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Wednesday, June 30, 2010

The Omega Party's faulty email; New Contact Info...

Hey guys -- if you've had trouble reaching THE OMEGA PARTY people this week, they've had trouble with their hotmail account. Until furter notice hit them up at roccosly@aol.com to get into the parties, including SUNDAY's...

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). The host (used to run the aplumuscle Party) says that they get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. "You may keep your underwear and T-shirt on if you like" but no heavy clothing inside. Time: 6PM TO 4AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am; Donation: $25; early bird special $20 (6pm to 8 pm). coat check $1. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn room, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com

Friday, June 18, 2010

The Hot Jock Party (review of last night's party)

Went to one of my favorite parties last night (Thursday) -- THE HOT JOCK PARTY. I always enjoy this party because there are always plenty of hot guys, and plenty of fucking & sucking. It's also cool because this party is usually held in a hotel suite near Grand Central--which to me is totally hot. I LOVE HOTEL SEX. Unfortunately, the host told me that he was having problems getting the big hotel suite, so last night he held the party at what can only be called a "sex space" in Gramercy. The space is perfectly okay -- very nice duplex -- but somehow not as decadent as a hotel room full of naked guys. Also the space in Gramercy is HUGE -- too big for The Hot Jock Party, which is really hot in an intimate space like a hotel suite.

Anyway -- I got there early and stayed until about 9:30pm. Had a very hot time -- some hot and fun guys showed up (as always) -- maybe about 35 guys (usually they get far more) -- but because the space is so HUGE, it seemed sort of empty -- also, guys seemed to pair off, so instead of great man-on-man-on-man-on-man orgy action -- it was mostly just man-on-man action. All of which is cool, but it's not why I usually have such a great time at this party. When the party is held in the hotel everyone is sort of fucking on top of each other -- which, personally, I prefer.

Anyway, Aaron, if you're listening (and you're probably not), the hotel space is much more fun. Also, as much I love mid-week group sex, the Sunday night parties are usually bigger. All said guys, it was totally hot, I fucked my share of bottoms, and one dude even fucked me. Will definitely be there again next time -- no matter what night or location.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

New Massage Party & Brooklyn's Nastiest Queer Party!

Two new parties (at least to me). Both sound very hot in their own way. Let me know what you think...

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Not a sex party, but a massage party…it's about touch. The hosts says, "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no anal sex or oral sex below the waist. Limited to 14 guys; $30 for the Party. Students and Under 26 - $20, 8:15pm to 10:45pm (door closes at 8:35 pm). Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries. Next Party – June 23rd. They've been running these for two months now. To Get in email the host: massagecoachnyc@gmail.com

SPAM PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party.11pm-4am, Admission: $10 women/trans, $20 men, student's 18-22 w/valid id FREE! Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. They also run the SUBMIT PARTY. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com/. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Sex Parties -- Monday, June 14 - Sunday, June 20.

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An Apology, of Sorts

I’ve been getting bitched at lately that my reviews of the parties are too harsh. In fact a few of the party hosts are getting pissed at me, and one warned me that I was entering dangerous territory (I’m not exactly sure what that means). But guys, sexual interest is very individual – I get that. This blog is based on what interests me. I'm not insanely specific and limited: I like all types of guys. It’s not that I don’t have an ideal guy (or guys) in my head, but I like big guys, little guys, hairy, smooth, tall, short, old, young, twinks, muscle guys, saints and whores. The one thing these guys MUST have in common is a HOT body (a hot face is cool too, but the hotter the body, the more I can be forgiving of the face). All types of great bodies are cool – lean, muscular, whatever – but guys who are in good shape and give a fuck about their bodies. And it isn’t about age -- one of my favorite fuckbuddies is 53YO. He has a hotter body, better dick and knows how to use it better than anyone I know. To repeat, it isn't about age -- it's about taking care of your body. That's just me -- but that's my starting off point for review -- it's what I'm looking for at a sex party.

When I trash a party is usually because it’s filled with guys who don’t give a shit about their bodies. But—dudes—that’s just me. If you don’t give a fuck how fat the guy fucking you is, then go to the parties with open admissions – I don’t judge. I just like guys who are like me. As my friend once said to me, I work out too hard every day at the gym to get fucked by someone who doesn’t go to the gym – shallow, yes; but guys – this is about sex parties, not a relationship. To me, if your body doesn’t turn you on, why would it turn anyone else on? When I walk into a party, I know guys are going to want me to fuck them – which, to me, means that I belong there. I’m not every guy’s fantasy, but the average guy who would be happy to fuck me – hell, I’d fuck me. But many dudes walk into a party just to get guys they could never get one-on-one. They walk in with shitty bodies and grope and harass and stalk the guys who have spent hours working on their bodies – those are the parties and the guys I avoid. Shallow? YES, TOTALLY SHALLOW. But again, I’m not looking for a husband. I’m not interested in your views on the economy, I’m looking to feel your hard abs on my back as we fuck, not your huge belly bouncing off my ass.

Anyway – I list all the parties – because some guys like overweight guys. Dudes -- good for you. Some young guys get off with 60YO dudes who don’t go to the gym. Guys, I don’t understand your fetish, but go for it. It’s just NOT these parties that are going to get a good review from me—since these reviews are based my views. These parties are valid, and so are people who go, so, I am sorry that I have been cruel to the guys at HUMP SATURDAY, and other parties. I promise to me more understanding in the future, but I will stick with NYJP, HOT JOCK PARTY and the others that have very restrictive parties and hot guys only. Sorry to be such a bitch, but now I need a drink.

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Four New Sex Parties to Check Out...

Seems that there is a never-ending stream of new sex parties. Here are four that friends have told me about -- I haven't been to any of these yet, but plan to check them out ASAP. Let me know if you go and what you find out...

GYMJOX BOXER PARTY (Times Square). Haven't been yet, but host insists it's strictly for lean/fit guys under 40YO. Sounds like it could be very HOT. 11:30pm-4:30am; $20 donation; Condoms, lube & liquids provided; Mandatory secure clothescheck. No shirts or tees allowed; no smoking or drugs allowed. Haven't been yet, but this sounds very hot. To get in email stats and pics to gymjoxnyc@yahoo.com.

UPPER WEST SIDE UNDERWEAR PARTY (UWS) Haven't been yet, but also sounds very hot. Doors open 10:30 to 12:30am (The party goes untill its dead). There is no cover. Free liquor provided. This is a private apartment in a doorman building so discretion is a must. This is a private party so only the people who have been approved are invited. This is a fun atmosphere to chill hang out and play with hot guys. No obligation to participate if you don't want to. Will have porn and lube and condoms as well. To get in send pics and stats to underwearpartyuws@gmail.com.

THE ONYX PARTY (West Village) Run by the guy who runs the PEAK, XTUBE and ERUPTION parties. This is a new party for men of color (and their admirers), ONYX. 8 PM to 1 AM. For more information check out their new blog http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or email the host directly at theclubhouseorgies@gmail.com.

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. $15 donation includes drinks; $10 no drinks). Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited. Also has WED night parties in the summer for $5!
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

Tonight: NYJP returns to Times Square/Garment District

Hey guys -- good news to report that THE NEW YORK JOCK PARTY (or NYJP) is finally back in Manhattan. I hear that they weren't getting many guys in Brooklyn--so it's cool that they're back in Manhattan -- those parties had always been HOT.

So, if you're into group parties & HOT -- go TONIGHT (11pm-5am). Once again it's near Times Square. Only HOT DUDES need apply. The host is VERY discriminating -- and because of it the party has the hottest guys (sometimes with the most attitudes -- the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Donation: $20: 11pm to 12 / $25 after 12. Coat check is $1. This is a Safe-sex party. Provides condoms/lube, drinks, etc. The Host is very cool guy and helpful if this is your first time at a sex party. Have fun guys -- and be safe!

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP: To get in send your hottest face and body shots (and stats) to nyjockparty@yahoo.com

Thursday, June 10, 2010

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square): Another Review

Sorry to keep ragging on THE OMEGA PARTY, but another friend sent me the review below -- so far it's one for, three against (if you count my vote). One dude sent me a review complaining about the crowd a week ago, so I went to the party myself on Sunday -- NOT so hot -- and I left after about 30 minutes. Lot of guys in their 60s (yes, that means they were born in the 1940s). And even that's cool, but they were not active at the gym in the last 20 years. Anyway, another friend sent me a note later bitching that I went too early (I was there about 8:30). He said the party was much hotter starting about 10:30. Anyway, now another guy sent me this review -- totally backing up what I said! So, maybe we should give it another shot (later this time), but here is the third review in two weeks, decide for yourself who's right...

"My wingman and i checked out the omega party this past sunday. we're not exactly relative newcomers to the group sex circuit. between us we've checked out testosterone/olympus party, new york jacks, the encores party and new york men's bondage club at paddles. not to mention we're regulars at our favorite event, the bana pool party. i'd say we've got a pretty good handle on what makes a hot, fun sex party. omega wasn't so hot. in fact, it was pretty rough. what was good: the decor, the music, and the refreshments. but who cares about those things, right? what was bad: the sauna wasn't working, the showers were cramped, and it was far too dark to (1) see hot guys having sex and (2) figure out if you wanted to hook up with somebody. and maybe it was a just a fluke, but for the couple of hours we were there, over HALF the guys were old and asian (neither of which happens to be our type). my wingman said its the worst party he's ever been to. i'd like to give omega the benefit of the doubt and say it will improve over time, but i don't think we'll be going again any time soon. --Kyle"

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If you're still up for it, the next THE OMEGA PARTY is tomorrow night. They get 70+ guys per party. The parties are laid back, and a mix of guys -- a more "general crowd" according to the host. Time: 6PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am; Donation: $25; early bird special $20(6pm to 8 pm). coat check $1. Anybody who still want to go to the party should email omegaparties@hotmail.com

I happy to post more reviews. Keep them coming guys. Have fun and play safe.