friday. $20 donation to get in. *Send pics & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (tell him Evan sentyou).

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THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT--see below). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe—too sleazy for me. Usually has about 30-50 guys attending from 30-40 YOs (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there). NOT a safe sex party. Have parties once a week. $25. www.themensparty.com

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BISHOP (Downtown) Hotel room. I’ve never been to this party because they take ANYONE. One guyreported the he likes it because it attracts a wide group of types, ages,ethnicgroups without discrimination. (It is the only sex group I know of that meets at lunchtime--which is perfect for married guys or guys who works nights). Most guys who attend have reported that the party sucks, and is mostly old fat men, and most comment that the host is NOT cool. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20. *Email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com, or check out WEBSITE: http://bishop.ning.com/?xgi=3nwSAru

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ANOTHER SEX PARTY 70s PORN (Manhattan). I've not been to this one, but was told it's "the hottest I have ever attended." Periodic -- never get advance warning. It's odd because it is a mix of straight men who like the porn and don't even look at the other guys much and gay men who do nothing but look at the other guys, and only glance at the porn. About 12 men each party. Preference is given to hairy men; from really handsome to normal but no fat or very old men. Social yes, wine is served as is lube. FOR INVITE: Send a face and full description to playevents@gmail.com

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MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem ) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut fromincredibly hot guys to very average dudes. The host is a big guy, can be too much for some. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20- mostly 30- some 40 YOs. Have parties at random. Free. *Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

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ALL MALE PARTY (Midtown West). In apartment. I haven't been to this one in years because its way tooexpensive, and the one time I went the fat guys were only outnumbered by the ugly guys. 25-50 guys, weird fee structure, check out their website. www.AllMaleParty.com www.jacksofcolor.com

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BANA POOL PARTY ( Manhattan ) In a club. I've never been, but told its a huge space with different levelsand rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dance floor, bars.$40-50 general admission, $60-80 gets you a locker+, and $100 VIP pass. www.hotsteammachine.com www.thebanapoolparty.com

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ED AND STEVE GROUP ( Upper Manhattan ) Interracial gay group that meet twice a month. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

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A-PLUS MUSCLE PARTY (Downtown) Hot Muscle Studs only. Email for invite: aplusmuscle@aol.com

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SOS: SEX ON SUNDAYS (formerly NY BUTT LICKERS) (Grammercy) Now held in an apt on Lex in the 20s. Hot Orgy every Sunday.Email for invite: sexonsundaynyc@yahoo.com

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SKYBLU ( Harlem ) Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO. Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/ Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com

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HOTPARTIES 2006 (Chelsea). Party is held in a private apartment/loft, on Friday & Wednesday. $25 donation. (Sometimes has Saturday parties in Brooklyn ). *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

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THE BEAR HUNT ( West Harlem ). Run by the same people who run The Men'sParty. I've never been because I'm not a bear, and only into musclebears--which I hear this is not a place to meet them. $25 donation. www.bearhuntnyc.com

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NEW YORK JACK (Chelsea) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO--and only like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. But it's ONLY jo anyway. Sun & Tues; $25 donation.http://www.nyjacks.com

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DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Financial District). Held in a clean studio apartment in a doorman building near Rector subway stop). Motto: Sex Party for All Men - No Attitude, Friendly Environment; CLAIMS: Hot guys ages 20's - 40's+; Doors open 9pm - 10pm (open until midnight); $20 donations. I've only been once -- mostly out-of-shape & old guys, with a few hotties. It's a new party -- the host is cool, so has possibilities. EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

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STICKY RICE PARTY (Gramercy) An exclusive Asian sex party in NYC for "young, hot, lean, in shape asianguys" between 18 - 35. Everyone pitches in for cost of hotel, and bringstheir own condoms. Needles to say, I've never been. Saturdays. Email for invite: sticky-rice-party-nyc@googlegroups.com

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JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." On hiatus,but looking for a new spot. Had HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. The party is back on. Three nights next week! www.jacksofcolor.com

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GALLERY OF MEN (Garment District) every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. Not sure how to get on the guest list anymore - must have your email on the list for admission. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that.Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

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BODY BUILDER SEX PARTY ( Manhattan )For body builders only (and their slaves). The parties are always held indiscreet locations with at least 10 bodybuilders. www.bodybuildersexparty.com

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NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) From Next..."Not a real sex party...as sex is not allowed, but you willfind plenty of guys being manually stimulated (yes, hand jobs are fine) while tied up or bound in all sorts of contraptions. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. Most guys remain fully or partially clothed and the fun of the party is watching various bondage scenes unfold." guys, Sundays. www.NYBondageClub.com

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BMOCO (Tribeca) "Big Men of Color". Has held events at hotel downtown -- very dark, hard to see anyone-- not great crowd. EMAIL: bmocoparty@gmail.com

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Brooklyn Group Parties..

Brooklyn…

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn) Brooklyn ? Hot group of guys, some attitude. 30-60 guys attend in their 20-40s. $25 for new guys, $15 for members, $10 for hot students.*Send pics & Stats to: hotbklynparty@prodigy.net

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THE MEATPACKERS/PITSSTOP PARTY(Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. I haven’t been to this is years, but was hot and a little scary, which made it hotter. Held the 1st Saturday of each month (according to their telephone info).Must call: 212-677-3599

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THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) I've never been, but am told it's for Black and Latino guys, and guyswho love big black cocks. Safe sex for in shape guys—huge space, held everyweekend. http://thugs4thugsex.com

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COLLEGE WATER SPOTS KEGGER PARTY/GOLDEN BOYS USA ( Brooklyn ) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old, and get into (or tolerant of) guys pissing on other guys. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). (I've never been to this one. This was reported to me by the promoter. Email me for their website.) Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. Second Saturday of every other month. ALSO have general UNDERWEAR parties every so often.www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

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THE MASSAGE PARTY ( Brooklyn ) It's a good massage party...a bit slow going at first, but then it heatsup. Can be very sexy. www.massageparty.info

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HOTPARTIES 2006 (Queens). Party is held in a private apartment, on Saturdays. $20 donation. Also has parties in Manhattan & Queens. *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

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HAPPY LANDING (Brooklyn)From Next..."like a scene from John Cameron Mitchell’s film Shortbus,Happy Landing is a Brooklyn queer art/music/sex party. Held in a secretwarehouse basement, the party’s patrons are greeted with a bright neonwonderland (the walls are literally covered in neon-painted junk) where DJsspin, liquor flows and boys and girls (yes, vagina) roam around in variousstates of undress. While the winding backroom maze features a mattress and a sling, the atmosphere is more hipster social than dirty dungeon." ($0–$20admission), 100 (including girls). Every couple of months. email to…HappyLandingHQ@gmail.com

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Queens Sex Parties...

Queens ...

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

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HOTPARTIES 2006 (Queens). Party is held in a private apartment, on Saturdays. $20 donation. Also has parties in Manhattan & Brooklyn. *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

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Man2ManPlay (Corona) This party is held in a private apartment; Fridays, 8PM to 3AM; $20 donation.For Invite: Man2ManPlay@ yahoo.com

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Bronx Sex Party...

Bronx...

BMOCO ( Bronx ) "Big Men of Color". All types of black men and bears and admirers.Someone wrote me..."Went there once, the neighborhood intimidated me butmade me hot even more. I was very nervous when I went in but eventually I was invited into the dark room and was surprised how big men wanted me. I became a true slut."
EMAIL: bmocoparty@gmail.com

New Jersey Sex Parties...

New Jersey …

NJ PARTY (Fairlawn) Held in a duplex apartment - upstairs is turned over to the party for 2 hours weekday lunch times and one evening each week - schedule varies; $20 - soda, condoms and lube provided.

EMAIL pics and stats: NJPARTY@aol.com

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RED LIGHT ZONE PARTY ( Jersey City , NJ ) Party is close to Journal Square — a huge PATH hub in Jersey — and has avery attractive host. The first time I went, I met a couple of hung daddies, but each subsequent time the crowd's been hung black guys. It's a good vibe, so if you're into Afr-AM guys, it's a good place to be. The place is clean and there's no attitude. Door open 11pm-3am, but you can stay to 5am. Snacks, drinks, beer, alcohol, condoms and lube all provided free all night! $20 donation at the door. Those who come Friday get half off on Saturday. Email for invite: redlightzoneparty@yahoo.com

NOTE: NOT SURE THIS IS STILL HAPPENING.
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ANOTHER SEX PARTY 70s PORN (Manhattan).

ANOTHER SEX PARTY 70s PORN (Manhattan). I've not been to this one -- so all this info is from someone who just emailed me and suggested I add the info. He says it's "the hottest I have ever attended." Periodic -- never get advance warning. It's odd because it is a mix of straight men who like the porn and don't even look at the other guys much and gay men who do nothing but look at the other guys, and only glance at the porn. About 12 men each party. Preference is given to hairy men; from really handsome to normal but no fat or very old men. Social yes, wine is served as is lube.

FOR INVITE: Send a face and full description to playevents@gmail.com