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Wednesday, January 29, 2014

GROUP M4M Sex Parties for the week of Friday, January 31 to Thursday, February 6


Sex Parties for the week of Friday, January 31 to Thursday, February 6…

Men: Below is the new list of all the parties that I know about this week. I only gave information based on my personal experience, or the information that the hosts provided. If I didn't know something I listed it as TK. (N/A means not applicable). Please, NEVER go to a party just based on my information. You should ALWAYS check with the hosts first to confirm that the parties are up and running and times and dates are correct. Another great resource you should check out is the "Party" section of Adam4Adam.com for parties that I do not list yet, for smaller parties, or parties below that may not respond quickly to emails. Also this is just the parties this week, if you want the whole list you can email me at adventuresgrsx@gmail.com. Have fun and be safe.

Friday…

BEEF (Washington Heights)  NYC’s only safe-sex party for bears, cubs, otters, and the guys who love to fuck around with them. Held in a comfortable private apartment with two areas of play-space, couches, a bed, and a sexy atmosphere. Complementary clothes check, drinks, snacks, condoms, lube, shower and towel. For men of all shapes, sizes, and races.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-Midnight. Door closes at 11pm.
CROWD: usually around 20 guys
AGE: 21 to 50s
DONATION: $10 before 9pm, $20 after
SS/BB: A safe-sex party
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms, lube, snacks, beverages, towel
FREQUENCY: Once a month on Fridays
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send clear recent face pic and stats to beefpartynyc@gmail.com

CM-BUDDIES-NYC PARTY (Upper West Side). Uptown, serious fun for hot guys. (Their motto: You don’t need a porn star body to have as much fun as one! ) All experience levels accepted from the mild to the WILD.  The parties tend to be mostly older guys of all types that take their play seriously rather than
 stand and pose (with a mix of younger guys),
RATING: SELECTIVE
VIBE: no
 attitude
TIME:  8pm – 1am ( door at 1am )
CROWD: 20
 guys
AGE: (over 18) 30- 60s, Mixed older crowd
SS/BB:  safe sex & BB
SPACE: One level apt
SUPPLIES: Secure clothes check, condoms, lube, and beverages provided.
FREQUENCY:  weekly
GETTING IN: Send pic (Full body shot or back shots); Stats to cmbuddiesnyc@hotmail.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens). Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. Good party for average guys.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: Friday (8pm-4am) 
DONATION: $17 all night
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse-type space loft
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats (don't mention this site): westvillageclub@aol.com


NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square, Manhattan). The host is very discriminating so the place is filled with hot men. The hotter men tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be.
RATING: VERY SELECTIVE
VIBE: Since the party went ALL NUDE -- mostly no attitude.
TIME: 10pm-5am
CROWD: 50-70+ to 50 young, hot men
AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s
DONATION: $25.
SS/BB: A safe sex party. 
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge studio space, two bathrooms, shower
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  2X a month, Fri, Sat, Sundays, sometimes Thursdays
LIGHTING: GOOD, sometimes too dark for such hot men
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com


NYC NAKED WRESTLERS (Midtown East).  From the host: NYC'S wrestling group where men go completely naked and give in to the ultimate sexual surrender at the end of each match while naked members get off with one another on the sidelines. Private Duplex Apt: 1rst floor mats/matches, 2nd floor darkened Lounge for combined group sex party with TESTOSTERONE. For in-shape guys who enjoy watching or participating in naked combat without restrictions. 
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  9pm-2am.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
SS/BB:  safe sex & BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Fridays
LIGHTING: 1st floor brightly-lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: Send stats and a recent shirtless pic from the waist up to Nick at: nycnakedwrestlers@gmail.comor check out www.gayguysglobal.net  

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is PEAK. The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, heigh/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand & pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn’t for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape. 
PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.
DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.
TIME: 8PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)
CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  BB
SPACE: Private Apartment, Sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, ENEMAS, clothes check. 
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

TESTOSTERONE (Midtown East).  From the host: This is a no-attitude/no-standing around party, everyone able to hold their own in large active crowds, anyone looking for a "jock perfect only party" with self-inflated egos and self-conscious hands over their "pee-pees" should not apply, this event is not for you.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  10pm-3am.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
SS/BB:  safe sex & BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Fridays
LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security.
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Fri & Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

E.BONE.NY (Brooklyn). An underwear party for black men and dark skin admirers. All races are welcome, but the focus is Black Men.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: laid back , no attitude
TIME: 10pm –2am    (doors close at 11:30pm)
DONATION: $25 Dollar Donation for BLACK  MEN and ADMIRERS; $40 Dollar Donation for MALE COUPLES; $1 Dollar for COAT/BEVERAGE CHECK
CROWD: AGE: 19-45
SS/BB: safe sex ONLY – no BB.
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: Condoms and lube, BYOB
FREQUENCY: Few Times a Month
GETTING IN: Email pic and stats to whosateboneytonight@gmail.com

BB PARTIES NYC (The Bronx).  An exclusive weekly party designed for people who enjoy anonymous sex and completly natural, this party is ONLY for  open-minded people. The party is BAREBACK, so NO condoms Allowed!  ALL NUDE: Clothes check because is a Strictic Requirement That You stay TOTALLY naked inside the party .
RATING: Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: 7pm to 2:30am
CROWD: TK
AGES: 20s-40s
DONATION: $12 before 9pm; $15 afterwards
SS/BB: BB 
SPACE: Private Apartment
SUPPLIES: drink. Condom/lube. BYOB
FREQUENCY: Weekly
LIGHTING: GOOD
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: info@bbpartiesnyc.com and check out http://bbpartiesnyc.weebly.com/

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: Friday(12midnight-7am)
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday & Sat and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Saturday…

CHUBS AND CHASERS (Midtown) NYC's largest party for large and extra large guys and their admirers.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3pm - 7pm
CROWD: tk
DONATION: $25
SS/BB: BB and SS
SPACE: Hot, clean, huge duplex space, two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: Snacks. Condom/lube.
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: bearpartynewyork@gmail.com

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Times Square). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action.
RATING: Very selective
VIBE: social, not much attitude
TIME:  11:30PM-5:30AM
CROWD: 70-90+ men
AGE: 18-40 YO
DONATION: $15 (first hour or first 25 dudes) | $20 afterwards
SS/BB:  Safe sex requested, some BB
SPACE: great studio space, two bathrooms, shower, 4 rooms, porn
SUPPLIES: drinks, condoms/lube, shower
FREQUENCY:  Weekly or bi-weekly; usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARTY (Chelsea). NEW YORK CumUNION “BIG GAME” PARTY. They screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45. From the host: Get off with all the men in town for the big game @ a super-hot afternoon edition of CumUnion.  Thanks to the 97 men that came to the Jan 25th party!  
OPEN DOOR:  Fun/ friendly men invited  
DRESS CODE:  ALL NUDE
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  11:30am until 4pm
CROWD: varies depending on party
AGE: varies depending on the party
DONATION: $22 b4 1pm; $25 after 
SS/BB:  safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
LIGHTING: varies depending on the party
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

THE LOAD NYC PARTY (Brooklyn). Underwear party held at basement studio pace.
RATING: INDISCRIMINATE
VIBE: minimal attitude
TIME: 12am-5am
CROWD: 90 men
AGES: 18-45
SPACE: 1,500 sq ft basement space
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube, drinks, porn
FREQUENCY: Usually monthly, Saturday nights
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Party at Ed and Steve’s, an interracial couple. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes.  It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian. 
DRESS: ALL NUDE
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back, no attitude
TIME:  7PM to 1AM
CROWD: 20-40  men
AGE: 18-60s (Average age is 35-45+)
DONATION: $10 before 8PM(exact change required)/$20 after 8PM
SS/BB:  Some safe sex, but mostly BB
SPACE: private apartment
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Usually twice a month, but often weekly (on weekends)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics & stats to EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/ group/EdAndSteve

PITSTOP (Park Slope, Brooklyn) A fetish sex party for In-Shape guys where "almost anything goes." at the same space in Brooklyn that GBU uses. Safe-sex dungeon kinkfest where anything goes EXCEPT barebacking: be a voyeur or exhibitionist in scenes involving PISS, role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, foot worship, spanking, humiliation, raunch and much more! Stripping to your underwear, jockstrap or fetish gear is required. Nudity is encouraged! There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: Not much attitude
TIME:  12am-5am
CROWD: 100 men
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  Safe sex is REQUIRED. Anyone caught fucking without condoms will be told to leave.
SPACE: Basement brownstone recently featured in Next photoshoot
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  1st Saturday of every month
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email stats and pics to: pitstop_nyc@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
TIME: Saturday (8pm-4am)
DONATION: $17 all night
VIBE: laid back
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse loft space
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats (don't mention this site): rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: Saturday (12midnight-7am)
CROWD: Varies
AGE: 18-40
SS/BB: Safe sex only
SPACE: huge space, two floor. It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space.
SUPPLIES: fresh towels and condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: held every Friday & Sat and Sunday
LIGHTING: a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
GETTING IN: Check out http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE MEATPACKERS (Brooklyn/Park Slope) One of the oldest sex parties in Brooklyn, usually held with Pitstop.
RATING: INDISCRIMINATE
VIBE: No attitude
TIME:  12am-5am
CROWD: 100 men
AGE: 18-40s
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  Safe sex only (very strict)
SPACE: In cellar with cages and rooms.
SUPPLIES: condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Held the 1st Saturday of each month
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Must call: 212-677-3599 (call the number for info--you'll get an answering machine)

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security.
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Fri & Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
RATING: somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

ENCORES PARTY (Chelsea). After-hours party. Often attended by restaurant and bar employees after those places shut down. You don't have to have an invitation or be on a list or anything. It can be incredibly hot, but sometimes it is hit or miss. NOT a mandatory close check party.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 3AM-7AM, (The party really takes off around 4AM when many bars close)
CROWD: Gets 70 people on Fridays; and 100 Sat. night (Sun. morning).
AGE: no restriction
SS/BB: Safe sex and BB
SPACE: Paddles sex club
SUPPLIES: condom/lubes
FREQUENCY: every Fri and Sat night
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out Paddles: http://paddlesnyc.com/

Sunday…

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) SUNDAY AFTERNOOM SPECIAL. A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends."  The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  doors 10 am to 2:30, goes 'til 4 pm
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s   
SS/BB:  some
 safe sex, but also BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

PAPI  PARTY (Midtown) A SEX PARTY FOR LATINO MEN AND ADMIRERS* THIS IS NOT A WEEKLY PARTY.
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  8pm - 11pm
CROWD: 30-40AGE: 20-45YO
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  SS & BB
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY:  Varies
GETTING IN: check them out here: http://www.papipartynyc.com/

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is FUSION. The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, heigh/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand & pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn’t for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape. 
PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.
DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.
TIME: 8PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)
CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  BB
SPACE: Private Apartment, Sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, ENEMAS, clothes check. 
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  Large party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: laid back
TIME: Sunday (7pm to 2am)
DONATION: $16 
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: former warehouse space
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats (don't mention this site): rainbowclub@nyc.rr.com or westvillageclub@aol.com
NOTE: Sunday Special... Only 10$ for super attractive athletic model type guys under 35 Sat or Sun.

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). THIS IS AN ALL NUDE PARTY NO EXCEPTION AND NO NEGOTIATION ABOUT IT AT ALL STRIP AT DOOR. FOR FIT MEN IN SHAPE ONLY, NO ONE WAIST OVER 36 WILL NOT GET IN.
RATING: SELECTIVE
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: SUN. 11:30PM-4AM  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s
DONATION: $10 ALL NIGHT
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  Sun, Tues, Thurs
LIGHTING: GOOD,
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

GOTHAM BEAR PARTY (Midtown East).  From the host: “This is an all inclusive party for all BIG men of different shapes and sizes and races and their admirers!”
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  3pm - 6pm.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
DONATION: $20
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
SS/BB:  safe sex & BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Sundays
LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) For anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs.
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM)
CROWD: varies
AGE: It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age.
SS/BB: Safe sex
SPACE: Held in a straight BDSM club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off.
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Sunday night
LIGHTING: 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like).
GETTING IN: Check out the site www.NYBondageClub.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: Doors open 4:00PM to 6:30PM, jerking until 7:30PM
CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: studio space
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Monday...

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "MASSAGE AND PLAY MONDAY PARTY!";A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." The best general admission parties – huge and has themed parties including leather, massage, and afternoons on weekends.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am
CROWD: 70-120
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: some safe sex, but also BB
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: Condoms/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Monday night, and often other weekday nights and weekends.
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Send stats and pics to JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s). This small sex party in a private apartment. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at this one there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 9:30-11pm, occassionally lunch parties
CROWD: 4-10 guys, racially mixed very hot to average
AGES: 18-40 YOs
DONATION: FREE
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: small studio apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: parties at random, but often on Mondays,
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: Send pics and Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Tight Muscle Mondays. Not a sex party, but a massage and/or yoga party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage.
RATING: Selective
VIBE: no attitude, no reason
TIME: Arrive between 8 and 8:30pm and Start Trading. Demo at 8:45pm.
CROWD: 25 guys
AGES: No restrictions
DONATION: $25. Students and under 27 get in for $20.
SS/BB: not a sex party
SPACE: Great, clean space
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com.

Tuesday…

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is PEAK. The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, heigh/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand & pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn’t for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape. 
PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.
DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.
TIME: 8PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)
CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  BB
SPACE: Private Apartment, Sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, ENEMAS, clothes check. 
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

THE GALLERY OF MEN (Midtown).  The crowd is mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days.  Space has dark areas where you can go from mild to wild and everything in between.
RATING: INDISCRIMINATE
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  8:00 pm - 11pm
CROWD: 30-40 guys
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  some safe sex, a lot of BB
SPACE: Great studio space with four rooms, including two bagthrooms, shower, a porn room and a sling,
SUPPLIES: Condoms, water, Gatorade, lube, coat check
FREQUENCY:  Every few weeks,
LIGHTING: Good variety of lighting.
GETTING IN: Send pic and stats to thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). THIS IS AN ALL NUDE PARTY NO EXCEPTION AND NO NEGOTIATION ABOUT IT AT ALL STRIP AT DOOR. FOR FIT MEN IN SHAPE ONLY, NO ONE WAIST OVER 36 WILL NOT GET IN.
RATING: SELECTIVE
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME: TUES. 11:30PM-5AM  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s
DONATION: $5 BEFORE 1AM $10 AFTER ALL NIGHT
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  Sun, Tues, Thurs
LIGHTING: GOOD,
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

FOOTMENNYC (Hell's Kitchen). Private party for Men into Feet, Footwear, or Tickling.
RATING: somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 8pm-2am
CROWD: 40 person maximum party
AGE: 18-50
SS/BB: Although party is foot-focused, safe sex is permitted in one room only.
SPACE: Private apt with couches, bed, 2 playspaces, kitchen and bathroom
SUPPLIES: condoms/lubes
LIGHTING: Good, darker in one playspace
GETTING IN: Reservations required. Check out the website http://www.FootMenNYC.com

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude
TIME: Doors open 7:30PM to 9:00PM, jerking until 11:00PM
CROWD: varies, all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys.
AGES: 18-60s
SS/BB: N/A
SPACE: Paddles
SUPPLIES: N/A
FREQUENCY: Every Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square).
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

Wednesday…

HARD DRIVE! (Chelsea). The host is very creative and always having guest appearance by porn stars, as well as fun giveaways (underwear and porn), and great promotions to pull in hotter guys.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No attitude, extremely friendly
TIME: Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am.
CROWD: Get 60-70 guys height/weight proportionate (all body types)
AGES: 25 to 55YO
DONATION: $25 (all height/weight proportional dudes under 25 in for free with ID)
SS/BB: Safe Sex
SPACE: Paddles studio space
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: Every Wednesday
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: send pics and stats to hunteur1@gmail.com or check out http://www.harddrivemen.com/.

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). MMX Humpdayzz. Not a sex party, but a massage party. Weekday Midday Event for the guys who work at night, freelancers, escaping work, and those 'between jobs'. Great way to take a break mid-week, relax, recharge, and de-stress. Note the small studio now has A/C!! Each week will feature a different theme and focus on a particular muscle group.
VIBE: no attitude, no reason
TIME: 2-4pm
CROWD: 25 guys
AGES: No restrictions
DONATION: $30
SS/BB: not a sex party
SPACE: Great, clean space
LIGHTING: Excellent
GETTING IN: send request to mmxnyc@gmail.com or check out www.mmxnyc.com.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties in his apartment. 
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: No Attitude
TIME: 7-11pm (Wednesday), early afternoon-evening (Saturday)
CROWD: TK
SS/BB: TK
SPACE: Private apartment
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY: weekly (Wednesday), occassionally (Saturday)
LIGHTING: Good
GETTING IN: email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com

NUDE FREAK PARTY (Kingsbridge, Bronx).  Exclusive Discreet INSHAPE Interracial Nude freak parTy info, safe clean quiet environment with standby security.
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 11pm - 5am
CROWD: N/A
AGES: Mixed
DONATION: $15 (Fri and Sat); $10 (Wed)
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: Private apt.
FREQUENCY: Wednesday, Friday and Saturday
GETTING IN: Email stats and pics to FreaknudeparTy@yahoo.com.

DAD/SON, UNCLE/NEPHEW PARTY (Midtown).  All info is from the host: “ManPlay Time - live out your fantasies with big dicked muscle daddies, college jocks and smooth twinks.”
RATING: Somewhat Selective
VIBE: Attitude and clothes check
TIME: 8pm-12am, doors close at 10pm
CROWD: 10 - 20 guys, equal mix of dads and sons
AGES: 18-50s
DONATION: $20
SS/BB: A safer sex party.
SPACE: Duplex apt
SUPPLIES: drinks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY: a weekly event
LIGHTING: dark enough
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: sondad@ymail.com or check out http://dadsonparty.com.

Thursday…

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Midtown East). Lunch-time party for business men to hook up weekday afternoons.
RATING: Somewhat selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME: 12am-3pm.
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: 18-60s
SS/BB: safe sex & BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
LIGHTING: Good, some darker rooms upstairs
GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

THE CHELSEA DUPLEX PARTY (Chelsea).  Tonight's party is FUSION. The Chelsea Duplex hosts private sex parties in a safe, discreet, clean, spacious duplex apartment in Chelsea. It’s a diverse group of generally nice, heigh/weight proportionate guys, not a cruise/stand & pose party.  The men tend to be masculine, nice, normal guys who happen to be pigs. You’re not “required” to participate (I dig watching, too), but if you’re generally the nervous/unsure type, then this party probably isn’t for you.  Guys range from great shape to not great shape. 
PEAK: for guys who play safe; FUSION: for guys who play safe and guys who don't.
RATING: Not Selective
VIBE: This is an attitude-free party.
DRESS: Most guys are naked or in underwear, shoes are optional.
TIME: 8PM – 2AM (doors Until 1AM)
CROWD: A busy night is 30-35 guys – a slow night is 15-20. Most guys are over 30 years old, all are over 18.
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  BB
SPACE: Private Apartment, Sling, two beds, multiple rooms.  
SUPPLIES: Lube, condoms, ENEMAS, clothes check. 
FREQUENCY:  weekly
LIGHTING: good
GETTING IN: Check out his blog at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to theorgyguy@gmail.com.

GOTHAM BEARS (Midtown East).  From the host: “This is an all inclusive party for all BIG men of different shapes and sizes and races and their admirers!”
RATING: Not selective
VIBE: no attitude
TIME:  8pm-11pm
CROWD: 20-30 guys
AGE: All ages (over 21) and races welcome to attend
DONATION: $20
SS/BB:  safe sex & BB
SPACE: duplex apt with two bathrooms
SUPPLIES: condom/lube
FREQUENCY:  weekly, Thursdays
LIGHTING: 1st floor Dimly lit; 2nd floor dark
GETTING IN: GETTING IN: Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine); Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net or check out www.gayguysglobal.net

FINAL DESTINATION (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). THIS IS AN ALL NUDE PARTY NO EXCEPTION AND NO NEGOTIATION ABOUT IT AT ALL STRIP AT DOOR. FOR FIT MEN IN SHAPE ONLY, NO ONE WAIST OVER 36 WILL NOT GET IN.
RATING: SELECTIVE
VIBE: no attitude.
TIME:  THUR. 11:30PM-5AM  
CROWD: AGES: mostly 20s & 30s, few in-shape men in 40s
DONATION: $5 BEFORE 1AM $10 AFTEER ALL NIGHT
SS/BB: A safe sex party.
SPACE: private apt
SUPPLIES: drinks. Snacks. Condom/lube.
FREQUENCY:  Sun, Tues, Thurs
LIGHTING: GOOD,
GETTING IN: send stats and pics to: finaldestination1514@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Long Island City, Queens).  After work ThursdaysLarge party with playground with many private rooms, lockers, cinema lounge and more. From the host: "Mixed crowd: Latinos , Blacks, Whites, Asians, twinks, muscle guys and bears." Only 10 minutes from Manhattan. The website was taken down, but guys tell me the party is still open.
RATING: Not Selective
TIME: Thursday (5:30pm-3am)
DONAION: Only $13 
VIBE: laid back
CROWD: 70 to 120 guys per party, racially mixed (60% white, 40% mixed).
AGE: age ranges from 40s to 70YOs
SS/BB: safe sex with some BB
SPACE: Big Loft playground (6,000 sq ft) with different theme rooms , many private booths , darkroom , porn etc .
SUPPLIES: Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube
FREQUENCY: Every Friday, Saturday, Sunday
LIGHTING: Mostly good, some spaces dark
GETTING IN: Send pics and stats (don't mention this site): westvillageclub@aol.com




See you all there men.