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Monday, April 25, 2011

Review: JACKS OF COLOR (Lots of Opinions!)

Guys, There are a lot of parties I've never checked out because they didn't seem like my scene, and JACK OF COLOR is one of them. Nothing wrong with it--just not for me. The one thing that many people has told me about this party is that the host is a great guy. His weekly email are very friendly, and he clearly really enjoys hosting sex parties. Even other hosts like Scott have said that they were inspired (my word not his) by the JACKS OF COLOR host in creating his own parties (JACKS OF COLOR is known to be very welcoming, have NO attitude, and lots of sex). Oddly, I've never had a review to post of this party until tonight. One of regular reviewers sent this in today. He reports...


"Dear Evan, I've had some negative experiences at Ed and Steve's party and at Omega recently, but I want you to know what I would consider to be a model of a well run party: Lidell's various parties held at Paddles under various names and themes. I think what distinguishes Lidell's parties is that he maintains a standard at the door (some heavy guys, but well within the realm of "beefy," and carrying it well; and definitely no unbathed octogenarians!). In addition, Lidell gets around the party and actually plays. I think this gives him a clear idea of who is and who is not playing well in the sandbox and lets everyone know that they have to be respectful of one another. Although people are eager to have sex at Lidell's parties, I've never experienced repeated, unwanted advances there. At other parties, the hosts are mainly occupied taking money and handing out garbage bags (another plus of Lidell's parties: he lets you treat your clothes like clothes, i.e., on a hanger and not as trash to be thrown around). Lidell is truly a host, chatting, flirting, keeping the vibe sexy (without the "we're in this mainly to make a buck" vibe), and adding personally to the sexual energy by playing. In addition, the staff he hires are first rate, and keep up the flirty, sexy vibe that Lidell brings. That's refreshing and hot. Perhaps Lidell has spoiled me for other parties. I admit that the standard he sets is very high. Thanks for giving us all a forum in which to distinguish the good from the bad from the mediocre."


Sounds like a cool host and one who knows how to keep a party in control. (Although personally I prefer the garbage bags to the hangers). Well, dudes, if you're game, check out the party here...

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com



Well, it seems gay men can agree on nothing. Here's a rebuttal to the review above from a regular contributor...

"Never liked JACKS OF COLOR party at all. The worst - is a certain type, mostly a "very much older leather fetish" crowd and a lot of the guests seem like they are on drugs and have unsafe sex. I also dont like using hangers, I prefer bags, which are used at most parties."

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OKAY, FUCK guys, I often don't know what I'm talking about -- so I appreciate so many readers keeping me in line. Well, dude, another reader, and regular review says that the go-go positive JACKS OF COLOR review that started this whole post is not accurate. So, guys, here's another point of view with rebuttal 2...

"Opinion - Rebutal JACKS OF COLOR party. I think you got it all wrong with JACKS OF COLOR party. Here's me and my partner's opinion... I hosted my own parties back in the day and use to go to many of the curent JACKS OF COLOR host's other parties. Everybody which use to go to his parties a few years back - know of how crazy and wild his parties were. I had my own negative experience at his party at the 9ave location like 3 years ago. Someone had a "very bad trip at his party" and as a result the place had problems. Never been back since !
The way Paddle is run has nothing to do with JACKS OF COLOR. Hangers and everything at Paddles were there before JACKS OF COLOR's host even started hosting parties at that Location. Paddle's Owners have many rules and run the place very tight (no smoking, drugs etc) so most of Lidel's crazy regulars have started going to other places. The place is big which minimizes groping which happens in many small places with large groups .
Don't confuse socializing or personality in the front with "money and dedication." The prize should go to the club owners that spend 18 hours per day at the clubs and 7 days per week making sure everything is running right. Not just going there to host a party , socializing for 5 hours , getting laid + paid and going home. I Know many of these Hardworking owners and they do alot of work , without making any money. The problem is they keep it too themselves and not run and talk about everything they do.
Believe me I use to host parties before - 4 years ago and at the end of the day "money is what makes the world go round". That staff which is very flirtatious and works - not just Lidel's parties " their working for a good tip", Honey". At the end of the night , conedison has to get paid, rent has to get paid , staff has to get paid , owners have to get paid , so don't confuse a nice personality (which is genetic) with what really goes on behind the scenes. Go host a party at gramery or Paddles or 38 st , The first thing out of the owner's mouth is " how many people, do you get ?
A quick buck, ? That's an unfair opinion of the many other hosts. A quick buck would be - doing one party at a hotel and going home and disappearing. All these other host might not be prince charming and are charging money .But they have been doing parties for years - have a following of people and do regular parties per month.That's not a quick buck, that's dedication!"

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DUDES--I'VE SADLY GOTTEN myself into the middle of a fight and I don't even have a dog in the race: I've never been to JACKS OF COLOR, and doubt I ever would. But guys, the original reviewer has more to add, so here we go...

"Dear Evan, Well, who is a reader to believe: a customer reporting a customer's perspective to other customers, or a party host who obviously has an axe to grind against a host he clearly doesn't like, or perhaps even a host who has been pressed into action by one of his other host pals who is a competitor to Jacks of Color? Seems an easy choice to me. Been going to parties for years and can smell the commercialism of some a mile away (a sullen host who wouldn't touch anybody at the party with a ten foot pole, a lax door policy that allows the host to collect as much money as possible even if it means that many of his guests are grossed out, etc.). That's not dedication, that's exploitation. On the other hand are parties that are obviously a labor of love for the host: the newsletters are friendly and informative, the host is a proud and out gay man and is not standoffish, the guests know better than to behave inappropriately towards one another because the host gives a fuck and circulates). Instead of contributing the biases of his party host pals, why doesn't your reader just let the party goers think for themselves?
And can we please discuss the parties as they exist now, instead of bringing in ancient history? How is the history of a party from a decade ago relevant to their status today? Who cares? I want to know what to expect this weekend, not last year."

Guys -- maybe you should check it out for yourselves. Hopefully that's the last word!

Sunday, April 24, 2011

GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, April 25 to Sunday, May 1

Sex Parties -- Monday, April 25 to Sunday, May 1...

***HOT PICKS OF THE WEEK: THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (Tues & Thurs -- last nights in the West Village)


Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "APRIL MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY #4" -- doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9/9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking/sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys. *Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com.


Tuesday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Village). 8am-1pm. Tonight is PEAK: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). HARD BUFF MONDAYS. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys, 8:30pm to 10:45pm (door closes at 8:35 pm). Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.
To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.


Wednesday…
HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). ALTERED STATES SMALL GROUP WORKSHOP with Thaddeus, LMT - Limit of 8 Guys, Deep Instruction. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.
To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.


Thursday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

ND2 (Midtown). This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action. Parties are Wed nights. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Village). 8am-1pm. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

OPEN HOUSE PARTY (Gramercy). So ROCK SOLID and some other parties at Gramercy have merged. This party is combined with SQUIRT. They claim be very selective, but a few guys emailed me about last Thursday's party which was very mixed: mostly old, out-of-shape guys. To get in send pics and stats to this email: aopenhouseparty@gmail.com.

SQUIRT PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. Every Thursday night from 7pm to 11pm. Never been to this one, but friends have and reported back: except for a few suckers who are fooled into showing up every week, and quickly leave, this party is basically an open-door party judging by the aggressive out-of-shape old dudes who roam the floors, and don’t understand the word NO, or DON’T TOUCH ME – also, if that isn’t bad enough safe-sex is not encouraged. Not sure who the host thinks he is fooling using all those different email addresses for the same gross parties with the same old regulars.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: riverasaro@yahoo.com.

MMX Muscle (Chelsea/Flatiron). Group TWO - Thursday Nights 4/7, 4/14, 4/21, 4/28 – 7:30 to 9:30 pm. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.
To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.




Friday...
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem, some of the hot guys are very standoff-ish. It can get annoying, and there’s not always great sex: many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the guys you want the most. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s, and the party is usually very hot. Guys tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be.. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd.
To get in sex pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: RAW RORK, SQUIRT, PORN STARS and it seems like a dozen others. Mostly older, out of shape guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited. To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.


Saturday…
LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 11:30PM-6AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am. Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan). The Bonus Round, 8PM to 2AM, Held in a private apartment by Ed & Steve, an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35-45+. They get about 40+ guys. Yes, the hosts provide condoms, but I hear that 75-80% of the fucking is BB.
To get in, Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. 10pm-3. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.
Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, Donation $24 person/$40 Couple, Starts at 8:45pm. Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. For a mixed age/average to hot crowd.
Email pics + stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com or check out their site: http://sexpartyqueens.com.

SUBMIT PARTY (Brooklyn). The city's hottest sex and SM party for the women and trans community. Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. 11pm-4am, Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

LONG ISLAND BI-SEXUAL GROUP (Long Island). LI-BI-do is a Bisexual social group that hold parties for Couples, women, trans, and men are all welcome. You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly, or Bi-curious. This Special LI-BI-do Party has a modified format. From 7 PM to 10 PM , the Guys and Gals will socialize together in the living room but play in separate bedrooms. At 10 PM (or sooner if everybody agrees), the Guys and Gals will merge into one big bisexual celebration using the whole suite.How to join LI-BI-do: Go to Home Page: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LI-BI-do, Send blank email to: LI-BI-do-Subscribe@yahoogroups.com or check out: http://www.li-bi-do.org.


Sunday…
NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Sundays open 6pm to 2am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

MUSCLE JOCK NEW YORK (Gramercy). Never been so no idea of who will be there, but this party seems to have take the spot at the Gramercy Duplex that used to belong to The Hot Jock Party. They claim that they screen for “Masculine, fun, sexy-hot MEN age 21-40... STRICT DOOR: Everyone checked at the door so make sure your pics/stats match reality.”
Email stats and pics to MuscleJockNY@gmail.com.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (East Village). NEW LOCATION: 8am-1pm. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

The GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square). "Whores Out" Party. According to the host, "All guys who cum to this party have one thing in common: They are all a bunch of whores.
Totally obsessed with cock. Sucking, worshipping it. Wanting and getting it up their azz. Yeah, give me leche." The crowd is mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. There are four rooms – a sling, some with dark areas where you can go from mild to wild and everything in between; no attitude. 8:00 pm -2:00 am. Condoms, water, Gatorade, lube, coat check are included. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. A party for older out of shape guys.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

PAPI BROTHAS PARTY (Chelsea) PapiBrothas Freak Party @ Chelsea Loft. A party for 20-40YO Black, Latin and Mixed guys ONLY held a loft space with sodas, wine, bottled water. 6:30pm-11:30pm
Email pics/stats to Latinman4sexymen@aol.com

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) Arrive between 8-11pm. In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys. The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the party’s vibe—too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com



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PREVIEW OF NEXT WEEK'S BEST PARTY: WED, MAY 4, 8pm. Since one of my favorite parties -- PRIVATE PARTY requires a phone interview, I am posting it a week early. It's unlikely you'll get in if you send the host a request that day. PLAN AHEAD! There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex. I say this every month, but it's worth repeating: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview, until they actually go to the party. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying--but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. Check out the past reviews, if you don't believe me. To get in send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com. So, guys, here's the information for Wednesday...

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt. Good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21)-- 70-90+ guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before--very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. 8pm-12am. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Safe sex only. *Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

Have fun and play safe guys!


Saturday, April 23, 2011

TONIGHT: NYJock Party (and coming soon the next hot PRIVATE PARTY)

Hey guys -- looking for a hot party TONIGHT -- then one of the best parties in New York is near Times Square. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys. If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the guys you want the most. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s, and the party is usually very hot. Guys tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be... So, if you're a hot guy looking for hot sex with other hot guys dont miss the NYJOCK PARTY.

Here's info...THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd. To get in sex pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com


Also, coming in two weeks, the next PRIVATE PARTY is May 4 -- It takes a day to do the phone interview, so send the host your info ASAP. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying--but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.

Here's the info...PRIVATE PARTY(Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt. Good mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45, or under 21)-- 70-90+ guys attend. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before--very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. Held once a month, 8:30pm-12am. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Safe sex only.
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

Review: OMEGA PARTY (There's a Reason the Rooms are so Dark)

Well, guys on this dreary cold, rainy day in New York, I have to post one of the most negative reviews, I have yet posted. I HATE to trash parties!!!! A reader and I were emailing last week about the INFINITY review. We kept saying that the party could be very HOT, which I why I didn't want to trash it, but it needs work. I hope guys keep trying INFINITY --I plan on checking it out. It has possibilities! The host does need to keep charge, otherwise it could devolve into the nightmare that is almost every party at that pit known as the Gramercy Duplex.

So on to this review. I gotta say, that I was not at this party, but I have been to THE OMEGA PARYTY before, and could see how it might head into this direction. Two thing I can't stand at parties -- unwanted gropers and the smell of shit. Seriously! Either makes me lose a hard on in about a second. Both are gross, and both unnecessary. Dudes--if you're gonna bttm, ple3ase clean out! It's easy and takes 5 minutes. And this happens with hot guys as well. I was fucking this hot dude at NYJOCK party and suddenly I should smell shit. Bastard! Ran to the bathroom and scrubbed myself. So unnecessary. And as to unwanted gropers--well, I've said more than enough about that. Guys, if someone is having sex and you're not wanted -- MOVE ON. Well, if you want to read a review that trashes a party, read on...


"Dear Evan, Went to the Omega party last night, where I had gone four times before and had a reasonably good time. Since I have totally given up on the Ed and Steve party due to their no-standards, open-door policy, I was really hoping Omega would hold itself to a higher standard. Alas, it seems that the tribe that has totally ruined the Ed and Steve party is determined to wreck Omega, as well. You know the type: over 70 years of age, morbidly obese, with bad liver spots everywhere, a slack jaw in which a little spittle has gathered in the corners, wearing old, yellowed Fruit of the Looms whose elastic bands gave up the ghost years ago lending them a diaper-like appearance, their shuffling gait clad with the additional accessory of shower shoes that look like they were last worn by an inmate from Bellevue. Invariably, these types are always the ones who can’t take No for an answer, and who repeatedly horn in on any hot action they see, deflating erections far and wide.

Another problem that the back rooms of Ed and Steve’s party and the Omega party share is “The Do-Do Problem.” You know: guys who are so inconsiderate that they won’t even douche before the party, yet insist on getting fucked until they clear the room with blasts of fecal odor. Last night at the Omega party, I had to leave the back room twice because of The Do-Do Problem. Strangely, the odor only managed to scare away about half of the backroom occupants. Is scat the new black (or brown?) in the gay community and I simply missed the memo?

So I would pose this question to my community: given that there are plenty of highly-exclusive parties for younger gay men, why is it that we can’t seem to have a party for 40-somethings and 50-somethings in good shape, who bathe and douche and have good sexual etiquette? It seems that there are just two kinds of parties: those for gym rats under 30, and no-standards, open-door parties for everyone else. Party hosts: listen up! A lot of us are simply staying home because you don’t offer us what we are looking for. Can somebody start up a party that caters to us? Please?Pretty please?"


I do think the review is wrong that there aren't parties for guys 40-50 with decent dudes. Parties such as HARD DRIVE and THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES are two example of parties that do not have age cuts off, as long as the guys are in good shape. The reason that these two parties are NOT nightmares like some of the others is that the hosts keep the parties under control. They make sure that guys are taking NO for an answer and keep an eye on what's going on. Also both these hosts created these parties because they enjoy the scene and that are NOT there just to make a fast buck. I am sorry to post this review for OMEGA. The hosts have always been helpful and friendly to me, but they really need to take control back so that their parties can be fun again, and not about groping obese guys, and selfish unclean dudes, who don't care about creating a good time for everyone. If you disagree with this review and think OMEGA is just amazing--please comment below or email me opposing views, and I will be happy to post.

Anyway, if you like obese groping old men, or the smell of shit, and want to check out the OMEGA for yourself, the next party is Sunday night. Here's the info...

THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.


I knew this wasn't the last we'd hear on this. As soon as I posted this I got two rebuttals and a response from the host. So here we go guys...

REBUTTAL: "THE omega party , I think is one of the most successful and best run parties .Ive been going to the Omega and to all the other ones for like 10 years. Most of these parties have darkrooms . I was at the Omega party last night , the place was packed , I didnt smell any shit and had a very good time .There were a few older guys but also guys in their 30"s and 40"s."

REBUTTAL 2: "This is my first time writing to you.I go to the Omega party all the time .I always have a great time and the space is great. Im 40 years old and in great shape .Recently theirs been a flickiring light int the back room and I asked one of the workers and he said its a refresher with senses that goes off anytime anybody walks by.So I think that guy who complained must have been confused with the smell .I was their last night I didnt smell any shit. The place was full of people and I got fucked 3 times. If your a stuck up person looking for studs only , this place not for you.But if your looking for a laidback nice space with a mix crowd ....The backroom does get packed but theirs plenty of area in the front to do one on ones and theirs a private room aswell. I did see a big guy there, very rare I ve seen such a big guy at the Omega party, but He was hanging with a regular that comes all the time. I think the reason the host let him in is becuase the regular brought him as a guest and the host didnt want to be rude.But personlly I enjoyed myself and it was a pretty good crowd overall."

FROM THE HOST: "Want to mention , that only two persons complained all night , One about "shit in the back room" , someone that hardly ever comes to the party (only like one time per year) and another about that it was a little warm which we then turned up the airconditioner.
Yet we checked the backroom and didnt smell anything and the back room was full of people. After the party we checked the backroom , their wasnt shit anywhere not even in the used condoms. We have an air freshener connected to the wall outlet it the backroom during the party so maybe he thought it was shit but it wasnt."

I wasn't there, so I can only report what come in. If you want to add your thoughts, send me an email. The "shit" problem is a problem everywhere, and not only at OMEGA -- and I have no doubt that if you complain the hosts will look into it. The old groper problem is only at parties where the hosts don't take charge because they don't want to lose a paying customer. What some parties -- like most at the Gramercy Duplex -- don't understand is that to keep the old gropers, they've lost everyone else. Hope you'll give OMEGA another chance. The host is very cool and trying to keep the party on mark -- which isn't as easy as it looks -- or I'd host too. Try OMEGA tonight, and report back!

OKAY. I WAS WRONG, THIS POST IS GOING TO CONTINUE. THE ORIGINAL REVIEWER, WANTED TO ADD THIS STATEMENT...

"Hi Evan,Just to clarify, I'm not holding Omega responsible for the intermittent smell of shit in their backroom. They did investigate, and because the smell had cleared by the time they got back there, they didn't detect anything. But I am holding the guys with dirty, undouched asses completely responsible. You guys should be more considerate.

What I do take Omega to task for is their relaxed door policy, which seems to get more relaxed every time I go (which has been four times in the past six months, and not once a year as the host said). This crowd seems to be turning in the wrong direction because the hosts let in anybody and everybody (and I say "anybody and everybody" because I cannot possibly imagine grosser guys than the morbidly obese, 70-somethings than I saw shuffling around that night).

I have a pretty average body, and I don't expect everyone to be a Greek statue. But what conclusion would you draw about a party if you saw guys there who were well over 300 lbs, and not carrying it well at all, certainly not a nice chunky bear type, but just a disgusting, saggy, hugely fat old (70-plus) retiree? I DO hold Omega completely responsible for their lack of judgment on that count.

If nobody but me objects to those guys at Omega, then God bless them, and they can enjoy the party without worrying that I will be around to complain. But I think that, unless the host gets his act together and has the balls to say No to a $22 entry fee from a few of these gross types so that the party will continue to have a good vibe, then this one will eventually go the way of Ed and Steve.

The space is great, and the staff are very kind (possibly the nicest I've seen with the exception of Lidell, who's a hard act to follow). But their door policy has made me unwilling to come back."

Friday, April 22, 2011

Brooklyn's the Place Tonight: Two New Sex Parties!

If you're in Brooklyn tonight, readers tipped me off to two sex parties tonight -- Friday, April 22 -- in Brooklyn: Prospect Heights and Clinton Hill. I don't have contact info, but you can check them out via Craiglist. Here are the ads...

"Brooklyns Finest Sex Party this Friday - 32 (Prospect Heights)

Hey, Calling all of the hot guys in Brooklyn!!!
We are hosting a new hot sex party in Brooklyn hosted by" Brooklyns Finest"
We have been throwing these parties for 6 years and now we are bringing them to Brooklyn.
These parties cater to the hot and sexy
18-40 twink, muscle, leather, alternative, punk, white, black or Latin.
The first one is taking place this Friday the 22nd and If you'd like to be on the guest list and receive your incite, here's what you do;
Send us your photo, stats and contact info and we will send you the invite
We are expecting anywhere from 30-50 guys so email us soon!!
It's gonna be explosive and all of the details will be included in the invite!
Look forward to hearing from you
The best sex party is now in Brooklyn!!!!!"

Link: http://newyork.craigslist.org/brk/m4m/2335796780.html

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"Clinton Hill Joe sex party April 22, 11pm - 40 (Clinton Hill)

Hey Guys,Its time for another Joe Party, April twenty second at 11pm. This Friday will be really good. We like all kinds of hot guys. What we dont like is snark and attitude. No voyeurs all attendees must participate. We already have an established group and are looking for 2 or 3 more horny dudes to round it out. Please apply with pic of cock and face. Pics will be kept confidential. Also send stats, incuding age, race, and disease status. Incomplete applications will be deletedCondoms and lube provided. Please be showered and clean, rimmers will be in the house. As I said, we only have room for 2 to 3 more guys, so get your applications in now.These are the only pics, please don't ask for more. As with you, I will not send pics of my guys. Pics are from past parties."

http://newyork.craigslist.org/brk/m4m/2326798263.html

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Thanks to the readers who sent me the info. If you check them out, report back! Have fun and play safe.

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Review: PITSTOP PARTY (Have you been bad?)

Hey guys, never been to the PITSTOP PARTY in Park Slope, but increasingly fascinated by leather, so been meaning to check it out. Two guys offered reviews of Sunday night’s party. Here’s what they reported back…


Review 1: “Pitstop in Brooklyn is held a few times a month in the same space as GBU. Right in the heart of Park Slope, it’s super convenient to get to from Manhattan after a quick transfer to the R train via Atlantic Ave.

The party organizers include JXXX and BXXX. JXXX is cordial and greets you at the door, asking if you have been there before. If the answer is NO, he makes sure you understand the rules: SAFE SEX ONLY. If you BB, then you’re asked to leave. This was a definite plus for me since I prefer safe sex parties only. Some of the guests I spoke to said they had been turned away at the door before, but not tonight (I thought that was interesting).

After paying the cover charge you walk down to the stairs to what can only be described as one of the best sex party spaces I have been to in New York. This evening I was greeted by BXXX, a super hot young man of Africa descent. Great body, nice and well, very flirtatious. I had no complaints. He shows you to the changing area which is set up nicely. After disrobing to your party attire, you’re off to the races. At first glance the space is large, nicely lit and clean. There’s a mix of glory holes, slings, couches, with condoms and lube strategically placed. It’s a definitely playroom for those who like a fetish (S&M, WS, etc) (another plus for this party). There’s complimentary water, soda and beer. Another nice touch.

The crowd is a good one. Ages included 20s, 30s and 40s. Everyone is fit, handsome, hung. And friendly. There’s little attitude. But attendance was a bit light, because of the Spring Break holiday? Sunday? I’m not sure. This party has real potential, a hidden secret. Just add more dudes and it’s a winner."


Review 2: “Hey, I went to the Pitstop party on sunday night and it was a bore. I went once a few months ago and had a much better time, so I was expecting more. I'm only bitter because I paid $20 to watch about 20-25 guys walk around awkwardly (in that nice, big space), and then leave by midnight. There was some hot action going on but those were the guys who finished and left early. Even though the party was meant to be for in-shape guys, the host was letting in a couple out of shape ones to fill up the space a bit. I waited around to see if it would get better but eventually gave up and left. I don't know if it's the fact that it's a Sunday night or the party time, which in my opinion is way too early for a sex party (8pm-1am). I like the idea of a fetish party in that space, the word just needs to get out more.”


It’s always amazing to me how individual reviews of the same party from two different dudes can be almost opposite – and also what’s the same. But, guys that’s what sex is like -- sometime even two just two dudes one can have a great time, and I can be bored. Anyway, the one thing they both agree is that the party needs more guys: so guys, get out there an GO! This party is relatively new and is still building its list. I’ve always love this space, the hosts are very cool, and the party sounds like it can be very hot – so fucking, check it out. If you want to go to the next party, here’s the info…

PITSTOP (Park Slope, Brooklyn) A fetish sex party for In-Shape guys where "almost anything goes." 6pm-11pm at the same space in Brooklyn that GBU uses. Safe-sex dungeon kinkfest where anything goes EXCEPT barebacking: be a voyeur or exhibitionist in scenes involving PISS, role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, foot worship, spanking, humiliation, raunch and much more! Stripping to your underwear, jockstrap or fetish gear is required. Nudity is encouraged! Safe sex is REQUIRED. Anyone caught fucking without condoms will be told to leave. There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space.
To get in, email stats and pics to: pitstop_nyc@yahoo.com

Sunday, April 17, 2011

GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, April 18 to Sunday, April 24

Sex Parties -- Monday, April 18 to Sunday, April 24...

***HOT PICKS OF THE WEEK: NYJOCK (Sat)


Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea)"FULL-MOON/PASSOVER MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY," doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9/9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking/sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys. *Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com.


Tuesday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. Tonight is FUSION: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Chelsea). 8pm - 2am. Not really a full-flegded sex party, but you get…Free Full-Body Massage provider all night, and Curtained play-spaces for your pleasure. Held at The Eagle (28th St., btwn 10th & 11th Aves.) $10 cover, includes drink ticket (21 years old and over). The private party is on the 2nd floor and the roof. Check out the website http://www.footmennyc.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/


Wednesday…
HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

INFINITY NYC (Times Square). 7PM - 12AM, Weekday After-work party, “For dudes in need of a weekday release.” STRICTLY FOR FIT MEN 20-45. supplies provided. Mandatory street clothes check. No shirts or tees. For mostly average guys, a few hot guys attend.
To get in send stats and pics to infinitinyc@yahoo.com.

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.


Thursday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) @ Paddles, "THURSDAY EVENING SPECIAL" This Coming THURSDAY, APRIL 21ST -- doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

OPEN HOUSE PARTY (Gramercy). So ROCK SOLID and some other parties at Gramercy have merged. This party is combined with SQUIRT this week. They claim be very selective, but a few guys emailed me about last Thursday's party which was very mixed: mostly old, out-of-shape guys. To get in send pics and stats to this email: aopenhouseparty@gmail.com.


Friday...
NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). 11:30PM-6AM, This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

MUSCLE JOCK NEW YORK (Gramercy). Never been so no idea of who will be there, but this party seems to have take the spot at the Gramercy Duplex that used to belong to The Hot Jock Party. They claim that they screen for “Masculine, fun, sexy-hot MEN age 21-40... STRICT DOOR: Everyone checked at the door so make sure your pics/stats match reality.”
Email stats and pics to MuscleJockNY@gmail.com.

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: RAW RORK, SQUIRT, PORN STARS and it seems like a dozen others. Mostly older, out of shape guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Fridays open from 9pm to 4am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) NEON-BLACKOUT PARTY!: When you arrive, you will be given and wear a neon glow-stick bracelet. There will be one color for tops, one for bottoms and one for vers. The playroom will be dark except for the light coming from everyone’s bracelets. The rest of the apartment will remain dimly lit. Arrive between 9pm-12am; party ends at 3am. In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys. Usually has about 20-40 guys attending from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.
Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited. To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.


Saturday…
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) "SATURDAY AFTERNOON LEATHER" -- doors 1:00 to 6:00, goes 'til 8 pm A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem, some of the hot guys are very standoff-ish. It can get annoying, and there’s not always great sex: many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you may be ignored by the guys you want the most. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s, and the party is usually very hot. Guys tend to show up late, and the later you go the better the sex seems to be.. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. A safe sex party. For a younger/hot crowd.
To get in sex pics and stats to nyjockparty@yahoo.com

LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

DADS'N'LADS (Gramercy). This is their second party, which will be held at the Gramercy Duplex. This party is an pportunity, as the hosts says, “for younger guys into older, and visa versa, as well as guys into the daddy/son fetish, to play in a totally safe, clean environment.” No drugs allowed. 18-25 free (must have legal ID). Older gents should be well-groomed, in decent shape and respectful of younger guys by not being predatory (i.e. creepy). Clothes check required—you may wear underwear, jock strap, g-string, t-shirt, etc. Doors open 11pm – 3am
Send stats and pice to dadsnladsnyc@gmail.com

THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). Latin Leche Freak Party. 6:30pm - 11:30pm, According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party. The host is “adding 40 sexy-hot Latin & Black men on The Hot List.” At best, for an average crowd.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

THE BEAR HUNT (West Harlem). Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. 10pm-3. NYC's longest running weekly sex bear party. Bears, chubs & chasers of ALL races, ages & sizes. Sling, condoms, lube, cocktails & clothes check provided. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.
Send pic to BearHuntNYC@yahoo.com or check out www.bearhuntnyc.com

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am. Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com


Sunday…
MUSCLE JOCK NEW YORK (Gramercy). Muscle Studs & Hot Latin Mix Party, 8pm - 12mid. Never been so no idea of who will be there, but this party seems to have take the spot at the Gramercy Duplex that used to belong to The Hot Jock Party. They claim that they screen for “Masculine, fun, sexy-hot MEN age 21-40... STRICT DOOR: Everyone checked at the door so make sure your pics/stats match reality.” 10pm - 3am, $20 b4 12mid: $25 after.
Email stats and pics to MuscleJockNY@gmail.com.

LATIN LECHE FREAK PARTY (Gramercy). One of the dozens of parties at Gramercy Duplex every night -- guys WHO KNOWS what will show up. I guess they think if they keep changing the name and email addresses, guy will keep showing up. If you want to give it a shot: 6:30pm - 11:30pm. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. LMAO.
Send stats and pics to latinman4sexymen@aol.com


NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: Sundays open 6pm to 2am. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. Tonight is FUSION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

Friday, April 15, 2011

Review: INFINITY has limited appeal

Any of you guys been to INFINITY yet? I saw the host posting on A4A a few months ago, but I haven't had a chance to check it out. It's held in the same space as NYJOCK, GALLERY and NUBIANDUKES, which is near Times Square and has 5 rooms (two sex with with beds, changing room, coaches & porn room, and bar) and 2 bathrooms. It's a great space: clean and functional. The email they send around has a pic of this hot dude, and they claim: "FOR IN-SHAPE MEN 20-45ish ONLY!!" Being a naive idiot, I tend to believe every fucker with a hot chest, but still wondered. Well, a friend went on Wed, and reports back...


"Hi Evan, As I said I went to the INFINITY PARTY on Wed night. I figured for $10, how bad could it be! When I got there just before 8PM there were only a few guys there, three hot guys, and the rest not much to look at. The hot guys, three muscle dudes, had positioned themselves dead center in the middle of the back room and were going at it. It was hot to watch the little muscle white guy deep throat the beautiful black dude with the totally hot body, and the other white guy servicing them both. Guys kept trying to push their way in, or grope the hot threesome, but they kept fending them off. I went to the other room and guys were fucking and sucking each other off. There seems to be a lot of ethnic dudes--Asian and South American, and Hispanic guys with less than stellar bodies.

I sucked off a few guys guys and got fucked in the center room (the one that usually has the sling) and then went to get a drink. A few more guys had come in, and the muscle guys had now positioned themselves on the coach in the front room, near the porn. There were a few more hot guys now including this very sexy tall hairy guy with an amazing dick. I sat on the back coach to watch the action as they started to fuck on the coach in front of the porn. V. hot to watch a porn movie while it's also happening live right in front of you. Guys seemed to be coming and going, but they kept up the action on the coach. The threesome turned into a foursome, fivesome, and so on. I checked and the other two rooms were pretty dead. I ended up wacking off watching the guys fuck. Despite the fact that there were a few hot guys there, it was a pretty dead party. When I left at 10PM, the coatcheck guy's list had about 15 or so guys signed in. This week's party was very last minute, so maybe that's why it was so quiet. I'd go again. But the host should be stricter at the door. Too many out-of-shape guys for me. For $10 is was an okay time. Thnx."


So, what did we learn today boys and men? Seems like a party for average to a few hot guys. The host should be a little more selective if he wants to maintain that. They are having another party this Saturday night -- although it starts early (6:30PM) and ends early (10:30PM), so that they can clean up before the guys for NUBIAN DUKES show up later that night for another party. Sounds like quite an operation! If you still want to drop a load on Saturday, here's the info...

INFINITY NYC (Times Square). Weekday After-work party, Usually every other Wednesday, and this week also on Saturday: “For dudes in need of a weekday release.” Advertised as "STRICTLY FOR FIT MEN 20-45." Weekdays: 7PM - 1AM; All supplies provided. Mandatory street clothes check. No shirts or tees.
To get in send stats and pics to infinitinyc@yahoo.com.

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POSTSCRIPT: Okay I've gotten a bunch of emails complaining about my review that too vague, too nice, and that I was contridictory. Okay, okay -- mea cupla -- so sue me. I was trying not be so harsh, and judgemental (as usual). A few guys wrote me that the INFINITY host needs to be more selective (which is how he advertises the party)-- and that the party may have had a few hot guys, but the others were less than average. But as long as you know what you're getting, no one gets hurt. Thanks for setting me straight (so to speak). The best of the bunch was this one...

"Seems like a party for average to a few hot guys. The host should be a little more selective if he wants to maintain that." Isn't that contradictory? I, too, was at Wednesday's party and while it was sparsely attended, I have to agree with the second reviewer of the HardDrive party, hotness is in the eye of the beholder. I didn't think the tall hairy guy was all that hot like your friend did but I managed to find a frisky boy who thought I was good enough to lock lips with and who I fucked for a while. I thought some of those guys sitting on the sofas were close to nodding off and didn't want to get off their asses to interact with anybody. A previous party I attended had even less guys a few months back but I had a fantastic time sucking on a big muscled thug. So what did *I* learn? If there's no variety, there aren't many sparks. There will be "trolls" of all ages at any party but you deal with it and/or tell the host. I've had good and lousy times at El Mirage, Gallery, and even a place in the basement of a commercial building in the west 30s when I first came to NYC, but at least there was a variety of men to choose from. Sometimes I like muscles, some days I like East Village twinks. If the parties are all only 20-40, or only gym bunnies, or only whatever, it's kinda limiting IMHO."

Well, I do appreciate all the feedback -- and what's so cool about New York is that there are so many parties for all kinds of guys. I personally have a very limited interests: hot body, hot cock, hot face (in that order). I'm personally not much interested in out of shape guys -- but what *I* learned is that many guys are; and that's great by me. Thanks again guys, have fun and play safe!


AND HERE'S THE LAST WORD...

So I heard from a guy who decided to check out INFINITY's Saturday night party. How was it, well from the guy himself...

"Hey man - took a chance and went last night. Figured what the heck its only $10. Really not much going on at all. Signed in as number 8 and when I left at 10pm they were only up to 20. Great set up could be hot with a crowd. Maybe the rain kept everyone at home with their cocks in their pants!"

So I asked, well, at least were the guys who went hot?? He said...

"it was a case of just having to make the most of wht was there! no not really a hot crowd - wouldnt go again."

And let's let that be the final word on INFINITY this week.

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Review: HARD DRIVE (where guys play hard)

Things often work in twos or more for me: guys, cocks, and it seems reviews. Two guys wrote to me today about the HARD DRIVE PARTY, which was last night at Paddles. Hunteur is one of my favorite of the hosts -- each party to him is a cool new event and he tries to make each party a different adventure. The first review was really just a note from a friend to say hey. Basically he said that he went to HARD DRIVE last night (which he does often). He said he usually has a great time, and last night's party was good, but not a huge crowd: "I had a good time, but have had better." Okay good review, but not great. Now the same party, different dude--and this guy sent a rave. Here it is...



"Hey Evan, First, thanks for your informative blog. Not an easy thing to keep up with every week, so I just wanted to acknowledge that.

Been reading the blog now for about a month. I'm usually a bath house type of guy. Haven't done the group or open sex party for a couple years now. I have great memories of the sex club El Mirage. Had some amazing hot times there. Yeah it's important to have hot guys come to your party, but it's about all 5 senses being stimulated. To hear guys moaning, to see guys fucking, sucking or just standing around jerking, to taste another guy, to feel hot bodies all around you, and to smell hot humid sex, all makes a good stimulating experience.

Last night I looked at your blog and saw the listing for Hard Drive. The host is extremely friendly as well as the staff is too. Yeah the crowd is important, but do I really need to play with everyone in the crowd----NO. As long as there is at least a handful I'm happy. There were a variety of ages, and mostly a good looking crowd. And the crowd was there to play, not pose, but play. I've been to the space before and am not a big fan of the layout. I like a more compact area and not so spread out. But I will return, knowing that Hard Drive is a party to play, and the crowd did play- hard. Thanks Again."



Funny that two different guys at the same party--one okay review; one great review. Sounds like it was a hot time. I've gotta post a review of the INFINITY PARTY, which another dude just sent me. That party was also last night, and I hear was "sparsely attend." I guess everyone was at HARD DRIVE. So, if you want to go, it's every Wednesday night at Paddles. Here's the information...

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

And dude, that was nice tip to the sex club El Mirage. Very much missed! Also it was the closing of El Mirage, which convinced the host of STALONE NYC to end that great party. STALONE, if you never had the opportunity to go, was the best party I've ever gone to. Amazing guys, amazing sex, and the hottest host around -- a huge muscle bear. When the party started to wind down, he would jump and start fucking guys. So hot. I'm getting hard just thinking of it. Okay, I need a drink. Have fun guys, and play safe.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Two reader reviews: Ozone Park & The Club House Orgy

Hey, guys, I love hearing from you -- especially reviews. Even a whore like me can't find the time to hit up all the parties. Here are two reviews from a reader. It's cool too because he's not another 20YO slut, but an older dude in great shape. So here's the deal, he reviews two different parties: THE OZONE PARK PARTY in Queens and THE CLUB HOUSE ORGY in Manhattan -- one good and one bad, and having only been to the later party, it seems pretty accurate (except that I find the host's tweets very funny: http://twitter.com/TheOrgyGuy. This review is sure to piss off the host of THE CLUB HOUSE (sorry, man). He already is pissed at (check out his blog: http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com, where he trashed me). The one thing that I will say for him is that he is very honest. When you sign up he writes an email & describes his party: “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” His party may not be for me, but he is VERY clear who will be there. Anyway, here we go...


"hey, evan! you are my go-to-guy not only for your listings of what's going on and where, but also for the reviews you post and your wonderful comments... please keep it up and never ever stop, ok? promise? i especially enjoyed your posting about getting to the gym... i am definitely more of a mature guy here.... but i also work out, eat well and take good care of my health and appearance. (i am also a big dicked top, which does not hurt!) i oppose exclusionary door policies in most cases based solely on age, but support them based on attitude and appearance. there are lots of younger guys into older guys and that should be supported. and guys who take care of their bodies should be encouraged to do so at any age. what IS insupportable, however, are gross guys OF ANY AGE who do not respect others' boundaries AND do not take NO for an answer. and the next time some nasty old guy pushes me out of the way so he can get closer to some action, I may lose my normal good manners. well, enough of that!

OZONE PARK - went there for the first time this past saturday. the two guys who host are the greatest, nicest and most efficient I have encountered in a long time. they made the "application" process easy, gave clear directions and ground rules and just made the whole experience great. it was definitely a non-Manhattan crowd, and that was cool. quite mixed in terms of age and ethnicity, and that is a real plus. some super hot types, some less so, but it is all good. also one of the few parties where safe sex is actually enforced both by the hosts and the attendees. (not sure what I think about that myself, but just want to get the information ut there.) the location is a bit of a long subway ride from my part of town (Upper West Side), but having said that I will definitely make the haul out there for the next party!

CLUB HOUSE ORGY - not sure what to make of this one. usually a combination of a few hot guys surrounded by obnoxious and way pushy out of shape scary guys. and the host live blogs from the parties and can get kinda snarky. i would not hurry back to this one.

ok, so, again: keep up of the good work!"


So, guys if you want to check these out...

OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, Donation $24 person/$40 Couple, 9pm-am (doors close at 10:30pm). Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. or a mixed age/average to hot crowd.
Email pics + stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com or check out their site: http://sexpartyqueens.com/ .

and

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Village). 8am-1pm: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. April is his last month in the West Village -- so go now!
To get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

Sunday, April 10, 2011

GROUP Sex Parties -- Monday, April 11 to Sunday, April 17

Sex Parties -- Monday, April 11 to Sunday, April 17...

***HOT PICKS OF THE WEEK: INFINITY or HARD DRIVE! (Wed), SKIN TIGHT USA (Sat), and PUMPNYC (Sun)



Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea) "APRIL MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY #2" -- doors 7:00 to Midnight, goes 'til 2 am @Paddles; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out http://www.jacksofcolor.com/

MUSCLE GROUP (West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9/9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking/sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys. *Send pics & Stats to: BIHUNKGROUP@aol.com.



Tuesday…
THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. Tonight is PEAK: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

FOOTMENNYC and TOUCH PARTY GUYS (Chelsea). 8pm - 2am. Not really a full-flegded sex party, but you get…Free Full-Body Massage provider all night, and Curtained play-spaces for your pleasure. Held at The Eagle (28th St., btwn 10th & 11th Aves.) $10 cover, includes drink ticket (21 years old and over). The private party is on the 2nd floor and the roof. Check out the website http://www.footmennyc.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/



Wednesday…
INFINITY NYC (Times Square). Weekday After-work party, Now every other Wednesday: “For dudes in need of a weekday release.” STRICTLY FOR FIT MEN 20-45. 7PM - 1AM; All supplies provided. Mandatory street clothes check. No shirts or tees.
To get in send stats and pics to infinitinyc@yahoo.com.

HARD DRIVE (Chelsea) "An intoxicating blend of sexual possibility and good vibes." Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Please be height/weight proportionate and if 55 or over please BE IN GREAT SHAPE. Wear underwear or less. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.



Thursday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

ND2 (Midtown). This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. No attitude and a lot of action. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

OPEN HOUSE PARTY (Gramercy). So ROCK SOLID and some other parties at Gramercy have merged. This party is combined with SQUIRT this week. They claim be very selective, but a few guys emailed me about last Thursday's party which was very mixed: mostly old, out-of-shape guys. To get in send pics and stats to this email: aopenhouseparty@gmail.com.



Friday...
MMX Muscle (Manhattan). HAPPY HOUR JOCK FRIDAYS: "Tax Release Jock Party," at 7 pm. Not a sex party, but a massage party…it’s about touch. The hosts says: "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 20 guys. Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries.
To Get in email the host: mmxnyc@gmail.com and check out www.mmxnyc.com.

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). Held in a huge duplex. This is an umbrella for a number of different types of parties: RAW RORK, SQUIRT, PORN STARS and it seems like a dozen others. Mostly older, out of shape guys. *For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). “AFTER HOURS UNDERWEAR PARTY: After cruising men at the bars this Friday come get off with the hot mix of MEN at our After Hours Party,” 1am (late Friday night; early Saturday morning) until 5am; According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot, he says, “Just bring a fit bod and a fun attitude. Wear sexy jockstrap, boxers, underwear or nothing at all.” This is a first time for their late-night party, so no idea about the crowd.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 9PM TO 2AM. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 12:00-7:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. TO GET IN: http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited. To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com



Saturday…
INFINITY NYC (Times Square). 6pm-10:30pm. All supplies provided. Mandatory street clothes check. No shirts or tees. Mostly average guys, a few hotties usually attend.
To get in send stats and pics to infinitinyc@yahoo.com.

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African-American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or t-shirts. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Gets 70-90+ dudes each party.
Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

LOAD NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

SKIN TIGHT USA (West Village). A bi-monthly to tri monthly party held in a club/bar for men who love to wear tight clothing, and those who love to gaze at them. Since 2003, the party has catered to those who have a fetish for wearing tight athletic gear, lycra outfits, leather, PVC, luge, wrestling singlet’s, nylon, dance wear, Speedos, cycle gear, super hero costumes and anything tight (many people do not wear underwear beneath their outfits, so erections are visible but never revealed!). While NOT a sex party, there is kinky heavy petting and making out. Although attendance has reach 100, about 50-60 guys usually attend (20-30 in costume). For more information, check out their site: http://www.skintightusa.com.

SPAM PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. 11pm-4am, Admission: $10 women/trans, $20 men, student's 18-22 w/valid id FREE! Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. They also run the SUBMIT PARTY. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

THUGS 4 THUG SEX PARTY (Brooklyn) 9:00pm-3:00am. Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am. Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

LONG ISLAND BI-SEXUAL GROUP (Long Island). "Long Island Gang Bang; April Showers Party." LI-BI-do is a Bisexual social group that hold parties for Couples, women, trans, and men are all welcome. Starts at 7pm. You can be Bisexual, Bi-friendly, or Bi-curious. How to join LI-BI-do: Go to Home Page: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LI-BI-do, Send blank email to: LI-BI-do-Subscribe@yahoogroups.com or check out: http://www.li-bi-do.org.



Sunday…
PUMPNYC (Midtown). 8pm-1am. From the guy who brought you NYJOCK PARTY. Very select: There will be no more than 50 guys allowed into the party and you will only have three hours to enter. PUMPNYC is about quality not quantity; Includes: Bar. Snacks. Supplies. A safe sex party.
VERY HOT GUYS ONLY send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com.

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) 7pm-1am @Paddles. Sex is no longer banned. Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night. Check out: http://www.nybondageclub.com/

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea/Times Square) Safe-sex party for guys who like to jerk off. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages from hot young guys to muscle guys to older guys. Tuesdays (Paddles) and Sunday (Times Square). Check out their site: http://www.nyjacks.com/

THE OMEGA PARTY (Midtown West). BACK IN MIDTOWN. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 9PM TO 2AM. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or http://www.theomegaroom.com/.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it. http://thugs4thugsex.com/ or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). 8am-1pm. Tonight is ERUPTION party: This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as Peak (safe sex), Fusion (wristbands for safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. Held in a private apartment. The host (who sometimes participates) describes his party “this is a party for height/weight proportional men over 35. Younger guys come, but they’re usually into older guys. This is an orgy, not a stand & pose cruise party. Racially diverse. A slow night is 15 guys, a busy night is 30. Guys range from great shape to bad shape.” For midde-aged crowd (45-65) out-of-shape guys and their admirers. Check out his cool blog (which trashes me) at http://theorgyguy.blogspot.com or to get in email stats and pics to host at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) "On Palm Cumday," 5PM to 12AM, Held in a private apartment by Ed & Steve, an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35-45+. They get about 40+ guys. Yes, the hosts provide condoms, but I hear that 75-80% of the fucking is BB. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude.
To get in, Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

PITSTOP (Park Slope, Brooklyn) 8pm-1am. A fetish sex party for In-Shape guys where "almost anything goes." 6pm-11pm at the same space in Brooklyn that GBU uses. Safe-sex dungeon kinkfest where anything goes EXCEPT barebacking: be a voyeur or exhibitionist in scenes involving PISS, role playing, BD/SM, fisting, spit, foot worship, spanking, humiliation, raunch and much more! Stripping to your underwear, jockstrap or fetish gear is required. Nudity is encouraged! Safe sex is REQUIRED. Anyone caught fucking without condoms will be told to leave. There is zero tolerance for barebacking at this space. This party will also have a broader range of ages, but we ask that only in-shape kinky guys attend.
To get in, email stats and pics to: pitstop_nyc@yahoo.com