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Sunday, October 31, 2010

Group Sex Parties -- Monday, November 1 to Sunday, November 7

Sex Parties -- Monday, November 1 to Sunday, November 7...

***PICK OF THE WEEK: Private Party (Sun)



Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea). "OUR NOVEMBER MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY #1", Doors, 7:00 - Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

Tuesday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. Held twice a week: Tuesdays and Thursdays.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is PEAK party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Paddles."
http://www.nyjacks.com

Wednesday…
HARD DRIVE! (Chelsea) New party from the guy who brought you GRAB ASS, but HARD DRIVE! will have a much stricted door policy! Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). The host had made a huge effort to get hotter guys -- check it out.
Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is the SLURP ORAL party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

HARLEM FREAK PARTY (Harlem) Weekly Wednesday Night Harlem Discreet Freak Party. Its gets better every week..with hotter guys!! Drinks/Condom/Lube provided. 2 rooms available for all nite fucking!! 12am-6am. email/text for more info!! iamthestylist@sprint.blackberry.net

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

ND2 (Midtown). This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are Wed nights. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

Thursday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. Held twice a week: Tuesdays and Thursdays.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). The first party last week had 45 guys. Tonight: 6-10pm. Ages 20's to 40. Discrete, Friendly, No Attitude environment at a private residence downtown. Clothes Check, condoms and lube provided (promote safe sex). For average to hot guys, mix, but younger crowd.
For invite send pics and stats to downtownmensparty@gmail.com

JACKS OF COLOR (Chelsea). "OUR THURSDAY NIGHT SPECIAL!" at "Paddles"; Doors 7:00 To Midnight, Goes 'Til 2 AM; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 6PM-MIDNIGHT. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Park Slope). 6pm-11pm. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. 9pm - 1am. This was once a hot party, but not really for an older crowd/for out-of-shape guys.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/
POSTPONED TO 11/17.

Friday…
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. 11pm-5am. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. 11:30PM-6AM. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

RIPPED (Hell's Kitchen) So after two weeks in Gramercy, it's back to Hell's Kitchen. Still, to get in, you have to interview at the Gramercy site on Friday nights to get on the waiting list. Worth it? probably not, but they claim that they are a hot underwear sex party for hunks and rugged masculine bodybuilder dudes, 100+ guys in great shape, all ages and races welcome, 9PM-4PM. For a young/hot crowd. You have to hit up "RippedSteel" on Adam4Adam with pics and email to get in

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). It's BACK at Gramercy (don't ask). Usually held on the top floor -- was once a HUGE 200+ person party. I heard the last few parties were sparsely attened by a mixed, older crowd. I'm sure it will grow back to be what it once was.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 9PM TO 4 AM. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna (OFTEN not working) and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.



Saturday…
Load NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) 8pm-2am. Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. For older out-of-shape guys.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

UPTOWN’S FINEST UNDERWEAR PARTY (Harlem). "Go to HELL and All The WAY to HEAVEN - A Halloween EVENT." 8pm-it ends. Held in an apartment – in total darkness this week – plus a garden to fuck outside. FOR Invite EMAIL: KAIZEN729@GMAIL.COM

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ASSTORIA BY NIGHT GANG FUCK PARTY (Astoria, Queens). Description by host: party filled with hot naked bi, gay, straight, married voyeurs and exhibitionists. The last party had muscled hairy greek & turks jocks, DL black boys, smooth pumped-up Brazilians, Latino studs, Italian dudes, Asian twinks, and rugged masculine middle eastern arabs eager to relieve their stress in a Dim orgy setting private luxury apt. Age 21 – 45 ONLY slim, athletic, muscle (All races welcomed). 11pm – 3am, STRICT door policy will be enforced, everyone WILL be screened with no exceptions. Must strip down naked at door. Alcohol & Soda refreshments provided. This is drug free & SAFE sex party Condoms & Lube provided.
TO GET IN SEND PICS AND STATS TO: asstorianparty@gmail.com

GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) every two weeks, 40s+ mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. A party for older out of shape guys.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). Hot Body Men's "OPEN HOUSE" Party; 6pm - 11:30pm. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. 9pm - 1am. This was once a hot party, but really for an older crowd/for out-of-shape guys.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

THE MEATPACKERS/PITSSTOP PARTY(Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. I haven’t been to this is years, but was hot and a little scary, which made it hotter. Held the 1st Saturday of each month (call the number for info--you'll get an answering machine). For a mixed age crowd/average to hot guys
Must call: 212-677-3599

Sunday…
PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt held once a month, 8pm-12am.. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, racially mixed, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45) -- 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new
guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.).
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6PM TO 3AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am; The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) 7pm-11pm, In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Chelsea Space."
http://www.nyjacks.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Gramercy) 6-10pm. Back on one floor of the Gramercy Duplex -- has guys in mostly 20s -30s-hot 40YOs. It's above average to mostly worked-out muscle guys, and racially mixed. Not a lot of attitude. Usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month, 7pm-11pm. For a mixed age hot crowd. Starts (and ends) a little early!
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

PUMPNYC (Midtown). New party from the guy who brought you NYJOCK PARTY. Very select: There will be no more than 50 guys allowed into the party and you will only have three hours to enter. PUMPNYC is about quality not quantity. 9pm-2am; Door will close at midnight (You not be allowed in after so get there by then); Includes: Bar. Snacks. Supplies.VERY HOT GUYS ONLY send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com.


HERE ALL THE PARTIES – LISTED BY CATEGORY/BURROUGH – INCLUDING PARTIES TO CHECK OUT THAT ARE NOT HAPPENING THIS WEEK…

Manhattan

THE BEST (The Top Parties -- for Hot Guys)

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt held once a month, 8pm-12am.. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45) -- 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new
guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.).
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-4am. Door closes at 3. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. 11pm-5am. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Gramercy) 7-11pm. Held in a studio space -- has guys in mostly 20s -30s-hot 40YOs. It's above average to mostly worked-out muscle guys. Not a lot of attitude. Usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month, 7pm-11pm. For a racially mixed younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

UPPER WEST SIDE UNDERWEAR PARTY (UWS) Haven't been yet, but sounds very hot. Doors open 10:30 to 12:30am (The party goes until its dead). There is no cover. Free liquor provided. This is a private apartment in a doorman building so discretion is a must. This is a private party so only the people who have been approved are invited. This is a fun atmosphere to chill hang out and play with hot guys. No obligation to participate if you don't want to. Will have porn and lube and condoms as well. For a young/hot crowd. To get in send pics and stats to underwearpartyuws@gmail.com.

AM: An All New After Hours Party (Midtown). AM is a private, selective, and hot party only for good looking in shape guys. Get about 80 guys. This is a SAFE & DRUG FREE PARTY. Party takes place after you've been everywhere else on Sunday night: Starts after midnight and goes until early Monday morning; Condoms, lube, water, Gatorade and more is provided. Same dude runs this who runs NYJP (and has a similar crowd to NYJP--when it was in Manhattan).
For invite, email James: aminnyc1@yahoo.com

PUMPNYC (Midtown). New party from the guy who brought you NYJOCK PARTY. Very select: There will be no more than 50 guys allowed into the party and you will only have three hours to enter. PUMPNYC is about quality not quantity. 9pm-2am; Door will close at midnight (You not be allowed in after so get there by then); Includes: Bar. Snacks. Supplies.VERY HOT GUYS ONLY send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com.

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Not a sex party, but a massage party…its about touch. The hosts says. "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 14 guys, 8:15pm to 10:45pm (door closes at 8:35 pm). Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries. They've been running these for two months now.
To Get in email the host: massagecoachnyc@gmail.com

BANA POOL PARTY ( Manhattan ) In a club. A huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dance floor, bars. Very cool party. Lots of fun. 11:59pm - 5AM
www.hotsteammachine.com
www.thebanapoolparty.com

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AVERAGE TO HOT GUYS (Mixed and spotty crowd -– Sometimes Very Hot, Sometimes not)....

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). It's BACK at Gramercy (don't ask). Description is from the host, not me: private Mediterranean-themed party for solid masculine men (italian, greek, latin, white, black, middle-eastern) over 200 naked hairy muscled jocks and smooth pumped-up studs, ages 21-45, powerful determined tops and hungry willing bottoms, lots of thick heavy uncut meat, 9pm-4am,
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (UES). Lunch-time party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men to hook up weekday afternoons, 11am-4pm.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s)
In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from
hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

ANOTHER SEX PARTY 70s PORN (West Harlem). I've not been to this one, but was told it's "the hottest I have ever attended." Seems to be held once or twice a year -- never get advance warning. It's odd because it is a mix of straight men who like the porn and don't even look at the other guys much and gay men who do nothing but look at the other guys, and only glance at the porn. About 12 men each party. Preference is given to hairy men; from really handsome to normal but no fat or very old men. Social yes, wine is served as is lube.
FOR INVITE: Send a face and full description to playevents@gmail.com

DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). Now in new spot in Gramercy. Haven’t been to the new location – but the former location had a great vibe with some average to hot guys. The host is very cool guy, who tries to be selective. He also hosted lunch-time parties in past, hopefully will bring this back too. For a mixed crowd/for average to hot guys.
EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

HARD DRIVE!/CUM MONKEY (Chelsea) Formerly Grab Ass. Held at Paddles. Every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). For a mixed crowd/for average guys. But trying to get more selective. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com

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NOT SELECTIVE (Basically Older and/or Out-shape-guys)

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) 7pm-11pm, In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

THE BEAR HUNT ( West Harlem ). Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.
www.bearhuntnyc.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy & Park Slope). The Manhattan party is held at the Gramercy Duplex, Brooklyn party held in Park Slope. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. 9pm - 1am. This was once a hot party, but not really for an older crowd/for out-of-shape guys.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. For older out-of-shape guys.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

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Alternative Specialty Parties…

SPAM PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. 11pm-4am! Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. They also run the SUBMIT PARTY. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) Sex is no longer banned (for about 6 months now). Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger
guys in. It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night.
www.NYBondageClub.com

FOREVER FISTING PARTY: Open door policy, every 2nd Wednesday at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com

S.O.S. MEN"S SPANKING PARTY (Chelsea). Held at Paddles. Newly formed group, which meets Thursday gets 40-65 men who are devoted to spanking and discipline. Check www.paddlesnyc.com for details about address, etc. EVERY 2nd and 4th Thursday of the month (except Nov. & Dec.) 8pm to 1am.
To subscribe to their yahoo group: paddles-nyc-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

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Specialty Parties Specifically for Interracial, African-American, Latino or Asian guys…

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). This party is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com

PAPI BROTHAS HOTEL SUITE PARTY (Midtown) A party for 20-40YO Black, Latin and Mixed guys ONLY held a hot hotel suite with open Bar, exotic dancers, sodas, wine, bottled water. Email pics/stats to Latinman4sexymen@aol.com or check out http://papibrothasnyc.blogspot.com/?zx=46415ca9e7e3bd93.

STICKY RICE PARTY (Gramercy) An exclusive Asian sex party in NYC for "young, hot, lean, in shape Asian guys" between 18 - 35. Everyone pitches in for cost of hotel, and brings their own condoms. Needles to say, I've never been. Saturdays.
Email for invite: sticky-rice-party-nyc@googlegroups.com

HARLEM FREAK PARTY (Harlem) Weekly Wednesday Night Harlem Discreet Freak Party. Its gets better every week..with hotter guys!! Drinks/Condom/Lube provided. 2 rooms available for all nite fucking!! 12am-6am. email/text for more info!! iamthestylist@sprint.blackberry.net

SKYBLU (Harlem ) Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.
Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/
Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com

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OPEN DOOR POLICY (let anybody in)...

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower (rarely works), porn room, sauna (rarely works) and with air conditioner. An older crowd/for out-of-shape guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THE PLAYGROUND (Garment District). Private M4M sex party, 11:30pm-4:30am. "Featuring 4 freak areas & heavy action!!" An older crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Supplies, liquids & clothescheck provided. Never been to this one.
Send pics + stats to playgroundnyc@yahoo.com.

HOT PARTIES 2006 (Chelsea). Party is held in “Chelsea Space” a private apartment/loft. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday and Tuesday Parties at "Chelsea Space" and "Paddles," respectively..
http://www.nyjacks.com

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PARTIES FOR OLDER and/or OUT OF SHAPE GUYS....

GYMJOX BOXER PARTY (Times Square). Haven't been yet, but hosts insists it's strictly for lean/fit guys under 40YO. 11:30pm-4:30am; Condoms, lube & liquids provided; Mandatory secure clothes check. No shirts or tees allowed. Haven't been yet, but many many guys have told me it's for an older, out of shape crowd. To get in email stats and pics to gymjoxnyc@yahoo.com.

GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) every two weeks, 40s+ mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. A party for older out of shape guys.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

BISHOP (Downtown) Hotel room. I’ve never been to this party because they take anyone -- ANYONE. One guy reported the he likes it because it attracts a wide group of types, ages, ethnic groups without discrimination. A party for older out of shape guys. I hear the host is NOT cool. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs.
*Email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com

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***AVOID****

ALL MALE PARTY (Midtown West).
In apartment. I haven't been to this one in years because its way too expensive, AND IT SUCKS -- the one time I went the FAT guys were only outnumbered by the UGLY guys. 25-50 guys, weird fee structure, check out their website. TOTAL waste of your time and money. PASS ON THIS ONE. AVOID!!!
www.AllMaleParty.com or email AllMaleParty@gmail.com

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Brooklyn…

COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who
are in-shape, 18-30 years old. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs. For a younger/hot crowd.
Email here ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn)
18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. Unlimited Cosmos and Beer 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

THE MEATPACKERS/PITSSTOP PARTY(Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. I haven’t been to this is years, but was hot and a little scary, which made it hotter. Held the 1st Saturday of each month (call the number for info--you'll get an answering machine). For a mixed age crowd/average to hot guys
Must call: 212-677-3599

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, held every Friday & Sat (12midnight-7am) and Sunday (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited. Also has WED night parties in the summer.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy & Park Slope). The Manhattan party is held at the Gramercy Duplex, Brooklyn party held in Park Slope. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party. 9pm - 1am. For an older out-of-shape crowd.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Park Slope) Sometimes has a joint party Brooklyn. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. 10pm-5am. The Manhattan party is better. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

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Queens ...

OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, 9pm-am (doors close at 10:30pm). Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. Now only accepting new guys who are under 35 years of age (exceptions made). For a mixed age/average to hot crowd.
Email pics + stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com.

ASSTORIA BY NIGHT (Astoria, Queens). 3rd ASSTORIA BY Night Fuck party filled with hot naked bi, gay, straight, married voyeurs and exhibitionists. Our last party had Muscled hairy greek & turks jocks, DL black boys, smooth pumped-up Brazilians, Latino studs, Asian twinks, and rugged masculine middle eastern arabs eager to relieve their stress in a Dim orgy setting private luxury apt. Age 20-45 ONLY slim, athletic, muscle (All races). 10pm-4am, STRICT door policy will be enforced, everyone WILL be screened with no exceptions. Unlock pics/send email for party info. Must strip down naked at door; Alcohol & Soda refreshments provided; This is drug free & SAFE sex party Condoms & Lube provided; Last time 80 guys came thru so come early cos once space fills up doors will be closed.
TO GET IN SEND PICS AND STATS TO: asstorianparty@gmail.com

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; Thursday, 6PM-MIDNIGHT, or Fridays, 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in private 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
For much older/out-of-shape guys. Not strict about safe sex. Same host as Real Men Only Party. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

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New Jersey …

MONMOUTH COUNTY PARTY (Tinton Falls). Lunch-time sex party held at hotel; Condoms lube bottled water provided; held in Penthouse Suite with beds & showers and plenty of room to play. Get 30 to 60 guys in a 4 hour time span. For an older/average crowd. For invite: mfactor62@yahoo.com


Saturday, October 30, 2010

THE LOAD NYC PARTY @Blue Door Video Basement in the East Village

So, I've been hearing about this party, but haven't had a chance to pursue the info. THE LOAD NYC PARTY is held at Blue Door Video Basement, and sounds like it could be fun. They are hosting a Halloween Sex Party tonight: HALLOWEEN FREAKFEST.



Also the space is sounds very cool. Blue Door Video Basement is a basement space set very discreetly behind a simple, unmarked door. Here is a decription of the space (http://gaytravel.about.com/od/gaydestinationgalleries/ig/Photos-of-Gay-East-Village-NYC/Club-82-Bijou-Cinema.htm) -- Blue Door Video Basement is "a quirky and happily sleazy little spot... You enter through the ominous unmarked door, descend the brightly lit stairs... Inside there's a 48-seat cinema that used to show gay porn and more recently has played conventional movies, some with an arty bent. Forming an L-shape behind the cinema area is a corridor lined with private booths that contain monitors showing gay porn. These are basically walk-in-closet-size booths - no beds or facilities to speak of. Guys hang out in these rooms, cruise the corridors, etc., etc. Off the main corridor and theater, there's also a TV lounge, some rental lockers, and a bar no longer serving drinks. There's something strangely and endearingly retro about the entire set-up."

Anyway dudes -- that's the space. Here's info on the party...

THE LOAD NYC PARTY (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn, Soda/beer, condoms, play all night long. 1,500 sqft space; $20 donation, Saturday nights. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

SKIN TIGHT USA spandex party

Hey guys one of my readers sent me this link to SKIN TIGHT USA – a bi-monthly spandex party. Skin Tight USA is "New York City’s premier fetish party for the spandex/lycra/gear/ and costume community at large." OKAY OKAY – maybe not a sex party (as far as I can gather – can anyone confirm or deny??). Anyway, looks like fun and thought some dudes might enjoy. If you go, report back…



SKIN TIGHT USA is home to men who love to wear tight clothing, and those who love to gaze at men wearing tight clothing. The events are usually bi-monthly to tri monthly pending upon date availability and holiday interruptions. The party was first launched in the fall of 2003 by porn star Aaron Tanner and was promoted under the title of "Hard Comixxx". Due to the successful public relations/marketing efforts of Matthew Levine and the vast email database, web presence, various online groups and forums of Andrew Owen, the parties grew stronger with each event. In the spring of 2005 "Hard Comixxx" was handed over to Matthew and Andrew. With the departure of Aaron Tanner and the growth of the event, Andrew and Matthew thought that the title “Hard Comixxx” was no longer applicable to the party. Matthew and Andrew decided to rename the event "Skin Tight USA". This would open the party up to a wider variety of people. Between these two gentlemen, the party has been reinvented and is has been seeing new life and growth spanning from south to north Manhattan over the years. Currently Skin Tight USA has been blessed and honored to be located at NYC’s historical “The Stonewall Inn” as it’s premier fetish party. This June 12th, 2010, Skin Tight USA will be celebrating our 5th Year Anniversary and gay Pride Event. I encourage all to come out and find your inner super hero or check out the ones who wear it out on / as their sleeve .The party caters to those of us who have a fetish for wearing tight athletic gear, lycra outfits, leather, PVC, luge, wrestling singlet’s, nylon, dance wear, Speedos, cycle gear, super hero costumes and anything tight that your kinky heart desires. In accordance to NYC club guidelines, all privates below the waist must and will be covered. The degree, of course, is entirely up to the patron; however, the guidelines are always enforced by the bar and the promoters.

Check them out at… http://www.skintightusa.com/

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Hard Drive Party Results! Two New Reviews

So HARD DRIVE had their inuagural party last night. How was it?? Here's the review...



REVIEW 1...
"Hey, man... first, thanks for all the amazing work you do! I read your blog regularly and carefully, and I am a frequent flyer at NYC group play things, I am happy to give you some feedback on last night's re-configured GrabAss/Hard Drive event at Paddle's...

OK, so here it goes: Generally, a good time could be had by almost anyone who wanted one. The party host had publicized the fact that he wanted to upgrade the event by enforcing a stricter door policy. One that sounded quite fair to me... a wide variety of ages and types, just requesting that guests be "height weight proportionate". Sounds fair and desirable to me, as a "mature" but slim in-shape guy myself. Although the party did get hot, he needs to somehow enforce the door policy a bit stricter. There were some guys there who just were a bit "out of proportion" (as in nasty-fat) and they tended to be obnoxious and aggressive. This party had a good turnout, a horny crowd, and some hotties of all types. Just hope that the host dares to be a bit pickier so that it does not descend into a Gallery-level fright fest.

BTW: The Gallery is now doing a dark room thing in its new space. Although I like to show off and watch in a well lit environment, perhaps in that case they are making the right choice! Be well."

REVIEW 2...
"I'm not sure how he did it but the guy who runs the Wednesday night party had the place filled with way over 50 or so guys last night..... AND A HOT CROWD TOO. I would say average age was mid 30s which is a major improvement. Lots of group action going on in every corner. There were still a few left overs from the "Grab Ass" party but he just needs to enforce the dress code- keep it nude or just underwear- and the guys who hide their bodies under t-shirts will stay home. I have a feeling, if word gets out, this party has lots of potential."



Sounds like a good start to a hot new party! Check it out here...

HARD DRIVE! (Chelsea) New party from the guy who brought you GRAB ASS, but HARD DRIVE! will have a much stricted door policy! Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). The host had made a huge effort to get hotter guys -- check it out. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or http://harddrivemen.com

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

The Bana Pool Party moves to Brooklyn

News from The Bana Pool Party...

Sad to report that the Manhattan Baña parties are (quite possibly) a thing of the past. They lost the downtown Manhattan location, so BROOKLYN BAÑA IS (re)BORN! TRANSPORTATION WILL BE PROVIDED TO & FROM MANHATTAN!

The space is smaller -- so you need to RSVP soon. Check out their website for more information: www.thebanapoolparty.com



BANA POOL PARTY (Kensington Brooklyn) Had to move to Brooklyn. "Monstersplash!" In a club. A huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools. Very cool party. Lots of fun. 11:59pm - 5AM
www.hotsteammachine.com

HARD DRIVE: new party starts tonight!

Hey guys -- the host who brought you GRAB ASS premieres a new party TONIGHT called HARD DRIVE.

Here's some information that the host sent me. Hope you give it a shot. let me know what you think...



The Creators of “Grab Ass” Bring You a Hot New Weekly Men’s Party

Need a fun,sexy alternative to drinking, dancing, or staying home cruising virtual dick? The creators of the long-running man-to-man play party “Grab Ass” in Chelsea are bringing you an all-new, testosterone-fueled mid-week soiree. “Hard Drive” makes its debut on Wednesday, October 27th, right in the neighborhood that New York City’s hottest men call home. Whether you’re purely vanilla or want to explore your kinky side, you’re guaranteed to meat… uh, I mean, meet a new playmate (or two, or three…) at “Hard Drive“. Upcoming Special Guests include alcoholic, sexaholic bear Plushie Schwartz. Plushie is a bear; we do mean an actual bear! This hairy and horny performer will challenge all adventurous men to take him on… all of his grizzly-sized man-pole. Are you up for it? Prove it… and win a hot prize! (PS: No one has been able to take all of Plushie so far-- but believe us, you’ll have a lot of fun trying!) The weeks ahead at “Hard Drive” will feature more Special Guests, free underwear and other giveaways courtesy of our sponsor MalePower.com, and much more. As a Harm Reduction Facility, there will also be free and voluntary STD testing for anyone who wants it.

“Hard Drive” host Hunteur V. states, “This is just the start. 'Hard Drive' is an edgier experience where attitude is just as important as looks. We have invited DirtyBoyVideo.com and their infamous Dirty Boys to ‘dirty us up’ every 4 to 6 weeks. We also are being partnered once a month by MalePower.com, and will have continuing free underwear giveaways and special theme nights of their underwear lines… not to mention our 'Hard Drive' resident erotic photographers. We are giving out erotic photo shoots to our hottest men, courtesy of Maleography.com.“

In this season of tricks and treats, “Hard Drive” promises plenty of hot tricks and even hotter treats. And all throughout November, you’ll be sure to always find some hot turkeys looking for a good stuffin‘. You‘ll be giving thanks, for sure! And as the weather gets chilly in December, Wednesday nights will always stay hot at “Hard Drive”! So, get your “Hard Drive” on! I look forward to seeing-- and playing-- with you!

“Hard Drive” at Paddles (250 W. 26th St at 8th Ave.) Every Wednesday, Door 8PM to 1AM. Stay till 3AM. Be 18-55, height-weight proportionate please! See more at www.HardDriveMen.com. Send in your hot pic! If we choose you, we will announce the winner of our “Hard Drive Hot” contest… and you’ll get a free professional photo shoot courtesy of www.Maleography.com.

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

RIPPED or RIPPED-OFF: A review of last week's RIPPED PARTY

So RIPPED spent two weeks at the Gramercy Duplex. I heard that the whole point of booking RIPPED at the Duplex was to bring in all these new guys who said they wanted to attend and couldn't because they were on the waiting list. Supposedly there is no space for them at the Hell's Kitchen location (which NO ONE has ever confirmed exists). Although not announced: All of the regular RIPPED men were (supposedly) at that HK's location last Friday (including the host himself, who wasn’t even at the Duplex to run his “test” party -- he was at the "regular" party in his apt). So basically Gramercy Duplex was the waiting list party! THE RESULT??? Well, I didn’t go (I still don’t believe the hype), but and all these new hot dudes were NO SHOWS! According to a reliable source (read his review below) the party was a total bust!!

So now RIPPED claims that it is back to only having parties at its “regular” location in Hell’s Kitchen. To get into that mystical party (or at least its endlessly long waiting list) you now have to interview at the Gramercy Duplex on Fridays (9-10pm). Sound suspect? Maybe just to me, but I’m slightly paranoid after all the RIPPED runaround. Anyway dudes, here’s the review from last Friday’s RIPPED party…


“So my friend convinced me to go to Ripped/Olympus. I got there around 11pm and was got a low number to sign in, which is not a good sign. The host asked me if I was there for Ripped or Olympus. I said Ripped. He said it was downstairs. If I wanted to go upstairs I had to check my underwear too. Somebody quickly told me I would be checking my underwear soon anyway, so I did (and got a paper armband). And I’m glad I did. I walked past the curtain and there was absolutely nobody downstairs except some fat guy leaning on the stairs, who was working the party and guarding the stairs. The room did not even have those nasty couches anymore. I hung out waiting for a while. I could see guys leaning on the railing upstairs but looked like they were bored. I found my friend upstairs and we messed around since nobody else was doing anything. A bunch of old out of shape guys started hovering so we went downstairs for a while. Some guy followed but just watched. Eventually I got into this 3 way and later ended up fucking one of them. I didn't cum til about 2am by just jerking w/a guy downstairs. Don't know how it got that late. I did manage to have some fun despite the small crowd of older out of shape guys but it certainly doesn't want to make me go back and yes I think Ripped is bogus and a Rip-off.”

So, if you want to go to RIPPED-OFF, the info is in the main listings. Dudes – there are plenty of HOT, FUN – REAL – PARTIES like PRIVATE PARTY, THE HOT JOCK and NYJOCK PARTY – give them a try. Have fun and play safe…



TWO GUYS COMMENTED ON THE ABOVE POST BY SENDING ME THEIR OWN REVIEWS. HERE THEY ARE...

RESPONSE REVIEW #1...
"Please keep the the Ripped review you have their on top of the page.I went there and had the same lame experience with no one downstairs for Ripped and a bunch of old farts upstairs wih olympus. The host is the biggest liar, he doesnt get 200 guys , not even close to 100 or 50. He says he gets muscle hot guys etc l, but what he really gets is a bunch of old farts that attend his parties."

RESPONSE REVIEW #2...
"I attended the Oct. 15 party at the Gramercy space and had a better experience than the reviewer you featured in a recent blog of yours. I arrived quite early -- around 10:00 p.m. -- and was disappointed by the very low number of men at the party. Over the next hour or two, the count increased to around 25-35, which was more than enough for good action. The party was billed as an underwear party, but within a few hours most of the men were nude. For some strange reason the couches were removed from the first level, so except for occasional cocksucking clusters on that level all the men gravitated up to the second floor. By midnight there was heavy action underway simultaneously--three or four guys getting fucked, plenty of oral, and a lot of one-on-ones. The men were above average and of a wide range of ages. Physiques were checked upon arrival by the host. I can't comment on the mystery of the new vs. old "Ripped" party, but I did see the host of the old Olympus party. The party looked to me like an upgrade of the old Olympus party. I hope the couches are brought back to the first level and the number of participants grows."

Well, there you go dudes, make up your own minds. I've moved on to the better parties.

NEW Spanking party at Paddles (yes, Paddles)

Hey guys -- I'm not really one into pain (hey, I don't even like long-term dating), but for those who are, there is an exciting new party on Thursday night for those into spanking and discipline. And it'd held at Paddles (funny, no?).

Here's the info. If you go, please let me know how it goes...

S.O.S. MEN'S SPANKING PARTY (Chelsea). Held at Paddles. Newly formed group, which meets Thursday gets 40-65 men who are devoted to spanking and discipline. Check www.paddlesnyc.com for details about address, etc. EVERY 2nd and 4th Thursday of the month (except Nov. & Dec.) 8pm to 1am.
To subscribe to their yahoo group: paddles-nyc-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

Enjoy men, and play safe!

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Group Sex Parties -- Monday, October 25 to Sunday, October 31



Hey guys -- Happy Halloween!

Sex Parties -- Monday, October 25 to Sunday, October 31...

***PICK OF THE WEEK: NYJock (SUN)

Monday...
JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea )"FULL-MOON OCTOBER MASSAGE-&-PLAY MONDAY PARTY!" FULL-MOON MONDAY, Doors, 7:00 - Midnight, goes 'til 2 am; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s) Starts at 9:30pm (also has lunch-time parties). In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

Tuesday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. Held twice a week: Tuesdays and Thursdays.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is PEAK party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Paddles."
http://www.nyjacks.com

Wednesday…
HARD DRIVE! (Chelsea) New party from the guy who brought you GRAB ASS, but HARD DRIVE! will have a much stricted door policy! Held at Paddles every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). The host had made a huge effort to get hotter guys -- check it out.
Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com or www.HardDriveMen.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is the SLURP ORAL party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

HARLEM FREAK PARTY (Harlem) Weekly Wednesday Night Harlem Discreet Freak Party. Its gets better every week..with hotter guys!! Drinks/Condom/Lube provided. 2 rooms available for all nite fucking!! 12am-6am. email/text for more info!! iamthestylist@sprint.blackberry.net

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

ND2 (Midtown). This party is for average African American and Latino dudes ONLY. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are Wed nights. Send pics and stats to HARLEMDUKESNYC@YAHOO.COM

Thursday…
EXECUTIVE LUNCH (Gramercy). Lunch-time (12-4pm) party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men and jocks to hook up weekday afternoons. Held twice a week: Tuesdays and Thursdays.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THE DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). It's back! The first party last week had 45 guys. Tonight: 6-10pm. Ages 20's to 40. Discrete, Friendly, No Attitude environment at a private residence downtown. Clothes Check, condoms and lube provided (promote safe sex). For average to hot guys, mix, but younger crowd.
For invite send pics and stats to downtownmensparty@gmail.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 6PM-MIDNIGHT. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem) 7pm-11pm. In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending from 30-50 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

S.O.S. MEN'S SPANKING PARTY (Chelsea). Held at Paddles. Newly formed group, which meets Thursday gets 40-65 men who are devoted to spanking and discipline. Check www.paddlesnyc.com for details about address, etc. EVERY 2nd and 4th Thursday of the month (except Nov. & Dec.) 8pm to 1am.
To subscribe to their yahoo group: paddles-nyc-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

Friday…
BANA POOL PARTY (Kensington Brooklyn) Had to move to Brooklyn. "Monstersplash!" In a club. A huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dance floor, bars. Very cool party. Lots of fun. 11:59pm - 5AM
www.hotsteammachine.com
www.thebanapoolparty.com

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. 11pm-5am. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

RIPPED (Hell's Kitchen) So after two weeks in Gramercy, it's back to Hell's Kitchen. Still, to get in, you have to interview at the Gramercy site on Friday nights to get on the waiting list. Worth it? probably not, but they claim that they are a hot underwear sex party for hunks and rugged masculine bodybuilder dudes, 100+ guys in great shape, all ages and races welcome, 9PM-4PM. For a young/hot crowd. You have to hit up "RippedSteel" on Adam4Adam with pics and email to get in

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). It's BACK at Gramercy (don't ask). special Halloween party: The Black Masked Event, everyone is completely naked wearing only the basic black zorro masks provided upon arrival. (From the host: this friday's guestlist filled with hot anonymous bi, gay, straight, married jocks and studs looking to indulge their secret desires and forbidden temptations while keeping their identities hidden, stop by and enjoy).
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 9PM TO 4 AM. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna (OFTEN not working) and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

Saturday…
Load NYC (East Village). Underwear party held at Blue Door Video Basement for in-shape guys. 90 guys, porn. For hot/younger crowd. To get in email pics/stats to Loadnyc@aol.com.

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). This party is for HOT muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. 11:30PM-6AM. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to nubiandukesnyc@yahoo.com

UPTOWN’S FINEST UNDERWEAR PARTY (Harlem). "Go to HELL and All The WAY to HEAVEN - A Halloween EVENT." 8pm-it ends. Held in an apartment – in total darkness this week – plus a garden to fuck outside. FOR Invite EMAIL: KAIZEN729@GMAIL.COM

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (12midnight-7am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

ASSTORIA BY NIGHT GANG FUCK PARTY (Astoria, Queens). Description by host: party filled with hot naked bi, gay, straight, married voyeurs and exhibitionists. The last party had muscled hairy greek & turks jocks, DL black boys, smooth pumped-up Brazilians, Latino studs, Italian dudes, Asian twinks, and rugged masculine middle eastern arabs eager to relieve their stress in a Dim orgy setting private luxury apt. Age 21 – 45 ONLY slim, athletic, muscle (All races welcomed). 11pm – 3am, STRICT door policy will be enforced, everyone WILL be screened with no exceptions. Must strip down naked at door. Alcohol & Soda refreshments provided. This is drug free & SAFE sex party Condoms & Lube provided.
TO GET IN SEND PICS AND STATS TO: asstorianparty@gmail.com

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in pvt 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
Mostly older guys. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy). Hot Body Men's "OPEN HOUSE" Party; 6pm - 11:30pm. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. 9pm - 1am. This was once a hot party, but really for an older crowd/for out-of-shape guys.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) 8pm-2am, Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. For older out-of-shape guys.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

Sunday…
THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-5am. Door closes at 4. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. 11pm-5am. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6PM TO 3AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am; The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower, porn rom, sauna and with air conditioner. An older mixed crowd/for average guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea )"OUR HALLOWE'EN AFTERNOON MASQUERADE PARTY!" SUNDAY MORNING-AFTERNOON; At "Paddles"; Doors 10 AM to 2 PM, goes 'til 4 PM; A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). TONIGHT is ERUPTION party. Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Held at "Chelsea Space."
http://www.nyjacks.com

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net



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HERE ALL THE PARTIES – LISTED BY CATEGORY/BURROUGH – INCLUDING PARTIES TO CHECK OUT THAT ARE NOT HAPPENING THIS WEEK…


Manhattan

THE BEST (The Top Parties -- for Hot Guys)

PRIVATE PARTY (Garment District) Great social sex party in large private loft apt held once a month, 8pm-12am.. Great mix of twinks to muscle dudes to toned average guys, and a good mix of 20-30-40YOs (no one over 45) -- 70-90 guys attend (last few parties had 85, 97 & 100+). This is a great party to try if you've never been to a party before -- very social, very safe, and a clean atmosphere, no attitude. The best part is that there is tons of HOT sex at this party – not just standing around. The host provides drinks, condoms and lube; and showers, towels. Just a warning: DON'T LET THE INITIAL PROCESS STOP YOU! A number of guys get pissed off by having to interview. It's easy: one quick phone call (where the host explains the party) and then an interview just before the party begins). Guys, I know it sounds annoying – and can be -- but don't let it bother you - it's all cool and makes for a great crowd. There's a reason this party gets hot new
guys each month, and where everyone actually has hot sex.).
*Send pics, Stats to: PRIVATE.PARTY@msn.com.
NEXT PARTY: November 7.

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Times Square/Garment District) 10pm-4am. Door closes at 3. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not always great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. 11pm-5am. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

THE HOT JOCK PARTY (Midtown East) 7-11pm. Held in a studio space or hotel suite -- has guys in mostly 20s -30s-hot 40YOs. It's above average to hot muscle guys, and twinks. Not a lot of attitude. Usually hot sex, and a fun mix of guys. Easily one of the best parties -- and one of few that you get a good mix of hot guys and hot sex. Usually about 30-50+ guys attend, twice a month, 7pm-11pm. For a racially mixed younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotjckpty@yahoo.com

UPPER WEST SIDE UNDERWEAR PARTY (UWS) Haven't been yet, but sounds very hot. Doors open 10:30 to 12:30am (The party goes until its dead). There is no cover. Free liquor provided. This is a private apartment in a doorman building so discretion is a must. This is a private party so only the people who have been approved are invited. This is a fun atmosphere to chill hang out and play with hot guys. No obligation to participate if you don't want to. Will have porn and lube and condoms as well. For a young/hot crowd. To get in send pics and stats to underwearpartyuws@gmail.com.

AM: An All New After Hours Party (Midtown). AM is a private, selective, and hot party only for good looking in shape guys. Get about 80 guys. This is a SAFE & DRUG FREE PARTY. Party takes place after you've been everywhere else on Sunday night: Starts after midnight and goes until early Monday morning; Condoms, lube, water, Gatorade and more is provided. Same dude runs this who runs NYJP (and has a similar crowd to NYJP--when it was in Manhattan).
For invite, email James: aminnyc1@yahoo.com

PUMPNYC (Midtown). New party from the guy who brought you NYJOCK PARTY. Very select: There will be no more than 50 guys allowed into the party and you will only have three hours to enter. PUMPNYC is about quality not quantity. 9pm-2am; Door will close at midnight (You not be allowed in after so get there by then); Includes: Bar. Snacks. Supplies.VERY HOT GUYS ONLY send stats and pics to: nyjockparty@yahoo.com.

MMX Muscle (Manhattan). Not a sex party, but a massage party…its about touch. The hosts says. "however we are a lot of horny guys and we are not going to sweep that under the rug." But no oral or anal sex below the waist. Limited to 14 guys, 8:15pm to 10:45pm (door closes at 8:35 pm). Host is a certified Massage Therapist. The party is to learn, explore, connect, and play – to learn and get into Massage. They require that all guys are in good physical shape, are clean and take care of themselves, are height/weight proportionate and work-out or are athletic - in addition to having no attitude and comfortable being almost naked (or naked) and touching and stroking muscles with boundaries. They've been running these for two months now.
To Get in email the host: massagecoachnyc@gmail.com

BANA POOL PARTY ( Manhattan ) In a club. A huge space with different levels and rooms: hotubs, pools, shower rooms, saunas, steam rooms, sex rooms, dance floor, bars. Very cool party. Lots of fun. 11:59pm - 5AM
www.hotsteammachine.com
www.thebanapoolparty.com

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AVERAGE TO HOT GUYS (Mixed and spotty crowd -– Sometimes Very Hot, Sometimes not)....

THE OLYMPUS PARTY (Gramercy). It's BACK at Gramercy (don't ask). Description is from the host, not me: private Mediterranean-themed party for solid masculine men (italian, greek, latin, white, black, middle-eastern) over 200 naked hairy muscled jocks and smooth pumped-up studs, ages 21-45, powerful determined tops and hungry willing bottoms, lots of thick heavy uncut meat, 9pm-4am,
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

EXECUTIVE LUNCH (UES). Lunch-time party expecting a huge turnout, quickly becoming the place for business men to hook up weekday afternoons, 11am-4pm.
*For Invite: MUST Send pic (shirtless from the waist up is fine) & Stats to: apollothegreek@earthlink.net.

MUSCLE GROUP ( West Harlem/w140s)
In small studio apartment. This small sex party really runs the gamut from
hot guys to very average dudes. Usually have 4-10 guys attend -- some 20s- mostly 30s- some 40YOs. Have parties at random, but often on Mondays, 9pm-11pm. The best thing about this party is that it's one of the true orgies. At most parties guys are having sex one-one-one or threesomes--at MUSCLE GROUP there is more often than not a pile of guys fucking and sucking off each other. Also cool, because it's FREE. Two problems: You never know who will be there -- sometimes no hot guys, sometimes no one but you and the host; also the host is a big (out-of-shape) guy, that is a turn off to lots of guys. He's a cool dude, but with an attitude that can be too much for some. And don't believe the pictures he sends -- although those guys maye have gone to a party there, they will most likely not be at the party you attend. A mixed crowd/for hot to average guys.
*Send pics & Stats to: MUSCLFINALE@aol.com

ANOTHER SEX PARTY 70s PORN (West Harlem). I've not been to this one, but was told it's "the hottest I have ever attended." Seems to be held once or twice a year -- never get advance warning. It's odd because it is a mix of straight men who like the porn and don't even look at the other guys much and gay men who do nothing but look at the other guys, and only glance at the porn. About 12 men each party. Preference is given to hairy men; from really handsome to normal but no fat or very old men. Social yes, wine is served as is lube.
FOR INVITE: Send a face and full description to playevents@gmail.com

DOWNTOWN MEN'S PARTY (Gramercy). Now in new spot in Gramercy. Haven’t been to the new location – but the former location had a great vibe with some average to hot guys. The host is very cool guy, who tries to be selective. He also hosted lunch-time parties in past, hopefully will bring this back too. For a mixed crowd/for average to hot guys.
EMAIL PICS AND STATS: DowntownMensParty@gmail.com

HARD DRIVE!/CUM MONKEY (Chelsea) Formerly Grab Ass. Held at Paddles. Every Wednesday, Doors 8pm-1am, open until 3am. Get 30-50 guys ages 25 to 55YO: height/weight proportionate (all body types, extremely friendly). For a mixed crowd/for average guys. But trying to get more selective. Email here hunteur1@gmail.com or check out www.CumMonkey.com

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NOT SELECTIVE (Basically Older and/or Out-shape-guys)

THE MEN’S PARTY (West Harlem)
In big apartment in Harlem . The party is a mix from a few hot young guys to some fat old guys (they also run BEAR HUNT). The party is not strict about safe sex and lots of bb. Has sling. The host is nice, but I personally never like the vibe — too sleazy for me (which is v. sleazy). Usually has about 20-40 guys attending (although last time I went a few weeks ago there were only 6 guys there)from 30-40 YOs . NOT a safe sex party. Have parties at least once a week. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Email here: TheMensParty@yahoo.com or check out www.themensparty.com

THE BEAR HUNT ( West Harlem ). Run by the same people who run The Men's Party. For bears and their admirers. An older mixed crowd/for average to out of shape guys.
www.bearhuntnyc.com

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy & Park Slope). The Manhattan party is held at the Gramercy Duplex, Brooklyn party held in Park Slope. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. 9pm - 1am. This was once a hot party, but not really for an older crowd/for out-of-shape guys.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

THE CLUB HOUSE ORGIES (West Willage). Held in a private apartment. This dude loves theme parties and has a few a week, such as The Peak Party (safe sex), Eruption (not exclusively safe), The XTube Party (which he films for the web), Oynx (for African-American men and their admirers), and SIR (for older men and their admirers) – you get the idea. He has an open door policy party, which means that anyone can get in, so it’s an older crowd of average or out of shape guys. 8pm-1am. The host is a cool guy who actually participates (and he runs a blog about group sex). For an older mixed crowd/for average guys. Check out his blog at http://theclubhouseorgies.blogspot.com/ or to get in email stats and pics to Scott at theclubhouseparties@gmail.com.

ED & STEVE DICKPLAY PARTY (Inwood/Upper Manhattan) Held in a private apartment by an interracial gay couple -- this party meets about twice a month is a laid-back mixed crowd of mostly older in-shape guys. It's promoted as an interracial erotic play party. Most guys are naked, but not required. Starts at 5pm and runs until 12am (officially there is no door closing time). The hosts think of the group as being a hand selected group of guys who are into interracial sex and don't have attitudes. It's a mix of guys, white, black, Latin, occasionally Asian, not too young, not too old. Average age is 35 - 45. They get about 40+ guys. The hosts says They provide condoms and lube; Smoking is allowed in designated areas; it's a BYOB party. The atmosphere is distinctly no attitude. For older out-of-shape guys.
Email: EdAndSteve@verizon.net; or check out http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EdAndSteve.

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Alternative Specialty Parties…

SPAM PARTY (Brooklyn). Not a M4M party, but may interest the more adventurous of you: A play party where dykes, fags, bisexuals and tansgendered folks get together for a sexually charged underwear party. 11pm-4am! Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear. They also run the SUBMIT PARTY. Check out the parties at http://www..submitparty.com. If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com.

NEW YORK BONDAGE CLUB (Chelsea) Sex is no longer banned (for about 6 months now). Sucking, fucking, whatever, are all allowed now at all times. It's common to see guys tied down and fucked. Or a dom directing sex between two roped subs. Held in a straight S&M club, the party scene includes cages, restraints, bondage crosses, stocks and all sorts of devices to aid in tying people up and getting them off. They now stay open later (until at least 1 AM instead of 11 PM) and at 11 PM they turn down the lights in all areas except the bar at the front. In these darker areas, there's now a dress code of no street clothes. You have to wear no more than underwear, or you can wear fetish wear (leather, rubber, and the like). They have started promotions to get younger
guys in. It's always a mixed crowd in terms of age. But for anyone who has a taste for sex with a kinky side (leather, rope, spanking, etc) it's a good place to get satisfied on a Sunday night.
www.NYBondageClub.com

FOREVER FISTING PARTY: Open door policy, every 2nd Wednesday at "Chelsea Space" – Contact Cain at MasterCainB@yahoo.com

S.O.S. MEN"S SPANKING PARTY (Chelsea). Held at Paddles. Newly formed group, which meets Thursday gets 40-65 men who are devoted to spanking and discipline. Check www.paddlesnyc.com for details about address, etc. EVERY 2nd and 4th Thursday of the month (except Nov. & Dec.) 8pm to 1am.
To subscribe to their yahoo group: paddles-nyc-subscribe@yahoogroups.com

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Specialty Parties Specifically for Interracial, African-American, Latino or Asian guys…

NUBIAN DUKES PARTY (Midtown). This party is for muscular, athletic, slim, African American and Latino dudes ONLY. They also have a strict door policy. Mandatory clothes check: boxers, no shirts or tee's. Condoms, lube, liquid provided. Hip hop music with a Dj. Very HOT. Incredible bodies, no attitude and a lot of action. Parties are usually twice a month, usually on Fridays, but can be Saturdays or Sunday nights too 12am-6am. Gets 70-90 dudes each party. Send pics and stats to Nubianmidtown@yahoo.com

PAPI BROTHAS HOTEL SUITE PARTY (Midtown) A party for 20-40YO Black, Latin and Mixed guys ONLY held a hot hotel suite with open Bar, exotic dancers, sodas, wine, bottled water. Email pics/stats to Latinman4sexymen@aol.com or check out http://papibrothasnyc.blogspot.com/?zx=46415ca9e7e3bd93.

STICKY RICE PARTY (Gramercy) An exclusive Asian sex party in NYC for "young, hot, lean, in shape Asian guys" between 18 - 35. Everyone pitches in for cost of hotel, and brings their own condoms. Needles to say, I've never been. Saturdays.
Email for invite: sticky-rice-party-nyc@googlegroups.com

HARLEM FREAK PARTY (Harlem) Weekly Wednesday Night Harlem Discreet Freak Party. Its gets better every week..with hotter guys!! Drinks/Condom/Lube provided. 2 rooms available for all nite fucking!! 12am-6am. email/text for more info!! iamthestylist@sprint.blackberry.net

SKYBLU (Harlem ) Only for older attractive masculine Black & Latino guys 35-50YO.
Check out: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SKYBLU-GROOVE/
Or email stats and pics to: SKYBLU-GROOVE@yahoogroups.com

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OPEN DOOR POLICY (let anybody in)...

THE OMEGA PARTY (Times Square). Held in a great space near Times Square. They get 70 to 120 guys per party (Sunday being the biggest night). The parties are laid back, mix/general crowd. The age mix ranges from 20 to 60YO, all races (60% white, 40% mixed), muscle, thin, cute, bear etc. They host 2 to 3 parties per week. Refreshments , snacks, condoms and lube provided. Time: 6PM TO 2 AM, DOORS 6PM TO 12 am. The new location in the W40s is great: fully equipped with shower (rarely works), porn room, sauna (rarely works) and with air conditioner. An older crowd/for out-of-shape guys.
Anybody wanting to go to the party should email roccosly@aol.com or www.TheOmegaRoom.com.

THE PLAYGROUND (Garment District). Private M4M sex party, 11:30pm-4:30am. "Featuring 4 freak areas & heavy action!!" An older crowd/for average to out of shape guys. Supplies, liquids & clothescheck provided. Never been to this one.
Send pics + stats to playgroundnyc@yahoo.com.

HOT PARTIES 2006 (Chelsea). Party is held in “Chelsea Space” a private apartment/loft. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. *Email photos and stats to hotparties2006@verizon.net or hotparties2006@msn.com

JACKS OF COLOR ( Chelsea ) A New York City Club For Men of Color "And Their Friends." Has HUGE parties 70-120 guys attend, all ages. An older mixed crowd/for average guys. Email here JacksOfColor@Gmail.com or check out www.jacksofcolor.com

NEW YORK JACK (Times Square) Safe sex party for guys who like to JO. They are not selective about who gets in, so the guys run the gamut: all type of bodies, races, and ages. Sunday and Tuesday Parties at "Chelsea Space" and "Paddles," respectively..
http://www.nyjacks.com

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PARTIES FOR OLDER and/or OUT OF SHAPE GUYS....

GYMJOX BOXER PARTY (Times Square). Haven't been yet, but hosts insists it's strictly for lean/fit guys under 40YO. 11:30pm-4:30am; Condoms, lube & liquids provided; Mandatory secure clothes check. No shirts or tees allowed. Haven't been yet, but many many guys have told me it's for an older, out of shape crowd. To get in email stats and pics to gymjoxnyc@yahoo.com.

GALLERY OF MEN (Times Square) every two weeks, 40s+ mostly holdovers from GCN/Studio days. Lots of BB, smoking area within the facility. A party for older out of shape guys.
Email for invite: thegallerynyc@yahoo.com

BISHOP (Downtown) Hotel room. I’ve never been to this party because they take anyone -- ANYONE. One guy reported the he likes it because it attracts a wide group of types, ages, ethnic groups without discrimination. A party for older out of shape guys. I hear the host is NOT cool. Usually 30-50 guys attend--mostly 30-40 YOs.
*Email request (no pic or stats needed) to bishop.group@gmail.com

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ALL MALE PARTY (Midtown West).
In apartment. I haven't been to this one in years because its way too expensive, AND IT SUCKS -- the one time I went the FAT guys were only outnumbered by the UGLY guys. 25-50 guys, weird fee structure, check out their website. TOTAL waste of your time and money. PASS ON THIS ONE. AVOID!!!
www.AllMaleParty.com or email AllMaleParty@gmail.com

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Brooklyn…

COLLEGE WATER SPORTS KEGGER PARTY and GOLDEN BOYS USA (Brooklyn) Held in the basement space in a brownstone. Only accept guys who
are in-shape, 18-30 years old. Have regular rooms and wet rooms (even though there is a water sports theme, you don't have to be into W/S to have fun at this party). Average 75-120 guys attend, all 20 YOs. For a younger/hot crowd.
Email here ChrisHawkeGBU@aol.com or check out www.GoldenBoysUSA.com

HOT BROOKLYN PARTY (Brooklyn)
18-30yo ONLY. Usually 40-50 hot guys; *All lean in shape guys: No fats, chubs, dads, or bears. Unlimited Cosmos and Beer 11PM-3AM. Party runs 10PM- 4 AM. For a younger/hot crowd.
*Send pics & Stats to: hotbrooklynparty@nyc.rr.com

THE MEATPACKERS/PITSSTOP PARTY(Brooklyn/Park Slope) In cellar with cages and rooms. I haven’t been to this is years, but was hot and a little scary, which made it hotter. Held the 1st Saturday of each month (call the number for info--you'll get an answering machine). For a mixed age crowd/average to hot guys
Must call: 212-677-3599

THUGS 4 THUGS SEX PARTY ( Brooklyn ) Hot party for Black and Latino guys, and guys who love big black cocks. Safe sex only for in shape guys—huge space (2 huge floors), fresh towels and condoms/lube provided, held every Friday & Sat (12midnight-7am) and Sunday (9pm-3am). It’s a safe and clean place. lots of space. a bit dark but eyes get used to it.
http://thugs4thugsex.com or email bkthugparty@earthlink.net

BROOKLYN HOODS (Crown Heights, Brooklyn). Predominately African-American crowd, but anyone welcome. Fridays: 9:00pm - 6am (Safe Sex party). This party is a Big Men's Private Party. This party is for Big Men and for those who are looking to meet Big Men. This is an all race party. No age limit above 18 years of age or older. All men are invited. Also has WED night parties in the summer.
To get in email stats and pics to BROOKLYNHOODS@GMAIL.COM.

MILK CHOCOLATE PARY (Gramercy & Park Slope). The Manhattan party is held at the Gramercy Duplex, Brooklyn party held in Park Slope. According to the host, they screen to invite men of all colors age 21-45 to keep the party hot. Guys that used fake pics/stats to get an invite & but are out of shape, have large bellys, large/average build or look much older than 45 are not be admitted to the party. 9pm - 1am. For an older out-of-shape crowd.
Send stats and pics to milkchocolatenyc@gmail.com, or check out http://hotsexpartiesnyc.blogspot.com/

THE NYJOCK PARTY--NYJP (Park Slope) Sometimes has a joint party Brooklyn. The host is very discriminating -- and because of it the party now has the hottest guys with the most attitudes (the problem: not great sex; many guys just standing around looking at each other). If you don't have a killer body and face, you'll probably just be ignored. That said the guys are amazing: mostly 20s-early 30s. Usually have 50-70 guys attend. Usually once or 2X a month. 10pm-5am. The Manhattan party is better. For a younger/hot crowd.
nyjockparty@yahoo.com

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Queens ...

OZONE PARK SEX PARTY (Ozone Park, Queens). Held in a private apartment, 9pm-am (doors close at 10:30pm). Host 30 to 50 guys once a month (usually 35 guys per party with 30 here at a time); big on variety, so lots of different guys: breakdown of 35 guys is something like 10 guys under 30, 15 guys in their 30s and 10 guys over 40. Now only accepting new guys who are under 35 years of age (exceptions made). For a mixed age/average to hot crowd.
Email pics + stats to: SexPartyQueens@gmail.com.

ASSTORIA BY NIGHT (Astoria, Queens). 3rd ASSTORIA BY Night Fuck party filled with hot naked bi, gay, straight, married voyeurs and exhibitionists. Our last party had Muscled hairy greek & turks jocks, DL black boys, smooth pumped-up Brazilians, Latino studs, Asian twinks, and rugged masculine middle eastern arabs eager to relieve their stress in a Dim orgy setting private luxury apt. Age 20-45 ONLY slim, athletic, muscle (All races). 10pm-4am, STRICT door policy will be enforced, everyone WILL be screened with no exceptions. Unlock pics/send email for party info. Must strip down naked at door; Alcohol & Soda refreshments provided; This is drug free & SAFE sex party Condoms & Lube provided; Last time 80 guys came thru so come early cos once space fills up doors will be closed.
TO GET IN SEND PICS AND STATS TO: asstorianparty@gmail.com

BRUTHAS AND FRIENDS PARTY (Corona) For African-American guys and their admirers. This party is held in a private apartment; Thursday, 6PM-MIDNIGHT, or Fridays, 8PM to 3AM. Refreshments and snacks provided
For Invite: Men4MenPlay@yahoo.com

WHITE PONY PARTY (Forest Hills) The host (White Pony) is a great guy, and def a nice no attitude party in private 1st fl apt. He has it on Saturday night from 8pm till 2am.
For much older/out-of-shape guys. Not strict about safe sex. Same host as Real Men Only Party. Email for invite: whitepony3332@yahoo.com

REAL MEN ONLY (RMO) PARTY (Fresh Meadows) Slurpee Coach has the parties weekly on Wed eve 7-11pm. For older/average guys. To get in, email pics/stats here: slurpeecoach@hotmail.com.

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New Jersey …

MONMOUTH COUNTY PARTY (Tinton Falls). Lunch-time sex party held at hotel; Condoms lube bottled water provided; held in Penthouse Suite with beds & showers and plenty of room to play. Get 30 to 60 guys in a 4 hour time span. For an older/average crowd. For invite: mfactor62@yahoo.com


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