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Thursday, December 17, 2009

"New" DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY

This party closed down for a while -- and recently started up again. Went to the party last night, and the host is much more selective than he was the last time I went. About 20-30 guys -- A lot more hot guys with nice muscular bodies and a few twinks. Still a few older guys, but they weren't doing much. This one guy was such an exhibionist -- he liked to suck guys center stage at the party, and get fucked when the party was quiet. Mostly of the guys seemed into oral, some fucking. I had a good time, but wish there had been more action. The host is a cool guy and hopefully this will build to a HOT party as he gets more people. Looking forward to the next party.

If you want to give it a shot, here's the contact info...


DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Financial District). Held in a clean studio apartment in a doorman building near Rector subway stop). Motto: Sex Party for All Men - No Attitude, Friendly Environment; CLAIMS: Hot guys ages 20's - 40's+; Doors open 9pm - 10pm (open until midnight); $20 donations. EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Olympus news...themed party!

This Friday -- November 27-- Olympus is hosting The Metropolis Party, a huge pre-holiday weekend event, lots of hot new jocks and studs for you to meet and play with...It's a masked event -- everyone gets a basic black mask that fits over the eyes when they enter, very erotic and surreal when you picture the rooms filled with only masked naked men, going to be incredible.

ALSO the raw party "Testosterone" (which was the 2nd floor upstairs) will no longer be combined with Olympus -- it was just temporary for the month of Oct. Testosterone has moved to another night, so condoms are now available on both floors for Olympus and protected sex is once again HIGHLY encouraged.....and the dark lighting is no longer there (for the month of Oct. was hosting the Blackout Event), different now with the skylights and windows open and strategically placed lights giving the whole space a surreal and erotically charged atmosphere!

LASTLY...the host is also looking for hot jocks and studs to help out at the parties as naked clothes-check attendants, inquire if interested--he's always looking for fresh new guys to fill the positions, so ask if you're interested.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (new location)

I've now been to the THE OLYMPUS PARTY in their new location in the w20s a few times for their Friday night sex parties. It's a great apt -- huge space: two floors, some small rooms, and one HUGE room. I had a good time, but the crowd is a little too mixed for me. Many hot guys -- especially if you go later (midnight or after), but the early crowd has too many guys in their 50s, who are in average shape. I can TOTALLY be into older guys BUT only if they go to the gym often. Some of the HOTTEST guys I know are in their 40s, but they must LIVE at the gym. Some guys in their 40s are still fucking hot -- better than many 20YOs. There are so many guys, you can avoid the older ones if you're not interested, but I prefer a more select crowd. There is very little attitude, which always makes for more fun (and more sex) for everyone.

Anyway, this party makes my TOP list because it is HUGE HUGE HUGE. I have never seen so many naked guys (no underwear allowed here). Very HOT seeing a hundred naked men fucking around in one space -- and can reach up to 200! It will probably have want you want.

The host is a cool dude -- and very funny (and hot) guy.

Two complaints – IT’S TOO DARK – put some lights on I – I like to see what I’m fucking. It’s cool to have a dark room, but the whole place is so dark you can’t tell what anyone looks like until they are on top of you. Not cool. I like to see what’s happening. My other problem is the BB fucking in the second level. Most guys avoid the second floor because of the BBing, but still not good that so many guys practicing unsafe sex.

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THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) If you like HUGE PARTIES – This is it. In new space: penthouse duplex complete with themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, everyone is naked (no underwear allowed). This is a HUGE, HUGE party--100-150 guys (can hold 200): mixed crowd--many out-of-shape older guys, but some hot guys too. One big complaint: IT'S TOO DARK, and you can't see who you're fucking. No attitude. Host is very professional. Fridays: 9pm-2am. $20 donation to get in. (ALSO FYI: Lately, they've been mixing this party w/TESTOSTERONE, their BB party -- so upstairs is BB, downstairs in safe.)*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (Be SURE to him EVAN sent you).

SEX ON SUNDAYS -- (one of the worst!)

I'd never been to the NY BUTT LICKERS party, but was eager to see what kind of crowd they pulled in their new space (the same apt as Olympus), and their new same -- SEX ON SUNDAYS, so I went last Sunday.

WOW -- the most disgusting party I've ever attended. Unfortunately --the have an open door policy and let in ANYBODY -- so the place is FILLED with overweight guys in their 30-50s and really old flabby guys in their 60s. If you are desperate for sex with anyone (or get off with gross old guys -- GO; if you have ANY self esteem, and have ever been to the gym (ever) then SKIP THIS ONE. I often get off on sex with older dudes, but these are NOT hot. It was sad, I was starting to beleive they were letting in homeless people. There is a reason they keep the place VERY dark. You DO NOT WANT to see what you are fucking.

***AVOID***

SOS: SEX ON SUNDAYS (formerly NY BUTT LICKERS) (Grammercy) Now held in the E20s -- in HUGE beautiful duplex apt (same space as Olympus). Orgy every Sunday. Email for invite: sexonsundaynyc@yahoo.com

THE HOT JOCK PARTY -- back at a hotel

Went to this party the last few times -including when they were at a loft apt in the W20s -- also went briefly on the Sunday before NY BY NIGHT. Very glad that the party is back in hotels -- for some reason this party was lame of the loft location. Was at a Times Square hotel, but now back to Grand Central area hotel. Parties are fun, but mixed group of guys. The Wed party was kinda empty, but the Sunday party was hot.


THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East)
This party -- usually at a hotel -- has guys in mostly 30s-40s (some 50s, and a few 20s). It's a mixed crowd, hot to average guys, but mixed. Sunday night crowds are better than weekdays. Not a lot of attitude (unless you count the host). Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month. $25 donation.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

New York by Night (November 8)

Went to NY BY NIGHT on 11/8. Sunday nights parties bring in a different crowd at this party than the weekdays, but a lot of regulars as always. There were MANY new, very hot guys at Sunday's party, including a bunch of VERY HOT French guys (all very slim and super sexy). There was plenty of fucking, sucking and general good time. The host gets a good mix of twinks and muscle guys (although 1 or 2 guys who are past their prime, which isn't bad in a crowd of 70.) This Sunday the loft was PACKED. You could barely move in the main area, which is very hot as you are pushing through dozens of naked men. This continues to be my personal favorite NYC sex party -- because of the hot guy, good attitude, great location, and cool host. Also cool is that there is a great racial mix -- nice mix of hot white, black, hispanic and a few asian guys.

The party ended a little early (11:30) when one of the French dudes (he was probably a little drunk), knocked over the dining room table. It was righted in a minute, but the party soon broke up. Still a fun night with hot guys and lots of safe sex. Next party is a Tuesday (12/1).



NEW YORK BY NIGHT (Midtown West)
Great party in large loft with sofas. Good mix of guys from hot to average 20-40 YOs (no one over 45). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very safe a clean atmosphere, no attitude. 30-60 guys attend, once a month. (Don'y let the initial process: phone call and interview (just before the party) bother you - it's all cool and makes for a good crowd.) $25 donation. Check out this feature on them in Next...http://www.nextmagazine.com/features/1637_1.php
*Send pics & Stats to: RBN33@MSN.com. You should tell him you saw his
email in Next Magazine.

THE BEST: The Top Parties

These are the TOP parties with the hottest guys, rarely disappointed...


THE NYJOCK PARTY (Midtown West) In duplex apartment. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the pary now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation. nyjockparty@yahoo.com

NEW YORK BY NIGHT (Midtown West) Great party in large loft with sofas. Good mix of guys from hot to average 20-40 YOs (no one over 45). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very safe a clean atmosphere, no attitude. 30-60 guys attend, once a month. (Don'y let the initial process: phone call and interview (just before the party) bother you - it's all cool and makes for a good crowd.) $25 donation. Check out this feature on them in Next...http://www.nextmagazine.com/features/1637_1.php*Send pics & Stats to: RBN33@MSN.com. You should tell him you saw his email in Next Magazine. Next party is this SUNDAY (12/1).

THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East) This party -- usually at a hotel -- has guys in mostly 30s-40s (and 20s). It's a mixed crowd, hot to average guys, but mixed. Sunday night crowds are better than weekdays. Not a lot of attitude (unless you count the host). Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month. $25 donation. *Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy)
If you like HUGE PARTIES – This is it. In new space: penthouse duplex complete with themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, everyone is naked (no underwear allowed). This is a HUGE, HUGE party--100-150 guys (can hold 200): mixed crowd--many out-of-shape older guys, but some hot guys too. One big complaint: IT'S TOO DARK, and you can't see who you're fucking. No attitude. Host is very professional. Fridays: 9pm-2am. $20 donation to get in. (ALSO FYI: Lately, they've been mixing this party w/TESTOSTERONE, their BB party -- so upstairs is BB, downstairs in safe.)
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (Be SURE to him EVAN sent you).

BANA POOL PARTY ( Manhattan )
In a club. A huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dance floor, bars.$40-50 general admission, $60-80 gets you a locker+, and $100 VIP pass. Very cool party. Lots of fun.
www.hotsteammachine.com
www.thebanapoolparty.com

AVERAGE Parties-– Sometimes HOT, Sometimes NOT.

These are parties that sometimes are hot, sometime not, and more often have a mixed group of guys. I've often had a GREAT time at these, but just as often been disappointed with the crowd....

HOTPARTIES 2006 (Chelsea). Party is held in a private apartment/loft, on Friday & Wednesday. $25 donation. (Sometimes has Saturday parties in Brooklyn ).
*Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea )
A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. The party is back on: sometimes 3 nights next week. Host is super nice dude.
www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s)
In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from incredibly hot guys to very average dudes. The host is a big guy, can be too much for some. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20- mostly 30- some 40 YOs. It's ofen a very fun party and I go to this if I'm not doing anything that night. Have parties at random. Free.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

ED AND STEVE GROUP ( Upper Manhattan )
Interracial gay group that meet twice a month.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

The Worst Parties ***AVOID****

Guys -- there are many parties in NYC -- these are BY FAR THE WORST. They are filled with out-of-shape, ugly, old men who are desperate for sex with ANYONE -- these parties they just have OPEN admissions and let ANYONE (and I mean anyone, in). Unless you like sex with fat guys, or are just deperate for human contact (and that's questionable), you should avoid these...

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The Worst Parties (open admission, gross, or just not worth the cost)…

GALLERY OF MEN (Garment District) every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. Not sure how to get on the guest list anymore - must have your email on the list for admission. Filled with 99% old, out-of-shape, gross guys. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday afternoons & Tues nights; $25 donation.
http://www.nyjacks.com

BMOCO (Tribeca)
"Big Men of Color". Has held events at hotel downtown -- very dark, hard to see anyone-- not great crowd.
EMAIL: bmocoparty@gmail.com

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT--see below). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. $25.
www.themensparty.com

BISHOP (Downtown)
Hotel room. I’ve never been to this party because they take anyone -- ANYONE. One guy reported the he likes it because it attracts a wide group of types, ages, ethnicgroups without discrimination. (It is the only sex group I know of that meets at lunchtime--which is perfect for married guys
or guys who works nights). Most guys who attend have reported that the party sucks, and is mostly old fat men, and most comment that the host is NOT cool. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20.
*Email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com, or check out WEBSITE: http://bishop.ning.com/?xgi=3nwSAru

SOS: SEX ON SUNDAYS (formerly NY BUTT LICKERS) (Grammercy)
Now held in the E20s -- in HUGE beautiful duplex apt (same space as Olympus). Orgy every Sunday. Unfortunately --the have an open door policy and let in ANYBODY -- so the place is FILLED with overweight and really old flabby guys. Possible the most disgusting party I've ever attended. If you are desperate for sex with anyone (or get off with gross old guys -- GO; if you have ANY self esteem, and have ever been to the gym (ever) then SKIP THIS ONE. I often get off on sex with old dudes, but these are NOT hot.
Email for invite: sexonsundaynyc@yahoo.com

ALL MALE PARTY (Midtown West).
In apartment. I haven't been to this one in years because its way too expensive, AND IT SUCKS -- the one time I went the FAT guys were only outnumbered by the UGLY guys. 25-50 guys, weird fee structure, check out their website. TOTAL waste of your time and money. PASS ON THIS ONE.
www.AllMaleParty.com or email AllMaleParty@gmail.com

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB -- Updated Info

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea)
UPDATE: Sex is no longer banned (for about 6 months now). Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger guys in. Last weekend it was $5 if under 25 and $10 if under 30. It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night.

www.NYBondageClub.com

Monday, October 5, 2009

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy)--Update

Update for the THE OLYMPUS PARTY -- has great HUGE new space. I haven't been yet, but the host claims they are now the Largest group sex party in New York...

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) In new space: penthouse duplex complete with various-themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, space holds over 200 guys, attendance ranges over 100 naked men, and maxing out at 200 guys, every Friday. $20 donation to get in.
*Send pics & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (tell him Evan sentyou).

Friday, October 2, 2009

HOT party on Wednesday Night

If your a newbie, or even been to many parties -- like me -- NEW YORK BY NIGHT is one of the best parties in NYC. It's held once a month and the next party is next week (October 7). The August party was HOT -- no AC -- VERY sweaty, but great. The September party was HUGE: many new guys, lots of twinks and muscule guys. Fucked and got fucked over and over.

Some nut has been posting about NEW YORK BY NIGHT on CL. Ignore him. He's clearly been rejected during the interview process (which is why the party is so HOT). If you don't beleive me, check out this feature on them in Next magazine... http://www.nextmagazine.com/features/1637_1.php

C ya on Wed!

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NEW YORK BY NIGHT (Midtown West) Great party in large loft with sofas. Generally good mix of guys from hot to average 20-40 YOs. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very safe a clean atmosphere, no attitude. 30-50 guys attend, once a month. $25 donation. Chec
*Send pics & Stats to: RBN33@MSN.com. Tell him you saw his email in Next Magazine!

Manhattan Sex Parties...

Manhattan...

Manhattan ... THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Moves, now Gramercy) This party -- usually in hotels or studio spaces -- has guys in the some20s-mostly30s-40s. It used be a VERY hot party, but the last few times I'vegone the crowd was good, but mixed, and not as hot as before. Sunday nightcrowds are better than Thursday. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice amonth. $25 donation. *Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

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NEW YORK BY NIGHT (Midtown West) Great party in large loft with sofas. Generally good mix of guys from hot to average 20-40 YOs. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very safe a clean atmosphere, no attitude. 30-50 guys attend, once a month. $25 donation. Check out this feature on them in Next magazine... http://www.nextmagazine.com/features/1637_1.php*Send pics & Stats to: RBN33@MSN.com. You should tell him you saw his email in Next Magazine.

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CUMMONKEY/GRAB ASS PARTY (Chelsea) Studio space, not apartment. Since this re-started last month is much better class of guys, much hotter mix, some attitude. Usually 30-50 guys attend, from 20-30-40 YOs. Every Wednesday. $25 donation, plus $2 for clothes check. www.CumMonkey.com

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THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Now in Gramercy) This party -- was at a hotel, now in Apt in E20s -- has guys in the some20s-mostly30s-40s. It used be a VERY hot party, but the last few times I'vegone the crowd was good, but mixed, and not as hot as before. Sunday nightcrowds are better than Thursday. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice amonth. $25 donation. *Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

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THE NYJOCK PARTY (Midtown West) In 2 floor apartment. The host is very discriminating (and kinda an asshole) -- but the pary now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes. If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25 donation. nyjockparty@yahoo.com

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AM: An All New After Hours Party (Times Square). AM is a private, selective, and exclusive party only for good looking in shape guys. This is a SAFE & DRUG FREE PARTY. Party takes place after you've been everywhere else on Sunday night: Monday mornings from 3am - 10am.For invite, email James: aminnyc1@yahoo.com

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THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) In new space: penthouse duplex complete with various-themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, space holds over 200 guys, attendance ranges over 100 naked men, and maxing out at 200 guys, every Friday. $20 donation to get in. *Send pics & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net (tell him Evan sentyou).

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THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT--see below). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe—too sleazy for me. Usually has about 30-50 guys attending from 30-40 YOs (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there). NOT a safe sex party. Have parties once a week. $25. www.themensparty.com

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BISHOP (Downtown) Hotel room. I’ve never been to this party because they take ANYONE. One guyreported the he likes it because it attracts a wide group of types, ages,ethnicgroups without discrimination. (It is the only sex group I know of that meets at lunchtime--which is perfect for married guys or guys who works nights). Most guys who attend have reported that the party sucks, and is mostly old fat men, and most comment that the host is NOT cool. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20. *Email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com, or check out WEBSITE: http://bishop.ning.com/?xgi=3nwSAru

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ANOTHER SEX PARTY 70s PORN (Manhattan). I've not been to this one, but was told it's "the hottest I have ever attended." Periodic -- never get advance warning. It's odd because it is a mix of straight men who like the porn and don't even look at the other guys much and gay men who do nothing but look at the other guys, and only glance at the porn. About 12 men each party. Preference is given to hairy men; from really handsome to normal but no fat or very old men. Social yes, wine is served as is lube. FOR INVITE: Send a face and full description to playevents@gmail.com

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MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem ) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut fromincredibly hot guys to very average dudes. The host is a big guy, can be too much for some. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20- mostly 30- some 40 YOs. Have parties at random. Free. *Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

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ALL MALE PARTY (Midtown West). In apartment. I haven't been to this one in years because its way tooexpensive, and the one time I went the fat guys were only outnumbered by the ugly guys. 25-50 guys, weird fee structure, check out their website. www.AllMaleParty.com www.jacksofcolor.com

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BANA POOL PARTY ( Manhattan ) In a club. I've never been, but told its a huge space with different levelsand rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dance floor, bars.$40-50 general admission, $60-80 gets you a locker+, and $100 VIP pass. www.hotsteammachine.com www.thebanapoolparty.com

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ED AND STEVE GROUP ( Upper Manhattan ) Interracial gay group that meet twice a month. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

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A-PLUS MUSCLE PARTY (Downtown) Hot Muscle Studs only. Email for invite: aplusmuscle@aol.com

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SOS: SEX ON SUNDAYS (formerly NY BUTT LICKERS) (Grammercy) Now held in an apt on Lex in the 20s. Hot Orgy every Sunday.Email for invite: sexonsundaynyc@yahoo.com

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SKYBLU ( Harlem ) Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO. Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/ Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com

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HOTPARTIES 2006 (Chelsea). Party is held in a private apartment/loft, on Friday & Wednesday. $25 donation. (Sometimes has Saturday parties in Brooklyn ). *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

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THE BEAR HUNT ( West Harlem ). Run by the same people who run The Men'sParty. I've never been because I'm not a bear, and only into musclebears--which I hear this is not a place to meet them. $25 donation. www.bearhuntnyc.com

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NEW YORK JACK (Chelsea) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO--and only like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. But it's ONLY jo anyway. Sun & Tues; $25 donation.http://www.nyjacks.com

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DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Financial District). Held in a clean studio apartment in a doorman building near Rector subway stop). Motto: Sex Party for All Men - No Attitude, Friendly Environment; CLAIMS: Hot guys ages 20's - 40's+; Doors open 9pm - 10pm (open until midnight); $20 donations. I've only been once -- mostly out-of-shape & old guys, with a few hotties. It's a new party -- the host is cool, so has possibilities. EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

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STICKY RICE PARTY (Gramercy) An exclusive Asian sex party in NYC for "young, hot, lean, in shape asianguys" between 18 - 35. Everyone pitches in for cost of hotel, and bringstheir own condoms. Needles to say, I've never been. Saturdays. Email for invite: sticky-rice-party-nyc@googlegroups.com

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JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." On hiatus,but looking for a new spot. Had HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. The party is back on. Three nights next week! www.jacksofcolor.com

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GALLERY OF MEN (Garment District) every two weeks, 20s - 40s mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. Not sure how to get on the guest list anymore - must have your email on the list for admission. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that.Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

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BODY BUILDER SEX PARTY ( Manhattan )For body builders only (and their slaves). The parties are always held indiscreet locations with at least 10 bodybuilders. www.bodybuildersexparty.com

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NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) From Next..."Not a real sex party...as sex is not allowed, but you willfind plenty of guys being manually stimulated (yes, hand jobs are fine) while tied up or bound in all sorts of contraptions. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. Most guys remain fully or partially clothed and the fun of the party is watching various bondage scenes unfold." guys, Sundays. www.NYBondageClub.com

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BMOCO (Tribeca) "Big Men of Color". Has held events at hotel downtown -- very dark, hard to see anyone-- not great crowd. EMAIL: bmocoparty@gmail.com

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Brooklyn Group Parties..

Brooklyn…

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn) Brooklyn ? Hot group of guys, some attitude. 30-60 guys attend in their 20-40s. $25 for new guys, $15 for members, $10 for hot students.*Send pics & Stats to: hotbklynparty@prodigy.net

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THE MEATPACKERS/PITSSTOP PARTY(Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. I haven’t been to this is years, but was hot and a little scary, which made it hotter. Held the 1st Saturday of each month (according to their telephone info).Must call: 212-677-3599

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THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) I've never been, but am told it's for Black and Latino guys, and guyswho love big black cocks. Safe sex for in shape guys—huge space, held everyweekend. http://thugs4thugsex.com

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COLLEGE WATER SPOTS KEGGER PARTY/GOLDEN BOYS USA ( Brooklyn ) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old, and get into (or tolerant of) guys pissing on other guys. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). (I've never been to this one. This was reported to me by the promoter. Email me for their website.) Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. Second Saturday of every other month. ALSO have general UNDERWEAR parties every so often.www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

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THE MASSAGE PARTY ( Brooklyn ) It's a good massage party...a bit slow going at first, but then it heatsup. Can be very sexy. www.massageparty.info

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HOTPARTIES 2006 (Queens). Party is held in a private apartment, on Saturdays. $20 donation. Also has parties in Manhattan & Queens. *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

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HAPPY LANDING (Brooklyn)From Next..."like a scene from John Cameron Mitchell’s film Shortbus,Happy Landing is a Brooklyn queer art/music/sex party. Held in a secretwarehouse basement, the party’s patrons are greeted with a bright neonwonderland (the walls are literally covered in neon-painted junk) where DJsspin, liquor flows and boys and girls (yes, vagina) roam around in variousstates of undress. While the winding backroom maze features a mattress and a sling, the atmosphere is more hipster social than dirty dungeon." ($0–$20admission), 100 (including girls). Every couple of months. email to…HappyLandingHQ@gmail.com

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Queens Sex Parties...

Queens ...

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

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HOTPARTIES 2006 (Queens). Party is held in a private apartment, on Saturdays. $20 donation. Also has parties in Manhattan & Brooklyn. *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

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Man2ManPlay (Corona) This party is held in a private apartment; Fridays, 8PM to 3AM; $20 donation.For Invite: Man2ManPlay@ yahoo.com

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Bronx Sex Party...

Bronx...

BMOCO ( Bronx ) "Big Men of Color". All types of black men and bears and admirers.Someone wrote me..."Went there once, the neighborhood intimidated me butmade me hot even more. I was very nervous when I went in but eventually I was invited into the dark room and was surprised how big men wanted me. I became a true slut."
EMAIL: bmocoparty@gmail.com

New Jersey Sex Parties...

New Jersey …

NJ PARTY (Fairlawn) Held in a duplex apartment - upstairs is turned over to the party for 2 hours weekday lunch times and one evening each week - schedule varies; $20 - soda, condoms and lube provided.

EMAIL pics and stats: NJPARTY@aol.com

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RED LIGHT ZONE PARTY ( Jersey City , NJ ) Party is close to Journal Square — a huge PATH hub in Jersey — and has avery attractive host. The first time I went, I met a couple of hung daddies, but each subsequent time the crowd's been hung black guys. It's a good vibe, so if you're into Afr-AM guys, it's a good place to be. The place is clean and there's no attitude. Door open 11pm-3am, but you can stay to 5am. Snacks, drinks, beer, alcohol, condoms and lube all provided free all night! $20 donation at the door. Those who come Friday get half off on Saturday. Email for invite: redlightzoneparty@yahoo.com

NOTE: NOT SURE THIS IS STILL HAPPENING.
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ANOTHER SEX PARTY 70s PORN (Manhattan).

ANOTHER SEX PARTY 70s PORN (Manhattan). I've not been to this one -- so all this info is from someone who just emailed me and suggested I add the info. He says it's "the hottest I have ever attended." Periodic -- never get advance warning. It's odd because it is a mix of straight men who like the porn and don't even look at the other guys much and gay men who do nothing but look at the other guys, and only glance at the porn. About 12 men each party. Preference is given to hairy men; from really handsome to normal but no fat or very old men. Social yes, wine is served as is lube.

FOR INVITE: Send a face and full description to playevents@gmail.com

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

NJ PARTY (Fairlawn)

NJ PARTY (Fairlawn) Held in a duplex apartment - upstairs is turned over to the party for 2 hours weekday lunch times and one evening each week - schedule varies; $20 - soda, condoms and lube provided.
EMAIL pics and stats: NJPARTY@aol.com

Friday, September 18, 2009

AM: After Hours Party (Times Square).

AM: After Hours Party (Times Square).

This is a new party held in the same studio/loft space as a number of other parties on West 39th. I haven't been yet. Let me know if you've gone, and what you think of it...

AM is a private, selective, and exclusive party only for good looking in shape guys. This is a SAFE & DRUG FREE PARTY. Party takes place after you've been everywhere else on Sunday night: Monday mornings from 3am - 10am.
For invite, email James: aminnyc1@yahoo.com

Friday, September 4, 2009

DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Financial District).

DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Financial District). Held in a clean studio apartment in a doorman building near Rector subway stop). Motto: Sex Party for All Men - No Attitude, Friendly Environment; CLAIMS: Hot guys ages 20's - 40's+; Doors open 9pm - 10pm (open until midnight); $20 donations. I've only been once -- mostly out-of-shape & old guys, with a few hotties. It's a new party -- the host is cool, so has possibilities.
EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Found on CL: NEW YORK CITY GAY SEX PARTIES-MY REVIEWS

These are not my reviews. I found them on CL, but thought you'd be interested...

MY REVIEWS OF GAY NEW YORK SEX PARTIES-just my unsolicited,non-bias thoughts on what is out there. ** BMOC-Big Men Of Color-This party is exactly what it claims to be:an unscreened group of large men of color and those that admire them. The parties are in various locations but usually bi-weekly in the Bronx. The parties are inclusive and friendly but rather narrow in their clientele. Nevertheless,if this crowd is your thing it well worth checking out.

***NEW YORK JOCK PARTY-This is a true Chelsea party with a hot group of guys in a narrow age range of about 25-35. These well-organized parties are held in a clean apartment usually twice each month.E mailed photos are the criteria but you must match what you send. If you are eye candy and like watching other bob bons-this is the party. Attitude permeates the atmosphere with the feeling that almost everyone is waiting for something better to come along. Thus the action is minimal and hardly inclusive. Tends to be a hot underwear party where the action takes place later and elsewhere if you can hook-up.Nevertheless it is about the hottest voyeur action you will find in NYC.

*****NEW YORK BY NIGHT (NYBN)-This party really does live up to its claim of "well-built,well-groomed,handsome professionals".You may not want to be bothered by the host's(Richard) requirement of screening by phone followed by a personal interview but it pays off in attracting a stellar group of guys. From college cuties to established (but hot) suits -age range is 20's thru 40's. There is a wonderful inclusive social atmosphere and all the safe action you might want -pressure free and very friendly. Held in a large clean garment district loft NYBN is very strict about the safe-sex and drug free policy. You will have to be fit,bright and personable to get on the membership list which seems to create some controversy on CL from those who do not make the cut.. Try NYBN if you are new to these things or if you believe that the gay scene is jaded and insular-you will be in for a rare treat (an addictive one) I don't miss this party!

**BISHOP-This is an unscreened party held monthly in various hotel rooms around the city . Usually a lunchtime party and a cocktail hour party later that day. Attracts a very varied group of older guys who like the timing. Usually 15-20 men but not social and a bit awkward if you are hesitant to participate. They keep it organized but do little to make it more appealing. Probably worth a try if you can only get away from the spouse(wife or husband) at lunch time. 0*'s GALLERY-Consider yourself lucky not to be solicited to this seedy,filthy dark garment districxt party.Held weekly and actually gets a couple dozen guys-its too dark to see what they look like but you know they are there. Management is curt if not downright rude.These guys are not doing the community any favors. Conjures up pre-stonewall gay underground life.I don't want that kind of nostalgia but you may.

***NEW YORK JACK's-The original New York Jerk off party. Weekly and not screened it is a welcoming friendly atmosphere if maybe it could be cleaner.Strict"lips above hips" policy.The crowd could not be more varied from the frightened twink to the elder bear.This can be fun for some naked j/o but most of you can do better on your own. There are several off-shoot parties on their website that i hear are better.i will be checking them out soon. Let me know what you guys think and the other parties out there that need reveiwing....and i will post this occassionally to offer some guidance.

http://newyork.craigslist.org/mnh/m4m/1225155603.html

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

New York By Night (Garment District)

Went the the great New York By Night party last Wednesday (3/18). They had a huge turnout -- at least 100 guys. I heard from the host that he had at least 25 new guys. The crowd ran a wide variety from the twinks (and their admirers) -- who all seemed to migrate to the couch by the TV (playing porn) to the muscular guys who were fucking on the sectional. There were every kind of guy in between Was a hot time. Got fucked and fucked more often than I care to admit...had one less guy than I wanted, and one more than I should have.

Already looking forward to the party next month.

*Send pics & Stats to: RBN33@MSN.com.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Next Magazine: Always wanted to try a sex party?

And don't miss this article (not mine)...

http://www.nextmagazine.com/features/index.php


The Life of the Party
Photographer Joe Oppedisano takes fetish fashion below the bible’s belt
Always wanted to try a sex party? From the kinky to the vanilla, find one that’s right for you

One of the best things about living in Manhattan is that you can get whatever you want any time you want it. Sex parties are no exception to the rule. Many people know that they exist, but don’t know where to find them or are too nervous to actually try one out. So we’re taking the mystery out of some of the city’s hottest parties. Though we’re keeping the locations secret (most of them are selective about who they invite) here’s everything you ever wanted to know. Now go out and play safe, kids.

• New York Jock PartyWhere: Hell’s KitchenWhen: Once or twice a month, usually on Fridays. Starts at 10pmHow to get invited: Email NYJockParty@yahoo.comNumber of Guys: About 80
This party is like a night at a bar in Chelsea on fast-forward. Muscular, attractive guys abound (all in their underwear or less, thanks to the mandatory clothes check) but there’s also a lot of attitude. Held in what seems to be a two-floor residence with hanging curtains to separate the space and beds, benches and couches for the action, the whole event is very organized. There are usually more guys standing around watching or waiting for something better to come along than actually getting it on, but if you want a night full of the city’s hottest guys ripe for the picking, this is the place to go.

• Happy LandingWhere: BrooklynWhen: Every couple of monthsHow to get invited: Email: HappyLandingHQ@gmail.comNumber of Guys: About 100 (including girls)
like a scene from John Cameron Mitchell’s film Shortbus, Happy Landing is a Brooklyn queer art/music/sex party. Held in a secret warehouse basement, the party’s patrons are greeted with a bright neon wonderland (the walls are literally covered in neon-painted junk) where DJs spin, liquor flows and boys and girls (yes, vagina) roam around in various states of undress. While the winding backroom maze features a mattress and a sling, the atmosphere is more hipster social than dirty dungeon. Plus, the sliding scale admission ($0–$20) and the pay-what-you-can bar means those without funds aren’t turned away.

• New York By NightWhere: Garment DistrictWhen: Once a month, usually the first Tuesday or Sunday of the month starting at 8:30pmHow to get invited: Email RBN33@MSN.comNumber of Guys: About 60
While the vetting process for an invitation—a telephone and pre-party, in-person interview with host Richard—may seem like a bit much, it really helps add to the social and inclusive atmosphere of the party. Held in a large loft apartment and attended mostly by handsome men over thirty and a few hot young bucks, the party invokes a sense of camaraderie that is rare at these sorts of soirées. People socialize before and after the action (and during “rests”) and the play tends to include a number of people rather than pairs heading off into their separate corners. This makes New York By Night the closest thing there is to an actual orgy, but you wouldn’t think that giving the civilized vibe of the affair.

• New York Bondage ClubWhere: ChelseaWhen: Every Sunday from 6pm–10pmHow to get invited: Visit NYBondageClub.comNumber of Guys: About 30
This isn’t a real sex party, since no sex is allowed, but you will find plenty of guys being manually stimulated (yes, hand jobs are fine) while tied up or bound in all sorts of contraptions. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. Most guys remain fully or partially clothed and the fun of the party is watching various bondage scenes unfold. Of course, you could be asked (or rather, ordered) to participate, but if you weren’t looking to be on the receiving end of a rope burn, you wouldn’t be in attendance now, would you…

• Grab AssWhere: ChelseaWhen: Every Wednesday from 8pm–1amHow to get invited: Visit CumMonkey.comNumber of Guys: About 20
Held in a discreet but easy-to-find Chelsea play space, the Grab Ass party is as close as you’ll get to an old-fashioned sex club, but with a new twist: it operates on a “harm reduction” platform, offering confidential, rapid-results HIV testing on the premises so that participants can know their status before the fun starts (or even during). Not surprisingly, safe sex is encouraged and condoms and lube are readily available in the several rooms and dark hallways of the club. The men tend to be on the older side, but there is good racial diversity and a number of sexy younger gentlemen of color.

• West Side ClubWhere: Chelsea/Union SquareWhen: 24/7How to get invited: Just show up, or visit WestSideClubNYC.comNumber of Guys: Varies
The West Side Club, and its sister site, the East Side Club, are the closest things that New York still has to a traditional bathhouse. Visitors pay for a membership (either temporary or otherwise) and either a locker or a more spacious “changing room.” Towels are provided so you can cruise the clean and well-kept two floors on your way to the showers—or somewhere else. What the crowd is like depends on the time of day and day of the week, but a recent Friday night saw about 50 guys hanging out, many of whom were quite attractive and frisky. There is often on-site HIV testing administered by professionals, but the club’s staff could stand to be a bit friendlier.

Happy Landing (Brooklyn)

HAPPY LANDING (Brooklyn)From Next..."like a scene from John Cameron Mitchell’s film Shortbus, Happy Landing is a Brooklyn queer art/music/sex party. Held in a secret warehouse basement, the party’s patrons are greeted with a bright neon wonderland (the walls are literally covered in neon-painted junk) where DJs spin, liquor flows and boys and girls (yes, vagina) roam around in various states of undress. While the winding backroom maze features a mattress and a sling, the atmosphere is more hipster social than dirty dungeon." ($0–$20 admission), 100 people (including girls). Every couple of months.

For info email to…HappyLandingHQ@gmail.com

New York Bondage Club (Chelsea)

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) From Next..."Not a real sex party...as sex is not allowed, but you will find plenty of guys being manually stimulated (yes, hand jobs are fine) while tied up or bound in all sorts of contraptions. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. Most guys remain fully or partially clothed and the fun of the party is watching various bondage scenes unfold." guys, Sundays.

For more info...www.NYBondageClub.com

Paying for Sex?

People always ask me why should they should pay to get into these parties...or in essence, pay for sex...

"Good sex is worth paying for if you have the money, just as a good concert is worth the price of admission..." (Rick Whitaker, Assuming the Position).

I agree -- also, you are paying for help cover the cost of the space, the condoms, the booze, and the energy is went into putting it together. If you've ever tried to even set up a threesome, you know how difficult a setting up a sex party can be.

It's usually $20 or $25, which you'd just waste anyway.

Friday, March 13, 2009

RMO – Real Men Only (Queens)

REAL MEN ONLY PARTY (Fresh Meadows, Queens)
Apartment, may move to a hotel. No attitude group orgy; Mixed group: 20s-40s, all races, no attitude. Saturday nights & Sundays afternoons. Donation – $5.00

Respectful, very discrete, and no attitude group orgy... This party caters to men of all ages, all races, all sizes, and all cocks.. No pressure party for real men that like to be intimate with other real men. Tops, bottoms, gay, straight, curious, bi-sexual, tri-sexual…it’s all good. They do not discriminate; no drama, no attitude – just a chill fuck fest. However, they appreciate everyone’s participation. If you feel uncomfortable in your underwear or naked, this is not the party for you.

Send pics and stats to...slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

Body Builder Sex Party (Manhattan)

BODY BUILDER SEX PARTY (Manhattan) For body builders only (and their slaves). The parties are always held in discreet locations with at least 10 bodybuilders.

Body Builders: Must be very well built (bodybuilder physiques NOT swimmers builds) You are free to bring along your own sex partner (male or female) to the parties. This is NOT JUST A SEX PARTY. This party is for muscle into muscle for mutual muscle play, and an opportunity to meet with and increase your network of bodybuilder friends.

Slaves: From time to time they invite a number of slave boys to the parties--the purpose of the slaves is to worship and service the bodybuilders who attend the parties. Body builders can have a slave give them a full body massage, or just flex their bicep in a slaves face and order them to lick it. If they want to get raunchy, the slaves are only too happy to service their every sexual need. Slaves must be clean & well groomed, with toned athletic/muscular tonedbodies.

Sound hot or what? I'm applying to be a slave.

For more info...www.bodybuildersexparty.com

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Gallery of Men Party (Garment District)

GALLERY OF MEN (Garment District) Every two weeks, guys in their 20s - 40s. Smoking area within the facility. $20 admission first hour, $25 after that.

Okay men...I've never been to this, just heard about it today. The guy wrote me that dudes who go are mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days -- which means a mix of guys. Unfortunately, he reports that there's a lot of BB fucking, which is not cool at a group sex party (at least in my opinion). Anyway, I hope to give it a try. Be safe...

Must email face & body pics & stats to...mailto:pics...thegallerynyc@yahoo.com.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Red Light Zone Party (Jersey City)

RED LIGHT ZONE PARTY (Jersey City, NJ) The place is clean and there's no attitude. Door open 11pm-3am, but you can stay to 5am. Snacks, drinks, beer, alcohol, condoms and lube all provided free all night! $20 donation at the door. Those who come Friday get half off on Saturday.

I haven't been to this yet -- but may go this weekend. A friend got me invited. This is what someone wrote me..."Party is close to Journal Square — a huge PATH hub in Jersey — and has a very attractive host. The first time I went, I met a couple of hung daddies, but each subsequent time the crowd's been hung black guys. It's a good vibe, so if you're into Afr-AM guys, it's a good place to be."

Send pic and stats to....redlightzoneparty@yahoo.com

Sticky Rice Party (Gramercy)

STICKY RICE PARTY (Gramercy) An exclusive Asian-only sex party in NYC for "young, hot, lean, in shape Asian guys" between 18 - 35. Everyone pitches in for cost of hotel, and brings their own condoms. Saturdays.

Needles to say, I've never been. If you are an Asian dude, only into other Asian dudes, then man here is Mecca.

email for invite: sticky-rice-party-nyc@googlegroups.com

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Cum Monkey/Grab Ass Party (Chelsea)

Cum Monkey/Grab Ass Party (Chelsea) Studio space, not apartment. Usually 30-50 guys attend, from 20-30-40 YOs. Every Wednesday. $25, plus $2 for clothes check.

Since this re-started a few months ago is much better class of guys, much hotter mix, some attitude. The host is very cool. Can be an amazing group of guys -- sometime lots of very hot guys -- usually a mix of ages and body types -- always someone fuckable, and lots of guys, so you're pretty much guaranteed a good time.

Check it out at... www.CumMonkey.com

A-Plus Muscle (Downtown)

A-Plus Muscle (Downtown) Hot Muscle Studs only.

Has anyone ever been to this? I found it listed in HX-- but have never been.

Try emailing them at aplusmuscle@aol.com

Hot Brooklyn Party (Brooklyn)

Hot Brooklyn Party (Brooklyn) Hot group of guys, some attitude. 30-60 guys attend in their 20-40s. $25 for new guys, $15 for members, $10 for hot students.


Send pics & Stats to: hotbklynparty@prodigy.net

The Massage Party (Brooklyn)

Touch in Brooklyn/Massage Party (Brooklyn). Its a good party...a bit slow going at first, but then it heats up.Very sexy.

Check it out at www.massageparty.info

Water Sports/Golden Boys (Brooklyn)

College Water Sports Kegger Parties/Golden Boys USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old, and get into (or tolerant of) guys pissing on other guys. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). (I've never been to this one. This was reported to me by the promoter.) Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. Second Saturday of every other month. …

Check them out at www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

Thugs 4 Thugs Sex Party (Brooklyn)

Thugs 4 Thugs Sex Party (Brooklyn) I've never been, but am told it's for guys who love big black cocks. $15 donation. (You can save $5 for each additional person you bring with. If you bring 1 person you donate $10, but your guest still pays $15. If you bring 2 people you donate $5 and if you bring 3 or more, you donate nothing, but your guest still pay their $15)

Weekly safe sex party for in-shape Black and Latino guys. No shirts or under shirts allowed. Every Friday, Saturday 12:00 midnight - 7:00am & Sunday 9:00pm - 3:00am.

Check them out at http://thugs4thugsex.com/

Jacks of Color (Harlem)

JACKS OF COLOR (Harlem). A New York City Club For Men of Color & their Friends. HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages.

This party is unfortunately on hiatus, but looking for a new spot. The host is a really cool guy, and hopefully will get this party started again.

Check them out at www.jacksofcolor.com

Ed & Steve Group (Upper Manhattan)

ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan). Private apartment. Interracial gay group that meet twice a month. $20.

This very nice gay couple -- one black & one white -- host this gay parties on Sundays about twice a month. they get about 80+ guys -- mostly regulars, and about 10-15 new guys each time.

Check it out at...http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve

SKYBLU (Harlem)

SKYBLU (Harlem) For older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.

Okay -- I've never been to this because I'm white and too young. But it sounds like a cool party for older dudes.

Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/

Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE-subscribe@yahoogroups.com


The NYJockparty (Chelsea)

The NYJockparty (Chelsea) Held in a beautiful loft apartment. Guys in the 20s-30s. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month. $25.

This is one of the MOST discriminating parties -- also one of the hottest, and filled with ATTITUDE. The host of the party guards the door and turns guys away if you are not hot enough for him (I don't think he could get into his own party). The website has pics of many of the guys that attend--and the pic are accurate: The NYJock Party has the hottest guys with the most attitudes.

BUT...For me this is NOT my favorite party and sometimes can be a bore --If you're there just to watch it's great: Gorgeous guys. The downside, to me, is really the attitude. It's very clicky. Many of the guys think they are too hot for anybody -- so most guys just stand around and look at each other -- NOT a lot of action at the party, and it can be a boring. Also, I have a hot muscular body, and still have to work like dog to get attention. Sometimes it's too much work. If you DON'T have a killer body and face -- just forget it -- you'll be ignored. That said the guys are amazing!

Just to warn you before you apply that the host of this party is a major asshole--who couldn't get into his own party. I go to this every so often because there are some really hot guys, but the little queen who runs it is a big turnoff.

Check out their website: http://www.nyjockparty.com/.

The Meatpackers (Brooklyn/Park Slope)

The Meatpackers (Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. 1st & 2nd Sat of each month.

I was hanging out with one of my goofy friends who lives in Brooklyn a few years ago, and he said he'd been going to this hot sex party in a basement nearby. The party was starting in a few hours -- so we went. I have to say the party was hot, but basement was a little scary, which in a way made it even hotter. The basement is filled with tiny closet-like rooms with windows so other dudes could watch, and wooden beds with mattresses, and everywhere chain-link fences. Some areas were well lit, but other areas were dark. It was a weird setting for me for sex party -- very back alley Castro District 1974 -- but fucking hot. Mostly hot guys of all ages. Good mix of white, Hispanic and some amazingly hot black guys -- a number of whom fucked the hell out of me in those tiny rooms -- and one up against the chain fence.

I haven’t been to this is years, but if it's still half as hot, give it a shot.

The only way to get in touch with the host is to call: 212-677-3599.

Butt Lickers (Chelsea)

Butt Lickers (Chelsea). Rimming parties once a month.

I've never been to this one either, but a dude asked me to post info on it. He said it was his favorite party, but he didn't really like the space.

If you're into rimming. just contact them...nybutt@yahoo.com

New York Jacks (Chelsea)

NEW YORK JACKS (Chelsea). Mutual masturbation party held at Paddles, doors open 7:30 to 9:00PM, party until 11PM; $20 NYJacks members with membership card$25 guest

You like JO and JO only-- well, dudes, here is heaven for you: Mutual masturbation between consenting adults is legal AND safe. I've never been -- JO to me means it's time to go home, but if you're into it, this is how they describe the place -- Guys of all ages, body types, sizes: tall, short, hairy, well endowed, young, older, all races, gay, married, bi-, etc. They don’t discriminate against physical attributes, only inappropriate behavior.

A dude asked me to post this. If you're into JO, this is it men.

For more infor, please check out...http://www.nyjacks.com

The Bana Pool Party (Downtown)

BANA POOL PARTY (Downtown) In a club: a huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dancefloor, bars.$40-50 general admission, $60-80 gets you a locker+, and $100 VIP pass.

This party is cool -- and more social than most of the parties--you can dance, swim, hang out and have a good time. The crowd is filled with hot to average guys all looking to have a fun night.

A lot of hot guys have written me about this party-- all positive stuff--and everyone seems to have a hot time, no matter what you're looking for. They have a great website that explains everything.

BANYA (Chelsea)www.hotsteammachine.com or www.thebanapoolparty.com

B.I.S.H.O.P. (Downtown/Midtown)

BISHOP (Downtown/Midtown) Hotel room either in Midtown or Downtown. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20.

Okay -- I guess tonight it bitch night. I've written 3 blogs about the 3 worse parties--at least to me. As for BISHOP, I'll admit I’ve never been to this party -- and it's because they take anyone. They are always advertising on CL. I feel I can comment because dozens of dudes have written to me about this---almost all negative.

The good news first: One guy reported that the party can be pretty hot, because it attracts a wide group of types, ages, ethnic groups without discrimination. (It is the only sex group I know of that meets at lunchtime) -- which is perfect for the dude who works nights, or dudes with wives who think they are at a business lunch.

About a dozen guys wrote me that the party is filled with really old fat guys who couldn't get into the other parties (well, maybe The All Male Party). They say there are usually a few hot guys there clumped together. I number of people comment that the host freaked them out, and is not cool. Most of the reports are pretty standard, and none (except the one) positive. Sorry dudes -- it's why I don't attend: they don't screen, and let anybody in.

If you want to attend, email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group.info@gmail.com.

All Male Party (Midtown West)

All Male Party (Midtown West). In apartment. 25-50 guys.

I haven't been to this one in years for two reasons...

1. The party is way too expensive: they have this weird fee structure where you join up for a year or for gang bangs or whatever (check out their website), and they make you fill out all this ridiculous forms. DUDES--I want to get fucked, I don't want to join a fucking country club. Also, I can't understand why they need all those details about my life.

2. I could have forgiven the fucking fee structure, and all the dumn forms, if the party was filled with hot, sexy guys. Men--this was the shittiest party I have ever attend. The fat guys were only outnumbered by the ugly guys. I didn't know where they found all these trolls. Some were actually gross--and aggresive. There was only one dude I would even go near, and the two us just fucked in a corner while all these assholes tried to paw us and watch us fuck. I never returned. I don't know how they keep in business, except that they offer to let guys under 22 or something in free -- I guess to visit their grandfathers. Avoid, AVOID, AVOID!!!

If you're into trolls, have at it guys...www.AllMaleParty.com.

The Men's Party & Bear Hunt (West Harlem)

The Men's Party (West Harlem) Held in a big apartment in West Harlem. The party is a mix from some hot young guys to some fat guys. Has sling. Usually has about 30-50 guys attendings from 30-40 YOs. NOT a safe sex party. Have parties once a week. $25.

When this party was on W96 -- I thought it was hot, and usually had a good time. Generally a few really hot dudes, and then a mix of average guys to a few trolls. The host was a nice guy and often had HIV tests and was very social. Then the party moved to Brooklyn, and I lost touch for a while. At least a year ago (not sure), the party moved back to Manhattan and set up shop in a large apartment in West Harlem. I started going again, and was did not like the new vibe—too sleazy for me, and not in a hot way. There were fewer hot guys, and most of the tops (not very hot) there only wanted to BB. (The party is not strict about safe sex.) Also the tops either ignored you when you said you wanted to use a condom, or just pretened to have one on and tried to fuck you anyway -- not cool. So I stopped going.

The host is pissed at me for blogging about this, but that's my experience at his party -- and it's NOT COOL.

If you don't care, here's how to reach them... www.themensparty.com

They also, hosts a bear party (which I've never been to), but if that's your thing, it's BEAR HUNT...www.bearhuntnyc.com

The Red Light Zone Party (Jersey City)

RED LIGHT ZONE PARTY (Jersey City, NJ)
I just heard about this party this week. Some dude, wrote me about it and sent me info. He said that the Red Light Zone Party is close to Journal Square — a huge PATH hub in Jersey — and has a very attractive host. The first time he went, he met a couple of hung daddies, but each subsequent time the crowd's been hung black guys. It's a good vibe, so if you're into Afr-Am guys, it's a good place to be. The place is clean and there's no attitude. Door open 11pm-3am, but you can stay to 5am. Snacks, drinks, beer, alcohol, condoms and lube all provided free all night! $20 donation at the door. Those who come Friday get half off on Saturday.

Here's how the reach them...redlightzoneparty@yahoo.com

Anyone ever been to this? Let me know your experience...

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

New York By Night (Midtown West)

New York By Night (Midtown West) Great party in large loft with sofas. Generally good mix of guys from hot to average 20-40 YOs. This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very safe a clean atmosphere, no attitude. 30-50 guys attend, once a month. $25.

I started going to this party about a year ago, and wasn't really into it at first. It was a little too vanilla, too casual and social, and a little too much touching and sucking, and not enough fucking. Still, there were always some hot guys and I'd go every so often. The party has become one of my favorites -- for a few reasons (although I still wish there was more fucking).

1. The group that goes is very consistant, so you really get to know the guys there-- which I thought I would hate -- but once a month is very cool. You talk and fuck. The social aspect is very fun -- and if you don't want to socialize--that's cool too. The guys range from very hot little twinks to some very hot muscular guys to toned average guys -- but usually everyone that goes to this party is very fuckable. Plus there are ALWAYS new guys too.

2. The space is amazing -- a beautiful loft and couches and a place to shower afterwards and towels -- there's also a bar and booze.

3. The host is a very cool guy. He runs a tight ship -- no unsafe sex, and he is very nice and generous.

This has become the one party I try not to miss -- and you should definitely go. It's not intense or insane like Stalone, but always a very hot, good time.

You can find the host through craigslist. Search "New York by Night". It's usually listed something like..."PRIVATE*EXCLUSIVE*MONTHLY*SAFE-SEX/SOCIAL EVENT*FIT PROFESSIONALS18-45 - (Midtown West)"

The Olympus Party (Gramercy)

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) In new space: penthouse duplex complete with various-themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, space holds over 200 guys, attendance ranges over 100 naked men, and maxing out at 200 guys, every Friday. $20 donation to get in.

I've been to this a few times. The first time I went too early and the crowd was not hot--no gym bodies and guys really too old for sex parties. I fucked around with this one guy about my age who I'd met at another party and then went home. After the party he told me that I'd left too early -- so I tried it again, and had a much better time. The crowd really changes after 11 or midnight when guys start coming in from the bars. There were some really hot guys there -- and had a few nice fucks, and sucked some big dicks. The crowd has been better each time I go.

Definitely worth your (late) Friday night.

Muscle Group (West Harlem)

Muscle Group (West Harlem) In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from incredibly hot guys to very average dudes. The host is a big guy, can be too much for some. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20- mostly 30- some 40 YOs. Have parties at random. Free.

I've been to this party a few times -- and I have to admit it's one of my favorite. I fucked and sucked and been fucked by some amazing hot guys here. Some of the hottest guys I've seen at these parties, I've seen at Muscle Group. I also like the studio apartment -- there's one bed and it keeps everyone on top of each other which can be cool. Also -- you never know who will walk in -- sports guys, actors, young twinks, muscular bears, gym guys. No attitude.

The only problem is that it's hit or miss. Sometimes it's packed. Sometimes no one shows up and it's you and the host and one other dude. Also the crew who shows up can be mixed. The crowd isn't always amazing -- some very average guys or guys who really need to get a gym member ship sometimes make it through the door. Still -- for me -- it's been more hits than misses. Also -- it's FREE! Condom, lube and poppers supplied.

The other thing is the host. He can be a really cool guy. He this very big Hispanic guy in his 30s. He can be very agressive in getting things going or if he wants to suck your dick (and that's all he does -- suck dicks and rim). He's a nice guy, but he's sometimes his agressiveness can be off-putting -- especially if you don't know him. That said-- if you don't let him bother you -- it's totally cool, and he can be very funny and fun. Don't let me put you off on this--just want to give you a heads up.

Check it out by sending pics & stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com.

I've had some of the best sex in the city here -- give it a shot. Parties are at random -- so I have no idea when. Ask to be added to the email list.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

The Hot Jock Party

I went to The Hock Jock Party tonight at the Hyatt on 42nd Street. The party was hot -- but the caliber of men has certainly declined since I attended last month. Don't know whether it was because it was Thursday instead of Sunday. Still -- there were many really hot guys -- but not a huge crowd.

Still worth attending -- I fucked a few guys, sucked some dick and got fucked twice. Give it shot, I'll be back next time. Any one else go?

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Stalone Party

Stalone Party (Midtown West) Unfortunately no longer exists, but had the best vibe of any group party in New York. Totally hot mix of guys, little attitude. 50-70 guys, every 2 weeks. Best party ever! $25

Okay -- this party doesn't exist anymore--but it was the BEST party in all of New York. It was so hot, so intense, and yet with little attitude, that it got me obsesses with sex parties. On a normal night I could easily get fucked by 10 or more hot guys.

It was always filled -- and always with really muscular guys. During circuit weekend, it was crazy packed--sometimes three rooms or more. There was a regular crew--who were hot--then always a bunch of new guys. Even the doorman was amazing and at the end of the party would come and join in. There was always a room filled with guys sucking and fucking each other alone or in groups. It was fun to participate and then rest and just watch the action. Sometimes there was a dark walk-in-closet where there were no rules, and guys would crowd in.

It held in a clean apartment with plenty of beer and drinks, which was cool -- so you could take a rest and talk to other naked guys.

PLEASE bring it back!

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

The Hot Jock Party

The Hot Jock Party (Moves, usually Midtown East) This party -- usually in hotel; some 20s, mostly 30s, some early 40s. Usually have 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25

The guy who runs this party used to run help with another party with the bitchy queen who runs The NYJock Party. The problem is that the bitchy queen, got the best guys. This party can be HOT, but it really is a mixed bag of hot guys, some average guys, and commuters catching the train back to Westchester--not every guy is that hot--it's a mix. I almost always have a hot time. Lots of fucking and sucking, in any combination you can think of. Also I like space. I always find hotel sex hot -- so hotel sex with 50 guys is very hot. I didn't like the studio space they used near Times Square. A little sleazy for me, but the hotels are nice. Some guys told me they don't like the "publicness" of the hotels, but it's clean and safe and cool by me.The good thing is that there's always lots of action at the party. If you want to get sucked, fucked, rimmed -- whatever -- it'll happen here.

Can be fun -- but hit or miss.

*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

It begins...the first list.

Below is a growing list of all the parties in New York--here's just a list of where, when, and how. I'll get into details and opinons in later blogposts.

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Manhattan

Cum Monkey/Grab Ass Party (Chelsea) Studio space, not apartment. Usually 30-50 guys attend, from 20-30-40 YOs. Every Wednesday. $25, plus $2 for clothes check.

The Hot Jock Party (Moves, usually Midtown West) This party -- usually in hotels or studio spaces -- mostly guys in 20s-early 30s. Usually 30-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. $25

New York By Night (Midtown West) In large loft with sofas. 30-50 guys attend, once a month. $25.

The NYJockparty (Midtown West) In apartment. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month. $25.

Muscle Group (West Harlem) In small studio apartment. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20YOs mostly 30YOs- some 40YOs. Have parties at random. Free.

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy) In new space: penthouse duplex complete with various-themed rooms, sling, and a viewing gallery overlooking all the action below, space holds over 200 guys, attendance ranges over 100 naked men, and maxing out at 200 guys, every Friday. $20 donation to get in.

The Men's Party (West Harlem) In big apartment in Harlem. Usually has about 30-50 guys attendings from 30-40 YOs. NOT a safe sex party. Have parties once a week. $25.

BISHOP (Downtown) Hotel room. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs, $20.

ALL MALE PARTY (Midtown West). In apartment. 25-50 guys, weird fee structure, check out their website.

BANA POOL PARTY (Manhattan) In a club. A huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dancefloor, bars.$40-50 general admission, $60-80 gets you a locker+, and $100 VIP pass.

JACKS OF COLOR (Manhattan)A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." On hiatus, but looking for a new spot. Had HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages.

ED AND STEVE GROUP (Upper Manhattan) Interracial gay group that meet twice a month.

A-Plus Muscle (Downtown) Hot Muscle Studs only.

BROOKLYN…

Hot Brooklyn Party (Brooklyn) 30-60 guys attend in their 20-40s. $25 for new guys, $15 for members, $10 for hot students.

The Meatpackers (Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. 1st & 2nd Sat of each month.

Thugs 4 Thugs Sex Party (Brooklyn) For guys who love big black cocks.

College Water Sports Kegger Parties/Golden Boys USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who are in-shape, 18-30 years old, and get into (or tolerant of) guys pissing on other guys. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs, $25. Second Saturday of every other month.

BK Freaky Brothers (Brooklyn)Safe sex for inshape thugs—huge space, held every weekend.

Touch in Brooklyn (Brooklyn)

Butt Lickers (Chelsea) Rimming parties once a month.

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Gone but not forgotten…

Stalone Party (Midtown West) Unfortunately no longer exists, but had the best vibe of any group party in New York. Totally hot mix of guys, little attitude. 50-70 guys, every 2 weeks. Best party ever! $25

Chelsea Studio/GCN is gone after having jumped around a few times.