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Saturday, September 28, 2013

Two hot parties this week: PRIVATE PARTY (Wed) and ASS ACTION (Sun)

Lots of hot parties this week...

Only two weeks after the last PRIVATE PARTY - there's another one!  Here's a great review I got from a reader of the blog:  "Hey! I just want to tell you that I found out about the PRIVATE PARTY through your blog and it was amazing!  I'm glad to have finally found a place in New York that's chill, safe and really sexy.  The guys were mostly hot, the atmosphere was relaxed and I had a great time."

Great, right? Personally, after NYJOCK, it's the don't miss party.  PRIVATE PARTY is my #1 choice this week. Also, check out ASS ACTION on Sunday.

Here's the details for the picks of the week...

Sunday: ASS ACTION FUCK CLUB (Washington Heights) A safe-sex party with the emphasis on “hot butt sex.” The hosts have a group of select guys that make up a diverse mix of race and types come over to their apartment to “fuck each others’ brains out.” A shower and towels are provided.
RATING: Very Selective

GETTING IN: You can send stats and pics to heightshost@gmail.com and find more information at assactionnyc.com

Wednesday: PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party w/a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around.
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE
GETTING IN: The host requires a short phone interview, and a quick in-person interview right before the party.  People write to ASG that this pisses them off. Seriously: It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party).  Don’t let this stop you; it’s how he maintains a hot, no attitude crowd.  Everyone agrees afterwards that It was painless, and worth the hassle.  Send request (no pics required) to PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

See you there men!

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

GROUP M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, September 27 to Thursday, October 3


Sex Parties for the week of Friday, September 27 to Thursday, October 3…

Men: Below is the new list of all the parties that I know about this week. I only gave information based on my personal experience, or the information that the hosts provided. If I didn't know something I listed it as TK. (N/A means not applicable). PLEASE, never go to a party just based on my information. You should always check with the hosts first to confirm that the parties are up and running. Also this is just the parties this week, if you want the whole list you can email me at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com.

Friday…

NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square). The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. The hotter men tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be.
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE
VIBE: Since the party went ALL NUDE -- mostly no attitude.
TIME: 10pm-5am
CROWD: 50-70+ to 50 young, hot men
AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s
DONATION: $25.
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes Thursdays
LIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot men
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com



THRUST (Washington Heights) An underwear sex party featuring hot guys, hot house beats, and just the right vibe and atmosphere to make you feel sexy, uninhibited, and ready to let it all out! It’s got the cool, fun, social feel of a house party mixed with the primal vibe of an underground sex club. Two areas of play space, a selective invite list, the Wall O’ Porn, and a sling makes for a fucking hot time.  The party takes place in a discrete large apartment in upper Manhattan.  Make sure you wear your sexiest undies and leave those fruit of the looms at home!
RATING: Selective
VIBE: Friendly with no attitude
TIME: 11pm to 2am. Must arrive by Midnight.
CROWD: Guys of different ethnicities, above average to very hot.
AGES: 21 to 40s
DONATION: $20
SS/BB: A Safe-sex party
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms (including Magnums), lube, snacks, beverages
FREQUENCY: Weekly on Fridays
LIGHTING: Good

GETTING IN: You can send stats and pics to thrustnycparty@gmail.com. You can find more info on the party at thrustnyc.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (N. Chelsea).  Tonight's party is PEAK. Club House parties are known for being comfortable and relaxed, with guys who prefer to get involved than stand & pose (although true voyeurs are welcome).  You’re more likely to get a smile than a snub.  It’s a mixed group of usually 15-25 men. And yes, hot men come.  FÜSION: This one is for safesexers and for barebackers; aERUPTIÖNbb: Fuck any way you want, but this one is primarily for barebackers; PEÄKsafesex: For men who play safe.  Plenty of condoms provided; NÖÖNERafternoonsex: Very hot.  There’s something about doing it in the afternoon.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Friendly
TIME: 7PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)
CROWD: TK
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  BB
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms, lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

TESTOSTERONE (Midtown East).  From the host: This is a no-attitude/no-standing around party, everyone able to hold their own in large active crowds, anyone looking for a "jock perfect only party" with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their "pee-pees" should not apply, this event is not for you.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  10pm-3am.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
SS/BB:  safe sex & BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Fridays
LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security.
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Fri & Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

E.BONE.NY (Brooklyn). An underwear party for black men and dark skin admirers. All races are welcome, but the focus is Black Men.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: laid back , no attitude
TIME: 10pm –2am    (doors close at 11:30pm)
DONATION: $25 Dollar Donation for BLACK  MEN and ADMIRERS; $40 Dollar Donation for MALE COUPLES; $1 Dollar for COAT/BEVERAGE CHECK
CROWD: AGE: 19-45
SS/BB: safe sex ONLY – no BB.
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms and lube, BYOB
FREQUENCY: Few Times a Month
GETTING IN: Email pic and stats to whosateboneytonight@gmail.com

BB PARTIES NYC (The Bronx).  An exclusive weekly party designed for people who enjoy anonymous sex and completly natural, this party is ONLY for  open-minded people. The party is BAREBACK, so NO condoms Allowed!  ALL NUDE: Clothes check because is a Strictic Requirement That You stay TOTALLY naked inside the party .
RATING: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: 7pm to 2:30am
CROWD: TK
AGES: 20s-40s
DONATION: $12 before 9pm; $15 afterwards
SS/BB: BB 
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: drink. Condom/lube. BYOB
FREQUENCY: Weekly
LIGHTING: GOOD
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: info@bbpartiesnyc.com and check out http://bbpartiesnyc.weebly.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: Friday (8pm-4am) 
DONATION: $17 all night
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: All the info you need is on the websites: www.TheOmegaRoom.com or www.RainbowHouseNy.com; but any questions or to be on mailing list Email: rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: Friday(12midnight-7am)
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday & Sat and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Saturday…


CHUBS AND CHASERS (Midtown) NYC's largest party for large and extra large guys and their admirers.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3pm - 7pm
CROWD: tk
DONATION: $25
SS/BB: BB and SS
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge duplex space, two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: Snacks. Condom/lube.
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: bearpartynewyork@gmail.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Chelsea). ORAL FETISH/BARE AS YOU DARE PARTY. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45.
RATING: Not Selective
DRESS CODE:   Jockstraps/ underwear or ALL NUDE
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  3pm until 7:30pm
CROWD: varies depending on party
AGE: varies depending on the party
DONATION: $22 b4 5pm; $25 after
SS/BB:  safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles
2ND LEVEL - ORAL FETISH/ SAFE PLAY ZONE: The 2nd level designated as Oral/ Safe Play Zone for men looking for safer play options.  Need 6 volunteer monitors for the 2nd level.  (Monitors get into the party FREE). 
BACKROOM OPEN ALL NIGHT: Dimly lit, not blackout, lighting in the backroom for hot action and hot visuals 
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  A few parties every week
LIGHTING: varies depending on the party
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes.  It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian.
DRESS: ALL NUDE
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back, no attitude
TIME:  6pm – 12am
CROWD: 20-40  men
AGE: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)
DONATION:
$10 before 7PM(exact change required/$20 after 7PM
SS/BB:  Some safe sex, but mostly BB
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics & stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
TIME: Saturday (8pm-4am)
DONATION: $17 all night
VIBE: laid back
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse loft space
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: All the info you need is on the websites: www.TheOmegaRoom.com or www.RainbowHouseNy.com; but any questions or to be on mailing list Email: rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: Saturday (12midnight-7am)
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday & Sat and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security.
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Fri & Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
RATING: somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Sunday…


ASS ACTION FUCK CLUB (Washington Heights) A safe-sex party with the emphasis on “hot butt sex.” The hosts have a group of select guys that make up a diverse mix of race and types come over to their apartment to “fuck each others’ brains out.” A shower and towels are provided.
RATING: Very Selective
VIBE: Friendly with no attitude
TIME: 6pm. Must arrive by 7pm
CROWD:  Racially-mixed, above-average to very hot
AGES: 21 to 40s
DONATION: $20
SS/BB: A Safe-sex party
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, beverages
FREQUENCY: Weekly on Sundays
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: You can send stats and pics to heightshost@gmail.com and find more information at assactionnyc.com

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "CHELSEA SUNDAY EVENING SPECIAL!" A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."  The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  Doors 7:30 [ NOT 7:00 ] to 11:30, goes 'til 1 AM

CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB:  some safe sex, but also BB
SPACE: huge studio space
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (N. Chelsea).  Tonight's party is FUSION. Club House parties are known for being comfortable and relaxed, with guys who prefer to get involved than stand & pose (although true voyeurs are welcome).  You’re more likely to get a smile than a snub.  It’s a mixed group of usually 15-25 men. And yes, hot men come.  FÜSION: This one is for safesexers and for barebackers; ERUPTIÖNbb: Fuck any way you want, but this one is primarily for barebackers; PEÄKsafesex: For men who play safe.  Plenty of condoms provided; NÖÖNERafternoonsex: Very hot.  There’s something about doing it in the afternoon.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Friendly
TIME: 7PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)
CROWD: TK
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  BB
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms, lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). THIS IS AN ALL NUDE PARTY NO EXCEPTION AND NO NEGOTIATION ABOUT IT AT ALL STRIP AT DOOR. FOR FIT MEN IN SHAPE ONLY, NO ONE WAIST OVER 36 WILL NOT GET IN.
RATING: SELECTIVE
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30PM-4AM  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s
DONATION: $10 ALL NIGHT
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  Sun, Tues, Thurs
LIGHTING: GOOD,
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

GOTHAM BEAR PARTY (Midtown East).  From the host: “This is an all inclusive party for all BIG men of different shapes and sizes and races and their admirers!”
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  3pm - 7pm.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
SS/BB:  safe sex & BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Sundays
LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

TANDEM (Flatiron). The private sex club that has group sex parties every Sunday night.  They have fully-staffed locker rooms with showers and fresh towels, as well as lockers to secure any belongings. One locker will be issued at no charge.   They also have a sex club for couples only open every day.
RATING: Not Selective
TIME: 6pm to 7am
CROWD: Mixed
AGES: mostly 30s – 50s.
DONATION: $40 nonmembers/$30 members
SS/BB: TK 
SPACE: Lounge/bar (BYOB), single rooms, multiple rooms, mirrored rooms, and semi-private rooms.
SUPPLIES: Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  Has parties Sunday nights
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: TANDEMXX@gmail and check out www.menseekingmen.info

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM)
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a straight BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site www.NYBondageClub.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: Doors open 4:00PM to 6:30PM, jerking until 7:30PM
CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: studio space
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: Sunday (7pm to 2am)
DONATION: $16 
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse space
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: All the info you need is on the websites: www.TheOmegaRoom.com or www.RainbowHouseNy.com; but any questions or to be on mailing list Email: rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com
NOTE: Sunday Special... Only 10$ for super attractive athletic model type guys under 35 Sat or Sun.

Monday...

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY PARTY!";A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s). This small sex party in a private apartment. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occassionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: FREE
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Tight Muscle Mondays. Not a sex party, but a massage and/or yoga party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude, no reason
TIME: Arrive between 8 and 8:30pm and Start Trading. Demo at 8:45pm.
CROWD: 25 guys
AGES: No restrictions
DONATION: $25. Students and under 27 get in for $20.
SS/BB: not a sex party
SPACE: Great, clean space
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com.

OPEN MINDED EVENTS (Washington, DC -- DuPont Circle).  Parties are for guys in their men who identify as gay, bisexual, and bi-curious are all welcome. The parties involve kissing, fucking, sucking... good hot action between men. most parties are open ended, vanilla-type play, although occasionally a party will have a kink or fetish theme (like underwear, bondage, or watersports). The events are held in a in the Dupont Circle neighborhood, located in NW Wash, DC.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  doors open a t 4pm
CROWD: varies
AGE: 20’s, 30’s, and 40’s.
DONATION: $20 - $40
SS/BB:  safe sex only
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms, lube, bottled water
FREQUENCY:  varies, but often
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out the website for more info...http://openmindedevents.blogspot.com

Tuesday…

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (N. Chelsea).  Tonight's party is PEAK. Club House parties are known for being comfortable and relaxed, with guys who prefer to get involved than stand & pose (although true voyeurs are welcome).  You’re more likely to get a smile than a snub.  It’s a mixed group of usually 15-25 men. And yes, hot men come.  FÜSION: This one is for safesexers and for barebackers; ERUPTIÖNbb: Fuck any way you want, but this one is primarily for barebackers; PEÄKsafesex: For men who play safe.  Plenty of condoms provided; NÖÖNERafternoonsex: Very hot.  There’s something about doing it in the afternoon.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Friendly
TIME: 7PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)
CROWD: TK
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  This is their SS party, but plenty of BB
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms, lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). THIS IS AN ALL NUDE PARTY NO EXCEPTION AND NO NEGOTIATION ABOUT IT AT ALL STRIP AT DOOR. FOR FIT MEN IN SHAPE ONLY, NO ONE WAIST OVER 36 WILL NOT GET IN.
RATING: SELECTIVE
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: TUES. 11:30PM-5AM  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s
DONATION: $5 BEFORE 1AM $10 AFTER ALL NIGHT
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  Sun, Tues, Thurs
LIGHTING: GOOD,
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
RATING: somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: Doors open 7:30PM to 9:00PM, jerking until 11:00PM
CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/


Wednesday…

TOUCHDOWN: DAYTIME JOCKS (GRAMERCY) Hot daytime sex party for hot in-shape and athletic guys of all races who are looking to connect mid-week. This group is all about quality so a strict door policy is enforced. No attitude environment for both guys who are athletic and the ones who appreciate playing with them. Wednesdays.RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: Friendly, relaxed, NO ATTITUDE
TIME: 12PM TO 3PM
DONATION: $20
AGE: 21 TO 45
SS/BB: Safe Sex & BB
SPACE: Private duplex apartment
SUPPLIES: Secure clothes check, condoms, lube and beverages provided.
 GETTING IN: Send stats/pics to: riverasaro@yahoo.com or go to www.gayguysglobal.com.

HARD DRIVE! (Chelsea). The host is very creative and always having guest appearance by porn stars, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude, extremely friendly
TIME: Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am.
CROWD: Get 60-70 guys height/weight proportionate (all body types)
AGES: 25 to 55YO
DONATION: $25 (all height/weight proportional dudes under 25 in for free with ID)
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: Paddles studio space
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to hunteur1@gmail.com or check out http://www.harddrivemen.com/.

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party w/a good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before: social, safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around.
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE
VIBE: Very social, not much attitude
TIME: 8pm-12am
CROWD: 70-90+ guys
AGE: good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45).
DONATION: $25M, free clothes check.
SPACE: large private loft apt
SS/BB: A safe sex only party.
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube, shower, towels
FREQUENCY: Once a month, Tues, Wed, Sometimes Sundays
LIGHTING: Excellent (light enoug to see, not too much light for shy men)
GETTING IN: The host requires a short phone interview, and a quick in-person interview right before the party.  People write to ASG that this pisses them off. Seriously: It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party).  Don’t let this stop you; it’s how he maintains a hot, no attitude crowd.  Everyone agrees afterwards that It was painless, and worth the hassle.  Send request (no pics required) to PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). MMX Humpdayzz. Not a sex party, but a massage party. Weekday Midday Event for the guys who work at night, freelancers, escaping work, and those 'between jobs'. Great way to take a break mid-week, relax, recharge, and de-stress. Note the small studio now has A/C!! Each week will feature a different theme and focus on a particular muscle group.
VIBE: no attitude, no reason
TIME: 2-4pm
CROWD: 25 guys
AGES: No restrictions
DONATION: $30
SS/BB: not a sex party
SPACE: Great, clean space
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment. 
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security.
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Fri and Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

DAD/SON, UNCLE/NEPHEW PARTY (Midtown).  All info is from the host: “ManPlay Time - live out your fantasies with big dicked muscle daddies, college jocks and smooth twinks.”
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Attitude and clothes check
TIME: 8pm-12am, doors close at 10pm
CROWD: 10 - 20 guys, equal mix of dads and sons
AGES: 18-50s
DONATION: $20
SS/BB: A safer sex party.
SPACE: Duplex apt
SUPPLIES: drinks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY: a weekly event
LIGHTING: dark enough
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: sondad@ymail.com or check out http://dadsonparty.com.

Thursday…

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Midtown East). Lunch-time party for business men to hook up weekday afternoons.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 12am-3pm.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: safe sex & BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (N. Chelsea). TONIGHT’s party is ERUPTION.  Club House parties are known for being comfortable and relaxed, with guys who prefer to get involved than stand & pose (although true voyeurs are welcome).  You’re more likely to get a smile than a snub.  It’s a mixed group of usually 15-25 men. And yes, hot men come. ERUPTIÖN (Fuck any way you want, but this one is primarily for barebackers); PEÄK (For men who play safe.  Plenty of condoms provided); and FÜSION (Both safers and barebackers, for a big turnout).
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Friendly
TIME: 8PM – 1AM (doors Until 12AM)
CROWD: TK
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  This is their SS party, but plenty of BB
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms, lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  After work ThursdaysLarge party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
TIME: Thursday (5:30pm-3am)
DONAION: Only $13 
VIBE: laid back
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: Big Loft playground (6,000 sq ft) with different theme rooms , many private booths , darkroom , porn etc .
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: All the info you need is on the websites: www.TheOmegaRoom.com or www.RainbowHouseNy.com; but any questions or to be on mailing list Email: rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com

GOTHAM BEARS (Midtown East).  From the host: “This is an all inclusive party for all BIG men of different shapes and sizes and races and their admirers!”
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  8pm-1am( doors close at 10pm)
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
DONATION: $25
SS/BB:  safe sex & BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Thursdays
LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). THIS IS AN ALL NUDE PARTY NO EXCEPTION AND NO NEGOTIATION ABOUT IT AT ALL STRIP AT DOOR. FOR FIT MEN IN SHAPE ONLY, NO ONE WAIST OVER 36 WILL NOT GET IN.
RATING: SELECTIVE
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME:  THUR. 11:30PM-5AM  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s
DONATION: $5 BEFORE 1AM $10 AFTEER ALL NIGHT
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  Sun, Tues, Thurs
LIGHTING: GOOD,
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Chelsea). HOT MILK - HUNG UNDERWEAR PARTY. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45.
DISCRETIONARY DOOR: Fit, in-shape men invited to this hot party
DRESS CODE:   Jockstraps/ unerwear or ALL NUDE
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  8pm - 1am;
CROWD: varies depending on party
AGE: varies depending on the party
DONATION: 22 b4 10pm; $25 after
SS/BB:  safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  A few parties every week
LIGHTING: varies depending on the party

GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

See you all there men.